Crime › Re: Ajayi Oladele: Army To Pay N50m For Beating Father Of Three To Death by stagger: 1:43pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
popsy2: Will they pay ? There is a legal order that can be placed on the CBN to deduct the money from the Nigerian Army account at source. It has happened before. |
Family › Re: Should I Keep Enduring In This Supposed Marriage? by stagger: 12:03am On Dec 19, 2019 |
shugaboy6102: This is my story and I will appreciate if the mods can push it to front page so that others can read and learn from me, and I also need your honest comments and advice because you could be saving a drowning man.
I Am 29 years of age, a civil engineer by profession and a sanguine by temperament. Before my youth service @ age 24 I got my girl friend pregnant and I was scared of abortion so we decided to keep the baby with the full support of my mother and she agreed because I was an only son. After that, we proceeded to see her people with my mum and relatives to my girl friends village and we paid something on her head but didn't complete the whole traditional right, but this was not even the traditional wedding proper.
After that we saw ourselves as husbands and wife and we were living fine for sometime. After sometime, the relationship took a different turn as we were always fighting and didn't agree on even the slightest matter. I remember vividly one occasion we fought over a female colleague @ work who sent me a whatsapp message and why we fought was that she came to my work place and fought the young lady openly embarrassing me in the process in front of everyone.
There were times I would try to reconcile but she would blatantly refused, sometimes she will tell me she is fed up of this thing we call marriage and that she's looking for someone that I too should look for someone else. Fast-forward I met a lady and one thing led to another and I started picking interest in her. It was never my intention to be with another woman but I don't have peace of mind and I feel I am loosing my mind.
Note: I haven't wedded in a church before or done a full traditional marriage. Here comes the question: would it be considered a divorce if I quit this union and marry this new lady? I am full of unhappiness and pain and I don't want to live a life of endurance and pity. Pls nobody should pressure you into getting married, marriage is not a license to live a happy life. If you are single, I envy you. Are you even properly married? You think a woman who was "married" so shabbily will give you her best? Mr man, go and do the right thing. Give your woman proper legal standing as a wife! Then you love her as Christ loved the church. When a woman loves you, she will love you forever without condition. It is a mystery. Go and find out from God how to unlock it. |
Agriculture › Re: Pioneer Maize Seed by stagger: 5:31pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
noeloge82: Like u said something may have gone wrong but d seed price is high The rains started in June in the north this year. Very late indeed. |
Agriculture › Re: Pioneer Maize Seed by stagger: 11:47am On Dec 18, 2019 |
I am starting to think that these exotic seeds are heavily overhyped! Cost so much and yield so little. I bought two of these expensive seeds and also foundation seed. The foundation seed that cost me less than the 2 premium seeds was the one that produced best of all three.
Just imagine! |
Romance › Re: Man Who Was Stopped By A Pastor From Proposing To Girlfriend In A Church Speaks by stagger: 10:17pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Why not propose to her in your house? The pastor is the man in charge of the church. Simple courtesy demands you at least seek permission to do that in the church. Whether or not he was in the know is another matter.
A man cannot walk into my office premises and say he wants to propose to a female staff without my permission. Im dey craze? |
Business › Re: AFDB Approves $5 Million Grant To Scale Up Tony Elumelu Entrepreneurship Program by stagger: 9:22pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
DirtyGold: Hope the entrepreneurs that will benefit will also receive them as grants. Before the business man will turn free money to loan for personal gain.
What's tha business? Are you a blind bat? You did not read where it was said the money was a grant? |
Health › Re: What To Do When Snake Bites You And There Is No Hospital Nearby? by stagger: 8:50pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
dawnomike: 1 - Tightly tie the upper region and lower region of the bite wit a rope to reduce the venom flow into the blood stream...
2 - Cut open the bite areawit a knife or blade and try to such out d venom
3 - place a cut of onions on d region.
NB: Do all d above while rushing the victim to the hospital Total BS. Best bet is to immobilize the limb and get medical help fast. |
Politics › Re: Buhari: Democratic Process ‘Too Slow For My Liking’ by stagger: 7:11pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
E just dey pinch am dey go.
