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pweetyz: ..UHMM..hi..i don't think this calls for the use of ill words okay..you should never call another human cursed especially someone you do not know in any way..it is simply barbaric and uncalled for..i spoke strictly on the bible and quoted the verses so you can go read it yourself..maybe u're not a christian cos if you are then you would know that the bible cannot lie..i disn't personalise it cos it wasn't personalised in the bible

Lol, why do you take offense? I'm only reiterating the bible and giving you some background on the original reason every Christian woman should know. As a Christian you should know that the woman was cursed to live in subordination to the man. The Christian woman like yourself exercises the curse that was dealt to her at the garden of Eden. So my dear, if you don't know, now you do.

My second question was
Since you allude to the superiority of the man, what does that make you? Is it not inferior?

pweetyz: Well..i'm in support of emma's speech but the truth is that females can never be equal to the males,because we were created to be under them..and i'll prove this from the bible

in the book of proverbs 31:10-31..it is written that silence and humility should be the virtues that a woman possesses..it states that women are not to have authority over men as Adam was created first and as it was eve who was deceived and who broke Gods law...please read it up for a better understanding
in 1st corinthians 11..here God makes known man's superiority over the woman..he states that a woman reflects the glory of man..and that women where created from men and not men from women..also read up yourself
in 1st peter 3:1..the bible tells us that women are to be submissive to men and that they are also the weaker vessels..also read up

we also see what the bible states in our every day activities..in sports,the lighter javelin,discuss and shot put is given to them..they are also given lighter weights to lift whike working out and the best male in a field of sport is always better than the best female..and hefty activities are also reserved for the male sex

i don't really know much about feminist but i know what they fight for and also want them to know that according to the words of the bible and the nature of females..THERE CAN NEVER BE EQUALITY OF THE SEXES as God has placed the males above the females in every endeavour in life..
this however does not imply that women cannot excel exceedingly in their respective careers..
i am opposed to the unequal pay rate though..because it is injustice which God opposes as everyone should get what they duly deserve..if a woman should work as hard as a man does or even better..why not an equal pay or even higher
the male sex tends to take advantage of the females vulnerable nature which is just so wrong as the bible advises that men treat women with care because of their vulnerabilty
thank you

Hehehe, Next time kindly speak for yourself. If you were created to be under a man, that's fine. Just learn how to personalize your speech with the use of I.


And no, Eve was not created to be under a man. It was as a result of sin which led to curses this issue came about. You are actually under a curse. There's no need for the long epistle to curry favor the fact that you as a woman are under a curse.

So if you allude to the man's superiority, does that mean you are inferior?

Lol this is from the movie 'I think I love my wife'.

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Norah Jones!

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Sophyrocks: This just reminds me of way back secondary school. my physics teacher asked me to point an aparatus in the lab. so i had to leave my seat and walk to the front of the class to point it out. when he saw i got it right, i turned around and was walking back to my seat when suddenly i heard loud screams from the girls in class. I was like "What the heck is going on"? They were all laughing and screaming. Some girls told me that when i turned around and was catwalking back to my seat, our physics teacher actually was checking me out and licking his lips. Gosh!!! I was so embaraassed!! Since then, our physics teacher started becoming unnecessaarily strict with me.
Good ol days!

Ewwww!

To think Northerners have been at the helm of affairs in Nigeria since I was born.
You are taking up arms to kill the Nigerian people that are suffering like you? You are not serious.
You say you took up arms to fight for better lives? So bombing innocent people at motor parks who have chosen to make lemonade out of the diseased lemons Nigeria throws at them is what you call fighting to better your life?
You say Zamfara...now that sounds familiar. Is that not the state that introduced Sharia into secular Nigeria? So you guys were suffering and Senator Yerima who was then governor was more interested in preserving a borrowed religion than your well being? You people are still not serious.
Your way of life is tied around a few being stupendously wealthy and the majority of the populace being subjected to stupendous poverty. In fact you are very very comfortable with this dynamic. This was the method your people used to rule and finish off Nigeria. And it ended up killing off the middle class. The middle class in the South ran away to other countries, that some have not been back in decades. However, Northern students that school abroad, never ever stay back, they go back to Nigeria because a lucrative job is waiting for them by a principality and powerful relative in Nigeria who is holding the country to ransom.

