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FamilyRe: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by stonecoldcafe: 2:18pm On Nov 01, 2020
Broken2020:
I am losing access to my son, all I have worked for is about to crash before me. My baby mama’s friend has dealt a hard blow on my relationship.

Don’t mind my grammatical errors
Please I need advice, I just look at my son and cry because I know what I went through growing up with my dad and stepmom.
I think you took this girl for granted. Excuses too full your mouth as to why you have not made an honest woman of her. People are always advising you, dont marry now, have the kid et al. 2014 till 2020 is an incredibly long time to leave a lady hanging. Unless you don't have legal right to remain in your abroad, you should hv settled this lady since. Yes, there is a pandemic but inside this pandemic, people hv been getting married still, traveling home too. Your excuses are too much sir.

Don't get anyone else begging her. Stop crying for her, all na wash. She's probably heard you cry since 2015 when you begged her to terminate the pregnancy which today, you so dearly cling on to now and proclaim your son as your life.

Now what should you do? If this lady is good and you still want to end up with her. draw up a plan where you can get home n formalize marriage with her. Don't call to beg and cry again. Send an audio or write a message detailing when you will come to see her family. Be very realistic and honest about this. Tell her your short term plan THAT INCLUDES HER AND YOUR SON as it relates to uniting as a family. Then wait for her response. If she still says no, then the game is truly over. In that case try to have a civil relationship with her for the sake of your son.

But if she is a reasonable woman, you should get something positive. Good luck
PoliticsRe: Reno Omokri Reacts As Trump Sends Soldiers To Rescue 1 Man, Calls Out Buhari by stonecoldcafe: 11:42am On Nov 01, 2020
Villagemeat:
If Buhari wants to end Boko Haram in one month,he will archived it.......there is something more about Terrorism in Nigeria that we are yet to know
God bless you
HealthRe: I Finally Took The Hiv Test And The Result Is.... by stonecoldcafe: 11:30pm On Oct 31, 2020
Bellotelli:
This is about the first story I'll be posting here, so please pardon my typo and I'll try to make it a short one.


AND FOR MY NOW EX... I'll Like to sit down with her in order to know the truth. I want to know how she contracted HIV.
Try and retake this test after another 3 months just to be super sure. Remember window period...
CultureRe: The Returned Oba’s Staff is Fake - Royal Prince Calls Out Oba Of Lagos (Video) by stonecoldcafe:
amaifehenry:
The Returned Oba’s Staff is fake - Royal Prince
to Oba of Lagos


There is trouble in the Palace!!

The Royal Prince to Oba of Lagos calls out Oba of Lagos and his Chiefs for replicating the staff and lying to people, that hoodlums returned the original one stolen during the invasion of thugs in the palace last week.

Watch:

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A whole oba of Lagos? Apparently this oba is not respected for reasons best known to his subjects. Even stealing his staff and swimming in his pool. SMH. He must have really done very little for his people.
I schooled in Edo State. Plenty chiefs dey but the Oba of Benin reigns supreme. You CAN'T publicly come out whether chief or not and talk down the Oba of Benin. If you do, Benin will tag you an enemy of the Oba and such a man will be shunned.

I honestly find videos like this puzzling based on what I grew up seeing
PoliticsRe: Goodluck Jonathan Observing Tanzanian Election (Photos) by stonecoldcafe: 5:58pm On Oct 28, 2020
omooba969:
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You come across as one who suddenly forgets his sorrow due to being drunk.
Ok
PoliticsRe: Goodluck Jonathan Observing Tanzanian Election (Photos) by stonecoldcafe: 11:51am On Oct 28, 2020
AprokoGirl:
Shared with Caption...



