₦airaland Forum

Ogalanyaidi:
First I want peace in my home and I've been enjoying relative peace in my home.

I've been married for less than a year. I called my wife to
I want peace in my home and I don't like trouble

She is a young wife and sometimes mistakes are made early by both husband and wife.
Firstly as a couple, you all ought to have discussed how to resolve issues. Running to either of your parents or family member has to be completely eliminated. Solve it within yourselves. Try your best to keep this so family side talk does not set into your happy home. Nothing kills happiness in a home faster.

Also pray often as a family and more importantly, oga you go assist for household chores. Especially as you say una dey abroad. E get why

Keeff:
When we started out, we both agreed on her not dressing provocatively or giving negative impression( nose rings, double necklaces and legchain). She stopped the legchain she was using at that time, the relationship is two years old now and she now insists she wants to be using it and her mom who is a single mom doesn't see anything bad in it and believes it's all fashion. Both mother and daughter are the party types, always want to attend parties, I think her mother influenced her on that and now we having serious issues because I told her I can't allow it and I'm on the brink of losing her even tho we've been through a lot together and she even already aborted like twice for me.
Dunno what to do

Anything you see now will be amplified in marriage. I repeat, anything you see now, will not end but rather be amplified in marriage
Don't do pass yourself and please use protection to avoid that stuff she has done twice.

maxwelltony:
Good morning Nairalanders

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I had learnt my lesson, and have handed him over to God .

You goofed sis, the moment he asked for your money (1k) to buy stuff, this is what you do, smile, pick up yourself, just smile and say "I'll be back, need to use the rest room" then you leave that place immediately.

So you weren't informed? I forgot my wallet gang nor be new format na, babes suppose know wetin to do

ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

Be careful, ensure he does not Infect you with stds

Omicron007:
This particular fruit makes me remember childhood.
We had the tree in our yard and in the school premises.
I and my friends got into trouble severally while throwing stones at this fruit both at home and in school.

We all called this fruit 'fruuit of frunt'.

Do you remember this fruit?
What is the English name and how do you call it in your native language?

Ebelebo (known by that in Benin)

edunaragold:
After marriage f refreshment, give your problem wife sense of refreshment, or let them miss you so they can know what they have.

This is not the best way to sort the issue

CondemnBattery:
So I saw a thread earlier, and decided to educate


May our wives not take all our glory all in the name of I'm too busy in Jesus name. Amen

I don't understand the bolded or tone of it.
You are supposed to be one with your spouse. Your write up makes it seem it's your wife against you or some form of competition.
How about giving that gift to your children together or whenever anyone is giving, you say "it's from mummy and daddy " and instilling such values in them

FIFApresident1:
I can't imagine someone else sleeping with the woman I married, how am I gonna feel after hearing about it or seeing it with my two eyes.
My life is not going to remain the same again even after divorcing her.

But these same Nigerian husband's cheat like its their birthright and their long suffering wife forgives sometimes even choosing to ignore. lol. This life nor balance sha. You men cant take a pinch of what you dish out to women

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright ...



Now I can easily say you are a real niggarrr

If you are a niggar and you are yet to get one of these infection from a baby girl then you are not a real niggar

LIESSSSSSS
It is your choice to "do" without protection

oldienavie:
I clocked 36 years 2 months ago, I look fit for my age compared to many Nigerians(I realised most Nigerians dont pay attention to their physical fitness).
I have been outside of the country and just got back with the aim of trying to get a wife.
Am I too old to expect to find a decent woman ?
What suggestions do you have with regards to getting a good woman in the shortest possible time ?
Thanks all.

No it's not. A family member married at the same age

Mylordmygod1:
GOOD DAY NIRALANDERS

I ame?

Question to ask instead. Is a lot of money � worth the shame?

Nor be graduate/9 to 5 workers dey do Uber as side hustle? Go do you and be unique while at it

19CannyMum:
Those two places are your best bets. Autotrader is another spot. If you want a quick sale with reduced profit, try a dealership. You can also try your luck with an auction (Graham auctions, Regal auctions etc). Bad as e bad, donate it to the kidney foundation and get some tax credits for next year.

Hahaha at last sentence. Thank you for this... I appreciate...

Hi all,

Especially those living in Calgary. I am trying to sell my vehicle (it has a mechanical issue which I am not willing to sort out - I'm calling time on the vehicle). Other than Kijiji or Facebook Market Place, can anyone advise where I can let it go with a fair return?

Has anyone had a good experience selling their used vehicle in Calgary outside of Kijiji/Facebook Market Place? Ideas needed please. Thank you.

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

if you are a Christian, ask God for help in overcoming that bad habit. Some Naija boyfriend go ignore you, but husband nor go ignore this habit oh. Work hard on it, ask God for help. If you like, inbox me so I can share a pdf book with you on how a married woman was able to overcome this habit that almost cost her her marriage...

Lazyreporta:
OK, guys, I got married to my edo bae last weekend..

It was all fun and my guys enjoyed themselves.
The wedding took place in OJAH, akoko-Edo.
They went to igarra, they went to tourist center in ososo, they climbed mountains. etc

Here are few of our pictures below:

Pre wedding pics
Trad pictures

Big big big congratulations, your wife is very beautiful, black barbie. May God bless your union

Tsufyaan:
As long as its computer village no store is trusted. Slot may sell new Tecnos and Infinix but iPhone and Samsung dem too dey package oooo

Well, e fit be. But all the phones I ever bought from them while I was still in Nigeria were not packaged. I used to shop for new phones for my company then and I bought a lot of phones for members of staff. None was packaged from my experience with them. Perhaps things don change

Tunchi101:
so yesterday, I had to visit a police station for d first time in

It is best to shop at a reliable shop like Slot. I know you said the model you wanted was not there but with all we keep seeing from Computer Village, I would jejely buy another type of phone from a more reliable store like Slot or wait until they have what I need.

