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Vicktorhmustjap:
Hello everyone.

Please I sincerely need your help in terms of advice and counselling.

I am a young man in my mid thirty, has a beautiful wife and 2 kids. I have about 32 staff working for me. Just recently, December to be precise I started developing an emotional attachment to one of my staff. I told her I want her to join me to see a movie and she said she was travelling and she won't be around but January was fine. I knew she was avoiding the outing so I bought a ticket to the movies and sent it to her she never showed up and I didn't call her until work resumed on January 4th and I asked why she didn't come for the movies and she apologise that she was busy.

I told her we can go see the movies now since she initially wanted January, she said she can't that she doesn't want to be seen with a married man, and besides my wife is nice to her and also she doesn't want any girl with her husband when she eventually gets married so she won't want to be with anyone's husband that I belong to someone else.

I told her I don't want sex from her, all I want is from her is a squish relationship. she practically turned it down that she can't because she will be hurt in the end because belong to someone else.

Honestly, I felt hurt because I truly love her. I am more emotionally drawn to her even more than before. We spend considerable time chatting every day and on phones in the evening till night after the day's job. She is not so comfortable spending time in my office as she told me the day I was not in the office everyone kept asking after the boss from her and she felt embarrassed and asked them why can't call to know why I am not in the office.

she said we should please remind her the way it is, just chatting and phone calls and she can't afford to be seen around with a married man.

I really love her and I feel hurt as she is turning me down. I wish I can stop loving her, I really don't know how to stop loving her as I really wish not to hurt her.

Please I need the mature minds here to help give workable suggestions.

please Move to front page

lala

Jerkbaba:
I go brothel yesterday, naso I meet one wicked ashawo with big nyash. I carry her enter room because I too like big bumbum. I comot my dick, she say make I give her money first. I tell her no be like that I dey do. She con say make I give her half the money first . I give her, comot her black g-string from her big black nyash. Naso she climb bed put nyash up, I insert my big prick start dey fvuck. As I dey fvuck e never reach 10mins, she start dey complain! "oga you never cum ahn!" I overlook am, I continue dey knack I con put hand for breast naso she just push my hand comot! Say watin! I just vex comot my prick wear cloth dissappear ! Chai! Some ashawo too rude o! Case closed!

mostob:
Hope you know there are varieties of 4-4-2? 4-1-3-2(similar to a diamond midfield) allow a lone DM and an AM flanked by two wingers/LM & RM depending on the tactic. This is different from the one we are currently using. Aribo is not playing as an AM but as a CM. If there is any AM in that team, it will most likely be Iheanacho.

Bauer1:
I know this isn't the right section. But I don't know the right one and so I opted to post here since it seems to have a lot of traffic.

Yesterday, I returned to my room to find a rat dead in the middle of it. Ordinarily, I wouldn't be bothered. But this rat has clearly been bitten (pictures will be displayed below). I called a neighbour and we examined it. We were arguing if a snake could have done it, and if yes, why it didn't swallow it. In any case, we decided to leave it where it was to see if whatever killed it would return for it. I went to sleep at a friend's.

We returned this morning to find the dead rat gone. So, I called others to join me and we ransacked every nook and cranny of the room. We couldn't find anything threatening. But we did find another rat killed in much the same manner as the first (second picture).

It irks that I can't find what did this. I can't sleep in the room as it is. So please, experts in the house, help me to identify what it could be and what can be done.

Mods please help move to front page.

ravensckar:
How I wish I have an alternate moniker, I for fit share my own story.

PS- my wife is also an active nairalander. Make I no go use my own hand burn my cable.

mostob:
Nigeria is using 4-4-2 bro. There is no AM in our own 4-4-2. Ndidi and Aribo pivot, flanked by Chuks and Moses.
Or am I missing something?

mostob:
If you watch him at rangers, he rarely plays in a double pivot. Either as a 10 or one of the forwards. This explains his recent scoring form. I think he has about 7 goals already this season as a midfielder.
In AFCON, he is playing in a double pivot with Ndidi which is why he has not giving us the goal thread he is known for.
Just pointing that out.

mostob:
I disagree bro ... His playing alongside Ndidi is not what is making him shine. He has been bossing it at ranger for some time now. Do you know we are playing him out of position? He is just like Ramsey, an energetic B2B midfielder

iamoyindamola:
Lukaku use that one shine, them forget am for bench

ObaIgwe1:
Udinese have completed the agreement with Arsenal to sign Pablo Marí on loan until June. Deal set to be signed. #AFC

Pablo Marí will join Udinese on straight loan – no buy option included. @DiMarzio

— Fabrizio Romano (@FabrizioRomano)

daveP:
You need to see the Rangers fan page and their reaction on SM. They are begging people to not mention him and praise him online do that nobody will snatch him from their club.


