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tay0:
Dear all,

A light blue Toyota Camry with registration number AGL627FT was snached at gun point around mandate Ilorin Kwara state. Please call this number if sighted 0-8-0-3-2-0-6-9-2-9-1

@mods please help move this to front page

VIN: 4T1BE46K48U766484

Such a unique color, the police can help in recovering it. May the vehicle be found

Jullima:
Really OP? Your family want to mark his twin girls with a fetish tribal mark and you expect the man not to take his girls and run?? I am sorry if I am the man I would do the same, any access to the girls is enough time to give them the mark. It’s not everyone that believes in mumbo jumbo and for those that believe are freaked when it’s coming from a source they aren’t familiar with.

God bless you. The man is worried, not only about the mark but fetish things

bestmutiu2019:
please don't mind my bad English,please I need you to help me or
PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO,I TOLD MY SENIOR BROTHER TO TAKE ACTION THEY COME UP WITH NOTHING,PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE,COS I CAN KILL THIS MAN

You cannot kill anybody, go and sit down and marry your own wife then mark your kids face as you desire.
You conspire with false prophets masquerading as men of God and you attempt occultic and fetish things on children of how old? Their mother is disturbing them bawo? Do you know the emotional issues some adults (who were given tribal marks on their face) deal with?
Make una go siddon jo

Olabestonic001:
Sterling Mastercard is your best bet.

Thank you

Hello all,
Please what Nigerian card is best used for payment on CIC website? I am trying to pay the sum of 1,200CAD (about N330,000) from a Zenith Mastercard and I am having a tough time doing this. I kept getting code 483 error. What could be the problem?

Brandonx:
How can you call yourself a Christian and still partake in sharing of ill gotten funds. If the fund is legit, serve God with all your heart and do your job diligently.

Believe greater is he that is in you than he that is in the world.

God bless you, perhaps it is the ill funds that is affecting him.

In other news, if you are in tune with God and you are living as a tenant in a ''juju'' house or you are working in a company where they are ''using'' staff head for juju, you will know. Your spirit will tell you.

lalasticlala:
A Twitter user, Tenacity, has shared note, Tenacity wrote:

“I wasn’t ever given a fair chance to clear my name or explain my side of the story or verify whether any of the allegations against me were true or not” - Izu 1/ pic.twitter.com/dlBDw8Hyts

— Tenacity (@NewDawn9Ja) July 27, 2020

So sad, it wasn't enough to commit suicide though. RIP youngman

ikoroduarea:
Hi all,

I will really appreciate if moderator can help push this to front page.

in abroad.

I hope you realize "special package" can be bought and used by both girls and boys. Lol

Godlovesyou28:
I type this with so much pain and sense of loss. I found out about two years ago that my step mum is not my real mum (everyone keeps wondering why am just waking up to the obvious).

I want to find my real mother . l don't know why I can't sleep or think about anything else. I need closure. I have been advised to sue my dad and am considering it. Please help me, I can't bear knowing I have a mother out there and not know who she is. Please help!

Don't sue anyone. Be smart. Allow me go spiritual, the bible says in Mark 9:29 that So He said to them, “This kind can come out by nothing but prayer and fasting.” In this your case, it means you need to use proper sense to get what you want. Smile with dad, laugh with dad and step mum. Don't do gra gra with them, you will find out what you seek with patience, prayers and perseverance. You may come across some documents some day (fat chance) but your key may be speaking with relatives. They know, not anyone is scared of him. Confide in one of them, pray before you commence discussion, win their trust, help them, one of them will open up. And when they do, protect that individual, do not make noise or raise dust about your biological mum and what your dad did or did not do. Just carry on with your life jejely and build a relationship with her. All the best. Be calm, don't sue anyone...

by the way, what of your birth certificate?

Championxxx:
No he doesn’t pay me any salary but he provide for my needs he buys me clothes , foods , airtime sometimes he give me 5k ,3k but no more than that

Why not get a job that pays you. Learn a trade, give yourself a short while and move out

miniziter:
It's already 2 years and the husband can't go to work not to talk of bringing money. He can't perform on bed and she has been the one doing the cleaning of all his mess.

The most annoying thing is that the family members of the husband despite being okay financially failed to help the family. Now she planning to either stay with the man and have a cuncubine outside or leave the man outrightly.

Which do you advise?

NB: They just gave to a child and she's still young. On the way, if she leaves the man, he may not see someone that will take care of him like she used to do.

