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Doris B: Try to bear with him and ask him why he doesnt call you,it may be that he doesnt v the money,and if he's calling you everytime,you guys may get tired of each other so just stay with him for some tym,dont leave him if you love him

thank you o jare. don't mind all thesee girls will the mentality that if if doesn't call , he doesn't love . how many guys have called and called you during relationship yet broke your heart at the end. omoges yarinya life is not black and white. there is no litmus test for love . considers everything he tells you and ask question then you'll know if you should stay.

if you know how to read the hand writing on the wall , the picture will tell you who is in charge of the marriage

in the past few years bokoboys have slowly but gradually taken over the north ,turning it into a kill-zone . during the time we only talked , pitied, some of us here the south were only really pained when our southern brothers are victims of the attack (that happened a lot) . so they continued destroying the place and we did nothing but make comment and advising our relatives to leave the place.
now , like every organization ,BH Nigeria limited is expanding to south west and our ibo brothers are still doing the same thing(nothing ) and I know someone will ask me what do you want us to do? I don't know for you but I know if (god forbid )they succeed in SW , its only one guess what there next destination should be . this is a national cake we will all share . by force by fire.

Orikinla: Yesterday I received an emergency alert from reliable security intelligence operatives in Abuja that Boko Haram suicide bombers have made their way into Lagos and targeting crowed areas like motor parks, shopping malls. local airports and public markets.
They are targeting the Easter holidays.

They are tracking their trails, but they have not been able to make arrests so far, because they have mixed with the teeming population of northerners in Lagos.

May be they should just arrest every mola(hausa) in lagos. sense of greater good na. lol. Nigeria is almost hopeless . sorry to say

Sola.ft:
Can we all calm down.

First of, I have Igbo & Hausa friends (wow!, all wonderful & caring people).

I just can't place it when we all tend to judge a whole set of people by actions of very few.

We all wrote like pensive people but we allowed the milieu-induced reaction in us to come out first. Please, we should respond to the issues & not be ethno-racial.

Way forward! that's all we need. If we can't directly help in solving problems then it's better we don't indirectly stir-up more problems.

It HURTS so much. All these problems are caused by some of our past leaders (across all levels). These are the seeds they've sown over the years & now it's sprouting-out.

U.A.E., Malaysia, Brazil, Singapore & Nigeria all started the development race roughly at same time with Nigeria having an edge in terms of Population & Natural endowments.
Tell me brothers, where are we as at present in this d-race?

Let's not fall for this TRAPs. Please! We are more advance in thoughts.

The future of this GREAT country lies in your hand, yes YOU. Be progressively positive in intention & deeds.

'Nagode'
'Dalu'
'E se'
Thanks.

are you a politician ? don't just come back here and campaign for votes in 2015. we have heard sweeter lines . all na wash . lol

obowunmi: ^^ît's important to understand and realize that not everyone can own a business....

No be fight now, its a reality.

everybody can own a business . but everybody will not own a business because many people like you don't believe they can own a business.

before i read. is it only my girlfriend in?will this tactics also help get my friend's girlfriend in the mood .not that i . . . but we just don't know when you might have to seduce someone.

.a whole new definition to the word 'polygamy'.or is it just the 21st century definition .

is it 500MW or 5000MW. is the mod seriously rooting for GEJ or he or she is simply a learner ?

i went through something similar. somehow somehow i ... ok i think what you should do is give him the gift of toasting you that you took from him. seems he is old school like me . he has to feel in control and that he is the one getting the relationship . ok it might not make much sense . just step back inch by inch while still showing care then he'll be stepping forward too and very soon it'll balance out. but the relationship like all others still has a chance of failure .

please what site can i get the daily updates of the open heaven devotional . would love to read something like this every morning

sweet-tease:
Awwwwwww......op is so sweet, see the way he kept goin on bout not wantn to hurt her
My advice......stop tinkn bout the worst that could happen and start concentratn more on the positive aspects e.g the feelns
BTW i clickd to attack you wen i saw the topic bt changd my mind wen you said the prev relatnshp was bad, she just might hav been waitn for someone to deliver her frm it and you showed up. Some gals only stay in a bad relatnshp cos they don't hav where to run to if they leave...so my guy, chillax, even if it fails, enjoy the relatnshp while you can and make the most of it. I wish you well.

thanks a mil. i made the topic that way to get people interested in the tread and make contributions . i.ll take your advise. thanks

Table Leg :
OP
Since you said that you are expecting insult, can i take this moment to take tell you to piss off?!

yeah thanks . from my experience on NL no op ever escapes one or two insults

SniperInADiaper: Congratulations. Your relationship wont work.

You took her from somebody. She can just as easily leave you for somebody..

But Im curious if the relationship with her ex was that bad, then why should she regret leaving it? She should be happy to find a guy who is (supposedly) better.

i did not say she feels bad. but assuming she does it. the reason might be because its a relationship of about 5 years that just ended . and am not claiming to be a saint either.

freecocoa: Firstly no one can "snatch" anyone from someone if that person doesn't want to be "snatched", although you can influence someone leaving his\her partner but bottomline remains, the person left without being forced.

