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Romance / Re: Meeting My Crush, As A Newly Married Man, I Am Confused; What Do I Do? by Stoical: 6:46am On May 14, 2016 |
Ginaz: Thought, you'd say that you conquered it. I may not understand you completely, but imagine this your guy is not someone you end up marrying, how would you overcome the urge of seeing or being romantic with him? |
Romance / Re: Meeting My Crush, As A Newly Married Man, I Am Confused; What Do I Do? by Stoical: 6:42am On May 14, 2016 |
Probably, I wouldn't have known the guy's heart, with regards his love for his wife. However, I know that he married his wife because he saw good qualities in her and we all know sometimes people dont only marry for love, but can grow to love each other...however, remember, he and his ex were really in love for years before they separated... Pls, advice if you can. Thanks Bluette: |
Romance / Re: Meeting My Crush, As A Newly Married Man, I Am Confused; What Do I Do? by Stoical: 6:33am On May 14, 2016 |
I believe I was clear enough naa. I personally don't have any of my exes in my state, so it can't be me. Thanks amtaken: |
Romance / Meeting My Crush, As A Newly Married Man, I Am Confused; What Do I Do? by Stoical: 10:20pm On May 13, 2016 |
This is a little but serious dilemma, a friend is currently facing. He requested for my advice and I felt I could come here to get tips before I meet him on Sunday when we are chanced to hangout. It goes thus... He had this presumed soulmate back then in school and they dated for 3years. They both studied computer engineering, graduated together and went to MIIT, (whatever that means). When they finished the program, the guy got job first with this IT firm in PH and they were forced to separate due to distance...the lady in question had to get married with the guy's consent and later divorced in October 2015. My formed got married December 2015, but did told me that he still crush on his ex. Things got a bit complicated when he bumped on his ex at his office, where she came for an interview on March this year and the fire seems to have been kindled. She got the job 3 weeks later. The thing is, he's been trying to avoid her but this week Monday, she was to be reporting to my friend's immediate boss. My guy closes late, about 7pm daily, so as to prepare for the next day's job and it means, his ex must report to his boss through him and sometimes, only very few people are left in the building when she's to submit her report. It got serious this Thursday, when they where alone in the office and she was, I quote, "extremely hot"..at least, that is what he said.(remember he still crushes on her). He couldn't help but caress and kiss her and according to him, he is devastated he had to do that. Today, his ex made advances again...he is confused as he is weak when she comes around... (Pardon the cut-and-joined explanation) hoping you understand the crux. Now, I am to advise him when we meet, this Sunday, what should I say? I'll still pray about it though... |
Romance / Meeting My Crush, As A Newly Married Man, I Am Confused; What Do I Do? by Stoical: 10:11pm On May 13, 2016 |
This is a little but serious dilemma, a friend is currently facing. He requested for my advice and I felt I could come here to get tips before I meet him on Sunday when we are chanced to hangout. It goes thus... He had this presumed soulmate back then in school and they dated for 3years. They both studied computer engineering, graduated together and went to MIIT, (whatever that means). When they finished the program, the guy got job first with this IT firm in PH and they were forced to separate due to distance...the lady in question had to get married with the guy's consent and later divorced in October 2015. My formed got married December 2015, but did told me that he still crush on his ex. Things got a bit complicated when he bumped on his ex at his office, where she came for an interview on March this year and the fire seems to have been kindled. She got the job 3 weeks later. The thing is, he's been trying to avoid her but this week Monday, she was to be reporting to my friend's immediate boss. My guy closes late, about 7pm daily, so as to prepare for the next day's job and it means, his ex must report to his boss through him and sometimes, only very few people are left in the building when she's to submit her report. It got serious this Thursday, when they where alone in the office and she was, I quote, "extremely hot"..at least, that is what he said.(remember he still crushes on her). He couldn't help but caress and kiss her and according to him, he is devastated he had to do that. Today, his ex made advances again...he is confused as he is weak when she comes around... (Pardon the cut-and-joined explanation) hoping you understand the crux. Now, I am to advise him on Sunday, what should I say? I'll still pray about it though... |
Romance / Meeting My Crush, As A Newly Married Man, I Am Confused; What Do I Do? by Stoical: 10:05pm On May 13, 2016 |