Why is this question even asked? Nor be marriage abi na boyfriend? Smh

oshozondii:
https://ait.live/breaking-dss-arrests-convener-of-arewa-lives-matter-to-stop-planned-thursday-protest/amp/?__twitter_impression=true

Be careful young man. Ask Sowore how far...

NwekeUG:
https://www.facebook.com/1684425015103776/posts/2647154522164149/


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FSTRc9QFqbg

This is a huge loss to her family and the nation. After all the training and all both by the Navy and her parent. hmm. May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace...

IgbalodeRaymond:
my heart bleeds for this poor creature

I think religion has done more harm than good to mankind.
especially in Africa because the whites can never be this barbaric.

This how some neighbourhood are labelling my beautiful and healthy cat a witch
some say that I'm a witch and use it for Witchcraft lol
the same cat that I've been with since its kitten days till now
Infact my cat is like 6 years old now glittering and shinning, big, smart and healthy.
the bond between me and him is so strong that he can sense me by mere opening of my family's gate and if you see how he rushes out to greet me ehh.
when I visit my family house and sleep in my room he'll climb on top of my chest and start sleeping.
he feel so comfortable and safe with me.

the same cat i feed sardine and geisha twice or trice per day since his kitten days till now.
well I don't care about their primitive black religion beclouded dull brain, they dare not come near to my cat because the last person that stone my cat on basis of false religion believe wished he was never born because i slapped the hell out of him and arrested him for trespassing.
I don't joke with my cat

RIP owl

EDIT
for those asking pictures

If your neighbors feel this way, keep your cat safe to avoid poisoning.

MoIbrahim:
If you are less than 45, pls go and do a good masters in the Europe or US, then stay there or come home to get a good job. They should open doors.
Building won't open doors.

USA is not it for now oh! Trump dey tighten immigration laws upndan

Oracle55:
Please my fellows i need your advice, i am in between 2 choices. I have this land i just bought and wana build my house i have fenced it and out gate but i am thinking if to use the money i got to develop the land or i use it and travel abroad (uk ) for my masters pls advice me.

For those abroad is it easy there and can i get a good job after my masters or i should remain here in Nigeria and get married?

I will need to sell my car and properties if i am to travel.

Please help move to front page for more views and suggestions thanks

Leave UK alone, try Canada or Australia. Do your research on countries that currently have a friendly pathway to allowing students work after studies and naturally transition to PR

Mvici:
I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.

I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the

Thanks everyone.

Life is not that deep. Breathe in and out slowly and repeat after me, "life is not that deep "

Greenvaiper:
She has even become more useful to her family in death than when she was alive. Nice one

Not true. How much can you place on human life? How much is a mother's hug and sound counsel worth? Those her kids have lost that.
She was very young and at the prime of her life. She had a budding business idea for her school. She just received grant to set it up. Do you know how well her school would have done and the turnover she would have made?
The money is definitely useful for her childrens education but you can't say she is more useful in death. Let us be mindful of our words

So many pained responses on this thread

azmanaty02:
Nawao

But why must women always cheat in relationships?? Can't they keep their ass down in one place??

Is that an excuse for murder? If every woman on earth killed her cheating partner, do you know the number of people who will die?

DenreleDave:
Sometimes back, naso I arrange appointment with a lady.. Naso the lady come, entertained her, she carry her smoke. Naso Night reach as we don do do finish, we kon sleep. Trust mi, I cud not sleep overnight. Yes I could not sleep.

https://www.nairaland.com/5931024/ekiti-state-student-dies-boyfriends

This does not really add up. Someone can sleep with her boyfriend and still die in the morning. Shebi you know. know be only night person dey die...

DenreleDave:
My fellow guys, I know how it feels when a lady turns down your request.... I have been in your shoes before and I can tell how its hurts

Nevertheless, don't be bothered because a lady turned you down, what you should focus on is how to improve your self so that when she sees you in the next coming years, she will envy you and want a comeback with you...

Example: I have an ex that I loved so much then.. I did everything to please her and she still fvcked up later... That was 2015... But now, I can't see her naked and get erection.... She Don fat and look less beautiful than b4.....

2ndly, there is this lady I like so much during my ND days, she was in business admin, I was in banking and finance but our lecture hall is beside each other... Very beautiful and nice shape..

Today, I saw her in the bank... I think she is married and she Don fat small... I began to wonder if this is the same lady I trip for then in school.....

So guys, focus on getting better than b4... Don't feel sad bcox she turned u down.... U may see her 3 years later and thank God that u never approached her......

Note: all I'm saying is don't waste ur useful life wanting to please a lady.. Develop ursef and see ladies striving to please you.

