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Civilization and independency of the female partner, that's the only logical explanation I can render in this discussion.

Okay think of it this way, if you are totally dependent on someone for your upkeep, needs, bill, and any other amenities you so wish or desire, you will prolly stay glued to that person right?

I mean even if the person offends you, you will almost forgive easily because he/she is your dependant.

But the moment you become independent and you are able to afford everything that has made you stay glued to that person, your thinking mentality changes and you begin to see things from a different angle.

Things that would have been said to you ealier that probably would have been ignored will now that getting into you and you being to take note and act back.

Because you are not relying on that person, you can make your decisions without minding the consequences....


Same way when you are married to an independent wife.

Some comments in this discussion is fueled out of hatred and jealousy for which indicates that the OP is doing well in life and other unfortunate guys, instead of keeping mute when they have no tangible thing to contribute will rather wish the OP bad and dish out wrong advice.....

Bros OP, 3 indicators you need to look out for in a lady to have certainty of a peaceful home

Make sure she loves you more than you love her

She must be very submissive and loyal.

Virgin, good mannered, not temperamental, and educated..


Bro you can adjust and groom every other aspect to your taste and perfection if you have the virtue of a patient man.

fadilaMaikiriki:
Hello all!

What's your opinion about women with multiple piercings? What do you think of that or them? Does it affect your opinion about such a woman? Will your opinion about a woman change if you notice she has more than the usualpiercings on the ear lobes? I have about 4 piercings on my ear lobes. I don't know if someone's opinion about me will change if they notice that. Or if those piercings will have any effect on how the person sees me.

People with this personality appears, wild, loose, untamed and very free.

But my opinion about you will be only when I get close to you and know who you really are and why you have decided to have multiple piercing on your ear.

Victory662:
Maybe nothing is real.
Maybe no one is actually ugly or beautiful; it all depends on our individual perception.
Have u noticed how people u initially thought to be very ugly and u even try to avoid them at all means turns out to be less or not even ugly at all when u become friends??

This might be the only reasonable and logical explanation why a pretty lady will marry an ugly guy.

Abi1985:
Money matters- it is hard to stay in love in a marriage when money no dey at all-
No one is patient at all. Small arguments and they keep a grudge and no one wants to forgive.
Secrets such as my wife cannot look at my cellphone. What are you hiding? If you are not seeing another woman then there is nothing to worry about. Are you building a house that your spouse doesn't know off?

Stingy to your spouse but very generous to your family members, friends and strangers- that marriage no fit work

No one is faithful like before.

Post like this just makes me give gratitude to God and sometimes makes me wonder if the woman I married is really from this planet.

Truly supernatural occurrence are very real and only people trying to live in self denial will argue it existence....

My experience is quite shocking though, even till this day, it was way back 2002 when I was in Uni, my late father paid me a visit in sch not knowing he had died a day ealier.

Family members could not believe when I told them I was with me father a day ealier but I was told he had died 2days ago.

It took the witness of some friends before family's could take it in. That was in OAU

Bro you need to find a polite way of telling her how uncomfortable you are packing her underwear and stuffs into your space. Infact you might even form one allergy or the other.

This advice about ladies being open to other relationships, won't end well for you female genders.... Let me simply state this, if you are not blinded by the monetary value you get in a relationship, you will certainly get a good man to wife you.

Try and attend week day services.

High chances you get serious and dedicated christian ladies there.

Ok

[quote author=okoIYAyin post=123521696][/quote]Dear comrade, under no circumstances should you be cajoled to marry this lady, trust me situations like this leads to a lot of regret and "had I know".

From what I understand by your post, you need to get up, man up, and double your hustle so as to accommodate future responsibilities...


As for her, you dint shed lights on why she thinks she is going to prison, but just assure her that despites all negativites surrounding her life at the moment, she still has reasons to thank God, so let her ignore the idea of suicide


In summary, help yourself before trying to help another.

Try to get an apartment in any of this locations, joyce' b, Fodacis, Agbowo UI, olusanya, oluyole industrial estate.

Marry your best friend this, marry your best friend that, as if best friends do not betray each other.

