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You dad is really a nigger
Such a serious and good father. I am happy for you.. Popsy, weldone sir.......

Congrats madam. I tap from this blessings oooo but I hope you go pause for here now as God don answer you so, before only you go come increase our population to 300 million
Congratulobiaaaaa!!!!

Just ask her bros.... She will be in a better position to answer you.

Ndidi2:
l trusted him so much and l was naive bc he is my first love..
He said they started after our marriage this d 13th year.
kept dreaming but was misinterpreting it.
Sleeping with different girls for years and one steady one for years yet he showed me love is heartbreaking.
I nearly died bc l couldn't bear the pain of
deceit,lies, betrayal, disrespect..
But my sis and his brother was there.l was devastated.
Oh,l never believed he could go that low and bad.
I HV not really gotten over it after 1 year and.
I relapse and freak out all d time.

I feel your pain honestly.... There is nothing I fear in marriage more than cheating.... It's hurt badly... Imagine infecting an innocent woman with HIV..... I cried bitterly that day.wish I could have an opportunity to talk to men in a men's conference. Honestly..... God help me and them that day....
Please, try and make God your friend.... And always pray with your husband's picture as well..... God will heal and restore your joy in Jesus name amennnn.....

Oga, you are not ready to marry yet, when you are ready you will understand that outward beauty isn't guaranteed. What will you now say when she is pregnant? Naim be say you go run comot for the house now..... Look at her personality, her heart and not the facial one because anything can happen to someone's face at anytime i.e, accident, fire disaster, hot water could disfigure the face etc, what will you now do then? To be fair sef na wahala and the expenses to maintain the colour too much if not, people can easily size you up with your skin look but a dark person no get wahala. So follow your spirit...

Ndidi2:
ua not saying trash.
Ua honest God bless you.

That is how my sweet husband was sleeping with girls in their family house and everyone looked away waiting for me to find out bc they said they don't want to spoil our marriage.( He infected me seriously)
When l found out it was terrible.
Is been 1 year 2 months now and m still freaking out.
But thank God he has repented however a lot of things have changed.

Chaiiii.... You can imagine! It's so painful when someone who profess love to you is still the same person hurting you. I don't know what this men are looking for , for Christ sake! They have the same women at home, the same one hole ,yet they will still go out and commit adultery flesh to flesh with some strange women and return with all manner of deadly diseases to an innocent woman at home. No courtesy for protection and the fear of God is throw to the bin. May the good Lord heal you wholely in Jesus name! Infact, one happened in my neighbourhood recently. After the woman went for a test on noticing a painful bumps in her neck part. Only to return with HIV positive result. This lady almost had a heart attack while the husband was busy rejecting the result and lying to our face that he has never cheated on his wife and the woman also promise to swear with anything on her faithfulness ever since the marriage was contracted. To cut the long story short, they informed their pastor and sort for prayers but the pastor insisted that they must confess before he starts to pray. Hmmmm!!!!, Na that time oga open up say he done sleep with three women outside. And you know the worst, he said he did it when his wife was busy taking care of his own mother (the man's mother was sick at a time). May God render every cheating husband impotent at the point of committing adultery in Jesus name amennnn..... May their manhood never erect at the point of committing adultery in Jesus name amennn. You can imagine the pain this innocent woman is going through at the moment, thank God her kids are not infected. Men, you people should fear God ooooo.... God will punish all you unfaithful husband in Jesus name amennnnn..... Altleast, if you men can not fear God, use protection for the sake of that innocent woman at home...... Na God I use beg una...

Kobojunkie:
....I am puzzled when folks wonder why Nigeria is the cesspit is today. It didn't all happen out of the blue - cause and effect!

Exactly friend. Cause and effect, all in the name of 'mind your business'.

extol1:
in as much we are blaming the woman, she really meant well for the family, it is so unfortunate. I am pity the woman because her type is rare

Yeah, you are right that she meant well....I am only blaming her for not knowing her husband enough before entrusting the totality of her mom's money into his care....

Corporate2020:
Niggas cover fellow Niggas up. Niggas don't betray fellow Niggas. Betrayers die miserably.