This is a little but serious dilemma, a friend is currently facing. He requested for my advice and I felt I could come here to get tips before I meet him on Sunday when we are chanced to hangout. It goes thus... He had this presumed soulmate back then in school and they dated for 3years. They both studied computer engineering, graduated together and went to MIIT, (whatever that means). When they finished the program, the guy got job first with this IT firm in PH and they were forced to separate due to distance...the lady in question had to get married with the guy's consent and later divorced in October 2015. My formed got married December 2015, but did told me that he still crush on his ex. Things got a bit complicated when he bumped on his ex at his office, where she came for an interview on March this year and the fire seems to have been kindled. He tried to avoid her but this week Monday, she was to be reporting to my friends immediate boss. My guy closes late, about 7pm daily, so as to prepare for the next day's job and it means, his ex must report to his boss through him and sometimes, only very few people are left in the building when she's to submit her report. It got serious this Thursday, when they where alone in the office and she was, I quote, "extremely hot"..at least, that is what he said.(remember he still crushes on her). He couldn't help but caress and kiss her and according to him, he is devastated he had to do that. Today, his ex made advances again...he is confused as he is weak when she comes around... (Pardon the cut-and-joined explanation) hoping you understand the crux. Now, I am to advise him on Sunday, what should I say? I'll still pray about it though... |
Politics / Re: Fuel Scarcity: White Man In A Danfo Bus In Lagos (photos) by Stoical: 5:33pm On Apr 30, 2016 |
SKAMM: My dear, sometimes I wonder how we will ever grow!! |
TV/Movies / Re: 3 Idiots: Have You Seen The Movie? Please, Share Your Lessons! by Stoical: 8:05am On Apr 07, 2016 |
I think the most important lesson I learnt from the movie is - Always tell yourself the truth and identify where your problem is, in order to find a solution to it. A case in point - Rancho's friend(who believed that only praying to his "god" instead of reading will help him pass his exams). I may equally add that we should always follow our passion as it is a sure way to success - Funshu wanddu, the scientist who took someone else's name, and went to school not for certificate but to follow his passion. You can imagine what he did to the hall prefect on his first day in school... ...very funny TV show 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Fg March 2016 Salary by Stoical: 7:35am On Apr 04, 2016 |
Blame Goodluck Jonathan for embezzling all of Nigeria's money...smh |
Romance / Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Man That Has Slept With Several Women. by Stoical: 1:22pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
So nice to know that a 20yr old could "speak" this way and be equivocal. Especially in our world of 2day wh :-Xere teenagers are getting pregnant here and there. Stupedinluv, I'll rather advice that you do what my bible says...Wherefore, let him that thinketh he standeth, take heed, lest he falls - 1 Choir 10:12. Also, Jesus said to His disciples, "Watch n Pray". I brought these quotations to remind you that most often we do not wrestle with flesh, but with principalities and powers in high places...yea! This is me sounding spiritual-because it is what you need to overcome. Couple with your well laid moral foundation. Wishing you a successful future N/B: I ain't claiming to have been a saint, but I love it when people know their worth and stand up for it. Shalom 1 Like 1 Share |
Travel / Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Remain In Nigeria by Stoical: 8:59am On Mar 25, 2016 |
CaptainECole: You Haven't Seen Anything Yet - If you have witness someone's head being chopped off, or 4 kids being burn for nothing. If you have had to dodge bullets from Arm robbers, who think sporadic shooting is same as robbing. If a soldier man who is supposed to protect you is now the one molesting you for using the same road with him...guy, u never chi chumching 9) Syria is small compared to Nigeria - when your siblings and parents have been massacred by herdsmen. When BH throws bom like ludo and blow themselves up like balloons, leading to mass dead...bros, experiencing these would make you retype these 7-things... 4 Likes |
Education / Re: What Is The Essence Of Photo-taking Here??? by Stoical: 11:26pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Well, I won't call out or mention names again. I would rather not claim ignorant of the spiritual cum physical reasons for the outfit. I was only concern or try to understand the rationale behind the photo, as posterity can't even identify them(physically). I know God can, but He doesn't require their pix to do that. Trying not to be insistent, Youngsage has reiterated my question... |
Education / Re: What Is The Essence Of Photo-taking Here??? by Stoical: 3:53pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
gabinogem: You are right, but the worldly way of life do sometimes go against the spiritual things...note, I use worldly instead of physical, because I know that the spiritual needs the physical to express "itself". AirSultan, I wish his response did expatiate more on the topic. He rather explained the connection between spiritual and physical. If there are no scholarly explanations to the act as rep in the photo...I really have not learn Lalatisclala or MOD involve, I hope this is in the right section? |
