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Babara1994:
Did you sleep with her? If you've slept with her, you need deliverance.

@Omokrireno, please take this seriously. God bless

RedPanthar:
I don't judge. When they settle themselves we'll all know the truth

Not asking you to judge. I'm not judging either. I'm only saying separation for 17 years is not equal to divorce. There is a legal route for a lawful divorce in Nigeria. So the woman was correct, she was still legally married to the man.

RedPanthar:
Never judge a tale hearing just one side of the story. Remember how one woman went to a wedding venue and claimed she was wedded to a certain man for 17 years who was the groom triggering emotions left right and centre but after a few days the man came out to say they were separated and that qualifies him the right to remarry
Argue with ya phone

But the man was wrong na, mere separation for even 30 years does not mean they are divorced. The lady remained married to him unless a court dissolved the marriage na

DNP2020:
Very Strange Experience With My Father. Should I Be Worried?

Theres a part two and this one is about my mother.

Hmm, Mount Zion Abattoir tinz reloaded
You better remain where you are outside his house. Also hold God very tight too. No time for hanky panky

mattmogan88:
So recently I started working as a bet9ja cashier. Today one guy came
Say no to gambling

Hahahahaaa

mezico96:
Good day cuties and gentlemen of NL

Lemme just go straight to the point

I attended a friend's traditional wedding last year December and after all the stress and struggles to settle the bride price, the father of the lady forbade she stays with the husband until after their church/white wedding which is two months from now

So guys, is he right to say that?
What is your opinion?

It depends on the family, my family will not allow a child follow man home until church and traditional marriage rites have been concluded. For this reason, we don't give gap, we just do d full marriage things sharply so husband and wife can start their life.

Traditional wedding and church wedding is usually on the same day

BusinessCity:
I was almost accused of kidnapping when the police turned it upside down. That how did I end with the kids for years if not kidnap. My image and that of my family in the area was seriously dented. Thankfully we treated the kids well and they wore the same clothes mine wore and eat the same meal so many people in the community knew it was a ploy. But the experience is one that seriously damaged my soul.


I will hardly help people again. Hardly.

Very odd, they could have simply asked to leave. Why make drama unless they perceived someone in your household may have complicated the going out process for them? Or they probably did all that to make themselves feel better and make it seem they didn't owe you anything.

TMSMedia:
[i][b]"I Now Understand Why People Treat Domestic Staff Like Sh*t" - Wakanow CEO
https://www.facebook.33955897/posts/1974076099396836/?app=fbl

Never rehire him. He will do just fine on his own. Remember the young entrepreneur - the Gokada guy? Remember how the same thieving staff ended up murdering him? Be careful sir

RIP David. The tale of your demise has made me sad since I read it last night. May your gentle soul rest in peace

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increaseunfortunate ht and so wrong simultaneously?

Get over yourself. Marriage is for the matured

Of late, it has to be
King of Boys
Oloture
Citation and one or 2 by Omoni Oboli such as Anchor Baby

Serene123:
Please I will need your constructive opinion on this. Been battling with this thoughts for some time now.

I engaged my girl last year. Reason why I did engage her was because I saw her intent to be with me. I have seen her gave

Sorry for the lengthy thread

Broken engagement is better than broken marriage. At the stage you are doing fiance and fiancee, you all should have resolved trust issues completely. Since she is still talking and visiting the guy and you are dragging phone with her, it's time to reassess what both of you have. She is right to take sometime off, you need it too. If you are still troubled and unsure of the way forward after your time apart, gently let her go

OVB123:
It is like no where is saved again in this country, if you go to Benin City, killings are happenings there on dayly basis, Deltas state same thing, Oyo state same, Borno same.
Now tell me: Where is save in Nigeria?

Why do you guys keep saying 'save' instead of safe?

Kosiso12:
Gunmen Kill A Lecturer Engaging In Taxi Services To Feed His Family In Ebonyi

By com/1378931/gunmen-kill-lecturer-engaging-taxi-services-feed-family-ebonyi/

Dear lord, help the breadwinners. Help husbands, protect them in their going out and coming in. Some fo these men/women work so darn hard, don't let their wives, children or family members weep over them before their time. Amen

RIP to the young lecturer

Habby222:
Advice needed pls.

I've been with this guy for close to four years now and its not really

Guys please I'm confused and do not know how to handle the issue. Pls advice.