I don't see why you should be asking all these unnecessary questions unless you made her leave her man under duress.

i didnt coarse ,blackmail or threaten her in any way . if that's what you meant by duress. we started as friends and she grew in love with me why. though i must confess ive had feelings for her for a lot longer. thinking of it now , i don't know why i felt like i snatched her. she did have genuine reason to leave him , i was just the catalyst .

thanks guys . just what i needed to hear. did not force her . we are both adults and know what we are getting into by the way.

190: Ehen
Hiss then dat guy is a phool

ok so if a girl sends this kind of message to her ex she's sweet and mature but if a guy does it ,he's a fool . remind me why again?

firstly it wasn't really snatching. the guy have been treating her badly . did a lot of things to her i don't really wanna mention here . it wasnt a good relationship . the problem is now that they are over i cant help feeling bad some . even though she said she has been trying to leave him long before me, i know she might have left him for me and that's wrong . i would feel better if i knew she left him on his own account . i don't wanna be in a gals debt . i do have good intentions for her but i also know its a relationship that has a tiny chance that it won't work like every other relationship. that's why i don't like to feel indebted. don't want her to ever regret leaving her bf if it ever happens that things don't work out between us . i don't want her to ever regret anything . i love her. but am i surpose to feel bad about it. should i be concerned she might leave me for someone else cos am not concerned about thi
ese things. i wanna believe if anybody ever steals her successfully from me then she wasnt meant for me . what do you think. i.ll expect the usual insults and then the usual sensible advise

R2bees: k

but you no get sense o ! quoting the whole thing and at the end writing just 'k'

tutudex: my brother I tire ooooo. This federal character thing is wot will bring naija to the grave soonest. If an hausa man is the beat candidate or even an ibibio man y dont we just support and get the thieves that ate there out of office. This Federal xracter tin is the bane of naijas development

try explaining this to the average hausa man in kano. even though i used to be a huge fan of buhari until the post election crisis he inspired, i would still agree to a buhari ,rochas ticket . buhari to appease the north and rochas to help the SE Forget about GEJ . they may loose the south west but not entirely as there are a lot of yoruba people that can still reason devoid of ethnic sentiments .

i can imagine the London bridge (APC) falling down . especially if they dont win come 2015. and they won't win if buhari is their candidate simply because Nigerians know that a clueless Goodluck is better than a bloodthirsty buhari

The truth is yes he is checking and the question is if something is broken , do you trow it away and buy a new one or do you fix it?

@op its simple, just marry the one who is not planning to use u for money rituals, who is rich and does not have a first wife somwhere .

i really love this game called draught. i have been trying to download it via google but don't seem to be getting it. i even mistakenly downloaded one or two useless softwares while searching. And my data plan dey suffer am!. so please if you have it or not share with me how EXACTLY to download it on my PC.

i really love this game called draught. i have been trying to download it via google but don't seem to be getting it. i even mistakenly downloaded one or two useless softwares while searching. And my data plan dey suffer am!. so please if you have it or not share with me how EXACTLY to download it on my PC.

i really love this game called draught. i have been trying to download it via google but don't seem to be getting it. i even mistakenly downloaded one or two useless softwares while searching. so please if you have it or not share with me how EXACTLY to download it on my PC.

What would I bring to the table if we fall in love. uhmm ... let me see. nothing ! nothing because we would never fall in love or rather I would never fall in love with u as long as you're only interested in what I'll bring to the table.

sinie: @op. One thing we girls should learn is that when it comes to men there are really 2 categories; the jerks and the saints! Now there is no complicated man, sensitive, hard to understand or even shy! So we should not bother stressing our head over them cos they are all so typical! Ok just work with me here.
What do you think about a guy who is always busy he can't make time to call or see you, oven text or ping u! He s not a very busy man, he s just an asshole who thinks he is too good for you
What do you call a guy who is dating you, sleeping with you but can't tell you he loves you( even when you say it first) he is not a sensitive guy that finds it difficult to open up his heart, he is just a jerk who wan chop clean mouth, and thinks you are so foolish u ll fall for anything.
What do you call a guy who is dating you and claims to love you bt can't put up ur pix as his dp with a simple sentence to let the world know u r his! He is nt shy, he just probably sleeps with a lot of his bbm friends( or at least asking them out)
What do u call a guy who u r dating and u call late at night and he can't say baby how are u? Or I love u? Well he s nt really tired from work, he probably has a girl lying by his side.
Now in ur case its simple, d guy doesn't like u, nt really. If u ask him out he ll date u, yeah bt cos he's flattered. See it does their ego good when a girl it tripping but the truth is if he feel d same way he won't wait for u to come ask him,even if nah brad pitt! If u date him u ll be making a big mistake cos before the relationship is thru he ll take your self respect and dance alanta on it! Ur choice!

Life is not black or white. life is in color . people are not always as they seem.

impetus: James Hardly Chase said "you never know with women, they are funny animals". To me, they are not only funny animals, they are confused creatures. They want to get everything, they want a perfect world, they want you to tell them what they want to hear knowing that its not possible. They want to eat their cake and have it. They don't bear blames, they always push blames on us. They live in an ideal world not real world. They want things to always go their ways not minding the consequences. However, they are so powerful that they can build and destroy a man... ... that's the strength of a woman. Above all, we can't do without them cos they are our companion. QED.

Some have done without them at least some have done without marrying

First thought is that this must be a very silly joke but if its not then its not too surprising since the subject is just a 17 year old stupid girl