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Africa has never had leaders

na wa o, up till now

this should be addressed asap, the peace keepers are needed

Dude is sss,just trying to clear way for photo op

updatechange:
Nice peice... Blike another bbn house





BTW why is this guy struggling to pass behind the general,. Nawao civilian fear for army no be here o

saaphiere:
No. President Trump nomination should.

what he is trying to say is bombs going off in Kabul is so normal it shouldn't even be news

YoungandDepress:
My story is quite a sad and long one.
I wish I could write it all out. My life has been a terrible mess.
Where did it go wrong for me, I have no idea.

I am writing with so much emotion, my heart is full and heavy.
Life is bitter.

I am a 23 years old guy.
My life all started to go in the negative direction when I gained admission at age 16.
A 16 years old boy in the university, so much freedom and exposure.
I messed up my life, I became addicted to bet9ja virtual gambling I lost focus, Gambling killed me, I started failing exams, at the end I dropped out without my parents Knowing, but the truth came out when I was supposed to graduate, I could not hide it anymore. I told them the truth, my parents forgave me like the prodigal son.

They still believed in me especially my mom, she keeps reminding me of how intelligent I used to be.

Well I'm not here to talk about my past life but here to talk about how it is still affecting me today.

Ever since I started university all over again, I have been miserable and frustrated. Nothing has been working in my favour. I'm currently now in 200level hoping to graduate before 25.
All my mates I started with have done their NYSC.

I'm still stuck in the same stage.
I have no idea what I am doing with my life. I'm young, broke and depressed. I get irritated over little things. I feel disgust at how I uselessed my youthful life. How gambling destroyed me.

By the grace of whichever god exists, I am no longer addicted to gambling. I have quit the addiction for almost a year now but nothing changed, I still feel miserable. I hate having people around me even my family members including my mom.

I have no true friends. Nobody checks on me, nobody calls me.

At this age, I can't boast of having 500 naira in my account.
I'm broke and miserable.

I have started hating God and question my belief in God. I hate Sunday's. I hate hearing about God, I don't blame God for my troubles but I'm angry at the fact that despite my parents being dedicated Christians, things are not working well in my family.
My elder ones are graduates, but no solid job yet.

Only my eldest brother who is doing quite well now and I thank God for his life but we don't talk. I can't remember the last time I called him on phone. They don't hate me, I hate myself.
I have disappointed them a lot.


I just lost the last #1000 I had in my life today and I cried. The money fell out my pocket when I went to get something.

At 23 years, I have no idea what I will do with my future.
I still live with my parents and I have never rented an apartment of my own even in school.

What is wrong with me, why am I miserable?

I have no good clothes. My clothes are all worn out.
I have nothing doing, i live off my parents.

Since schools were shut down, I have been at home doing nothing.
Completely broke, damaged and miserable.

Can my life be any better. What do I do. I am depressed.
I keep asking myself these questions but there
Seem to be no answer.

All what you are feeling is normal at this stage in your life, trust me it will pass so long as you don't give up, you will look back and laugh at how powerless and frustrated you felt during this time in your life.

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blinkz4real:
"Can u take care of me" is not always what ur small mind is telling u she is thinking. She could mean can u be my support system, can I really share my thots n feelings 2 u n u won't tk me 4granted or tk advantage of me, can I confide in u, can u be a person who can advise her on d right path 2 success. How abt that?

Don't always think its ur money she is after bros, have respect 4 women pls n if others do it don't assume all of dem re like that.

Moreover u re the man are u not suppose 2 take care of ur woman? Anyway sha its for matured n responsible men 2 undstnd but pls try 2 reason things positively n u ll c women respect n adore u.

thou shall not simp

I deny your denial sir

logon599:
Tbf I still don't get the logic behind allowing civilians to legally carry guns, especially in a country with one of the highest cases of gun violence? Some say it's for self protection, but think about it, you need a gun to protect yourself because EVERYONE else is carrying a gun. Take away the guns then and let people live.

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the guns used in most of these shooting are not legally acquired guns, these kinds of people can not pass the requirements to legally own a gun in the us.

non issue

Africa?