Please ring me up when you are done licking the bum bum of your leaders. When are you going to pelt eggs on Senator Yerima, his predecessors and successors for allowing your state to be in such deplorable conditions? Why can't you hold your governors to ransom instead of the whole country? Naa, according to the intelligence of the average Northerner, the unholy South is to blame, rubbish!

I will judge every damn nigerian, rich or poor. All have contributed to the rot called Nigeria.

Sophyrocks: I am soooooo glad i am from planet jupiter!! Yipeeee.... I love my singlehood and i am soooo enjoying it to the fullest like you have no idea mehn. I am a positive minded person regardlless of circumstances and i do not give a damn about what the society thinks about my status since they do not care if i am hungry or broke!! That is why i find this thread depressing and Odd. I guess this thread is for the 'Marry by fire by force' crew. So amma do a micheal jackson Moonwalk outta this thread. Remember ladies, Happiness is within you and not from anyone else. Whatever energy you exude to men out there is what will either attract them or chase them away. Exude positive energy and not desperation. Have fun in your misery! #Moonwalks out of thread#

Couldn't have said it any better.
They are the ones that will turn every church youth meeting to a marriage discussion center.
I just cannot relate.

You people might not get my taste o.

Fally Ipupa -Nourrisson.

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Chillisauce: Na scrotum Nigerian men dey win award. no one competes with them. One even confessed about his 85lb scrotum.

big scrotum with small and medium kini.

Buhahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Scrotum ke? What can a woman use that one to do? To clean her face or what?

Nigerian men can never complain of this problem, lol. Where's Coogar and his 5.999 schlong? Lol.

Lolllllllllll, most of the people that bear these names are catholic.
Boniface gets me any day any time.

I don't think it will take some westernized pressure to prevent me from using a blade to draw lines on my face though.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ichi_(scarification)

Ichi was facial ritual scarification worn by mainly men of the Igbo people of Nigeria. The scarification indicated that the wearer had passed through initial initiation into the highest society Nze na Ozo.,[2] thus marking the wearer as nobility. The scarification was found among men in the Awka-Nri areas and among a few women in the Awgwu and Nkanu areas. There are two styles; the Nri style worn in the Awka-Nri areas, and the Agbaja style worn in the Awgwu and Nkanu areas.[3] In the Nri style, the carved line ran from the center of the forehead down to the chin. A second line ran across the face, from the right cheek to the left. This was repeated to obtain a pattern meant to imitate the rays of the sun. In the Agbaja style, circles and semicircular patterns are added to the initial incisions to represent the moon. These scarifications were given to the representatives of the eze Nri; the mbùríchi.[4] The scarifications were Nris' way of honoring the sun that they worshipped and was a form of ritual purification.[5]

samflexxy: Bro to be honest I don't no how to construct even the easiest sentence I only know bia-come mili-water afor-market

Lol. Me too I'm in the same boat. I think bigfrancis can start by writing verbs.

sheniqua: Na beans we go cook?

Lollllllllllllllllllllll.

coogar: all my life, i have been used to good clothes, expensive meals, smart flats, sports cars & elegant women. i can't give that all up cos i am married to you & you want me to be the house-husband. i am high maintenance. designer outfits look better on me than "sura the tailor" products.

my cheapest pair is about £500.
you would have to maintain my lifestyle or else we might have a problem. taking care of the kids & the house is no problem. if you can't afford househelps, go to your village & bring maidens who want the lagos exposure.....men did that in the past too, they brought long distant relatives to help the wives out.

