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The list is endless.

Amen and yes I believe its going to be a good year for me.

Y cheating in the first place when she is readily available to give it to you, even if she is not there, hug Jesus and you will be fine.

Gpopsicle:
Hello guys,sincerely I am caught up in d middle of something very delicate to me and I honestly need advice from d matured ones here.permit ma mistakes n writing and I would appreciate no insults, thanks.

sometime in august ds year,I asked a certain girl out who happens to be my girlfriend at d moment. unfortunately for me I never knew she was in a relationship at dt time until we had a heart to heart discussion where she opened up and told me. what really got me most was d fact dt she lied Initially and told me d guy was just her friend. Well,she felt remorse for her deeds and has since den proven to me dt she dosent have anything to du with him any longer and dt her heart ,love and soul were meant for me.

Also while we were having our discussion,she opened up to me dt she has only had sex with two guys. well,I am a guy who appreciates d 'no sex' n a relationship. I still understood and handled d matter n d best way I could.

Fast forward to today....we were chatting recently and I asked dt same question and ds time she gave me an answer dt took me aback. dese time d number had increased to 4guys...though dey were all n her past .I am not throwing stones at her or placing any judgments kos I also have my pasts and have made mistakes but d fact dt she wasnt truthful at first struck me. d most painful and annoying thing s dt one of d guys who had slept with her is a very good friend of mine who happens to attend d same church with me. she told me about how klose she was with him and when asked if dey had any strings attached, she ended up saying dey were just friends den Buh never told me dt dey dated...her reasons were dt she was scared of losing me if she had told me earlier on...

As I type ds,she has requested for distance till she gets herself.well she apologized and has shown remorse..

I love her so much and she also do love me and I wouldnt mind taking her down d aisle.ds I have made known to her already. buh d point s ,how du I cope always seeing ds friend of mine knowing fully well he slept with ma 'potential wife'?it hurts....

ur advice would b duly appreciated...thanks

This is y I always advocate that we should let the sleeping dog be. Let our past remain in our past! Don't dig up what u cannot pack. Anyway, just pretend it never happened and move on with your girl, that is her past.

Wetin him wan take my past do? It is called past except it has anything to do with my present or that it will take life, in the absence of all these, let my past remain my past, and yours remain your past. I no wan develop high blood pressure, I no get that liver,mbanu hapu ifegaraga ko ga bikonu, let bygone be bygone. E je kin ohun tii ojo gbelo duro sii bi to sho de! Te mi nii mo so ooooo, na my own I talk ooooo

Ruleboi:
I think you are just being a "woman" and African. The love between everyone in my family is rock solid. No discrimination whatsoever. Both my mum and my wife are lively cheerful people. I find this stance and the whole argument so "petty". I mean, it is just a picture for God's sake. The pettiness in the discussion was what really pissed me off. It shouldn't even had been an issue at all. I guest you womenfolks are just what you are. You can be troublesome at times

Yes oooooo, you are right. We carry the wahala for head no be small especially we the jealous type! But all the same, it's a small matter you should be able to handle and not necessary bring it here online to be debate upon, as there are so many kids and uncultured fellow here who might take the opportunity to insult and yab we the women folks. So just give her a kiss and gbam! it is over. God bless your home Amen!

Smmmhhhhhh, with all this noise, how I wish she will be the only woman in his life forever! 2nd, 3rd and 4th wife still loading, so what is all the noise about. Did i hear somebody say am jealousy!!! Na na na na, I can never be jealous of her because as she dey so, no peace of mind for her because any sight of an unknown girl around the guy, go dey give her bp, and me I no want that kind one. Na my own I talk ooooo

sweetcocoa:
Some women leave me speechless.

Are u sure those girls are normal? Is their brain still intact? Honestly, I doubt if those girls are normal, something is wrong somewhere. What kind of poverty will make a girl stoop so dirty as to the level of a dog. Dear Lord, I ask you hasten your coming before the devil destroys even your elect. I can't believe this is really real!! Jesus save my country and is people, na beg I dey beg baba God biko, ejooo oluwa mii.....

BabaRamota1980:
This adultery thing was addressed to women, not men. It is Godly to have more than one wife and therefore enter into marriage with multiple women.
Women are to keep one husband and the law is intended for them to guard their chastity.

You try, you hear. Read am well. Naim make marriages they divorce this days. Na only women God create. God himself talk am say a man shall leave his father and mother and cling to his wife (and not wives) and they both shall become one! So any married man wey sleep with another woman wey no be him wife don commit adultery no be only woman. If you want your wife to dey faithful, you self must be faithful, if no be so, two of una go dey dash una self different diseases and infection as a result of una adultery. Na my own I talk oooooo, no be only women the law dey for, men too must respect the laws of God. Take care

dauntless15:
with all this theres no hope for the common man, buhari should lead by example and let one poor man marry his daughter

you funny no be small, if na u, u go gree poor man marry your beautiful daughter like this.

byvan03:
Please carry your cross without roping other men in, WTF is "we men? ".

Oh my gosh! I am loving this! Op u are in soup today, let other unfaithful men like u learn not to toil with their wives ooooo

Ujoan:
Mumu!

See the kind of men women marry these days.

Olodo! !!

Hahahaha... I dey your back my friend, only be say I dey hold myself for the matter if not, I for talk pass u self. Op, you dey provoke us women with these your unremorseful words, oga take time abeg.

