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Beehorn:
Hello nairalanders. I am in need of matured piece of advice. My cousin is currently 19 yrz old and she had dated 4 guys. She is single and searching. All her exes ran away from her. The reason why they left her is because she refused to give up her virginity. Should she start having sex so has to please them? N.B: SHE IS A SECONDARY VIRGIN.

una sef wetin be secondary virgin. Once hymen don comot e don comot. If she is staying off sex den I understand nor be secondary virgin. By d way 19 is a bit young. Let her grow up some more. 4 boys by 19 years is too much for a well brought up girl!

TheWhiteKnight:
But when secretarial and other similar vacancies are posted alluding preference to female candidates nobody cries WOLF!!
This is the definition of being biased

I dont support it in this instance or any instance at all.

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atmy:
Bros cut the lady some slack na. At least she has posted an opportunity so that people can have gainful employment. Besides, I believe she is just posting the info about sex preference as a sort of insider info which I won't take as official. BTW I checked the company's blog and there was nothing about male preference on the vacancy posted there.

Ok bros. Sorry op but it sure gets depressing seeing stuff like this sha.

iamrealdeji:
What's wrong about a devout muslim being a cosmetologist? Islam said you should look clean,tidy and beautiful,our prophet used to oil his hair with olive oil and comb it properly to look nice,what are you telling me? So Muslims shouldn't take care of their skins because they are Muslims? That's why Islam is different from christianity,a christian can pee without cleaning up,poo without even cleaning the anus and still go to church to praise Jesus,but it's not allowed in Islam,you have to be very clean and tidy even before you touch the Quran or before you pray

You know thats not true right? You didnt really have to go down that route to prove any point.

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nwaka80:
things dat will happen on d last days

Days of our lives.

Horayce:
What's wrong with intercourse? How were you, my dear sir, conceived again? I've lost a few IQ points from reading your post

same thots here; 1st time m hearing dis kinda stuff.

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Classicman47:
Its absolutely her bizness to refer to whoever she wants to. But d way & manner she is talking abt it makes it appear as if its kind of fashionable to hop frm boyfriend to boyfriend just for the hell of it. Just one question, like how many boyfriends will she like to add to her list before she gets serious talking abt fiance or even husband? Boyfriends no be achievment now. If anything, she is giving hersef unnecessary heartaches whenever d next guy just up & leaves after abusing her womanhood to his fill.
Well i understand some ppl really dont have anything to show for their existence except very irrelevant stuffs like this crap.


And guy i thot u were supposed to mind ur own bizness? cus when i checked, it was not u i quoted. Or did she hire u to attack me on her behalf? nawao

I get ur time today nor b small. What way n manner? U sabi d girl for real life? How she take flaunt am wan come put am for CV? It was simply put a statement in passing na u whip am up. And yes she pay me 10 tubers of yam to attack you!

Weah96:
On the contrary, the bible clearly states that the body of your spouse belongs to you. LOL.


1 Corinthians 7 King James Version (KJV)

3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.

4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.

We are saying the same thing.

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Classicman47:
Ur last boyfriend. U sound as if dis is some kind of laudable achievement.
Oya put it in ur CV den. smh

What are u on about? ~That she cant refer to an ex boyfriend. How did she make it a laudable achievement by that statement. Just get over yourself please.

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Victorakats:
Here i am frustrated that as an engineer i am still at home watching BBA hotshots without even securing a teaching offer...in lagos
infact i resolved to even volunteer for free only if i can leave my house and gain some experience in the oil and gas industry which is the course i studied

And i read this and for a moment i paused to ask myself if i really want this kind of offer.
To be candid with you dear,i do not compromise my happiness in anything i do.
The reason is because over time an unhappy,unfulfilled heart will degenerate to depression and that will be catastrophic both to yourself and to those around you.

My views may not be the best, as i write i dont even have 1k in my account but i will tell you this, dont remain in any firm where you are abused in the name of job offer.
Money isnt what you should pursue, self development and self improvement should rank topmost.

It maybe crazy but until you step out you wont get a better offer.


Another route to this is to build relationship with some of the staff and seek avenue to be promoted to your desired department.
This second option will mean that you'll have to forget your degree and focus on serving them and expect a favourable outcome in the end.

Sorry for the frustration...
I hope you take it easy on yourself please.
Your life is worth more than any amount any company can offer.
Preserve your life!

You are probably a young person without commitments. If op has a wife and children or even a flat he is paying rent on, i dont think your advise will help him rara.

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LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL Meine, Efemenaxy and Kilokeys u guys made page 5 totally worth it for me. LOL LOL LOL

solomonslones:
he directed me to another woman to attend to me, she charged me N25,000, stating that 20,000 was for my offense & 5,000 was for the tow truck.

Long story short ended up paying N10,000. When I asked for receipt they handed the money back to me & asked that I go pay the 25,000, then I'll have a receipt. I paid the N10,000 & drove off



2. The public should be informed of the official fines to be paid so that when arrested, you will not be ripped off

3.A platform should be created for the public to report erring officials of EDSTMA

d correct fee was 25000 but of course u choose 2pay 10k dts y u didn't get d recepit (not judging u tho) EDHA u sld get a copy of d law for a small fee.

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dotman2460:
I kept on praying for this little incidence not to cause any visa denial. It didn't. After it was approved, I majestically walked out with half of the sole of my shoe gone. When people waiting outside saw me, there laughed, and I thought within myself......"dey laugh me, make you no go face your own interview"

Chai u guys are killing me here ooooooooooooooooooo!

dammilotun:
I tapped myself to wake myself up from the dream...the consular asked how many month was she gonna help babysit the child as she claimed...she said 8months...the consular denied her and here she goes kneeling down.please sir for heaven sake,for the sake of this new baby pls give me this visa...I literally busted into an uncontrollable laughter as the security guys showed her the way out.it was such a gorycomical sight.guys share your funny experience at the us embassy

You kidding me. LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL chai what a time i had right there

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merit12:
If I offend please I'm sowi



I don't do e-fight

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