Monfeels: I want to share my problem with you guys in the hopes that maybe I'll get some good advice or at least some insight into my problem.
When people first meet me their impression of me is that I'm good looking, cool and intelligent. Most girls usually assume that I have a girlfriend or a legion of side chicks that I Bleep whenever I want to.
The truth about me is that I've never been in a proper relationship with another woman before. All I've had is sexual partners that I stop talking to after I have sex with them, and girls I get intimate with just to control them and get them to fulfil my desire of having a female to own, please me and do my biding, and then I get bored of them and cease contact and move on like I never knew them.
The reason for this behavior is that I don't possess the emotional resources needed to engage in a healthy relationship with another human being. I have no empathy and I usually feel no guilt or remorse for my actions. It's impossible for me to care genuinely for another person. I don't feel people's pain or suffering and I'm not moved by the death of family members or friends. I simply do not care for any other person but myself. I've been this way for a very long time. I lack the ability to maintain relationships with people hence why I lose friends often. Relationships are usually a means to an end for me and when that end is met, I become irritated by the person I've gotten close to.
Despite the fact that I don't see the point in relationships, I still find that I get jealous of couples in healthy relationships. It's not like I want to experience what they experience, just that I am envious of the fact that they are participating in something I can't participate in.
When I find a girl that I want to get close to, I'm usually consumed with jealousy over her previous relationships, and over any current relationship she has with any member of the opposite sex, even if it's merely platonic. All I want is for her to devote all her time to me and shower me with attention and love. The problem with all this is that I don't want to reciprocate this behavior. In fact the idea of devoting attention to, and showering affection on someone else irritates me. It's all pointless, but I enjoy when it's done to me.
Another weird side to all this is that I don't just want to control the girl, I also enjoy making her feel bad, but in a way that makes her crave for me more. I enjoy poking holes in herself esteem, making her second guess the presumably good qualities she thought she possesed, making her not feel wanted by me, and making her do more to please me.
I don't love women, I only become obsessed with them. Obsessed to the point that I'm constantly tortured by thoughts of them being sexual with another guy especially when it's someone she has dated before. I want her all to myself and even if she had sex with someone before I met her or before we became close, I am filled with anger and jealousy whenever the thought crosses my mind, and I want to punish her for that. It's like I want to erase her past and replace it with me. I want to be all she's ever had. I don't want anyone else in her life and I don't want anyone else in her past.
All this must sound crazy to you guys but this is my reality and it's eating me up. I need advice.
slimfit1: So Innosons cars are not good enough for the judges. Igbo people get angry come with hatred when South West governors buy other brands but keep quiet when their people that should be using Innoson cars are not buying their cars.
How can you gift a chief judge a mobile coffin
Can use your hard earned money to buy innoson.
Forget the social media rant and promotion. We know the truth in our hearts
Daddysidhan: your brain is full of disease if you truly believe buhari is better than trump when it comes to leadership
Buhari is far better.
Trump ain't close.
America is already a working system. Even a quack can rule America since their is a working structure already. The country is so great that it can auto pilot .
If Buhari and Trump should switch places, it's a constant that a Trump even lacks what it takes to salvage a Nation.
Buhari believes in expert, Trump knows it all. Buhari rarely lies, Trump lied for 4 years Buhari had is presidential and has that respect all over him, Trump is the most insulted and ridiculed president in the history of the USA. He talks like a tout and tweets like bobrisky.
Make a good argument and I will tell you Buhari is far better than Trump.
DaddyGngeess: Maybe is because I am a dumb person too. But I need to leave this with you, to make money in life you need to be very very smart. Donald Trump is a billionaire before he becomes the president of USA.
Billionaire whose company has gone bankrupt 6 times.
Billionaire that can constructively address the nation and make pointers
"Know it all" Billionaire.
Let me tell you the truth, Even Buhari is far better than Trump when it comes to leadership.
Sanchez01: 'False' is your consolation? Tyson was not only beaten, Holyfield kept him at bay with multiple left jabs that Tyson not only bit his right ear off but also punched him in the back when an upset Holyfield walked away from him.
The funniest part, ONLY TWO POINTS WAS DEDUCTED FROM TYSON'S POINT AND HOLYFIELD STILL WON.
Sanchez01: You guys hype Tyson way too much. He is a good boxer, no doubt but not as strong as Holyfield. Holyfield won their two encounters in the past and I still vividly remember the 'Tyson bite' of 1997. He was pummeled so hard that he resorted to thug moves to edge Holyfield.
Holyfield was a better fight. He just wasn't so lucky as Tyson.
Rivers state Governor , Ezenwo Nyesom Wike recently brought down two hotels for disobeying the lockdown order . The Governor personally supervised the demolition and later backed up his actions by saying , it was a lesion for others .
Femi Fani-Kayode reacted to this by saying “ he's utterly Amazed.” Thereafter , social media users, especially twitter users , labeled Governor Wike to be a Tyrant , while others said he was worst than President Buhari. Replying twitter users , Femi Kayode wrote ;
I don not support Wike’s demolition of hotels but comparing him to Buhari in terms of tyranny is like comparing Little Red Riding Hood to the Wolf. Buhari is evil whilst Wike , for the better part of the least 10 years , has risked his life fighting evil , tyranny and oppression. SOURCE; https://www.theonlineparrots.com/
Egeonu11: A young promising boy murder in owerri IMO state.
A young guy by names Leo was kidnapped around willow wood hotel in owerri IMO state since last week by men in uniform from the Nigeria Army they carried him along with his car to Anambra state collected all the money in his account killed and murder him and sold his car ES350 car.
They young boy lost his mother earlier this year and still miss her mother burial that took place last week Friday.
The person that killed him was a sacked Nigeria Army personnel since 2013
What a wicked world
Nigeria is no longer Save anyone
Cant you just respect the dead and take-down the picture
iLegendd: If he becomes the president, Nigeria will be great. No nepotism. He calls a spade a spade and he doesn't care if the offender is a PDP or an APC member — all he cares about is for the citizens to be law abiding.
A country where the citizens don't obey law or the leader is a nepotist, will never move forward.
Ask Buhari for your answer — if you have any question to ask.