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ellbreziy:
I'm in a relationship with this young lady, about 5 months. The problem is we had issues for a whole month based on the fact that she likes to go out a lot.
I called her many times before she changed but I was almost fed up before she finally changed.
Right now, any time we have small issue the pent up anger from that particular month keeps crowding my thinking that I've had a massive outburst which resulted in hitting her twice.
My question is, how can I make my self forget everything that happened then and stop the unnecessary outburst anytime we have mini quarrels that naturally shouldn't lead to fights?
Note: we stay together.

maybe you shouldn’t be together. If while doing relationship she can get to the point where she can irritate you so much that you hit her then I guess, you two may not be the best fit.
If you have anger problems then you need help.
If you don’t and she is the one fueling it then stay away from her kind of person.
People no fit come dey settle fight o

Moonlight111:
Do you mean I can incorporate other scripting and styling languages like
JavaScript ,html and css to python the same way I would do to php
And another question I would like to ask is that do I need python when I already know php

yes, check Django. It is a web framework built using python

bigcee:
u dey give urself hope. Las las, if Amaka no pick your calls, u go quickly open thread on nairaland dey lament

At least it is better than nodding my head to gay men.
Don’t you think so?

EvolvedPisces:
No,you are not wise brah and he was using clean English. YOU CHICKEND OUT. Deal with it !

Is there an end to this instrument of trying to bully?
Please be a little interesting for once

bigcee:
Another wailing simp.Ona no dey ever learn

Trying to mimic intelligence.....
We don’t learn bro.... we like to express our ignorance

Williampisces:
he murdered you but you just playing safe. (damage control) Only the intelligent ones will read between the lines

Bird of a feather.
Your power lies in the herd mentality.
“Read between the lines”


Another word to mimic intelligence. But I am too blessed for that cheap trick.

ekene101:
it's obvious you have comprehension problem. I understand you were not opportune to own a comprehensive English reader in your primary school days. Jog along boy..

Your comment is confirming my observation.
+1 irritated

BlesE:
Hi guys.
Pls in your own terms what can you say is the difference between self-esteem and pride cause atimes people mistake someone's actions or inactions for pride.

Self esteem is how you think about yourself
Pride is about decision you make based on your perceived self worth.

richmond500:
Those that go about calling themselves simps aren't simps.
U see those redpillers? 87% of them are simps, u will know them by their useless tantrums and braggadocio on ladies.
Its human nature, I did it in primary school, I always insult the babe I was crushing on just to hide my crush and don't want to appear weak. Currently women don't freak me as they do back then so I rather snub them instead of insulting them. Currently I just view every other lady comments as I view the guys comments except some few like Ish.Ilove, roman0ff and michele55 due to their maturity Even with these, I've been called a simp many times just because I sometimes agree with a lady's opinion lol

Very insightful and apt

Moonlight111:
What's the difference btw php and python or in what way is php better than python or vice versa .
Nairalander I need ur help .

They are basically same thing but they have their place of dominance .
Php is more dominant in web.
Python is more dominant in AI, data science and in exploit world

unamamatoto:
I thought I was engaging an enlightened fellow but, I was wrong, keep on with your foolery !!!

Nice development. They leave When they can’t insult.

I wish other guys can learn

unamamatoto:
no... You form bold online and chicken out in reality... English comprehension is not that hard

No now have you forgotten?
Alpha Bleep, beta buck
And Alpha male are strong and dominant
Simp are weakling and are submissive.

It is like my simping is bold o

falcon01:
That's pathetic actually and The whole Male specie is disappointed in you Mr. Simpson

To hell with those whole unknown male specie Now that I am official simp find another word to use

unamamatoto:
dey form hardman online x depression go finish you when you log out...

Yes now, simp are also people too. Oh you’re shocked. A simp is before you now and answering you.
You think simps are not bold.
Or my kind of simp is different?

falcon01:
STFU SiMp!

now I am simp atleast I have the freedom to express myself without insult. Atleast it makes me a free man with expressions

dgang:
So you are a simp ?

Yes a real simp.
Simp are humans too.
Atleast I have my freedom

unamamatoto:
mumu, you don't need to announce it, we already know you are a sissy... So, stop making it a national anthem.. ode

my other name is mumu sissy. So you have another name?

