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What’s that one misconception people have about you?

Without blaming your ex... what should you have done different in your last relationship?

A guy with two girlfriends is called a PLAYER, so what is a girl with two boyfriends called?

If you had an opportunity of settling in one of these cites with a paying job of 300k monthly, which would you go for?

LAGOS or ABUJA

Asides sex, what else can you offer in a relationship?

What's the first thing you look out for before choosing a partner?

Learn, women's modus operandi is WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR ME LATELY. You could literally save her from a burning house & tommorow she'll have an issue with you for not saving her burning house. Your sacrifices mean nothing to a woman!!!

A man finds a woman who is below him & he builds her up. He invests in her & teaches her everything he knows to be his "equal". Love is the motivation behind all this. And when she finally gets there she's no longer looking up to him...

She no longer admires & respect him because in her eyes she is below him & feels she can do better. Because to a woman either you're above her or beneath her, not her equal. This is why it's highly adviced never to send a woman to school with your money...

Next thing she's telling you about being a sapiosexual, how much she's attracted to someone more intelligent than her. Imagine someone you taught everything now thinking she's more intelligent than you. The pain...

Or she starts comparing you to her work colleagues, about how much they're so ambitious. If it wasn't for you she'd never had that degree that got her the job. This is the point when she starts dedicating more time to her job than you. Next thing you know, 3 months no sex...

That business you built for her, she has her siblings as her next of kin. The business you invested your hard earned money, if anything is to happen to her, her family benefits, you don't. Wealth transfer 101. Waking up to the harsh reality, she never viewed you as her family...

Lesson is if her parents failled to uplift her it should not be your responsibility it's her parents responsibility. Yes, be very much selfish, only put your interests first. You don't owe her what her parents failed her. Or else you'll regret

Firstly, Never pay a woman’s school fees. Unless she is your wife, never pay for a woman's education. I’ve seen people send their woman to school only for her to meet her soulmate in school.

Secondly, Never disrespect your family or friends for any woman. A woman can leave you at any point, most especially dark times, but your family and friends will always be there for you. Most especially family, Family is irreplaceable. Don’t play yourself Kings.

Thirdly, Never buy a car or house for a woman when you don’t own one. You should always put yourself first before anyone, not just women. It’s not selfishness, you should always come first kings. If you’re buying one to impress her when you don’t have, that’s stupidity. Wake up!!

Fourthly, Never be too nice to any woman, they don’t like that shitt. Women love bad guys, and being too nice will only get you played, not laid.

Fifthly, Never commit crimes to meet a woman’s need. Stealing, fraud just to provide for and impress a woman? That’s a no-go area kings.

Bonus: Never commit suicide because of a woman. There’s over 3 billion women in the world. If one stress you, run and move to the next. You deserve better kings.

Again, reading of another young man who committed suicide after a girl cheated/dumped him. This is what happens when a man LOVES a woman instead of UNDERSTANDING her. Many young men continue losing lives because they have been sold the lie that is love & bought it....

The fairytale of forever & ever. Many men believe it when the woman they're with says "i love you", yeah she may mean it BUT here's the catch, for NOW. Women are emotional beings, whatever they say or feel is in the NOW not forever...

Yes, that girl you're planning to build your happily forever after, can & will leave you, as her options expand. It won't matter how long you've been together OR how much you've sacrificed for her. Women just don't care, they're only loyal to their emotions...

Understand these 3 pillars that define women:

1. Hypergamy - she'll always seek the highest value male to mate with
2. Briffault's Law - if you've no money/fame to offer she doesn't even know you exist
3. Solipsism - nothing else matters to her except her own decisions & desires

Examples:

Hypergamy - she's always seeking your replacement, that's why it's always easier for women to move on after a breakup. Probably coz she had your replacement sorted out way back. You never catch a woman cheating you just catch her transitioning into her new relationship

You're not the only guy your woman is interacting with. She's even giving out her number. Every action of hers, is to get the attention of other males with the hope that someone "better" than you introduces himself...

Yes, those uploads on IG, she's marketing herself, if the right bid comes, she's gone. Yes that make up on fleek & body hugging dress as she goes into town, she's hoping she catches someone's eye. And it's no fault of their own, it's just their nature...

Briffault's Law - there's the saying, a rich man can change a broke woman's life. But a rich woman won't even look a broke man's way. That's just their nature, she'll gravitate towards the guy that has money or fame as it fulfills her desires of comfort & status...

So best believe it, at most if a dude who's more financially stable than you approaches her, 9/10 she'll bite. They're creatures of comfort, their "love" can easily be bought with trinkets. Deep rooted in materialism, she'll choose the one who stands to give her the most...