And they keep borrowing, 20 years from now Africa will be recolonised by China and the west because our greedy myopic leaders keep borrowing and looting.

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All first world countries still struggle with corruption to an extent and still manage to grow, the reason africa continues to stagnate Is beyond me, sometimes I catch my self in the nonsensical thought that maybe Africans are inferior.

[quote author=Lipscomb post=91432309]Obaseki is a betrayal. [/quotet]Care to explain?

Tragic, Hopefully she is prosecuted and the child adequately rehabilitated.

An sata kudi

No such thing, free yourselves fellow blackmen,this too is just another tool of control and oppression used by africans on africans,.

There is a huspuppi in all of us, only through hard work, honesty and being contented with the little we have can we keep him in check

To be be land lord for Nigeria na big problem, where do I start abi na the ones when dey owe one year plus house rent, the ones wen they use madness disguised as prayer dey terrorise other tenants, the ones when hate to pay light bill, the ones wen they mismanage the property etc in summary you need to be very formal and strict when dealing with Nigerian tenants or they will mop the floor with you.

RentedReality:
Gombe is also predominantly Fulani and known for the tomb of Sultan Attairu, tomb of Bubayero and the famous Bima Hill.

Your favourite queen of sensual cosmetics, Jaaruma is also from Gombe

Won't u like to visit Gombe?

false gombe is predominantly tangale

Patrioticman007:
Naturally Africans don't keep dogs except for hunting & security, however with the coming of colonial masters, our copy copy brothers are now keeping dogs on their beds. These photocopying machines forget that dogs have these bacterias (rabies) that are fatal to mankind.
The endangerment of the general public is a selfish act, and many people have been killed by these dogs, it takes a dog to keep a dog.

retardddddd

nice one, more to follow

nice one, more to follow

thief wey thief thief

tragic, if only severe punishments are handed out and publicised in cases like this, only then would this menace be curtailed

Shibaraba:
The thing pain you....
See as you write pass chinua Achebe....
Painment.

One rule...when I see any sign..... Any.... You no pick call?, you call at set times, you claim busy, I move away.
I Don too suffer for this life. I go come still make woman suffer me? Taaaa.
Moya look away.

Zero your mind and move on. God go provide. Wetin you Don see Wey You dey talk?
You Don host birthday for woman make she introduce you as colleague while the main boyfriend dey take selfie with the cake Wey you suffer buy?
Abi you Don carry your full salary give woman at every 30th come broke sotay she dey give you 200naira as transport everyday?
Or you Don love girl sotay you dey plan wedding only to see her engagement with someone else for her whatsapp status?
Common boy threaten you you come nairaland write epistle of John the Baptist.
Oga move on

why are you like this?, someone shared his painful experience and you belittle it, na who wear shoe know where e dey pain am. others will learn from his experience

Petyprincess:
Nice write-up bt guys should always go for ladies they can afford!! Guys shouldn't be pressured or feel obligated to spend on your gf.
If you can't spend please go for simple ladies so you won't complain your gf is materialistic nd demanding!!

meaning women are now property? same you would still complain when a man treats the woman like property because he can afford her.

IDEMMIRI:
The soldiers should please extend this type of gesture to the idiotic policemen that tortured and killed the innocent mechanic Chima.


They should kill all those policemen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#justiceforChima.

soldiers that just burnt and destroyed properties of innocent Nigerians they are supposed to be protecting, No wonder the country is still like this

Frankyboy1:
If you want to take a country like Nigeria far, give a honest female academician and intellectual post of presidency and other juicy position, trust me,they can hardly be corrupted by the lure of life like their greedy male counterparts, a great move by the Amazon, uniben them.boys will be wishing her immediate downfall now!
Thank God after five years,I comment first on a thread,

B/S: Ladies pls never and never you try leaving your guy alone, while you travel during the.festive season, I never knew.we.had such number of beautiful girls available in this country! Chei, now my waist is doing me tininitiriri,

greed isn't restricted to one gender, ask dezeini, patrisha, and the countless corrupt women in government world wide