Lol. You have to live by my rules otherwise I will send your Ghana must go back to your parents house. what a naughty husband.

coogar: why weren't the husbands interviewed? when women were predominantly housewives, it was their moaning we heard. now that nigerian men are becoming househusbands, the interview should have involved them too....after all, they are the ones likely to be abused as they have no income to fall back on.......



then stop moaning!
take the reins of the marriage and take whatever bumps & grind that come with being the head. men were heads even when they had irresponsible wives who just sat down all day, ate like pigs & farted all over the settee.

the men never moaned, they took solace in the fact that at least, the kids are being taken care of. women should do the same as well - work hard like trojan horses and be contented with the fact that your hubby is taking care of the home front. he's a man & he's more likely to eat more so you as a proud woman must work harder to be able to afford his needs.

his gucci watches, creed cologne, ferragamo shoes and his SUV must be refreshed bi-annually. register him in a decent gym so that his performance in the bedroom is kept at the optimum level. that was how men took care of the needs of their wives in the past, women should borrow a leaf and stop being a crybaby.


by the time you spend 80% of your salary on my pair of shoes alone, na you go kpeme.

I don't moan, I take charge.
And you would have to give me a detailed analysis on why you need to spend 80% of my money on shoes. This even affirms why I need to take up the role as head for thinking of spending 80% of my money on shoes. The madam and head that I am would veto any unnecessary expenses.

MrIknowAll: LOL. Yu are very funny...... My mom is more of my friend... Just a phone call from my dad go make me start 2 dey judge myself...

Lol. Guys are cool with their mum. Girls their dads . I think each parent hold their own gender to a higher standard.

hjr2014: You shall all die single! #karma

Rotflmao!!!!!!!!

coogar: the struggle is real!

getting a responsible husband in nigeria is more difficult than entering the kingdom of heaven.

Hahaha if I say it, naija men go dey vex.
No more godly men in naija o.

coogar: how come men don't cry out that they slave to feed their housewives. must women moan over everything? when women were asked to sit at home so men would bring the bacon - they screamed out that they are being marginalised or discriminated against.

now men are taking the backseat so that women can do what they have always wanted to do & yet they are still screaming that they are slaving to feed their husbands. which is which? feminism fought for 50 years to put women in this position, it would be heartbreaking if women are still not satisfied.

A journalist gathered information on Nigerian househusbands that still think in their minds they are the head, and the women spoke truthfully and you say they are moaning?
As a proud woman, I have absolutely no problems if you wish to take the backseat, just know that the roles have been reversed if you show any sign of irresponsibility. I will not be put to ruin because I married. I will take the reins of the marriage, place you on a monthly allowance. If your ego can't take it, you better go and make another woman's life a living misery. nobody should be made redundant when you are not handicapped.

crackhaus: @emboldened, that is where most women in this situation get it completely wrong...which in turn is directly responsible for why a man married to one of such women begins to rebel and do things his wife may see as unappreciation.

How does being a househusband relinquish a man of his position as head of the household?
Is being the head of the house dependent solely on who brings the money/most money?

You are beginning to defy logic.
It's not about money. Do the men in these scenarios look or sound responsible? With cheating tales and violent streaks. Have they not relinquished the rights to be called heads? Does a head spend money fruitlessly and aimlessly? Can you say The decisions the men in the stories make are in the best interest of the family? It is a marriage. When the head has faltered in his responsibilities the wife must take up the position of the head to set the family straight. Place the man on a monthly allowance and he has to be useful on the home front. If your ego is too big, bigger that mountain Everest, use that ego to make yourself worthwhile again. I don't even have patience for women who leech on their husbands. The economy is hard, every damn person must make themselves useful!!!! If you ego is too big, you should never ever have gotten married. Marriage is about sacrifices, you must learn to sacrifice your ego and take a position if you are incapable of meeting up!

Mondisweets: At first i thought this thread was silly, until i remembered how a lot of dark skinned guys called sexkillz albino monkey because he is quite light skinned

That's true. I thought the thread was silly, but after a little introspection, I realized all the angry black men on Youtube are dark skinned, lollllll.

My parents were certainly overprotective, but who can blame them. Nigeria is morally corrupt. I used to complain and deep down I still dislike that overprotective quality to them, but they've managed to give birth to responsible citizens of the world. So I guess they did something right. My siblings and I have the tightest bond on earth that I don't even keep friends outside my sisters. I don't have the emotional willpower to extend to strangers.

Wow, is your dad a terrorist?