Be wise... Focus on ur life rather than shaping ursef for a woman to accept u

What is all the fat shaming for? Person when dey university over how many years ago and the same person when don marry born children, how many go remain the way dem be for university? Please grow up! Even you talking are not the same way you were at the university

ZeroShenanigan:
I'm above mid thirties, finished NYSC 2015 and i just secured a government teaching job after spending more than 3
Advise is needed if my plan for divorce is a good one and do I stand a chance of loosing anything?

You have options. Don't punish yourself and your wife. I hope the woman works too, cos these options will require money to be spent.

www.bellanaija.com/2014/06/ask-dr-craig-sickle-cell-disorder/amp/?espv=1
Take note of these options
1. Prenatal diagnosis
2. Pre implantation Genetic Diagnosis (PGD)

Sermwell:
We had to settle
please I need your opinion. Do you think it's wrong to visit someone you are dating without prior notice??

What is there to hide?

kingi777:
Good day Nairalanders.
Corona virus (Covid-19) is real!
Do you know anybody anywhere in Nigeria who has died as a result of Covid-19?

May his gentle soul rest in peace

dongodav:
Hi all the moguls,

Please there is this com person will take 288K while I have the remaining 500K.

Also, is it advisable to post his name, company's name and phone number online? Cos it might be illegal to do that except with a legal backup.

It is well with you. So sorry for your loss.
Truly, you don't need an agent to do school visa or admission for you unless you have complex visa refusal issues in the past bothering on fraud, lies or the likes. In such cases, I'll recommend specialist immigration help in navigating the situation.

Other than that, not sure why a student will be going for travel agent. Study these things yourself. Nairaland is an excellent resource. I know people who have relied solely on Nairaland or online information to travel out. Once again, sorry for your loss.

LinLinGentle:
Disclaimer: I AM NOT A SAINT AND MY WIFE IS NOT THE DEVIL. I HAVE JUST BEEN UNFORTUNATE TO BECOME A VICTIM OF MATRIARCHY WHICH MANY MEN SUFFER ABROAD...

I have been hustling abroad for a few years while wifey was working in Nigeria and living with children. Marriage has always been turbulent and we even almost got divorced after I travelled out. We somehow worked on our issues with the help of pastors, family and friends, and after a few years of ''roughing'' it abroad to pave way for them, I finally succeeded and my family arrived a few months ago.

UPDATE:

Divorce has now been filed. I also recently got lucky as I was able to secure a restraining order when she messed up again and hit me daring me to do my worst. I called the police and made a proper case and she was arrested. She has been banned from the house for a month. The police advised me to talk to my lawyer and extend indefinitely if I want to. I hope to get this done ASAP. The law here does not only protect women but also protects innocent men. All you need is patience and wisdom. Thank you all for your ideas. Still several hurdles to cross but I am on the winning side for now.

Be careful. We know these tactics. She wants you to leave the house for her. She is in the West so she stands to get a lot from the courts (probably along with the kids) at the end of the day. Document what you are going through secretly for your own sake. Goodluck. it is well with you

michlins:
I have to tell you but there's nothing wrong with what she asked. She told you that she wants the child from within the family and she has stayed to mourn your uncle respectfully.


This is totally in line with our tradition as Igbo people. Even the Bible supports the idea

Is op the only male in his family? Why must it be him?
@Modesthy please flee from that woman and give her a clear NO for an answer.
If she insists, let her go and call a meeting with the family men and not you or better still, let her remarry

Balogun106:
The spot i had was very close to my nipple areas, during the process i was applying the chemical it normally slides to other surrounding area of my skin

It is well with you bro. Please do not apply anything for now. Leave the skin to heal naturally. But if it persists, then carry yourself to hospital to see a dermatologist at a government hospital, you wont pay so much compared to private hospital. Sorry to say but nothing was wrong with the skin before you began applying the first product. That tiny weeny light area barely visible is what pushed you to do what you did. Please try and work on your self confidence too. Be strong, it is well

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

It is well. Hustle harder. Your wife is not being fair right now but just ignore her and try to upgrade yourself. It is well.


[s]One last thing, if you can help it and once things normalize, please park out of that area[/s]

goodman41:
I met her when she came for her IT at my place of work. One day I collected her number but I didn't call her till she finished her IT and went back to school.

One day
Please is this girl really serious with this relationship or she just wants to use me?

Money for tfare, money for recharge card, money for hair. Before sex, money. After sex money. Before visit, money. Where yall seeing this type of ladies from? Goodness me!