The guy is hot cake right now,and I'm sure scouts are watching. He has eye for goal than Odegaard to me. Plus recovery to his own position when defending, both on ground and aerially.


We need the competition at Emirates. He'll be a good add,but as i heard, na Tielemanns Edu dey eye. Things can still change

Roland17:
When I Dey talk make you Dey listen.. I no tell you?

Dem know say we dey desperate and any team will want to fleece Arsenal for a midfielder. We are to blame for the situation we are in right now. Bad squad management that will likely cost us this season if players don’t return quicker than anticipated.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram real matters



I LITE UP my WEED




WTF MAN

Roland17:
I fully expect Juventus to fleece us if the Arthur Melo deal goes through. As for a striker, I doubt Vlahovic's deal happens during this transfer window.

Truth be told, we have not managed our roster well.

BlueRayDick:
I don’t know if it’s just me, but I feel we are moving too slow in this transfer window and we are not setting our priorities right. I mean while we are exerting so much energy pursuing this Serbian striker , we should actually be thinking of getting at least one good midfielder first .

With the loan move of mitland-niles, Partey and elneny at AFCON and even the foooolish Xhaka’s love for red card ; our midfield really needs reinforcements which should be our first priority. It is only after this is done that I can really be excited about prospect of getting a new striker .

daveP:
Nice one for Lacazette


This Omari kid with the Obagoal vibes

BlueRayDick:
For fans who like to read players' apology on social media, Xhaka don paste him apology for him IG page o.

As for me, I just wish Xhaka can just vanish from this club, I wish we can get a more reasonable CM whomis more brain and less brawn; aplayer who doesn't solve any defensive issue with a high flying tackle/double legged challenge

Jodera:
To be honest, I liked as we played first away. At least now, we'll know we have fans at our back and we need to go all in.

Cup not using away goal rules makes it even better as Liverpool won't be looking for a score draw

Jodera:
To be honest, this just prove say na Salah and Mane get Liverpool. Imagine no clear chance from Liverpool for long spells in the match even with a 20th minute red card

ObaIgwe1:
I wish we can get Tielemans too, but I doubt Leicester will let go. Although Tielemans is entering the last year of his contract, if he refuses to extend, Leicester might be forced to sell in other to make some gain of him.

But I think we would most likely end up with Arthur Melo on loan... though that also is still subject to Juventus getting a replacement for him.

Jodera:
Big club get good players.
How many big players that earn very big that klopp got to take Liverpool to champions league??

So we should pay a potential big player something that is meant for elite players just because of wetin?

Are we that desperate that you want us to fall maga? How much is tomi, ramsadale, Gabriel and odegaard collecting that is making us think of top 4 with their performance?

Jodera:
Lol, both of us are right.
300k(pre tax), 160k after tax.

Jodera:
Your head dey there 100%

This is undiluted truths

daveP:
Middleborough take up Folarin!



Alexis scores the Coppa Italia decider!!

Inter are Champions.

Jodera:
You wan compare Suarez situation to that of vlahovic??

Arsenal missed out on Suarez just because of 1£ dey added when even £500k can do it. This guy is earning 26k at Florentina, na from 26k him wan jump enter 300k (pre-tax)? Na tiff him be?

Please na all these no be my money, no be my money make barca become who they are now. We are building and we no get sugar daddy, abeg me we know our levels and cut our clothes according to our size. Signing him for anything more than 130k(pre-tax) is foolishness.

WhoDeyHause:
Who told you people that you are a big club?

Jodera:
If the amount is high, it's a big risk. You only risk such on those who has experience and not a potential. So it's not pointless for us saying he doesn't deserve 300k now cos he never reach. So what if he doesn't perform? So if his basic pay is 200k while his performance based is 100k, na still 200k we go dey pay am abi? Someone on 26k with just only half good season to show for it oo.

You wan turn us to maga abi?



E no make one bit of sense bros!

Jodera:
Lol.. No be by force. As in, no be him be the only striker wey dey world na

iamoyindamola:
Everyone criticized ramsdale signing abegi
This one is not interested in us we are forcing ourselves in him unlike ramsdale that was willing to come

Jodera:
Even as he dey like this, the guy dey shine (16 goals in a fiorentina team no easy) but like I said I don't trust that league per say. I can only trust him when he scores consistently in cl, but until then I'll never grade him alongside haaland.

As for YouTube clip, go and watch giroud YouTube clip and see if him no suppose win balon dor.

If vhalovic wan come make him come but make arsenal board no kill themselves like say na one potential messi we wan buy. If him no agree like 150k, make him dey him dey abeg. Wetin be 300k?