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taiiremide:
Bro. Pls read again, we never had a fight before she left for Lagos. The only serious issue we had was when I saw 'call me back I love you' on her phone, I challenged her and she accused me of suspecting her, that I don't trust her. The second one was when my mum ask my son to go home with her, my wife stopped my mum, saying my nephew will beat him. I told my mum she can go with my son. She also accused me of putting my family above her, that I only respect my family that her opinion doesn't count, which isn't true. I love but I won't allow her to disrespect my mother.

It seems u really don't value and respect her views. Why will u instantly tell your mum to go with your son without prior discussion with your wife. From the little u have informed us here, it seems you value your parents and siblings more than your own family. I hope you are not the mummy type of husband. Call your wife and try sort out whatever issue u have with her. Value your marriage cos u wouldn't appreciate her now until u have a second wife. Our parents should stay away from our marriage. I dislike mother in laws and sister in laws interference in ones marriage. Go and bring your wife back and don't let your family members dictate to you, be the man u ought to be. Talk some senses into your wife and let God be the head of your home. Endeavour to always pray together as the head of the home, you can head the prayer. May God grant you pea e and joy in your home. "I HATE DIVORCE SAYS THE LORD"!

baby124:
Somebody that has been forgotten and we only remember him when his court date comes up. No be igbo people de celebrate world igbo day for Lagos and not east. Nnamdi pele o.

Point of correction, the Igbo's celebrate their day wherever they are. Right here in warri, it has been 'Nkwobi' with palmyall the way!

olumaxi:
U deh ask what next....when i neva even do d test.......smh

The tin tire me ooooo. I received their acknowledgement letter but uptill now, no message from them again.

fullofregrets:
I am full of regrets and I feel so suicidal right now , I am really depressed

Since medically u have been confirmed to be okay, y opening up to him again about your past? Which man will hear that his fiancee committed an abortion not for him but for another man and will still remain in such relationship? Sincerely, u gulfed big time. The only person u have a case with is God Almighty whom you consistently need's his mercies and forgiveness and not mortals who will show u that they can not bear your pain and burdens with you. Some past are better left in the past. Your fiance did what a normal guy would do especially since you have not been able to conceive for him. See girlfriend, get up, dust your self and move on. Next time, keep your past in the past except when it is confirmed to be responsible for your present predicament. My innocent opinion though.

Na waoooo, which year Nigerian youth go get sense?

moffymichael:
Dont give up, assessment is for everyone that duly registered, just send me the initials of your full name....for example, my full name is Eze Bola Ali, the initials of my full name are; E. B. A.......i will use this to tell you ur assessment date.

Thanks for my friend for your concern. My initials are O.E. D.

No text message alphabet O, thoughts probably I wasn't successful in the selection. All the best to the rest.

VANITY UPON VANITY! If only he would live forever!. Please don't quote me because temi ye e mi.

Honestly, I never knew the situation has gotten this bad until a family friend with 4 kids told me today that her children are sitted under an umbrella out there(where she sells akara) as at 11am today when they were suppose to be in school. I asked her y they weren't in school since government school here in warri is tuition free and she said there is no money to pay for their text book, hence, to avoid neighbours constant aproko question of "cyntia y u no go school since?", she told the kids to sit out there( under the umbrella shade till 3pm when they will all go home), even when they have sold all their bean cake for the day. Warri say 'person weak', honestly, I weak after this woman story. All I could mutter to her is 'It is well'.

ladyF:
Maybe you can ask that guy with the pressure cooker accident that made FP. I think he used aloe vera and honey.

Thank you so so much, am really grateful.

agarawu23:
aloe vera 6 times in a day
Rub with honey at night before bed. Continuously.

A nlder use the two stuff to clear he's.

Thanks a lot, am so so grateful

Please house, I really would appreciate anyone who could help me with either cream or anything moderate that can be use to clear this rough skin of my sister. She had a fire incident this year precisely in the month of April. Its healed now but it has left her skin rough and in patches. Please any suggestion will be appreciated. Thanks all and God bless u, as i await your positive response.

chichi205:
NRC recruitment 2016 (nrc.recruit@nrc.gov.ng) – The purpose for this publication is to notify all the interested candidates of Nigerian Railway Corporation recruitment that with regard to the recent commissioning of the Abuja to Kaduna Standard Gauge Rail Service by the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, the Nigerian Railway Corporation (NRC) wishes to recruit both junior and senior staff to meet the following requirements.