Anyway, we must be honest. That period was when Nigerians were at their sanest and best behaviour. Some of us even joined the green and white WAI Brigade of those days. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: General Pervez Musharraf Sentenced To Death For Treason In Pakistan by stagger: 1:20pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Funny thing is at the end of the day, you will see them on hospital bed nearly lifeless. Life is fleeting. |
Sports › Re: Bassey /Joshua: The 1st And Current World Boxing Champions Both Nigerian-British by stagger: 12:44pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
That statement by the OP is incorrect.
Nigeria was still a British colony when Hogan Bassey won the featherweight title. Moreover, all peoples of British colonies were automatic British citizens until Margaret Thatcher's government abolished this status with a change in the Nationality law of the UK in 1984. |
Politics › Re: First Largest Container Vessel Berth In Onne Port After 12 Years by stagger: 12:31pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
And to all those making ethnic comments here, may God almighty strike all of you dead. One Nigeria is here to stay and we must work it out. Anyone who does not like Nigeria is free to evacuate from here. |
Politics › Re: First Largest Container Vessel Berth In Onne Port After 12 Years by stagger: 12:29pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
We used to buy Golf cars at Onne wharf as at 2001. What happened to that port? |
Business › Re: Do you have a cab Brekete Family Taxi? by stagger: 10:34am On Dec 17, 2019 |
Yes, they recently opened space for 300 persons. |
Business › Re: Writers Wanted by stagger(op): 7:15pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Ok, I am doing my evaluation tonight. Successful candidates will be contacted tomorrow. |
Business › Re: Writers Wanted by stagger(op): 11:17pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Grupo: See them.
The original post said you should send a mail to the OP's email, and you lots are leaving your email.
You've failed the first test. Attention to detail = zero. Spot on. |
Business › Re: Writers Wanted by stagger(op): 7:42pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
The window is almost closing. |
Celebrities › Re: Angela Okorie: 10 Assassins' Bullets Removed From My Head, 2 Close To My Eyes by stagger: 5:53pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Pellets. A high velocity round from an AK-47 would have been fatal. |
Business › Re: Writers Wanted by stagger(op): 12:42pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Keep the applications coming through please. I will start the screening as from 12 noon on Monday. Don't wait. |
Business › Re: Writers Wanted by stagger(op): 8:59am On Dec 15, 2019 |
Ayomarcel: I'm interested.. +2348179948514 Send the mail please. I can't handle any phone requests. Meanwhile keep the applications coming. Once I have 10 more applications, I will start the screening. |
Business › Writers Wanted by stagger(op): 9:25pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
I'm presently building a team of writers and would like to recruit at least 4 of them. My previous 2 writers are now in paid employment and have moved on after 30 months of great output from them. They no longer have the time to write.
I hope I can get good replacements so we can move to the next level as well. As usual, send a mail to dankrabb at gmail dot com with subject "New work". You will perform the same test I have administered over the years.
Please and please...if you are not a serious minded person and unwilling to learn (yes, the work we do has a format to it which I will teach as we move on), do not bother. Any message I receive which starts by demanding how much with no previous portfolio for me to assess your valuation with will not be answered. Money answers to value input. Pay range starts from 4K per 1500 words with no maximum cap. Some work is more detailed and yes...I have paid out 20,000 per article before. It all depends on what is required. If you are good enough for the high profile jobs, then you are good enough for high profile pay. |
Politics › Re: FG Tells Togo, Benin, Niger To Pay Electricity Bills by stagger: 5:08pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
musicwriter: Hahahahahaha!
If Togo, Niger and Benin republic decides to become independent, they'll dam the River Niger, and Nigeria would be thrown into darkness forever unless we find other source of water to power our dams.
The real sources of electricity to Nigeria are Togo, Niger, Benin.
