₦airaland Forum

jaxxy:
I’m not saying don’t pursue a gal o bt if u pursue a gal 30times/% u should pursue ur work 100Times/% as more. That is the rule of the Love game. Don’t pursue a gal more than ur work or hussle or else Ure a f00l. Do u understand young man? That is how u can be happy wether or not she accepts cos u won’t be losing bt if u obey this law properly she will 80% chance accept to ur condition.

On point

Igbojihadist:
Good day nairalanders there is this very girl I love so much. I have expressed my feeling to her but she keeps telling me she is not ready yet. It has been four years now and am finding it difficult to move on or love any other girl.

Its ruining me as all i do each day is to think of her, atimes I might decide not to call her again within three days or what she would call me telling me is this the type of love I have for her. I am overwhelmed but she doesn't understand how i feel (please i need advice) plz anyone who would remind me of the present economy should stay off as ur problem is not mine.

https://theadultman.com/love-and-lust/oneitis/

Read this article and it would help you

goldmines214:
I am not arranging the subjects in columns. I arranged them in rows like you did if you look at the broadsheet table. The last table (required result) is the html table. That's how I want it to appear on the browser when viewed. So please how do I achieve that from mysql tables (students, subjects, class, sessions, terms, broadsheet) onto html tables like required result image above?

Run sql queries and simply get the data. Store them in a variable. Arrange them how you want with a loop.
Use html table tag to arrange it.
Is anything hard there?

ademidedavid:
We are better than the white if given the opporunity and conducive or same enabling environment to study

Abeg don’t try beat a dead horse. Let us congratulate him and leave vain acclamations

Normalization. Don’t arrange subject in column

id student_id subject_id class_id term_id score

For example 12 subject would need 12 different rows for storage for a specific student in a specific class in a specific term .

So every term 12 row each. For three terms it means 32 rows per student

The average is calculated after you fetch from SQL query so as any other calculation

cPapaAjascO:
well, I think most guys are not just being fair with most nice hearted ladies... they just treat everyone desame way. Which I think is not cool shaa....

we have bad people everywhere, they are only wearing mask, male or female, makes no difference

LovemoreNC:
Good morning guys

My Previous post (I asked questions about Data Analysis job roles and the advice really helped thanks guys)

I'm at crossroads right now.

I just finished creating a portfolio website but don't know how to go about getting website design clients.

I'm a computer science student and I use platforms and tools like Wordpress and Shopify and Adobe XD very well but no money. I haven't had a job before so it's all new to me but I know I can still be smart with it even though I'm like a baby.

Last year I learnt UIUX Design and uploaded my portfolio works on Dribbble still the same thing.

I don't even know if I should start messaging people on facebook I think might need a website and start calling businesses and tell them about getting websites.

I can build any kind of wordpress websites even Shopify stores and also work with HTML CSS JAVASCRIPT PHP codes.

I can share my portfolio website and works if requested.

Abeg make una help me with orientation and guidance ���

What are you good at because I don’t want to believe you’re a professional in all those things you mentioned above without experience

Millimann:
I can now conclude that there are hungrier people in Nigeria than Sierra Leone.

There are hungry people also standing at the beach looking at the whale? But they have a working system, we don’t

LarsunDesign:
LoL.. My own Secondary School Love story was a mess.. I remembered how I approached this guy as a Gentle guy that've just falling in love for the first time...

I met this girl and then told her mind.. Only for this girl to tell me to wait for her because she wasn't ready for any relationship..

Naso I wait ohhhh from my ss1 till my First year in the University thinking this girl will still change her mind towards me Because I really Loved her... LoL... He no work for me..

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Pierocash:
clap for yourself. People like you shouldn't exist in our society,you are wicked.

You took advantage of her situation to exploit her sexually without honouring the agreement. That is wickedness. It doesn't cost a thing to be kind to others,if you happen to be there in her trying moment,you won't need to go subtle to have her,she will lovingly and willingly give you her body anytime.

Stop been wicked,because there are repercussions for every evil deed

It was a ludo game and the girl was only taking her chances. The guy is not a man of his words, I assume the girl also knows that

SARSCoV2:
"I pay N380,000. She went to enroll the kid in a school that pays N980,000. I told her I could not afford it because I am not a drug trafficker neither am I an armed robber."

A hoe will always be a hoe!

Since she started fvcking Ambode, I knew the husband will become useless.

Ambode Aide

Orissodiq:
Shebi na from d woman narration u heard that he ran away, dia is one thing i believe that "dia is always 3 sides of every story. 1:what the first side said, 2:what the second side said, and 3:what actually happened.

Then the other side would be that he died or the mother don’t know the father. If not every father should come for their children one way or the other.

makeherscream:
never . My sister can never and will never wear anklet . Anklet is not fashion Oga bitches wear anklet . If your sister wear anklet am sorry to say she's a bitch know this and know peace ignorant will not kill you go and read about anklet

I hope you know Egyptian women wore anklet in the Past as a symbol of fashion?

Hodstat1986:
That's your mum account of the story, my dear sister. You can also meet ur dad for his own side of the story.

Who exactly
The post just said she don’t know her father.

Orissodiq:
I wish ur mother should tell the whole side of the story

And the other side of the story justifies the real father from running away?

Better continue your dusty smoke in peace

Onyi22:
She dy risk her life because of one yeye song way no go sell

Bad belle nor good o

Tokoz20:
The present government he referred to is not the present Buhari's government but the entire earthly government, and then, install his heavenly kingdom

Quite frankly the new Israel is our ultimate Society.
Even at that, why we wait for the ultimate Society. Nothing stops us from trying to make things work for the now. If other countries can be so developed, why can’t we.
Abi shey na only Nigerians dey go heaven ni?