Below are the under listed job posts that the Nigerian Railway Corporation (NRC) is recruiting

A. MECHANICAL/ELECTRICAL/S&T DEPARTMENT
I. PUPIL ENGINEER (GL 08)
II. HIGHER TECHNICAL OFFICER (GL.08)
III. TECHNICAL OFFICER (GL 07)
IV. ASSISTANT TECHNICAL OFFICER (GL 06)

B. CIVIL ENGINEERING DEPARTMENT
I. PUPIL ENGINEER (GL 08)
II. HIGHER TECHNICAL OFFICER (GL. 08)
III. TECHNICAL OFFICER (GL. 07)
IV. ASSISTANT TECHNICAL OFFICER (GL. 06)

C. CORPORATE PLANNING DEPARTMENT
I. PUPIL HEALTH, SAFETY & ENVIRONMENTAL OFFICER (GL. 08)
II. PUPIL RESEARCH OFFICER (GL. 08)
III. PUPIL SENIOR STORE OFFICER (GL.08)
IV. EXECUTIVE STORE OFFICER (GL. 07)
V. HEALTH, SAFETY & ENVIRONMENT ASSISTANT (GL. 06)
VI. RESEARCH LABORATORY TECHNICIAN (GL. 06)

for more details click >>> NRC recruitment 2016 – nrc.recruit@nrc.gov.ng

please i need you to clarify something for me, since they said handwritten application, which of their office should the letter be submitted to. is it abuja or their office in ones place of residence? Thanks in anticipation of your response.

4nobody4every1:
God bless all women in the house plenty, chai, looking at all the CS procedures make me shiver to my bones, is these what women go through to have a child and yet men dont appreciate and treat them like queens / princess, is like going through the valley of the shadow of death, women una too much , God continue to bless all of you, much respect to all the mothers and future mothers in the house

Tank Ku ooo jareee! Better person. Respect to you too.

khalhokage:
Your logic doesn't make sense at all, he has been with her for ten years and then decided to marry her, what makes you think that it's now that he'll suddenly get tired of her?

Marriage is dynamic and not like relationships. You may sometimes get confuse along the way. It is not how far but how well. Some couples regrets settling down with their spouse today despite the long years in relationship, so I understand exactly what the guy you quoted said. May God protect our marriages and homes amen.

Huh! Bros, tiri gbosa for you. I hail u no b small. Wife spat on you and you kept your cool? # Respect for you!. Try talking to her and warn her of trying such stupidity again and the consequences that would accompany it. Of course, petty quarrels and misunderstanding are expected in new marriages like yours but to be frank with you, madam went too too far. Call her to order by talking sense into her head but don't hastily send her back now unless she wishes to return. God bless your home and grant you peace of mind amen.

Stick to your mother and your step dad, I take God beg u, she must have suffered so much with the shame associated with teenage pregnancy stroke rejection. You can associate with your biological fathers people on a good morning good morning level, but hold onto your mum and step daddy because they are your real parents. If you were to be in their shoes how would you feel? Your step daddy and your biological mum owns you period. I love mothers, they are simply loving in the face of rejection and pain. Please make your mum happy always. God bless you and direct your footstep amen.

lovelyonps:
Common house... 60 views and no replies.

Pls any other person that got this shld pls reply

Huh! I have worked there before but have no idea of there office being in festac. I only know of the head office in Victoria island( idowu taylor as at then), apapa office, Ikeja office, obalende etc, but that of festac, am sorry I have no idea.

graphiti:
U c ya life now?




U wey dey pray 2 God 2 'pickup' ur call dey beef anoda parzin wey God dey ping! :
When next you are mentioning, please think promptly.



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Lesson: ''be happy 4 other ppl's miracle, 4 it's a short cut 2 receiving urs". He/she wey get ears let 'he/she' hear!

Anywayz, may d Good Lord grant ur positive wishes/prayers in Jesus'Mighty Name, AMEN!

Why quoting me or making reference to my prayer request to God, what has that got to do with me expressing how I felt over a situation. Did you read where I insulted or say anything that could reflect insult? I only express how I felt on seeing the result. Please be careful how u quote people and what u say. As human that I am, and knowing what goes on in most of our secondary schools during exams, I had my doubt, so why making reference to my prayer request to God?. Please be careful how u quote people. Good day and never quote me again whenever u see my comments nor will I ever respond to you again. And mind you, am not the only one commenting with this username.

searchiing4love:
IPOB yoots will soon wake up from their bed bug infested mats to form victim mentality as usual. Watch as they turn these demolition into anti-igbo gestures by the lagos state government. Bunch of clowns

Haaa, e ma Ku nitori Igbo. Are u saying that there is no Yoruba's living in that same place? Aye asan.