Source: https://web.facebook.com/jonathangoodluck/photos/pcb.3631785713538443/3631785456871802/?type=3&theate
GEJ, by 1 single action managed to change his entire legacy. Today most (especially in the international community) know him as a peaceful leader who didn't hang on to power drunkenly but instead stretched out a hand of friendship to the opposition
FoodRe: The N500 Onions I Bought Today In Port Harcourt. by stonecoldcafe: 11:40am On Oct 28, 2020
Benblaq:
I don't know if it's everywhere, or just this River State that the price of groceries is this high. How's it in your place?
Eh yah, PH has always been on the expensive side due to una oil
FamilyRe: 'I Don't Help Single Mothers' - Reno Omokri by stonecoldcafe: 11:47pm On Oct 26, 2020
dickt:
A question you should ask yourself in other to find answer your questions: what percentage of girls are well behaved?
The small Chibok girls were. Thank you
FamilyRe: 'I Don't Help Single Mothers' - Reno Omokri by stonecoldcafe: 3:18pm On Oct 26, 2020
IJOBA2:
WILL YOU KEEP KWAYET THERE. THEY WERE FORCES TO OPEN THEIR LEGS AT GUN POINT angry
Do you know some girls were raped through no fault of theirs and pregnancy resulted? Have you not heard virgin or even non virgin who got raped once and pregnancy resulted. Do you know what's like to live in a land or area filled with trouble. Why are we talking too much sef. What of the girls who were taken away by Boko Haram and made sex slaves? What of women who man marry and later run away to the abroad then marry there for papers and leave wife and children alone for decades. I personally know of 2 cases like this.

Let us be careful please. There are exceptions to every rule. Life can throw people curve balls. Some ladies do it on purpose but some others stumble upon hard circumstances . Let us be gentle with our words
CrimeRe: Where Do Bullets Go When Fired Straight Into The Air? by stonecoldcafe: 3:29pm On Oct 24, 2020
ShoProperties:
We see military personnel everyday shooting bullets in the air in a bid to either scare away civilians or announce their arrival to restore sanity to an already deteriorating event, either way, most people get to wonder where the bullets that are shot straight up into the air goes to and if by any chance they can cause any form of damage or injury.
Is this not the case of people sleeping and bullets pierce their roof and land on their feet? May God not permit us to see bad thing
CrimeRe: Aftermath Of Lekki Shootings & Looting: Lekki Becomes A Shadow Of Itself (Video) by stonecoldcafe: 2:08pm On Oct 23, 2020
OGPw[/quote]So sad seeing this. I remember this spot. Smh
EducationRe: My 3-Year-Old Son Can't Read Or Write Letters, Please Help by stonecoldcafe: 2:04pm On Oct 23, 2020
kenny1111:
Good afternoon everyone,

please I need advice from all parents and Educators and parents on Nairanland. today I just realized my 3years old son cant even read Letters A to F talk less of A to Z but can read Figure 1 to 10, I am seriously worried.

I don't stay at home except for weekends as I am working outside my state, but due to the curfew I find my way back home yesterday so I was able to discover this problem in the early hours of today.

I know the mother is trying cos I have seen different live videos where she was teaching him and working on his assignment, most times I pity the boy so much because of the beating from his mum alone makes me sick but I can't really complain since I know is for his own good and I know how stressful it is for a mother with 2 kids to manage her time and all that....

I called his teacher immediately and she told me my son will be going to Nursery class when the present term is over due to his age, sadly she didn't say things I expect to hear from her so I told her I will visit the school once the curfew is over, I need explanation, is private school that bad these days ? my son can't even write 2 and 3

I have bought Video CD, bought many play book materials containing letters and figures displayed boldly, I bought counting and so on when he was 2 years so i expect a better result by now.

pls sir and ma, I need help on how to guide this boy to learn better, what should I do and how should I go about it.

Note: any time I am home, I always go through his books, assignments and read his school rhymes for him.

pls Help

concerned Daddy
Tell your wife to stop beating him please
PoliticsRe: Sanwo-Olu Confirms Two Deaths From Lekki Shooting by stonecoldcafe: 11:16pm On Oct 22, 2020
babyfaceafrica:
Summary of the speech:
1. Do not take my quietness for weakness
2. Youths, we have heard you loud and clear. Stop protesting
3. International communities, please mind your business and face your own country
4. Mentioned list of his government's initiatives for the youths
5. Please go about your normal businesses
6. We will not tolerate any further nonsense.
NB : Its a subtle speech laden with threat.

God bless Nigeria
Thank you
Christianity EtcRe: Usher Tried To Seize A Church Member’s Phone In Church (Video) by stonecoldcafe: 11:57pm On Oct 18, 2020
It depends on the church. I once attended a much talked about church on the mainland. As they sang, I decided to record the song. I've never heard it before and I really liked it. My plan was to listen to it later at home. I've done this severally in my own church with no issues.

The second I pulled out my phone and began recording, someone tapped me from behind and informed me it was not allowed in that church. I quickly respected myself before they usher me out. So yeah, churches differ
RomanceRe: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by stonecoldcafe: 11:30pm On Oct 14, 2020
nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.