I don’t do this always but some unknown gay men seem to have infiltrated romance section of Nairaland and are creating unnecessary thread with many monikers challenging, insulting, bullying and kicking up every male moniker who say any contrary thing to their ideology.
Infact many are not even about the men sef they are more about the attention.

You may be bad with women but bowing to unknown monikers because they claim they know the manual is the height of low self esteem.

Be A simp today and express yourself

Kingcalls:
If u wanna b successful in life, stop simping and u will become great...ask Dangote , Trump and Bill Gates

Be a simp and express yourself on Nairaland today. Don’t allow some gay men or Men who hate women but talk about women all day let you loose your voices

Be a simp and express yourself today.

ekene101:
Ode nla,are you new to internet or nairaland. This photo trended months ago,op just used it because he saw similar scenario play out where he went. Is English that difficult to comprehend or you are SIMP_ly daft?

I am a SIMP!
Infact I will change my bio soon and write SIMP.
As a simp is a person who do cannot have his own reasoning but must follow some gay men hiding under covers. Coming to Nairaland, creating spam thread to convince and insult people.

Anyway I am different, If that means being a SIMP. Well it is a welcome development.

So next time find another curse word. This one iyaff expired.

Meanwhile your brother is jobless, no work

Gistusmore:
Custom built with PHP etc

if the pay is good I can do the job

Gistusmore:
i'm looking for the below developer:

1: Add the weight of the goods derived from a website

2: Fix the add to cart ajax call

3: fix the wish ajax call and page

4: add a page for all cart list

5: the checkout should be merge with my already payment page

6: User should see their balance (payment balance and history)

7: admin can see the list of paid orders and unpaid orders

8: Edit the domestic shipping fee to correspond with the external website own base on location.

9: Admin can send message to specific userid base on category of the message.




NB: please you must reside in Lagos.

A Wordpress website or a customer built website?

Patrioticbreed9:
on her back, i then tried to open her leg, but she tighten it,i finaly used my whole might and open her thighs,then she moaned a little,she was begining to look tensed, i proceded and removed her pant, i almost frozed from what i was seeing it was like a dream,i immidately brought out my dick and placed it on he kitty and she shooked,i was moving my jnr all round her kitty to find a way to enter but i could not, i tried all i could,after some secs of trying and failing she then get up and wanted to leave, i immidately followed her and grabed her ass but she scolded me,then i came back to my senses, fast foward, she is now married with 3 kids, and her husband is now my good friend, each time i remember what transpired between me and his wife am always feeling guilty and it affecting, i just feel like i should open up to someone, but who would that be.. i need help guys..

If you story has any truth in it.
It is called trauma. You were young and she kinda took advantage of your adventurous mind. You should stop feeling guilty. Instead you should understand that it wasn’t all your fault.

But op you self spoil sha o. How did you know penis will go into kitty at 12? Abi you dey whine is ni?

Rest on, an autopsy should be conducted.

Maxymilliano:
This is good and commendable no doubt.

you know anyone?

Who are they?

DeathToAfonja:
OP.
U can't use reverse psychology on us bro.

You're a SIMP

I am the head of simp!

Shey I die

Slimslimqq:
please forget about the issues I have recently encountered which made me an online begger last year, na condition make crayfish bend. i happen to have access to one of my late father's property, because I know some people will not believe this story, but it is real.

I just have to talk about this issue presently about a nairalander i accomodated late last year.

this guy created a thread that he needs to move to another state (lagos) to hustle, and possibly pursue his football career, he was previously living in Ilorin.

I saw the thread and I really wished to help him with the accommodation, mind u he's not the first person, and he's not gonna be the last I always reach out to if they need accommodation because I know what is to have nothing or be stranded, he's not the only nairalander I have helped with such, most unilag and Yabatech students got accommodation from me for free, I do this because that is what my dad does before his demise, and he has always told me to follow same step and I am glad I always helped out and I think it is hereditary, my grand father did same with his properties also.

I called this guy number, and we talked about how he will move to lag. he was so glad I offered to help him.

early this year, he called me and told me he was on his way to Lagos that I should give him a description of how to get to my place.

when he arrived, I went to bustop to pick him. he was surprised he met a very young man. so I took him to my room to drop his bags, and I took him round the compound and I also introduced him to my mom and my babymama.