FortuneTeller:
You are a Godless shameless man. Look how you blame your wife saying she does not want sex when she visits you. You have been having sex with a young girl for almost a year without protection. You think it is your right to LovePeddler yourself to other women while your wife is raising your children. Your wife is in the US abi? She has someone by God's grace and will forget you. She will raise her children in the authority of the Lord and teach them the wicked ways of evil men. Some other man will become the father to your children so they do not know of your disgusting deeds. Should you tell them of your wickedness, they will hate you. Don't worry about leaving your wife. She will leave you. Don't worry about divorce, she will divorce you. Her life will be settled while your troubles are begun.

I feel like blessing you with something for this your comments.. May God bless you, may God favour you. That op is something else honestly... Oga op, kwatinue

Amelian:
My dear, I will never understand nada

I schooled in Nigeria.. All my years in Nigeria. Am very OK.. Even better than some people abroad.

So am not understanding.. And I won't understand.. Cause have tasted the repercussions of polygamy.. Live and direct.. Not hear say.


Honestly u don't have an idea, what awaits in the future.

Until then, u will remember what have said.

God bless you my sister, abeg tell the man make him understand. Creating problems for innocent children to carry. Silly men everywhere!!!!!

Omegalala:
Hello folks, I need your advice on this.

I'm a married man with a wonderful wife and 2 kids. I love my wife. I'm not a womanizer, but very sexually active with my wife.

My wife, especially, is frustrated with Nigeria (no light, no good education for kids, traffic jams, etc). She suggested relocating to US. I supported and sponsored a legit relocation for her and the kids. But due to my good business clientele base in Nigeria and time required to get work permit for myself in US, I resorted to visiting them 2-3 times a year. They are really doing fine in the US.

Back home here in Nigeria, I won't lie, it gets lonely for me. Somehow I met a babe, a fresh graduate, who has most of the qualities of my wife. We dated for 8 months. Now she is pregnant (I fcked up!).

I'm pro-life, can't do abortion.
I love this babe too.

How can I handle the situation to keep both women happy?

Oga to be honest with you, you just ignite an everlasting fire, that can burn anything without mercy forever in your life if not handled carefully. Did you agree with the said girl to marry her? If yes, then you need no other advice than to marry her and if no, kindly let her be, wait for her to deliver, inform your wife after her delivery, take care of the child's up keep henceforth but please don't attempt to marry her if you did not promise her marriage. For the fact that she knew you are married with kids and still succumb to the relationship shows she is a home.....( make I no just call her names now, I know no whether oga still like her so) and such ladies I do pray everyday for them not to near my home. Oga, you have really hurt your wife honestly and don't make matter worst by attempting to marry that lady especially if you didnt promise her one. Men! Men!! Men!!! Huhhh! make una dey remember life after death oooooo, if you wouldn't want your wife to do same to you why doing it to her. Oga, I dey vex for you seriously, habaa; what happens to condom? I pray earnestly not to be in your wife shoes presently with what you have just done. Its so heartbreaking. Well, I shouldn't cry more than the bereave but just trying to be empathetical here towards your wife. My last words to you sir, 'Don't marry her, if you did not promise her marriage! But do take care of that bounty of joy when he/ she finally arrives. May God help you sir to be a faithful friend, father and husband to your wonderful family henceforth amen!

"If I shout 'BUHARI' you say 'HUNGERRRRRRRRRR'. " Na so my friend tell me this afternoon. Na waoooo, to buy rice now na big man matter. Anyway, make I comfort my self with our religious words of faith which says " It is Well" in Jesus name amen.

ripbubu:
Buhari will die soon

As I read this your comment heh, na laugh I just burst into because from all indication, the hunger really hold you no be small but in all make we comfort ourself with these words "It is well" in Jesus name amen.

kingui:
my brother is like your problem is bigger than the women's own you mean you have joined your spirit with more than 22 women. please are you married

Abeg forget that guy. How can he enjoy a stable relationship when he has 22 female spirit in him. Huhhhh! Some people are so much playing with their destiny!

sixtuschimere:
As shared by Christian......

'WHO CAN BATTLE WITH GOD?

JOHN THE EVIL BUTCHER WAS EXPOSED IN THE MARKET TODAY

Today, in a popular market called "Ahia Orie Ntigha" in Isiala Ngwa North in Abia State, South East Nigeria, a certain man named John who is generally known as an evil man in the community was exposed by the Almighty God today.

John was on his way to the market today when a greater power from heaven struck him down and he started rolling on the ground, using his teeth to eat and excavate the soil.

He mentioned three people whom he killed with his evil divination, including an old woman from his compound whom he testified that he incapacitated her children and rendered them useless. The woman whom he said he killed has helped him in the past but he killed the woman with his evil power, rendered her children poor, useless and worthless and took their destinies.

Few minutes later, John started discharging foam from his mouth. He was left all alone as no one bothered to help him and he died thereafter.

I pray for you reading this now, anyone holding your destiny and breakthrough, anyone planning to kill you or any member of your family, anyone who has gone to the darkness world with your name and photo, if they refuse to repent, before January 31, God will expose them, they will make an open confession and what happened to John today will happen to them in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

Type AMEN now and you will see the end of the evil ones in your life in Jesus’ name'


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2016/12/drama-as-unknown-force-strikes-man-who.html?m=1

Ohhhh, thank you Jesus as I say a big amen to that prayers.