Freestainworld:
These ladies will be forming father's but will hide and collect a mans dick secretly, if you are claiming a father, then get yourself pregnant by yourself, Mumu women.

You started well but missed the point

onufidel:
Yes o. We are waiting for Jehovah's government to come and crush this present one

Keep hovering in hogwash. God will not and will never come down to do for man what man can do for himself. It is either we begin to do the right thing or we perish in wages of our sins.

HRMK:
obtviously,this falana is a card carrying member of pdp!each time i see his comments,i remember fawehinmi of blessed memory!the two are not in same class!!

The title is misleading... read the content

vedaxcool:
This shameless man again. The same you will serve as shecows lawyer if the price is right because of you have no scruples. You pontificate to fool the public but deep down you are no different from the political system you criticize as long as the benefits will accrue to you, you will dive in.

Did you read what he said?
I don’t think so

You read only the headline

remedick:
Okay, I understand what you mean here. Do you mind if I DM you?

No problem

remedick:
That is how they like it actually. They like being treated like a whoreee.

For example...

Boy A to girl: You are an amazing lady that I will like to spend time with in the future. The most gorgeous my eyes have ever seen. He does this so often...

Boy B to same girl: Look at those ass...boobs so round and I feel like placing my tongues on there. she smiles and laugh... after a while, he disappears and reappears.

She will prefer boy B to boy A. Why? Boy B tends to make her feel sexual desired but A doesn't. That is why when you talk dirty with most girls, chances of banging her if you can sexually arouse her within that chat or period is over 80%. That is why they have guys who they are not dating banging them so often cos the guy actually does not want anything to do with them apart from bringing out that bittch out and banging the hell out of it.

Stop mixing playboy tricks with quality relationship bro.

remedick:
Exactly, the moment she shows more seriousness, the moment I do same. But unless she does that, I won't make any contact with her. And even if she makes move, I will have to sit it out and be sure is really serious.

However, even if that happens, the usual over availability would not be there any more cos she didn't appreciate it.

A gurl yes is not so straight forward o. Don’t be carried away by ordinary yes. Learn to understand when their yes are communicated by their actions.
It is very important

remedick:
thanks so much. Yeah, I really like her for real and despite how it made me feel, I still tried to make give her the impression that It wasn't about the sex or her body that I am after but how we communicated when we started.

There was no room for mind games or second guessing the other person.

The babe is fun to be with to be honest. She got mad vibes and i love it. So I kinda bonded with her just because of that.

And I happen to be communication person. We clicked right from the first day, talked like we had known for long. You get?

It is sad

I understand clearly. But don’t give women promises only except if those promises are also your own promises.
Some women uses promises to play games and tie you to their rules, be careful how you approach your promises on girls you truely care about. For the ones you don’t it’s just a matter to time and both of you would do away with time.
Keep staying calm and keep your options open, now she is not responding does not mean you throw useful time and attention to her. Other things of life still dey. The moment she shows more seriousness, the moment you too become more serious.

remedick:
Yeah, I wasn't showing aggression in a way, Though it might seem that way but the truth is, I was just trying as much as possible to make her see that I wasn't playing games

There is a twist to it. If you appear too strong about relationship she may feel that you want to just take advantage of the situation. What do most people do in relationship?
Sex and spend money, nothing more. So she may feel that way.
Stating your point clear and just fading away is a more mature approach. While you fade, look more calm, collected and happy. Talk if you have to, laugh if you have to
But all will fade slowly while you keep the room temperature about relationship and not friendship.
Infact it should be more in your approach than words, treat her like someone you’re romantically attracted to rather than someone who is a friend.

remedick:
So recently a girl that I had something for tried to Friendzon me... but offering me the "Let's just be friends thing"

I told her NO... I can't be just friends with her and I don't do just friends with a woman I want something with, which she had known long before now. What I want is what I want and I know what I want.

I told her to stick to her decision and I will sort myself out...

She then asks me "are you sure you will sort out yourself"? Honestly, this question made me confused and I do not know why she would care about that. But I refused to reply to her after that. There was no reply from me and I considered everything should end, while I cut ties with her.

I deleted everything about her and chose to move on.

I know a lot of men would accept the friendship offer and some people might say I should have accepted to be just her friend but the truth is, accepting it means accepting to be friend zoned forever and you will NEVER get out of it. Being just friends means she selfishly just wants all the goodies you bring without you touching her.

It is better to walk away with your shoulder high than allow that.

Did I reject her offer because I didn't really like her? I actually do like it her but know that it is hard to convince these women about your intentions. the more you do, the more they think otherwise.

Would rejecting her offer turn the table in my favour? I doubt because I have never heard any man turned it after reaching this stage and that means I should move on forever and not look back. But if you know any guy or story in which the man successfully turn the table after rejecting the "just be friend" offer, feel free to share it here.

Also, accepting her friendship offer is of more value to her and none to me. It expands her options and grants me none. I would rather reduce that option by 1 than make it 2.

But what it does for me is, it will change how she views me for sure, even if she does not admit it. A girl telling you she just wants to be friends means, she views you in a certain way and me rejecting it would do justice to whatever she thought of me by reversing that image.

So, that is it...

Yeah it’s cool you told her you don’t want just friendship but don’t show aggression towards it.

KingAlabi:
Social media doesn't disturb/affect you, doesn't mean it doesn't disturb/affect others.

It does but are the government responsible for regulating my use of social media?

KingAlabi:
I agree to an extent with this, this year I have found out how distracting notifications can be.

Try it for a day, turn on do not disturb, and work on a task
PS : the above are for the social media freaks.

Straw man fallacy.
He was talking about the Government regulating it. Not to individuals, we are not kids