It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.

When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.

But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc.

I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.

We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?
He is not your friend but your ex. Give yourself some much needed boost and block him. You are married, face your home and your family. Never ever give an ex room to have conversations where they jokingly, seriously or without thinking even utter "na me give you belle? Am I the father of your kids"
Put an end to such disrespect towards your dear husband and family.

BLOCK HIM!!!
EventsRe: Abuja Bride Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Groom Slept With Bridesmaid by stonecoldcafe: 11:25pm On Oct 14, 2020
EyezofGod120:
grin that gel no get sense,,if bride know the number of gels we don fvck none of dem go marry us,,
This shit is painful oh. That's her bridesmaid, someone she knows. There is a major difference there o
CelebritiesRe: Chacha Eke Pregnant With 4th Child, Says That's Reason For Her Bipolar Disorder by stonecoldcafe: 2:33am On Oct 14, 2020
TMSMedia:
Chacha Eke Says She Is Prregnant And That's The Reason For her Bipolar Disorder (Video)

Actress Chacha Eke Faani /?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
And this here is the reason why they advice people not to interfere in husband and wife matter.
The next person they may use and settle quarrel will be Caroline aka Hutchings. Marriage is a mystery oh...
PoliticsRe: "We Can't Survive Without Yahoo Boys" - Prostitutes Join #EndSARS Protest by stonecoldcafe: 5:42pm On Oct 10, 2020
Doraty1:
"We can't survive without 'Yahoo boys" - Prostitutes laments as they join #ENDSARS protest

https://youtD4Bkw
https://twitter.com/vanguardngrnews/status/1314899234542489605?s=19[/quote]You can do better dear. They have nothing to offer you. End SARS for the right reasons and not because you will miss yahoo boys
CrimeRe: 10-Month-Old Girl Dies After Being Raped By Her Father In US (Photos) by stonecoldcafe: 3:43pm On Oct 08, 2020
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Bleaching causes cancer
CrimeRe: 10-Month-Old Girl Dies After Being Raped By Her Father In US (Photos) by stonecoldcafe: 3:39pm On Oct 08, 2020
saaphiere:
Never leave your girl child with any man be it her father.
God forbid bad thing. If I can't leave our daughter with her dad, why did I marry him? Please let the spirit of God direct you and these sort of things will not be your portion. Don't allow fear wreck you oh! cry
CelebritiesRe: Davido Cancels Lil Frosh's Recording Contract For Assaulting Gift Camille by stonecoldcafe: 5:45pm On Oct 06, 2020
Sheynex:
Davido Music Worldwide, DMW have sacked his recent signed artist, Lil Frosh from DMW record label for beating his girlfriend.



https://www.instagram.com/p/CGAUNNNBtxQ/?igshid=1k0xytmddutpy
What of the other one (his handbag) that has had series of rape allegation levelled against him? The one that had to cancel his historical tweets where he kept threatening rape? That one with locs? grin
PoliticsRe: Fani-Kayode Praising Wife Months Before Marriage Collapsed (Video) by stonecoldcafe: 3:37pm On Oct 05, 2020
festacman:
Precious is mentally deranged yet you courted her, lived with her and slept with her daily when you need children.

Precious is a cheater and a 'semi-prostitute', yet you comfortably didn't bother as you shared her with 'her other lovers', made her pregnant twice in your hallowed bedroom and showed her off with pride.

Precious is not a wife material, yet you praised her daily on social media and even on one occasion released tips on how to keep a beautiful woman like Precious.

Look Femi Fani Kayode, it is so SAD that you used Precious' eggs and womb to beget sons that you had been longing for. Thereafter, you called the dog a bad name, hanged it and moved on as if no heart was broken.

The sadder thing is that Precious may not touch her handsome sons again until, may be, when they are adults looking for her.

Sad, really sad.
Spot on
Christianity EtcRe: Challenges Of Getting Married To A Strict Christian by stonecoldcafe: 3:38pm On Oct 04, 2020
tobechi74:
They can be boring. No room for fun Always serious face. Hardly play with family

They do not know how to handle women . Most strict pastors spent their youthful days avoiding dating and friendships with ladies in general so as not to commit adultery.

They are fault finders . They go about looking for offence. Every thing is a sin.

