Ouch! The people criticising her legs. Harsh. Isn't there more important things to judge a character by??

Beyonce is married with a child I can't ever remember anyone dissing some of her outfits

jay bee:

Ahahaahaha!!

ignis:
Please can you drive home your point by hitting the nail on the head?

Lol I only wondered where your hard heart came from?

ignis: Never.
I av got Iron heart, which can never be broken by anybody.

Sorry to pick you out as there are many who say this but i wonder where your hard heart from.

I feel we are either shown love and conditioned for it at an early age or we're not shown much love and therefore return none. Or mistake love in the wrong places.

This is a very interesting thread @yvete you're so on point here. You loved when you were shown love. Marry the dude

Lol @ the people who have never been heartbroken. It's nothing to be ashamed of. You've either never been in love or you're too young. It's a human emotion and character building. I have been once seriously in my life, and to be honest I'm not over it so you can't break a broken heart.

dmcdad:
Leave who alone? How many of u knows what u want 4rm a guy? Leave me alone my foot..

Ok maybe I'm talking of myself here. If I like a guy I don't play games. If I'm not interested I would hope he would realise that no it's not a game and that yes I'm not interested.

@OP thank you. I laughed my ass off reading your list.

Which probably means marriage would be out of the question haha! Your wife will be so surpressed by you, then you'll be so bored you'll find a mistress who does all these things. Except farting, a lady should always leave the room to fart. Unless she's laughing uncontrollably

pleep: Ever since i started talking to women the instant they start that hard to get crap i ignore them. permanently. no more texts, nothing

If all of u niggas did this, the ladies would stop playin games

If only all guys were like this. It's not always 'hard to get' it is quite often 'leave me alone' lol

tpapi: I jus can't understand how a married woman wit 5 kids wil be comfortably n confidently hammering bottles of gulder

A mother of 5 kids works damn hard and would definitely benefit from a drink on the odd occasion! A babysitter and a night off with husband can do wonders for a relationship.

Seriously has the OP just fallen out a time machine from 1950 and landed at a laptop

I'll chase the old rich guy. He's old so he'll die sooner and then I will inherit the millions and live happily ever after. Then some hot guy will chase me for my money and I'll die happy! Thee end

I want to be mad with you but your confession was like an Oscar acceptance speech and made me laugh!

Now go do something productive like write the next Nollywood Script

He should move or tell her it's over!! Long distance doesn't work.

austertee01: Are you of the believe that a relationship will not work out until you have sex?

Hmmm no I don't believe it will work from the moment of intimacy, however how long would we wait after knowing someone we are attracted to be intimate?

I waited 6 months once and then sex changed everything and possibly ruined what we had established. ie a very good friendship.

So maybe it should be clear from the start where the relationship is expected to go? Then decide to wait for intimacy as an established couple if at all. And let's be honest if you are a couple sex is very important.

Does that makes sense?!

Think the best ideas have come, I just need to say this is a really sweet thread! Lovely that you are giving her a gift and she is so far away. Good man!

If you're going to get intimate this quickly with someone then it's kind of a dumb ass thing to say. And quite the turn off.

If you want someone to love you before sleeping with them you need to put in waaay more effort than a few late night chats! Be patient oh and wish for a miracle lol!!

It may take a lil time but you'll know.

When you find yourself having conversations in your head to justify their actions, that's when the alarm should ring and you should make a sharp exit!

You just need to believe in your instincts. Every relationship is a risk. Trust is precious and fragile. So whoever you give it to has a big job keeping it.

I think anyway

legalwealth: It is obvious that women like attractive men.

What qualities will a man have before he can be tagged attractive?

Courtesy: 2GO WALL

He needs to have a very good sense of humour and sometimes be quite happy to watch a Girly movie or two

victorD3: I dump my ex when I realized she has been a bisexual throughout our 7yrs relationship. She cheats as much as she can with diccks and I couldn't stand she doing pussi too. I will forgive her the day a seating president will resign in Nigeria but will accept her back when garri becomes one cup one naira.

Ooh LMFAO!! *dies*

firestar:

^^Speaking from experience.

hahaaaaa! Nice!! lmao!!

lol!! More like, I love you, have a baby for me, I want to marry you! all generally 10 mins into the first meeting

talk to me then, I like talking and i like having friends

@ Shy one! you're obviously not married and if you are its for all the wrong reasons

For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health til death do you part, Just saying

I'm sorry, Is it 'RIGHT'? Shes 1 year older, open your mind

Please don't let this be an issue. Life is too short.

@ poster! Show her this thread and I guarantee she will stop asking you for help.