Education / Re: What Is The Essence Of Photo-taking Here??? by Stoical: 12:44pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
gabinogem: You are sounding philosophical and more clarification is requested. Meanwhile, I don't think it is wrong for you to seek spirituality rather than indulging in the worldly way of doing things. But, you should be able to explain why you act the way you do. @AirSultan, with due respect, I never meant to make someone's biz my problem...I am rather a student of nature who seek to understand things around me...so if you felt insulted, apologies. I felt, you could rather educate me on the things you know that I don't know, but wish to understand(don't think that is a bad request). Cheers |
Education / Re: What Is The Essence Of Photo-taking Here??? by Stoical: 12:38pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Bro, I asked for understanding not for the way you view someone's religion bigiyaro: |
Education / What Is The Essence Of Photo-taking Here??? by Stoical: 12:18pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
I may b a bit controversial, however, I welcome insights on this issue. I am not ignorant of the fact that this pix might be sensational and people tmay become so "emotions" about my question. I am open to learning and I hope I will get more of that rather than insults I stumbled at this pix and was asking myself questions, one of which I hope I may be educated or some explanations given here. Covering yourself, with the reasons you may have is okay by me. I am only wondering what one hopes to acheive by taking a group pix with such attires...so, fill me in... Note: I have spent at least a year at the seat of caliphate...Sokoto and I am very tolerant wrt religion, so I have no bias as regards this question... What is the essence of photo-taking, if one cannot identify the people in it
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Education / What Is The Essence Of Photo-taking Here??? by Stoical: 11:14am On Mar 23, 2016 |
I may b a bit controversial, however, I welcome insights on this issue. I am not ignorant of the fact that this pix might be sensational and people tmay become so "emotions" about my question. I am open to learning and I hope I will get more of that rather than insults I stumbled at this pix and was asking myself questions, one of which I hope I may be educated or some explanations given here. Covering yourself, with the reasons you may have is okay by me. I am only wondering what one hopes to acheive by taking a group pix with such attires...so, fill me in... Note: I have spent at least a year at the seat of caliphate...Sokoto and I am very tolerant wrt religion, so I have no bias as regards this question... What is the essence of photo-taking, if one cannot identify the people in it
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Education / What Is Their Essence Of Photo-taking Here??? by Stoical: 11:08am On Mar 23, 2016 |
I may b a bit controversial, however, I welcome insights on this issue. I am not ignorant of the fact that this pix might be sensational and people tmay become so "emotions" about my question. I am open to learning and I hope I will get more of that rather than insults I stumbled at this pix and was asking myself questions, one of which I hope I may be educated or some explanations given here. Covering yourself, with the reasons you may have is okay by me. I am only wondering what one hopes to acheive by taking a group pix with such attires...so, fill me in... Note: I have spent at least a year in the city of caliphate...Sokoto and I am very tolerant wrt religion, so I have no bias as regards this question... What is the essence of photo-taking, if one cannot identify the people in it
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Jokes Etc / Re: Please Advice Is Requested by Stoical: 6:24pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Monalisa185: I wish it was...thank God the village head came and made some incantations...already, my phone battery was almost off. I am back to PH now. Guess, I was supposed to miss the Rivers re-run...#experienceofalifetime @Joecutie...yeah, it sounded that way, until I noticed that people came with their mats...reason, they were not sure how's long it'll take for the village head to come |
Jokes Etc / Re: Please Advice Is Requested by Stoical: 10:33am On Mar 21, 2016 |
@Joecutie don't laugh only, pls advice. As for those who suggest book levels...a beg, that is more risky, as the last time a cousin attempted that, he had tires all over him, as Anaconda would wrap a thing...don't ask what happened afterwards... |
Jokes Etc / Re: Please Advice Is Requested by Stoical: 10:30am On Mar 21, 2016 |
lmao...thanks man, you just made my morning...[/quote] My pleasure...just wondering wat to do ooooo |
Jokes Etc / Re: Please Advice Is Requested by Stoical: 10:27am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Monalisa185: My pleasure...just wondering wat to do ooooo |