They are not romantic They grew up avoiding ladies. They are not used to giving hugs and kisses. They only know one position. Anal sex is a sin. Only accepts style is missionary. The mouth is for praising God name and not oral.

They can be routinal .. They have a structured life style. Easily predictable. Wife feel bored.

Lack of emotional intimacy. Wife is emotionally starved. His priorities are in the things of the lord. Time for heart to heart discussion and he is quoting
Biggest lie EVER
CelebritiesRe: Illbliss And Wife Welcome Second Child, Rapper Shares A Heart-Touching Story by stonecoldcafe: 3:59pm On Oct 03, 2020
Thank you Jesus, baby is stronger.
Reddington? May God replenish your pocket Mr. Illbliss
CelebritiesRe: My Boyfriend Has Refused To Pick My Calls – Nengi (Video) by stonecoldcafe: 4:43pm On Oct 02, 2020
saphiere:
Big Brother Naija 2020 finalist, Nengi has spoken about her boyfriend in an interview with NaijaFM today.

The reality believes her boyfriend before the BBNaija house has broken up with her as he’s refused to pick her calls. She revealed they have been together for about 2 years.



Watch the video below:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=71JqSZhd_D8
Bless her heart. She tried. She really held herself for the fellow. Any future man who has a girl like Nengi would have peace knowing full well that she is very faithful. Please no one should comment on her having a good time and dancing with Lekan. That was always for fun. Na date she dey date, nor b marry. She was certainly allowed to do that
CelebritiesRe: Laycon's 'Baby Mama' Surfaces 'He Impregnated Me After A One-Night Stand (Video) by stonecoldcafe: 7:37pm On Oct 01, 2020
Romanoff:
There was a lady who boldly came out on social media claiming Burna Boy got her pregnant, I no know where she dey today but last post I saw of her, there was no pregnancy or baby.

Why did this baby mama wait till he won 35mil before saying something. Why didn't she search him out on social media to let him know he's a father, when BB Naija started and he was trending, why didn't she chat his handler's up with receipt?

There's almost no man in his age bracket who is not obsessed about sex. I just think it's funny how she's just coming out.

35 mill got rodents, exes and baby mamas creeping out of different holes and corners. Some women have no shame.

Thank God for DNA.
I remember this story then. It was a very strange one but it fizzled out after a while
PoliticsRe: Meet Femi Fani-Kayode's 5 Girlfriends, To Marry One As 5th Wife - Kemi Olunloyo by stonecoldcafe: 9:59pm On Sep 26, 2020
donaldeke:
As shared by Kemi Olunloyo



https://mobile.twitter.com/KemiOlunloyo/status/1309103446348398596


Kemi Olunloyo wrote:



https://mobile.twitter.com/KemiOlunloyo/status/1309132006568198148
Kemi is doing all this with FKK's blessing in order to spite Precious. I hear this a tactic he uses whenever any woman leaves him. If you choose to fight your battles like this no wahala. But if Precious was not caught with a man and someone else is flinging that in for extra measure, let's just say it is most unfair
FamilyRe: Today Is My 10th Year Marriage Anniversary by stonecoldcafe: 3:15am On Sep 26, 2020
Congratulations to you and your dear wife. She is a very pretty woman
Technology MarketRe: Is NIPOST Deliberately Withholding Phones Ordered From Aliexpress? by stonecoldcafe: 5:46am On Sep 21, 2020
Valentinooo:
On the 7th of March, I ordered a phone which was shipped on the 18th of March. Ever since then, nothing has been heard of it.
So sorry this is happening to you. Is there a possibility to choose DHL for delivery and pay any customs due at the point of sale as opposed to paying for it on arrival. Or better still make person just waka enter Slot to solve all this problem. I hope you get help here...
PoliticsRe: Ize-Iyamu Complained About Wike In Edo: What Is Governor Of Rivers Doing In Edo? by stonecoldcafe: 6:59pm On Sep 20, 2020
Chukwute:
Pastor Osagie Ize Iyamu, APC gubernatorial candidate was captured lamenting about Wike’s presence while making a phone call after casting his vote in Edo.

According to the guber candidate who was speaking to an unknown person at the other end of the call, he wondered what the Governor of Rivers State is doing, insisting that he has no business in Edo State despite the freedom of association.

Watch the video igshid=t69roc9u8v0q
Was Ganduje not in Edo too?

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