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naijaboiy:
I also wonder how those parents feel when they see their daughters dancing almost nakèd in videos

Lol, me too.

Yes they are weak. They would rather talk about black women's hair, lol. That is the only place they have power. How to fight and insult black women, lol. What other race on earth is more interested in female vanity than black men?

Lol, he's a true son of his ancestors. Polygamy revised in America.

carefreewannabe:
Though I feel for women in such situations, I really can't stop laughing now. My belle oooo

Lol.

Power is intoxicating. That is why there are checks and balances in every sane establishment to avoid tyranny, despotism and dictatorship. Now the question is who checks patriarchy? And how can the so called 'subjects' under the auspices of patriarchy be protected? Are the subjects eternally doomed to the whims and caprices of the 'leader' in a system that has proven many a time without reasonable doubt to have been intoxicated with power, by controlling and dehumanizing the sensibilities of what constitutes a major and very important half of the human race? What rights do these 'subjects' have? Are these rights set in stone, in law- signed and dotted in countries like Nigeria that is being ruled by men and being destroyed by men (I have to add)? No human being should be trusted with power, so there's an absolute need for a check and balance system to protect the rights of the so called 'subjects' in this system of governance called Patriarchy.

Feminism checks this. Just as congress does not give Obama rest, so will feminism. Womanhood must be protected at all cost in a patriarchal system!

Long live feminism! Viva Feminism!

carefreewannabe:
Lack of employment prospects maybe?

The inability to take care of themselves?

The false belief that they will live happily ever after?

I am wondering.

Reminds me of this clip.

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TV01:
Someone, anyone - I'm interested, why is that when a woman does something wrong the stock responses are

1. It's societies fault for pressuring her or;
2. She must be mad/deranged/psychotic/bi-polar/provoked beyond measure.

But responsibility is never in view? And it's always women, usually avowed feminists? Willing to denigrate other women or throw them to the wolves, rather that to take the responsibility that's twinned with the equality they supposedly demand?

Kindly let me know if there are any "policies" in force that prevent a response to this question!


TV

It seems you just want to talk for the sake of being a talkative. How on earth did you arrive at the conclusion that I have excluded responsibility from this woman? Should I have spelt it out like this for laymen to understand... that the woman who couldn't see reason with her husband is to be blamed and should take responsibility for her actions? I believe my previous words were succinct enough to encompass all angles you can ever ever think of.

And yes there are various policies in force that prevent a response to good, trivial and NONSENSE questions because Nairaland is not that deep for me. These policies have helped me in not getting caught in useless unending arguments and e-battles that for some of you may be the highlights of your day . When I'm no more interested, I apologize in advance, but I'm no more interested. This is not a place to prove any iota of my intellect, I have enough of that in real life dealing with geniuses who are certainly not of NL calibre.

I have never understood the desperation for marriage. Are these women that do things like this so ugly or what that makes it difficult for them to get a man? Ordinary Nigerian men for that matter?

Submission ko, sobolation ni. This has nothing to do with submission abeg but the mental IQ of the wife. The woman must be a person of low mental assimilation to not have weighed the consequences and detected the rationale behind her partner informing her of the risks and endangerment she places herself. When they tell you people to marry intelligent wives, una no go gree.

I'm in support of the husband

aisha2: That's the problem with our version of Christianity, everyone becomes inferior to the GO or " Daddy in the Lords" commands. They can jump, lie down kneel down and risk their lives for Go but for their own families they can deny. You will hear someone deny his mother, leave their spouse because their pastor said so. She is a silly woman, I can imagine the arguments they must have had, he would have raised the issue of risk and she will say its not her portion and accuse him of trying to break her faith who says faith is in any building? We rush to church every Sunday yet during the week days you can identify us by fruits of the spirit.
The food they won't cook for their husbands and family they will cook for pastors and priests,women change
Where is the church now in all these? Why are the parents the ones paying her hospital bill? Since attending one church is more important than the safety of her family then let her face it.
I don't blame the man, I have had this discussion with brain washed Christians so much to put myself in his shoes.
I pray she walks again but the man raised his objections she chose to damn them and face the consequence, you can't blame him for also making his own decision now.
May the baby's soul find peace with the Lord.

You have said it all!
When ignorance and illiteracy is mixed with religion, oh dear run for your life from such persons.

Mondisweets: This is one thing i will never get about nairaland... Please show me where its written that feminists don't want to get marriage and have children. U simply go on to misinterpret very simple things, they want equality and a balance between genders, its not about hating and fighting men! Simple things u will never understand.

You know I used to think men don't like marriage or prefer not to get married. Apparently they did but were pretending all along and made it look as if only women wanted it.

The fear of the RISE AND RISE of feminists is the beginning of wisdom, rotflmao!!!!

Chillisauce: Im the neck and you are the head.The most popular quote in this website. of what use is the neck when the head is cut off.

Dont mind them. As far as im concerned 90% of Nigerian women are lesser beings. So OP knows his audience.


Oya o, im the neck crew come and defend your stand.

Is it only the neck crew? What about the assistant captain and co-pilot crew? The 'I stoop to conquer' crew nko?
They should come and defend how inferior they are to men.

coogar: why is it derogatory?
human beings are funny. nick clegg would smile if you address him as the deputy prime minister but the moment you say he's inferior to the prime minister, then he would frown.
call a spade a spade, if you are a vice, deputy, assistant, etc then you are inferior to the oga @ the top. when women say they are the neck, then they are saying it in another way that they are inferior to the head.
the OP is 100% correct regardless of his verbiage.