Nigeria is not stupid for giving them electricity. In the light of the border closure, if I were them I'll threaten Nigeria with a dam. But they're very stupid to act. That's why the border closure was also done to remind them who is boss. Everything is done with strategic national security at the heart of it all. |
Politics › Re: FG Tells Togo, Benin, Niger To Pay Electricity Bills by stagger: 5:07pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
augustine: The TCN boss should remember that river Niger passed through Niger republic into Nigeria. If they get the idea of diverting the course of river Niger into their Sahara dessert land mass, then 80% of dams in Nigeria will shutdown and plunge the country into perpetual darkness. And that means bye bye to dry season farming. The kind of starvation wey go hit Naija then no go get part 2. |
Politics › Re: FG Tells Togo, Benin, Niger To Pay Electricity Bills by stagger: 5:03pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
TheApologist: If we make this much from this so-called exportation of electricity to our neighboring nations why is our power sector still in a sorry state. Everyone is just feeding fat on the nation; I can bet all the supposed millions of dollars will never be accounted for. May God help our nation Go and ask the guys at NBET. There is an allegation that the gencos are overinflating the actual supply of electricity. NBET pays, and the excess money paid on the invoices are shared. That matter is under investigation. If you hear the things going on in Nigeria, you will weep for our country. So blessed, but the leaders and the people are wicked in equal measure. |
Travel › Re: 18 Passengers Die In Peace Mass Transit Accident by stagger: 10:43am On Dec 13, 2019 |
alezzy13: I understand it's a collision involving peace and GUO. But why was the latter not mentioned? This is a very good question. |
Politics › Re: Myson Nejo: "It’s Unfortunate To Be A LAWYER In A Lawless Country Like Nigeria" by stagger: 4:30pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Freedom of speech is guaranteed, but freedom after the speech...that cannot be guaranteed Mr Lawyer. |
Business › Re: Inflation Ravages Ghana’s Economy by stagger: 6:13pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Yep. 5.68 to the USD. |
Crime › Re: Ibrahim Mustapha: Fake Medical Doctor Jailed For 54 Years In Adamawa (Photos) by stagger: 4:50pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
concurrent sentence means just 10 years for him. |
Crime › Re: Idowu Omosuyi: Police Officer Who Killed A Driver For Refusing To Give Him N50 by stagger: 10:49am On Dec 10, 2019 |
Why is he not in handcuffs? |
Politics › Re: Nuclear Power Stations In Kogi, Akwa Ibom Can Wipe Out Nigerians, Others by stagger: 1:46pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
slimfit1: As long as it's not in my village I'm ok. However, if they want to build it in your village na your problem be that. We cant maintain a plane you want to play with nuclear energy Hausa people with their cluelessness is dangerous to human survival.
A power plant in Wales have been closed for years. It generates nothing to the grid, yet employees more than hundreds of people, another hundred years to clean it up. Jesus do these people know what they are playing with at all. Niger people please carry on with your lanterns and generators. Chernobyl contaminated the whole of Europe. It does not have to be in your village for you to feel the effects of any radiation, especially with the wind patterns in Nigeria and the floods that stem from overflow of the rivers and dams in the north. Nigeria as a land mass is sloping ground...anything happening in Kogi will trickle down to the Niger Delta in no time. |
Celebrities › Re: Fans Throw Bottles At Cardi B At Ghanaian Stadium Concert by stagger: 12:35pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
MichaelSokoto: Ghana ppl, black winsh ppl...
where that Charlie that was ranting earlier in d other thread sef?

Them nor even sabi design buildings sef...
see as dem use wrapper cover building
 Oga, why naa? |
Sports › Re: Anthony Joshua Vs Andy Ruiz Jr. II - Rematch (Live Updates) by stagger: 12:43am On Dec 07, 2019 |
Ruiz at 283 pounds is too heavy. AJ simply needs to use his jab and work him all night long; he does not need to punch close up like he did the first time. That extra flesh and fat on Ruiz will bog him down late on in the fight. |
Agriculture › Re: Help! My Export Company Dream Is About To Die. by stagger: 4:19pm On Dec 06, 2019 |
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