I also gave him a bed he will sleeping on, mind you he will be sleeping in the church, because that's is where those I help with accommodation sleep, but they keep their bags in my room, but there is another available room we give out for free to those who sleep in church. but those who I bring in use my room. and they are free to watch films and do whatever they want.

few days after this guy came, i noticed he doesn't greet me, he doesn't even speak to me, but i take it as his character. sometimes whenever my babymama or mom cooks, I tell them to serve him also, but he will never come back to say a thank u.

meanwhile, when he came I explained my own situations to him because I already took him as a friend, I told him how life has turned around after my babymamas and i business collapsed and how we came on nairaland to beg. I told him how I do menial jobs to survive and I told him the challenges he will overcome but he has to tighten his seatbelt to survive in Lagos.

This guy is very lazy, but he's hungry, a lot of people are calling my attention to it...

he said he wants a daily job, so that he can be able to feed himself till he gets something better.
I told him to always follow me to were I carry pop for daily pay, he declined, I also took him to a driver who I also work for as a bus conductor, he said he can't do it, and many other jobs like that which he declined.

I noticed he started avoiding me, but he still come into my room to change to dress.
while he was looking for accommodation on his thread, he said he said he doesn't drink nor smoke, that is one of the things that also made me help me, but this guys roll with smokers and drug addicts since he got to our area. my mom will be mad at me if she finds out the guy smokes.

yesterday was my birthday, while all my tenants and well wishers were greeting, this guy couldn't even say a happy birthday, till this moment he's just looking at me like spoilt yam.

I just got a minibus yesterday as a birthday gift from someone I have once helped, and I will start using it for business from Monday, I still wish to help this guy more and I feel I should tell him to join me as a conductor because this guy is hungry, but maybe he will agree. but I don't wanna be disappointed, because I don't know why he has been so cold towards me. if he declines, I am planning to send him away.

pls any advice on how to deal with this issue. but I don't want to take a wrong step that will tarnish all the good I have done to him.


sorry for the long post.

How are you sure he is not a criminal or he didn’t seek your house as refuge, becareful o. Best thing is to send him packing o. Fear someone that behaves in that mode. He knows his agenda.
To him you’re nothing but a cockroach and a maybe stupid person.
He don’t count you as anything, omo you get mind o.
Even confronting him may get matter worse in a way you may not know. He may not say anything but when times comes you may loose one or two.
I don’t know what sort of mentality you have, calling a stranger to Lagos because you met him on Nairaland.

Keep it strong.
Learn it slowly and with quality

SweetCunt97:
Well, I'd still want someone who'd notice if my hair is rough, if I've got a torn blouse heck someone who'd book a ticket to Dubai for us to simply go chill. So ur soup, rent are basic... I really dont have to school u on how to be a man and ur responsibilities bro, that's ur dad's job. Too bad if u lost the teaching to all these nonsense u digest online

Tell this rubbish to your husband. Meanwhile at the end of the day sha have sense. Your husband is also human being.
Don’t kill him because he is bearing the “Head” name. Head means leader.

unamamatoto:
I was bored and I decided to out to "celebrities"... I happened to sit close to a boy and a girl... Mehn, it was like in the movies but, I witnessed it first hand... The babe was eating Spaghetti and big chicken lap with small pack of juice... The boy had nothing he was eating but just water and he was pretending he was so busy with his phone... He was stylishly talking to himself low-key to form busy and the babe was enjoying alone o... I was laughing in Chinese.. So, my question is, instead of buying just for her with that whole lot of extended money and him having nothing, why not take her to the BUKA? With #1500 or Urgent 2k, una go chop rice with ofe-akwu with chilled soft drinks but, what do I know ?? What's with this behaviors guys

joblessness is real, if you have good work. How would you have even had the time to compose and take pictures of other people who are unaware of your existence.

SweetCunt97:
Aint i surviving on my own before he came along? Nigerians and their silly mentality of working to survive. Abi i no fit get salon put person there? Or cars for uber? One dont need to work to earn bro... Enlarge ur thinking broadband

so if you earn then what do you need the “head” of the home to be taking care of you mean.? Giving you money for soup, house rent and nails and clothes and all. So Anuty your own money would now be for?