Simply ask for God's guidance and you should equally beware of karma. As a man, you cant frolick with people's daughter and expect to be rewarded with the best and kindest of them. Nature has a way of getting back at you.

You are absolutely right.

Congratulations on your new job. Don't forget to show your appreciation to your ex-girlfriend

chigoziri2403:
You can erase your destiny.... It doesn't stop the truth
An ashewo does transactions..... Her body..... Men's money...... So you will pretend that you don't know women also pay for sex, or you will blame the husband of the woman
Most Women are cheap articles and cost two for 30 naira

That's why they are targets of ritualism....
Men won't face their wives because if ladies don't do hookup, how will they survive, men are just helping them to eat, all these lazy dirty girls that can't even take a bath, even a deranged fellow will sleep with any woman because of money
Who goes to dubai and engage in coprophilia?

Almost the major cities have ladies lining up begging to be fuckedd for peanuts
They hawk themselves, who is the animal here?
Women are market, goods and services, that money can buy...
Why do women modify their body if not to attract multiple men.... Tell your gender to respect their selves and get busy, engage in meaningful jobs and not using their bodies to gain employment and breaking homes of their fellow women
AND LET ME REMIND YOU, WOMEN ARE THEIR OWN WORST ENEMIES

She who has ears, let her here. Wonderful submission chief

Goodlady:
You post was understood from onset. I don't need your stories & them no born you well to lash out. You ll collect am for body wotowoto!
Take your advice to your fellow men.

you are intellectual too low for me to engage, however you have been noticed.

You can rest now.

Goodlady:
You don't need this. Who did she have the past with?
Men. Who caused the evil? Men.
Delete this thread, you are disgracing yourself and your parents spent a lot schooling you.
Smh!

Hello lady, see ehn, the natural me would have lashed your with deep scolding words but on a second thought, leeme try to educate you on why I post this with this simply analogy

The more distance a car has traveled, the less it’s valued.

The more distance a driver has driven, the greater their value.

This comment is not about cars okay.

Fahvvy:
Men if you like, continue acting like fools by taking these kind of women seriously (relationship wise), you'll DEFINITELY regret it ...

With all the research out there that shows how disadvantaged it is to be with such women, y'all still have refused to learn ...

To every man his own sha ...
As for me, if she isn't a virgin, she's not worth taking seriously and is for recreational use ONLY ...

If only the SIMPle guys out there will see this priceless comment.

PerfectStranger:
I believe you're educated. Learn to speak with senses. Stop blaming men for your promiscuity.
Nobody forced anyone.

You think the society gives a fvck about male promiscuity? Dey play.

Bro i owe you 2 glasses of whatever chilled drink you want.

Her past👇👇👇

Wodu89:
Interesting. Are you xtian or Muslim?

Sha be becareful around her, so you don't later open a thread on how you mistakenly impregnated her

Goodluck

Benrash:
Two years ago since my accident where my right wrist was amputated have been indoor doing nothing and getting tired am in need of any job or anything that can keep me busy please guys🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Help will surely locate your dear bro.
Will keep you in my thoughts for any available offer. Warm regards

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biszo:
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Doe it comes with accomodation? I stay in Ib but duly qualified for the post

Victorious12:
Life in Nigeria is a hell story. I’m very depressed and sad and I don’t have any thing on me at all. I’m currently learning a car security skill that will help me, even at that transportation is another issue in lagos. The few people that I know. I called them and I couldn’t get any help. Suffering is way too much for me as the first born. Next month Akwa it two years I lost my dad. I’m very depressed and tired of life.
I’m not a begger or asking anyone for money but if you can be of help to me. I’ll really appreciate it a lot
I’m even thinking of doing yahoo if I see anyone to put me through
I’m just tired and sad


First Borns go through a lot

Your plight and help plead has been making sense while considering a geninue way to help you, until you mentioned you won't mind going into scam to hurt innocent people......

Change your thought and have a clean mindset, try and hustle legitimately with whatever you can lay your hands on. Sincerely you don't have any excuse if you have every of your body part functioning properly.

You'll be fine bros.