At most, if a dude who's popular or famous approaches her, 9/10 she'll bite. It's their innate desire to be associated with men of status. Women are so mesmerized with status, a man is simply a means to attain status in society...

You see this clearly with celebrities, a woman may not even love the said celebrity in question, but she'll still Bleep him, just so she can say I bleeped him too. They are like kids, they want the toy everyone wants...

Solipsism - this is a point past narcissism. She doesn't care how much you’re sacrificing for her. The only thing that matters to her is how you make her feel. She's only occupied by their own feelings....

Meaning, if another guys pops up & is able to make her feel, she'll cheat or dump you. And guess what it won't matter how much you've sacrificed for her, all that matters to her is her feelings. How many times you've heard a man say "after all I did for her", she don't care bro

Now, since women are guided by these 3 pillars, does it mean they're incapable of "loving" one man. No. They can develop strong feelings for a man if they become emotionally attached to him (pairbonded) which is why virgins are the prime choice to pick...

As harsh as it is, that's just women nature, every man needs to understand this. There's absolutely no reason for any man to be crying or killing himself over a woman. Start seeing women for what they truly are & stop buying into fantasies...

Don't attach your happiness to women, it'll make you needy, clingy & desperate. And desperate men are mentally unstable, it always ends in disaster, either he ends up in hospital, jail or a body bag. All because he made pussy the centre of his life...

Free yourself bro, there's more to life than women. Accept that it's over. Rebuild yourself for yourself. Let her go & continue working on your dreams. And guess what, once healed, naturally better women will come. But first you have to accept it is what it is!!?

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Without Blaming Your Ex…… What Should You Have Done Better In Your Last Relationship?

Person open shop for you, you go marry customer

What is that one thing your first relationship taught you?

Real talk guys, At what age will you get serious in a relationship that will lead to marriage?

Ladies, do you wear pant in your jeans ?

What's the biggest lesson relationship has taught you?

What are you slowly losing interest in ?

The boyfriend /girlfriend you thanked in your project acknowledgement, how far, una still dey?

It should never get to a point where you're threatening another man to leave your girl alone

It is your chick who entertained him

Accept that she was never yours, just your turn

If you don't have the strength to walk away then be prepared to be walked on

It should never get to a point where you're threatening another man to leave your girl alone

It is your chick who entertained him

Accept that she was never yours, just your turn

If you don't have the strength to walk away then be prepared to be walked on
If you start suspecting she's cheating

The relationship is long over before it even gets to the point of "breakup"

Don't let it stretch this far

At this point any respect she had for you is completely gone

Don't try to save spilled milk

Stop making your life a living hell because you're trapped in a scarcity mindset & too scared to leave her

Be a man

Do what needs to be done

Don't allow a bit€h to depress you!!!

WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER DATE A BROKE GIRL

With no doubt, dating a broke girl comes with risks that no man wants to take and in most cases, men will end up committing themselves in such relationships because of love and get played at the end.

Endless demands of a broke girl will definitely skyrocket your expenses no matter how hard you may try to avoid it because you want to make her happy, but how for long can you hold on? It has been proven that in most instances broke girls are all about your money & no other thing

Firstly, broke girl just want to take from you til you have no more and become broke like them. They will always expect everything from you but will never sacrifice anything for you. You deserve better kings, never settle for this.

Secondly, broke girls are ungrateful. And this is because they don’t know how difficult it is to make money. You’ll spend your hard earned money on most of these girls, and they will end up ditching you for another guy who has the money to spend. Do not settle for this kings.

Thirdly, broke girls will embarrass you. Imagine going to the mall to get things and your card fails, lmaooo I’m sure you don’t wanna experience that.

Fourthly, broke girls never have airtime and transport fare. Even if she has airtime, she’d rather flash you than call. So you responsible for her monthly data, you only see her when you send her transport fare too. Kings, you deserve better, never settle for this type of women.

Fifthly, broke girls don’t have money to spend on you. So you want to date a babe that can’t spoil you? Lmaooo Tragic!

Sixthly, broke girls give the worst birthday gifts; on her birthday, she be expecting you to get her the latest iPhone, fly her out of the country but when it’s your turn, You either getting nothing or you get boxers & Pringles. Aren’t you tired of these N480 gifts?

Lastly, she won’t date you if you were broke, don’t play yourself kings. Their love isn’t genuine, it’s only money influenced.

You deserve better kings. You aren’t responsible for no woman’s finances. She has two run-to options; her father or she go get a job, not you. No matter how beautiful, light-skinned or thick they are, never date a broke girl, You deserve better.

If a man proposes to a lady and she says No, is the relationship over?

When did you realize he/she isn’t the one?