This is why I like coogar. Calling a spade a spade and not a farming tool!
Please say it loud and clearrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Africa boasts of stark illiterate elites that are not visionaries. The remaining population entrenched in mass poverty perpetuate the recycling of these less than visionary elites.

If he has a perfect character, a lucrative advanced degree in exceptional science only courses , and I'm already rich, hell yeah, I'd marry him.

nature or put more explicitly,God,made them to be controlled by men...you don't control things above you...u control things that are LESS than u....and that in fact means that man is a lesser being compared to God

Buhahaha...I would like to hear what women who don't believe in gender equality feel about this.

OP ride on!

Because women easily allude to the superiority of men but get angry when you call them lesser/inferior beings.
I have had conversations with women that are against gender equality, that feel they are not equal to men, but want to beat me up when I tell them they inadvertently allude to their own inferiority with such outlook in life. Now a man has the effrontery to help frame the words, women should not vex.

I 100% believe there are majority lesser beings out there in the form of women!

coogar: this is why i love my country......
naija women - calculating infidelity risks since 1456.

Yes ke, before one starts crying on the internet because of how Naija men dealt with her like how foreign women don't want the whole world to rest, disturbing cyber space because one naija man somewhere duped her... These women need to learn the game on how to be a victorious survivor.

chibwike: I just loved you more

coogar: don't mind him, he's just pulling your legs. i agree with you to some extent. there are some honest hardworking nigerian women that would hold dear their dignity even at gunpoint.........but that doesn't mean we cannot discuss the other divide.

Lol, Cococandy, missberry has fooled these ones already o.

Nigerian men are very, very easy.

coogar: she wouldn't even be accused unless she gets caught. besides, her reward for cheating must definitely outweigh the risk attached to her infidelity, otherwise it won't worth her while.

Ain't we smart? Calculating the risk, returns/dividends. We didn't go to school for nothing. Some of us were the best students in school, I have to add.

she's not a victorious survivor, she's a tortoise!

Lol.

cococandy:
I think what helps our ministry is that men think we are monogamous.
But seriously tho any man that's surprised by this news is unreal.
Who do they think men cheat with?

Lol, leave them. Their eyes will clear one day.

coogar: no no no!
smart people have always known naija women cheat as much as the men, if not more. it's just that they have always been very careful with their deeds as the society treats them more harshly than the menfolk if discovered.

come on, it's not like the naija men sleep with aliens. the infidelity cuts across both genders - it's the hypocrisy of the naija women that is baffling. you would never think all those boring looking women in church with red berets are capable until you scratch their surface.

Hypocrisy?
A woman who cheats in a society that witch-hunts and is capable exhibiting mob-like violence on her is not a hypocrite but a victorious survivor. God must be on the side of the Naija woman.

coogar: of course, we welcome such news as men. more lambs to slaughter. may my knife never know any bluntness.

More bastards to raise!

I've always wondered how Naija women can live in bliss while the husband cheats, not knowing the women are cheating as well. Ope o, I thought these women are stup.id not knowing they were playing their own games quietly. Naija women chop knuckle abeg.

This is good news.

Misogynist2014: @carefreewannabe ............ I thank you for acknowledging that men are NATURALLY more violent than women, thereby proving my point that since men are more violent than women, women have to be NATURALLY submissive to balance the equation(more reason why Bible wants us to love our women in order that they may not feel bad about their natural disposition.)
I also want to thank you that since you acknowledge that we are more violent(we have higher testosterone) , it is also logically right to say WE ARE NOT EQUAL. ThAnKs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

Violence is a trait that reduces humans to the basis of animals. Since women possess the ability of restraint and self control, and are not easily given to violence but would rather dialogue (women possess advanced communication pattern), this puts women at a higher status of all living beings in the universe. Violence is a beastly character for lower animals, otherwise lions would rule the world.

Sagamite: You are a cretinous person and product of a failed education system.

It is too late to now start recognising what is fact. Blow your brains to smithereens.

Take that back... Sagamite!

Naa, they will make bad housewife materials. Don't marry them when you see them o. Runnnnn as fast as your legs can. They are too hot for the average male o.


Stillfire...too hot for one billion men!

EfemenaXY: What's so funny?

Anyway, I refuse to use my kids for some sort of "social experiment" as a leverage for political correctness.

As the male "workers" move in, I move my kids out ASAP.

The way you said it was funny to me.

standd: This is not about Yahoo+ or Prostitution. It is about WOMEN learning to fend for themselves.

Just giving a background analysis on why certain things became what they are today from an economic standpoint.

obongproff: Finding ur passion and purpose is not difficult, its just dat u dont know how.

It is very difficult for me.

If the economy changes, things would be better.
The men went into yahoo-yahoo, fraudulent activities, the women - dependency on the men and prostitution.

Where your passion lies and the purpose of your life.
I think if you've got this down everything falls into place.
Still finding mine.

EfemenaXY: At that (nursery) level, I'd rather not see even one male teacher there.

Buhahahaha

pweetyz: ..None taken..i doubt that though cos it is stated in both the old and new testaments and i don't think the bible fades..
stillfire Eves sin was not the main reason..if you read those bible passages..you'll see that it was mostly the because she was made out of man..

This was Eve's curses from God.

To the woman he said,

“I will make your pains in childbearing very severe;
with painful labor you will give birth to children.
Your desire will be for your husband,
and he will rule over you.”

For God to have uttered these words as curses to the woman, it means his original plan was not for the husband to rule over the woman.