I can't buy jack from Computer Village due to its notoriety. Sorry for the lost fund. God will replenish

wordychap:
I got the papers from the BIR office through a staff there i gave money to. I overhed the VIO conversation with his office telling him my papers ought to have expired February 2021(just checked now through autoreg and its true), then i saw their script of a fine of 50k for fake papers. Mind you they were working with policemen and the option was to take the car to their ofrice- that usually attracts more expenses at the long run especially this being a weekend and time was far spent risking the car sleeping at Vio office.
Its just a sad experience which will never happen again to me.

I'm sorry this happened to you, may God almighty replenish your pocket

wordychap:
On my way back from work, driving on a highway, I noticed two cars reversing. This is usually a sign of FRSC officers ahead but i couldn't see any so I trottled on.


This is my worst experience on the road so far and ita happened when i need money. Sad!

Why did you pay if you got authenticate papers from the office? why did you pay?

Kempinski:
Good morning guys , there's this woman in my

After knacking, this woman goes to her shop and pretends as if nothing happens.....

Please mind your business
What she is doing is very very wrong but mind your business

19CannyMum:
Tested and trusted: Pinder Auto. But he's very busy. Phoenix might be cheaper and will have your time but can't recommend with my chest as experience with him is limited.

Thank you very much

Good day. Can anyone suggest a good car repair place in Calgary for me, tested and trusted - specifically in the NE.
Apologies if this has been dealt with before...

saintftm:
A perfect example of God's Grace. #togetherforever. Papa and Mama got married on 28th August, 1971. 50years of togetherness, through thick and thin. #goldentogether.

Congratulations toyour dear parents.

Holiness2100:
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/15888078/formula-1-spa-belgium-boss-dead-murder-suicide/amp/

Did you have to hurt them? Why not just divorce her if you could not bear it.
RIP Ladies

LilMissFavvy:
The last time I was curious enough to read about the causes of marriages collapsing, infidelity was the number reason, not submission, so this people can continue to spew whatever they wish, the only thing that bothers me is that they never preach LOVE/SUBMISSION hand in hand, as Bible recorded it. Yes, I believe in man loving his wife and wife submitting as Bible mentioned, but what these preachers preach is not complete, I see them as preachers who just want to garner the attention of men with reasons best known to them, my opinion anyway.

She did, in this same video - the full edition.
It's a long message where she addressed not just women submitting and respecting but she addressed men as well to love their wife as chrst loved the church. If a husband love his wife as christ loved the church, then submitting will come naturally.

Pastor Mildred, wasn't biased at all...it was a complete message she preached. It's on YouTube

Nonybb:
But to be very sincere with you. Some of these things were oftentimes caused by two individuals: the mother of that aside and talk to her. She could have prevented this incestuous act

You blame all but the perpetrator. You make excuses without a word of condemnation against a perpetrator. Please search your heart

prealjewel1993:
Good evening everyone
Please is it advisable to stay in the same company with your mother and wife
Here is the situation
I have a house , three flat , my mother stays in one of the flat
Me, i will getting married soon , some of my friends said i should go rent an apartment that i should not stay in the same company with my mother and my wife
Please i need your advice

Every woman wants to be queen of her castle. Arrange a house as she wishes, cook as she wishes and dresses as she wishes inside the privacy of her home. No matter how angelic your mother and fiancée are, it is highly likely they will clash. Good luck to you sir

Blackdeewhy:
Body shape MATTERS a lot in choosing ANY attires. Stick to what suit your purpose. I don't mean to be a bully but this things she's wearing ain't meant for her boobs. Its an eye soar!

Eyesore

[quote author=Ekomatrix1 post=103569413]Please date a lady who can compliment you and bring something to the table yet maintain humility. E get why

FalseProphet1:
As the topic implies, I recently told it to a girl whom I felt was way older than the lifestyle she was forcing herself to live, I noticed that her mood changed and she went into a rage and said I insulted her... please house look into it, is it an insult?

And why do many girls see that statement as an insult?

Say you've written JAMB a couple of times but you are
not yet successful. You are still studying and attending lectures and praying to God for a miracle. So one day, after studying you decide to cool off a bit. While watching football inside your own house o, your mother's friend walks in and stares at you while you yell at the TV in excitement. Then she asks some questions about what you are currently doing and after you respond, she tells you quietly, "do and go to university. Your mates are in school while you are watching football!"

Now, how would you feel? Would you feel any better because she didn't yell but spoke quietly?

Any sort of wait, we must handle with sensitivity. Be it marriage, waiting for a job, NYSC or waiting for a baby. Be very careful how you speak of such things to such people "waiting". Don't let them use you and do testimony when their miracle comes. Besides you yourself mocking does not know what lies ahead your path in this journey called life

Lilpen3758:
My friends are steady bashing me about being anti-social that I don't watch football and I don't play football and I like being on my own too much which is true but the thing is that I enjoy being on my own is that weird??

You are very ok. I had a friend (a guy) back at University who had NO SINGLE interest in football. You are not alone

mattmogan88:
One of and filled the one with a hole. The Pain is unbearable, I saw hell today.

t worse.

Filling cost 6k
Extraction cost 5k

Am happy I v removed my 6+yrs pain.

Get well soon bro