This results need to be questioned. Na so she sabi book reach? So she get A1 for English, A1 for maths,A1 for evilitin, haaaa, make dem fear God ooooo. Na so she perfect for tge whole subject? abeg make she go sit down. I don't believe this result one bit. She no even get B or C all na A, them try for her very well.

YES! YES!! YES!!! On the condition that they are married but if they are still dating, then, I can't say.

Huh! Na school your mama send you oooo, u go dey follow cultist drag girlfriend. Please, I beg u in the name of that thing wey u cherished most, this one no be coward matter oooo, na your life we they talk here, leave the girl alone, I no get that heart to type R. I.P ( God forbid though) for young person ooo. I am pleading with you, leave the girl for her cultist friend, I don talk my own oooo.

NONSENSE!!

Oh lord my God! Please in your mercy heal this young man, for the sake of these children u have blessed him with. Forgive him lord his sins and release your angels in charge of healing, to visit him right now and make him whole again and most importantly lord, do not let such sickness as this nor any that is life threatening to come near me and my family members and loved ones in Jesus name and also nairalanders family and founder amen.

eyeview:
Good.
But why do most of these posters think that majority of the men will deny their wives in such sitiuation? Let it be known that there are still a good majority of us who will never cheat on our wives.
There are still many of us who would rush back to wear our ring if we forget it at home.
There are still many of us who will be quick to let any lady who's trying to get too comfy of how we were blessed by God with a wonderful wife and mother of our lovely kids.
There are still many of us who will ensure that any vacation trip within or outside the country will be with our wife.
There are still many of us whose marriage anniversary is closing in on two digits and yet have never cheated on our wife for a day(not by power but by grace).

......and to all of us such men,you are the real men.
Take a bow

God bless you and your family jareeee! It is every well with you.

Freiden:
In short make the boy sha turn una house help in exchange for feeding and shelter....abi

No my brother. Na if the right hand washes the left, the left hand also washes the right and by so doing the hands would be clean. At least, the guy should be able to show appreciation by rendering a little assistance at home. Do have a good day.

Freiden:
See this woman ooo.....Na you get your house....yan yan yan yan yan ..since the husband that brought him isn't complaining....wetin be your own....because say ur family dey feed am now...e gaz turn house help.....ure very funny....no be by force nao...the only person that has the right to compel him to do anything is the husband...and since the husband decides to say nothing ...he's cool with the guy. ...if her body dey hot make she jump enta pool.

Taaaaaa! Forget that thing. Which husband get only the right? Wetin be marriage? It simply means 1+1 equals to one. God forbid make I marry another person husband, as far as say na my husband I marry, na wetin I like, him go follow me like and na so e go be for him own case too. A total stranger no go come inconvenience me for my house and u say make I swallow am, na lie, e no fit work. Na my house him come and since wey him no wan behave himself then, i go show am the way. Bible say anything wey go hinder you from entering the kingdom of God, make you cut am throw way. So my brother, don't let us drag this issue, am honestly stating what I would do, even though I fervently pray not to experience such in my home but peace is paramount for a fruitful and a happy family and whatever that would hinder such should be jointly dealt with by the couple.

OMOTOWO:
OP for God sake,how can I donate my spermatozoa?I need money and I am very serious.If you know the place,please quote me..oo ni soriibu..this economy hit me very hard...

U[center][/center] no well at all walahiiii. Sope emi nii mo so bee.

Freiden:
You funny die. Sit am down ...give am rules and regulation like say na small picking. Maybe the boy and op na age group sef...u no know

If the boy like, make him senior me hundred times, e no concern me, since him no no the right thing to do, I go teach am nawwww, abi, wetin you say make I do. If him go continue to dey stay with me, I go tell am wetin him go dey do for the house and if him refuse, na to show am say, na me get my house, person no go poor come add witch join nam for me. I don tell you wetin me go fit do. Seniority no dey for this one. Respect is reciprocal and if person behave like a child you treat am like a child. Na my own I talk so, full stop.......

Alexgeneration:
. How does staying with one's in-law connotes "involve into their private affairs? From the OP's complain,the guy is not interfering in their private life.Rather, all I can deduce from her is that she wants to turn the guy to a househelp just because he is "eating her food" and "staying in her house".Will she make such complains if the guy is from her side of the family?

Yes!!!! she will make such complain, infact, am sure if this guy were to be ops brother, she wouldn't be here discussing the matter with us, she would have dealt with his silly ass and even the guy head for don correct since but, since the guy is from the Hubby's side, I think that is why op seems to be helpless. I feel her pain tho