Move on
You may not be perfect but an insecure man will kill you faster than anything in marriage. You want a man that can match your strength and energy. You want a man to celebrate your achievements and not talk you down or pick unnecessary fights with you. Open your eyes. Move

CrescentMoon:
Let me first tell you my kind of character. For you to make me angry, you have to repeat an offense more than 30 to 40 times. After each offence, I would only give you facial expression that will let you know that you offended me. And I would ensure y

My problem now is that those words are still ringing in my head... someone I thought was a lover said she married me out of piety.

If you cannot forgive in this life, do not marry. I repeat, DO NOT MARRY
In the institution called marriage, your spouse will hurt you (knowingly/unknowingly) with action and sometimes words, you are supposed to talk it out, make corrections, forgive and forget.
All these married guys you see making out and doing anniversary post online, none of them is perfect. The inside of marriage is sometimes fraught with challenges, crying, making up, lack of funds, making up some more, praying, deep talks late into the night, praying some more... no one sees all that. Its the hard work that comes with the territory.
Its the asoebi, laughter, kisses, children gathered around, we all like and pray for.
Oga, she has apologized, forgive. She is making efforts to see you back at home, don't tarry for too long in your second location before you give room for outsiders or strange women.
If you are a Christian, ask God to help you heal the hurt.
Good luck

Anywhere you find good woman, marry and move on with your family life. Note the word - good woman

Trayceey:
I Need Your Opinion On This Issue That's Threatening My Relationship

My

Since then, we haven't spoken to each other nor visited each other. Was I wrong?

This is what they say when they tell you guys to protect your relationship and remind you how family members (no matter how loving) can sometimes be the cause of your marital/relationship woe.
So dude visited without a gift not even wine, big deal, no one is perfect, hin nor kee person. You are supposed to speak to him in correction/love and not belittle him or fan the flame of anger.

If you has handled it tactfully, he will then call and sweet talk your mum n plan for a follow up visit where he will try to right his wrong. On that occassion, you MUST be home. Finish

NB-this is fiance and not boyfriend. Leave that silly small girl behavior of cutting phone on a man. That is disgusting behavior. And for that you should apologize. So do not disrespect a man like that again. Now place a call to him dear

BrandNewsDay:
https://brandnewsda06/fcmb-names-yemisi-edun-as-md/

Good news

kingeze88:
I'm married with 2 kids, a boy, and a girl but I trust my wife that is why I have never thought of anything like a DNA test, I didn't do

Please, Should I tell her I'm just joking or wait for the DNA result?

Why did you tell her? Didn't you read what your favorite dr, aka Dr Olufunmilayo told you on Twitter

SamJed:
So I am a primary 4 classroom teacher and I love my children and ensure that they learn in the best way possible.

I think you are not professional sir. As a teacher, if you allow a child (in PRIMARY 4 - whether boy or girl ) sit on your lap, then you are clearly doing something wrong! For common decency and knowing how things can go wry, professional teachers shouldn't do that. It is only babies/toddlers in creche/daycare I see female teachers/assistant teachers carrying to soothe the child until they fall asleep, trying to coax, assisting to maybe eat or sitting by their side and helping them with their writing/painting. No one laps a child in primary 4!

If you allow kids come around you and have a peek at whatsoever you are doing on your phone while in class (whether you are on break or not), then you are not being professional. If you are watching youtube videos in class, then you are not being professional. Where a child in Primary 4 writes you a letter and keeps asking you for a response and you had to wriggle your way out like you were dealing with an adult shooting her shot, then you are probably in the wrong profession.

DSS1335:



Modified1: I just found out the name of the organization on IG. Dear Nigerian, let the dragging begin.

Modified 2: Sir pls match your word with action. We want anything that will make that daughter of Jezebel feel our hot raging blood. She need to feel the heat too.

Please make no mistake, I don't support what she did to Tunde but what criminal offense has she committed? It is a disgusting thing she did but don't you guys want her to feed her kids? The kids should starve and be given out to social services? Leave her job out of it and let karma/Tunde's memory deal with her

geek4k:
Despite the ecstatic vibe attached to the last day of the year (Gruesome 2020 especially), It ended sadly for me as I

Lastly, kindly learn from my story and avoid that Wuye bridge at all cost.

So sorry for this experience. Please be safe at night.