Jokes Etc / Please Advice Is Requested by Stoical: 7:19am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Make una See me See wahalaoooo, I went for the burial of a friends grand dad somewhere in Anambra, & in that village, when someone dies, an elderly man will come up and tell who is next to die. So this man came along and said that the next person who's going to die is the one who decides to leave the burial ground first. My country people as am typing this message I still dey dia ooh since yesterday, nobody wan 1st go oo, everybody just lie down, Even one old man at age 97years dey lie down beside me, e dey ask me if my people never start to look for me? As am talking to u now. Am still lying down o, What should I do next ? Mbuk!! 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Jokes Etc / Re: Beauty Without "Brain" by Stoical: 10:05pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
Really, some of our pretties need to exchange their beauty for brain...I really got pissed though...after all my warming-up to do the needful...guess what happened next... |
Jokes Etc / Beauty Without "Brain" by Stoical: 5:13pm On Mar 20, 2016 |
She walked into the banking hall, her pointed shoe announcing her arrival minutes before you saw her. She wore that kind of dress that convinces you that heaven is missing an angel. The aroma of her perfume would easily finish a bowl of eba for its sweetness. And the phone which she gingerly held to her ear, without minding the security guy frantically waving at her that calls are not allowed in banking halls, will cost a small fortune. She stepped forward, picked a deposit slip and searched frantically for a pen. About five guys offered her their pens but, shame to bad people, she took mine maybe because I was closest to her. After a while, or a long while because time stood still, she stood up and inched closer to me. She whispered: "Please can you spell 'thirty' for me?" I looked down at her deposit slip in surprise. She'd written: 'tarty tausanh'! Iyammi!!!!! Happy Sunday everyone 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Wike Is A Big Shame - Rivers APC by Stoical: 8:41pm On Mar 07, 2016 |
We must always stop playing politics with everything...I so wish our so called leaders did practice this...Wike, please reconsider... |
Crime / Re: Pastor Rapes Church Member In Ebonyi by Stoical: 8:35pm On Mar 07, 2016 |
When despicable acts occur in our locality we should call it by its name and not try to shroud it in secrecy or blaspheme against people's religion. However, we must always speak out for those who can't speak irrespective of who is involved, be it the Pope, Bishop, Sultan, Emir, Pastor, etc. We should all join hands to conderm illegalities especially as it concerns our weaker vessels (women, children and handicapped). For that is why we were made strong. If I don't speak against "Christians" who commit offences, help me do that my fellow brothers, as I may and will often speak against any "Muslim" who commit offences... Remember, a mother may sometimes not be strong morally enough to expose his robber-child, but the neighbour can: hoping this adage would be understood. Disclaimer: I am not speaking for Christians or Muslims, but as a full moral being and will not answer for anybody's abuse of each other's religion. #Loveyourneighbour... 3 Likes |
Religion / Re: Pastor Adeboye Celebrates His 74th Birthday Today by Stoical: 3:57pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
Happy B'day to a great servant of God |
Politics / Re: #FreeEse:Emir Sanusi Denies Malicious Lies That Said He Refused To Help #freeese by Stoical: 7:11pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
sarutobie: Truth...I liked your post...then I ask; what have you done in your little corner and power? |
Jokes Etc / Be Good To All People by Stoical: 1:22pm On Feb 27, 2016 |
Can't laugh alone. Boko haram members entered a church while the service was going on. They asked the ushers to close every door and windows so that nobody can escape. They counted the number of worshippers and they were 150. They told them they would kill 100 out of these 150 members but in an alphabetical order of names, starting with the pastors. They approached the senior pastor asking:"What's your name?" The pastor said Zechariah Zwingina. The next pastor said Zebedee Zaccheus, the third pastor said Zemmanuel Zwiliams. They approached the elders. The first one said Zarepath Zolomon. The next one said Zalade Zomorin. The next one said Zetunji Zolusegun Zesther, Zimilehin. They approached the choir and the first chorister out of fear pointed to the organist and said his name is Abraham Ahmadu. The Organist screamed: "He is a liar. My name is Zabraham Zahmadu." If you were in the congregation, what will be your name? #Laughterisgoodmedicine |
Fashion / Re: When Your Bae Becomes "Light Of The World" by Stoical: 1:30am On Feb 27, 2016 |
Lol...no be small ancestors ephemm: |
Fashion / When Your Bae Becomes "Light Of The World" by Stoical: 12:39am On Feb 27, 2016 |
There are some certain things that are totally unacceptable, irrespective of what ever the reasons may be... How can you decide to appear like this to a dinner event? Abi dem say, dem no get Generator nee? Please Ladies dress or makeup and appear decent... You may miss your man or look so awkward with that "painting"... Guys, would you accept your base to follow you out like this? Babes, would you tell your friend, she is beautiful if she appears like this? ....hmmmmmmmm!!! Smh.
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