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The chat was going well until he/she said .....

They are still dating you because they have not seen your replacement yet.

“It’s not you, it’s me.”

Meaning, “I like you baby but right now, I need a break. I met someone else and I also like them so it’s tough for me to keep up with you both at once, so please give me a break to check out this other person. I don’t want to hurt you sha.”

OR

“I have a lot going on in my life right now and can’t keep up with a relationship. I like you but I don’t know if I want commitment. Just give me a little while to sort myself out. If you are still available, we can continue but don’t wait for me.”

Once you hear that clause, whether as a man or woman, just know that wahala have come with your relationship. So the earlier you start packing your load and going out, the better for you and your speedy emotional recovery. Otherwise, you are on your own.

Would you marry someone who has a child?

We're raising funds for pastor's birthday next Sunday, and we're speaking in tongues for a member that has kidney failure

According to your ex, what is wrong with you?

How did you find out your partner was cheating?

When you paid your girlfriend's school fees till she graduates and another man pays her dowry...
What is it called in English?

Why are men never comfortable sleeping at a woman's place?

What exactly made you stop attending church service?

Some men have been with so many many women who already had boyfriends & in serious relationships that they're now afraid of being boyfriends & commitment.

What’s the worst experience you’ve had with a roommate?

In a relationship no woman is ever a victim rather an architect to her problems. Because when it comes to relationships, men take CHANCES. They approach & can either get accepted OR rejected. Whilst women make CHOICES. They get approached & get to choose yes OR no...

That your bf/hubby is a cheater it's your CHOICE

That your baby daddy is a deadbeat it's your CHOICE

That your man is abusive, it's your CHOICE

That your man is lazy, it's your CHOICE

That your man doesn't want to marry you after all these years, it's your CHOICE

You literally had multitudes of guys approaching you & you turned them all down for that one. That was your choice, you chose that man, on your own. Stop complaining to us about your choices, be accountable & stop this victimhood!

Apologize to your partner without saying sorry.

Let's see the experts here.

1. Are you single or currently in a relationship?

2. Can you ever forgive your partner if they cheat?

3. How many people have you said "I love you" to without actually meaning it?

4. Would you allow your partner to go on a friendship date with another guy or girl?

5. What are your biggest fears about your relationship?

6. Are you happy with the amount of time you and your partner spend together?

7. Would you lie just to make your partner happy?

8. Would you compromise your happiness for the sake of the relationship?

9. What is the most annoying thing your your partner have ever done?

10. What was the best moment in your relationship so far?

11. What is that one thing you want you partner to improve on?

12. Which do you prefer as your first child and why? "BOY" or "GIRL"

13. Do you prefer your relationship to be known all over social media or just a low-key one?

14. Do you think your partner can be your lover and your best friend?

15. Would you keep your past relationships secrets away from your new partner?

16. How many kids do you want?

17. Can you and your partner share the same finance account?

18. How do you want to spend your special day with your partner?

19. Where did you and your partner meet?

20. You and your partner are spending the day outdoors, where would you prefer to go?

21. Would you rather be proposed to in private or in front of family and friends?

22. Do you think you and your partner would make a good parent?

23. Would you forgive your partner if they cheat on you but told you immediately because of the guilt?

24. How important do you think sex is in your relationship?

25. Can cheating be justified in a relationship?

I finally met her today, may God destroy Snapchat

you cheat with someone’s girlfriend but you trust your own

Are you sure, you’re in a serious relationship or you’re the one serious in the relationship?

Men are PROVIDERS

Providers to their FAMILIES (wife, kids, parents)

Not GIRLFRIENDS

Anything he does for a girlfriend is at his own liking not a MUST

He is your boyfriend not your husband!!!

It is OVER between us, reply as someone who doesn't care

without naming where you’re from what is something your city/state is known for?

If you don’t like a man, don’t like his money.

No matter how good you treat a woman, if you aren't the man who she has feelings for, she'll never appreciate your efforts. Women are loyal to their feelings, they don't care about sacrifices...

If you're not the guy who makes her feel things then the reason she's with you is sinister. It's not genuine desire, it's either she's playing nice because she needs something (provision) from you or she has no other options other than you...

And the day she gets a chance to be with a man who really makes her feel things, she'll definitely cheat or dump you, regardless of all the sacrifices you've done for her. To top it off she'll justify her actions because of her feelings.

What tribe did ur parent warned you not to marry from?

When you hear a woman say “I built him” she means she had sex with him and bought him one singlet and boxers

Don't be fooled by those urgent 2k's, These women have money!!!

If only people will leave sex, cheating and money to focus on important things during courting, we won't have people in miserable marriages or high rate of divorce.

Anger management, personalities, addictions, abuse, level of mutual understanding, friendship, goals, genotype, differences, family background and histories are very very underrated in relationships these day.

Sex, money, birthday, hanging out, cruise, sexchat, cooking and gifts are the only things existing in 99.742% of relationships in Nigeria.

The same way a lady wouldn't date/marry a jobless man so a man shouldn't date/marry a jobless woman.... is in this country a lady will feel she has a right not to work/ be jobless.

Stop crediting other people’s girlfriend help a guy man today

Don't ever think you can win a lady's heart by giving her money because a woman's heart is very intrinsic and she can give it to any man she desires even if she does not get a dime from the man.

And if you must give a lady money, please don't try to impress but give her only what you can afford because MOST ladies are wired to appreciate a monetary gift from a man not according to what a man can afford or the level of the sacrifice he makes but rather they compare what you give them with what another man can give or worse still what their friends get from their men.

Simply put... MOST ladies will see a gift of 75k from a guy who has only 150k in savings as nothing when they get 1M from a billionaire not minding the fact that the former sacrificed 50% of his life savings whilst the latter probably gave 0.00001% of his monetary worth..

This is why during heated argument when a man tries to remind a lady of the financial sacrifices he made for her, she usually responds by saying "what have you done that another man can't do" or worse still "how much did you give me compared to what men are giving their women out there"

Please guys, no go dey do pass yourself..

Who else noticed that after 23, girls’ age pause for at least 5 years? After 23, every year “I’m 23 years old.”

Do you think starting a relationship in 100L is a good or bad idea?