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Evergreeen123: Chimamanda ngozi adichie is an efulefu. Why must she critisize president goodluck ebele azikiwe jonathan? It seems she is an APC member. Ewu awusa

People like you are evil and a curse to Nigeria. When will you and your ilk desist from sycophancy? Mgbeke!

She doesn't have the look for miss world, sorry.

On what grounds or biblical scriptures did she use to change her outlook? Compile them and let's discuss it here. Many Christian women are very very gullible and swallow every darn thing their pastors tell them.

We only feel pity for you, not jealousy. Nobody wants to be a black american female, sorry. And try to grow out of narrowing issues to skin color or race every time, it makes your people reek of low self esteem. You lot are a prime example why no one should be uprooted from their culture. Nobody wants to be you, sorry.

'Patriotic' Nigerians would soon come here to insult you. For Nigeria to be great again you have to eliminate the patriotic Nigerians. Yes I said it.

My definition of a patriotic Nigerian
He lives in a bubble.
He is anti public and private angst towards the government.
He pretends to seek for solution instead of admitting he hates criticisms with passion.
He forgets that his job as a member of the biggest arm of government which is 'the people' is to demand that his government is accountable to him and it is not his job to provide solutions. What then is the essence of electing officials if the people have to provide solutions?

I believe these sets of Nigerians need to be taken off the face of the earth! There is absolutely no need having any conversation with these lots. They are a hindrance to the progress of Nigeria.

thorpido: When u make comments like this,learn not to generalise.You can say,'the Nigerian men I have dated' or 'the Nigerian men I have met'.
I am a Nigerian man.

You want us to take a poll?

Lovely! The recurring theme from the ladies is finding a man who understands them. I would have to add There is nothing like having someone who was brought up to see women as equal human beings. be assured of an adult relationship. This should be encouraged! Wish you all more years in your marriage!

aisha2: I wonder about this always. The "Real African Woman" Picture or " Sweet Mother" is usually one who is carrying plenty fire wood and backing a child with and carrying another belle. Put up a picture like that you would see comments of "awwww, wow, sweet mother, God bless her" God forbid that the picture of a woman be one who is accomplished, smiling and enjoying a spa day, a lot of people would have a heart attack and comments like " Lazy Fake modern day women" forget the fact that she may earn a million a day, employ thousands of people, have a successful respectful marriage and raise kick ar-se kids, as long as she is not pictured suffering she is not a "sweet mother"

Obviously living up to the song;

Sweet mother, I no go forget you
For this suffer wey you suffer for me...lol

I was thinking about this the other day. He definitely should! He did it with Enyimba, he can do it again.

Without adding ethics/morals to the topic, I absolutely agree. If a man doesn't want the child and she does, she should solely take care of the child. There certainly are outliers and all cases may not carry equal weight like a married couple or teenagers, but a grown woman must be held accountable for her actions. I believe stricter measures should be employed in issues like this, so that women would be more selective in their choice of bed mates.

Nigerian men are not satisfied or happy in their marriages until the woman suffers, struggles and literally dies in her struggles. A woman must go through the above to garner praises from them. There is a sadistic lust for dejection and abject poverty in their psyche. Tufiakwa!