The roles have really not been defined in these households. The man still thinks he's the head. The man must willingly accept his role as a househusband and the wife as the head of the household. The head of the household has to be firm on how money should be spent. The woman should not complain if the husband takes care of the home, the kids, cooks, and makes the house presentable. If you lose your job, kindly make yourself useful on the home front. That is why it takes two to make a marriage. When one falls, the roles can be reversed.

jennykadry: This is a thread to further depress single women. So it's useless.

Lol, instead of them to relax and enjoy life, they wanna moan. How can one love misery this much? If I should stay on topic, they will regret it instead for real.

coogar: we are talking about eligible men here not riff-raffs. if men are so many, why do you have all those old hag sisters in church with chapped lips and black berets?
those sisters that have fasted & prayed for 200 days consecutively, yet no groom....no marriage proposal. there's hardly nigerian man that is well to do that doesn't have up to 8 girlfriends. biko, the women are the leftovers, not the men.
jenny, be warned!!
congolese men have nothing on naija men. the stereotypical naija men didn't take part in that research. i am sure they stopped at calabar to measure those short men near obudu ranch.

Those old hags were not smart that was why I gave my epistle on church girls 2 pages ago.
Nigerian pastors have made heaven a priority for only women. Men are held on a different standard.

Abeg Watch this...See how Naija pastors have deceived women that marriage is the be all and end all.

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Sagamite:
Kanye and Jay Z are not ugly. If you want to see ugly, just go to Muritala Muhammed International Airport and watch nigerian men pass by. Kanye and Jay Z meet a minimum threshold for most women.

For once Sagamite speaks a FACT. ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

rofemiguwa: When did this thread start evaluating size
Jenny pls park ur bus to anoda thread na
Don't frustrate the op fault
Ur mama lastborn neva insult u bcz sey u no wear ring that is why u think this thread is about complex issue.
Pls cogar, sirs and madams kindly evacuate this thread
Let us share our stories
Opening thread is free, kindly open anoda one for nigerian men versus congo men the measure all the sizes u want there.
Thank you and God bless you as u leave
AmEn

I will not leave.

Kentnickole: Chai... You just insulted me. How could you conclude that there are no godly men left in Nigeria...

Aww, sorry, oya take handkerchief and wipe your tears.

coogar: congolese men don't like nigerian men - we are a big threat to them. their women prefer us nigerians out here. trust me, african chics run after naija men, that's why there's scarcity of husbands in nigeria.

How can there be scarcity of men in Nigeria? Nigerian men outnumber Nigerian women by more than a million. Everywhere you turn in Nigeria are men, men, mennnnnnnnnnn. It is beyond threatening. Fear dey always catch me those days walking on the streets. I can pull like 10 men on a bad day, let alone on a good day. There is no single girl in Nigeria that does not have a minimum of two Naija men toasting her. In Nigeria, men can never finish.

coogar: na lie abeg.....
naija men didn't take part in the research, my brothers in the north consider such haram.
as for jenny, i am lost for words with the picture you saw. meanwhile, we are talking face, how did you guys turn it into something else? why didn't you girls marry congolese men? naija men are attractive facially & appealing down under - how do you want it? the best of both worlds.

Lol, why are you always calling the north? You nko? You must be from the part of Nigeria that took part in the research, lol. So Coogar you are just a 6? Chineke God of Nazareth!

jennykadry: LMAO. I swear I almost spilled my coffee. If they sent you abeg tell them you did not see me on my oncall night. That penis map plus sizes cracked me up real good.

Don't mind our Naija brothers. Instead of them to accept defeat, they are busy going gra gra. During my uni days a friend of mine was dating this congolese guy, me I was a die hard Nigerian fan. We argued so tey I gave up..she was rooting for congolese me I was rooting for Naija.

So the d day came when she decided to prove me wrong. She took a picture of the black anaconda and showed me . For one week straight I forgot my first and last name. I am still suffering from the post traumatic stress disorder caused by that picture.
Now I know what these soldiers go through when they suffer from PTSD

Lolllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hanhan, Naija guys too get mouth and e no correspond to the thing wey as an Igbo girl e go make me shout 'Dimkpa" (abi how dem dey spell am). Thank God for the internet I for don go disgrace myself outside dey defend them. Chaii!

coogar: blame that on the angle of the camera.

Lol, you can't even debate it.