So painful, apparently the late man (God rest his soul) never recovered from it. What a rude shock it must have been, 2 children back to back.
Well looking at the 2 kids critically, they bear no semblance of resemblance to the late Tunde not a single one. They look very much like the MD

dre11:
• It’s a lie -Lady

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Very sad what happened to Mnena but I believe she was wrongly misguided or perhaps naive.To boldly enter a married man's house in the guise of work. When asked to leave severally, she refused. Even a family member of the aggrieved wife warned you - that was a veiled threat issued i.e. if this be the last day you will be a consultant, so be it. Her sense should have come alive at that point cos that was shots fired in advance.

Instead she carried herself BACK to the same home and ended up fighting with the aggrieved wife. Small girl Mnena, Haba! Your effrontery is legendary. Look at your yellow pawpaw skin, that should tell you anything that causes fight should be very far from you. What were you thinking?

Please get well soon.

Lovethaa:
Earlier thread https://www.nairaland.com/6326669/think-boyfriend-fetish

Dear Valenciabaddie

We met at House on the rock lekki which is a petecostal

Did you slap her because of her initial post? I read that post and even made a comment but I didn't see her tag you - at least not in the initial post. Why did you have to slap her though? Was there any reason to go violent on her? Did she use your picture along with your own surname and first name in the initial thread? I think you have anger problems which you need to work on. No one would have known you personally until you felt the need to shalaye. Smh.

I think you truly have some fetish thing going on and that's on you. Your girlfriend has every right on earth to move on if she's uncomfortable with it, she ain't your wife. Even wife/husband can move on due to fetish reasons so who do you think you are? Because you gave her phone or 100k? Shior!!!

If someone whether church or not gives you a black soap to use for 7 days for whatever reason, that there is FETISH! Bros, be warned! Mind yourself and leave that lady alone. You date someone from your church next who will never second guess your white candles or black soap but even join you in bathing and burning incense.

@Valenciabaddie, thank God you dodged a bullet. Please go for prayers and fasting in your local church especially if you were intimately involved with Lovethaa.

canttedra:
The recent topic on the home page motivated me to make this post, insisting that this is the only viable option.

Who will pay her Visa fee, flight fee, student application fee, school fees, book fee, accommodation fee et al
Has she worked enough to be able to do this or are her parents financially capable?

You are subjecting her to a lot of hardship if she has no intention of being a student now or has no money to further this quest. If you had genuine paper to be in the US, the normal thing is to marry and file for her. You will not be the 1st or last man to do this.

Alas, you don't want to do this due to your principle. Why not let her go while you carry on with your life. Try marry good girl for America oh when u nor go file paper for, rent house for or pay school fees for. Nothing do you. For this life, we all have conviction and choice

Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys .. need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?

Child, child, child, how many times did I call you?

tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them a

They say black man nor like to help theirselves abroad. Well not all black men but it's kinda easier with Asians. Your own was to help if you could. I'm not sure if you want the ladies to be kissing your feet upndan after the
help. Besides they are only friends with no strings attached, so what would you have required from them afterwards
on a continuous basis? God Amighty helps us too whether we fail him or not later. Try and be like your heavenly father

debbiebianca2:
A staff of Ghana's Kotoka International Airport has been nabbed after /cWvO47pqoj4

You work in a privileged place as the international airport in your country and you turn around to do this? Smh

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months, almost a year now and well and see if he's different in the future?

Does he work? Very important o! If he is a student or is currently jobless please ignore the message below.

It is only normal that he shows a measure of care if you have been scammed of your entire savings. This is not limited to money alone but just care and concern about you suffering any kind of loss.
Now to the koko, he may not have the world but at least a small sum to help you get back on your feet or at least a promise to try if he is expecting funds. If he says absolutely nothing about your predicament or feigns ignorance when you complain, I'll be worried about such a man.

Finally, also remember a boyfriend is not an ATM machine. If he has, he will give but he is under no pressure to cater for your every need just because he is dating you.
Ask your parents for money if you need it for your upkeep.

The average Nigerian girl with gimmie gimmie mentality will get a huge culture shock when she relocates to the west.

expressglory:
For those who want to see the clothes they were wearing....
Whether you want to hear or not....this is good news for the parents. I dont know why some people are not happy? Haba...this country citizens are somehow oooo

My happiness is not complete. Where are the remaining Chibok girls? Why are bandits, killer herdsmen and kidnappers still having a field day up north and in the middle belt region? Meanwhile if military wants to quell uprising in the south, they are able to achieve this effortlessly. How many years have we been battling Boko Haram now?