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Brume01:
you are so right.

I reacted terribly yesterday ( Good thing was that I never expressed it at her, I was only boiling inside)

we talked a lot today. she told me that some things I tend to tolerate like her screaming when she wants to be heard, may be extremely offensive to my people.

she feels that will make them feel she is a bad person and all. so I understand her point.

the truth is she is a good woman and also try to learn. I know she may have forgotten but since I last admonished her not to raise her voice at me during arguments she had not repeated it ( and that's a big deal for a lady that has been used to screaming as a form of defense)

my own part is the fact that my mum actually hold her in high esteem and I just felt that she should At least open her heart to give them a chance. i don't entertain frequent visits from siblings but at least if they stroll come they shouldn't been tension.

the funny thing is that I told her I will Also love to entertain her family as guests but she wasn't too game for it. I know why though, I have seen some of her people and all I can say that the oppression she got from her own mother who got married another man still stings.

Thinee:
But she wanted to give me that a long time ago, I'm the one that rejected cus I felt she was under duress, cus that day we had issues so she woke me up at night and wanted me to do it.....I declined cus she wasn't her self....

Thinee:
I'm scared of been jilted on.... I'm scared of disappointment, you know nigeria girls , their matter nor good!!.... That's what if making me scared....if she come leave me nko?

Thinee:
I'm not sick my friend, maybe when you are in my shoes you will understand what I'm talking about

Trayceey:
not really. The first time he came to see her, which has been a while now, he didn't come empty handed

SilverNorGold:
Just DNA TEST? Not enough! Death sentence for paternity fraud!

And any woman who cheats on her husband should be sentenced to 20 years imprisonment!

These laws must be enacted as soon as possible before Nigeria becomes Sodom and Gomorrah!

God bless Nigeria.
So what happens to any man that cheats on his wife??

kosi2018:
me I nor de do pass my self oo, I'm a very cool headed person, me and my co wife are in very good terms, she is very cool headed just as I am, its just my bro inlaw that is behaving the way u don't understand. thanks for your input .

kosi2018:
I'm not disputing the fact that she came before me, which automatically makes her the first daughter inlaw of the family, she has two sons already and I'm still waiting on the lord, my concern is why is he acting as if I'm depriving his wife of anything, bringing of seniority issue at every slight opportunity, as someone advice before, I will find out, I want to know why he is feeling that way.

post=97330251:
Don't be a pedophile, she is only 15 years old.

Now, collecti and go straight to bed.......

mamajaz:
She go still burn the fat joor. When I was much younger, I was endowed with extra flesh. My pet name was hippopotamus...I almost had no shape, In fact, I was an only child of very comfortable parents and first grandchild to my grandparents for long so you can imagine all the concentrated cares .Before I left Uni I was leppa completely. Now after 2 children and a great degree of comfort, I'm eating everything that comes my way to add more fat...no gree. So, let's leave her to keep growing. She will burn the baby fat when she's more committed to reading.

God be with her and her siblings sis.

mamajaz:
Please, look at your children yourself oh. Please. I hate the boarding school ideas. Let them go daily, come home, tell you the guns they had or the challenges they faced on daily basis. Be observant too. That way, the tell tale signs can be easily recognized.
Thanks alot... My sole aim of sending her to boarding is for her to burn some fats...

I hope this boy gets adequate helps and the wicked seniors get punished.

mu2sa2:
Deeper life, deeper torture at a school owned by Oyedepo, the slapping genius.

TwoNoLove:
Ok I will try that sir. They usually told me if I know where I will live the life u want let me go na. But in as far am under their roof am under their control
This is said by My mother

Nazgul:
My dear I don't know. But from what I've read here it seems he was banned for derailing threads with his preaching.

Like I said all he has to do is to mail the mods and they'll unban him.

Nazgul:
Life is short just have fun while you can and stop worrying yourself over unnecessary things. All righteousness needs to do is to mail the mod who banned him and promise to turn a new leaf and his ban would be lifted.

Note I don't support his ban regardless of whatever it is he did

IamD18:
Pathetic penticostal clout chaser.

Always looking for a way to denigrate Catholics.

Hardly will you see them mind their business even during service without dragging Catholics unnecessarily.

They are always quick to forge and say disgusting things about Catholics while using the pattern... "I'm a catholic but"...

Foools that won't mind their business and allow Catholics rest.

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

illicit:
Have u ever been so broke that u start asking ur neighborhood traders if they owe u change

MeeztaFabulouz:
7 years of struggle to cater for and build a decent home, I have spoken so many times and to no avail. Since I was born up till this year, I hit a woman for the first time in my life. The reason is just because she did something stupid, I didn't want to get involved in any argument or fight, I just went to book a hotel room and had a quite time to myself that night till the next morning and on getting home she just attacked me saying I went to sleep with another woman.
I have given her the options so many times to go her way if she is not happy being with me but she won't go. As am writing this, I have not eaten her food since yesterday and I just got home only to see her serving me food and trying to make up but this is not the first time. I practically made her not go to the shop today and I was expecting to see that she went to the shop. When ever we talk, she listens and behave herself for a while but its like there is a spirit that comes into her and when it does, she forgets everything and only tries to bring trouble and more trouble.

Go back to your fathers house, she will not. Ok go and be with any other person that will tolerate your attitude she will not leave my house. All she does is money money money this and that. Even with her business, she does not use a dime for anything in the house aside her own stuffs.
Can you imagine she had a fight with me some time ago because I personally went to pay my kids school myself? All because I didn't give her the money to go and pay herself as I normally do?

Can you also imagine she had a fight with me one day all because I bought a jeans and slippers for myself without buying anything for her and the kids because I had bought some nice stuff for all of them including her like a week before then.

This is a woman that has never bought me even a boxers since marriage and has never gotten me anything gift for my birthday or anything but I just ignore all that and focus on making the family happy. Yet I am not happy in my home because I know what I go through especially this year that corona made things rough, I have passed through hell just to ensure my family is fine and we are not put to shame yet a matured thinking lady does not even care about anything.

Those saying I am a fool for thinking of suicide because of a woman, it is not because of the woman I am thinking of such, if you really know what depression can cause, knowing how hard you struggle to earn your money and spend it on someone who cares less for you, you will understand.

Anaerobi:
Did u read he said she changed?

Goalnaldo:
truth. I've never been to a club in my life. So what will make me to date a club girl?