If you want one of the chicks, tell him and he will pass one to you. Don't be a miserable jealous simp

Please don't say this... Imagine the man is married to either your sister, niece or cousin... What will be your response? And that man can infect the woman with a deadly virus like HIV, thereby destroying the life of that innocent woman. If you can help save the situation, why not do it. Whether there is heaven or not, as human, our conscience is there to judge us when we support and cover evil. Our motto in life as should be " to treat people, the way we want to be treated". When we cover evil, we are indirectly part of the evil and will in one way or the other, partake in the punishment thereafter. I might be saying nonsense or thrash to you but honestly, i am typing from a concern heart as i have witness a man infect his innocent wife with a deadly virus as hiv from his infidelity....

Madam, I'm sorry to say this to you, you are not wise and smart at the same time.
Award winning wife of the century!!!!, I am seriously clapping for you! standing ovation for you..... smhhhh. Your mother's money, not even your own and you gave him everything.... don't you know that it is wisdom a woman uses in staying in husband's house, smhhhhhhh..... He might even be thinking the money is yours..... Just beg him to refund you whatever that is left. Make him realise you need to return the money back to your mother. Next time, you will study your husband very well and not do 'Ruth Abo Ko Ku'....

Chaiiii..... Lovely may God bless and restore all austistic children in Jesus name amennnnn

Happy Birthday little cutie Jesse Jacob. May God be by you always amennnn.

NigeriaIsGreat:
The boy should just move on with his life the owner of the child. The girl's mother has already decided to abort the pregnancy. I support her though. The boy na baby on its own. Apart from his bad behaviour or bad upbringing and bad family

The woman can't imagine her daughter turning a single mother for a 19 years old boy. It's more than irritating

Don't mind the guy, rather than amending his ways and attitudes hoping he might be considered somehow by the girls family, he is inturn adding salt to injury by planning to go with his fellow gangsters to the girl's house.
I also think, the girls family aren't comfortable with the boy and his family's character/ way of life.

Davash222:
You have dreams of impregnating people's daughter

him type na police Dem dey take arrest them before oooo when country still dey normal. Imagine the audacity... No remorse, no nothing nothing, still get mind say him wan carry youth go like to say you pay the girl bride price. You destroy person daughter life, still dey pride over am. Try bring youth, na army I go use burden you and that your nonsense youths friends. Common to go beg, no dey him dictionary, he dey make mouth, after impregnating someone's daughter. Tomorrow naw, you go say you no wan marry her again but you don turn her to after one, come leave her for another fellow gender like you. Abeg, try apply wisdom Mr poster.

Onyi22:
The same broom that swept Mercy away will also sweep this one

Not only that sef, this man and mercy might probably reconcile in future...

A happy home is first and foremost a prayerful home. It's followed by choice/decision made by both partner and the determination to ensure their decision to have a happy home stands while putting into practise those attributes that make a happy home i.e forgiveness, patience, tolerance, empathy etc.

Imustnottalk:
Next time try this when you are such situation

Thank you for the information. God bless you.

This might not be real cos this country naw, there is nothing frenemies and haters cannot do. May God intervene in our homes in times of crisis amen.

L.e.a safana l.g.a, in katsina state. Makarata Malamaa....

RightToReject:
It's always amusing seeing people like you who aren't too bright trying hard to appear wise. See you trying hard to justify and rationalize the perfidious act of your friend - truly, birds of a feather flock together.

Anyway, maybe the husband didn't come into equity with clean hands; yet, taking to perfidy as she has done as opposed to taking some drastic action that would have jolted him to the reality of sticking to the fidelity bond of the union would have been the honorable thing to do. Of course, I don't want to believe that they're consciously into an unjust and bondless union, which means it's a dog-eat-dog setting rather than a sacred union, which means you ought not to have termed their union marriage in the first instance.

I am not here to batter words with you... Every mallam to his own kettle. You don't come here and dish out to people how they should run their home. Mind your business and run your home as you deem fits, habaaa!

RightToReject:
Perfidy isn't cleverness. I wonder why you and your supposed friend have not seen anything wrong in her not telling her husband, who has been fair and loving towards her as you alleged, that she is building a house from the money she saves from the monthly upkeep; something a scrupulous woman in her position would have done from the inception. Whenever he finds out, he will feel betrayed, and it'll take feeble-mindedness and/or stockholm syndrome for him not to start meting out cruel treatment deserving of a perfidious spouse to her. Of course, when that starts happening, all of you far and near who are now feeling happy and clever will try to change the narrative to make him the villain.

She's a treacherous wife. Anyway, your post has just validated what I have known from the inception and even said somewhere here today that women have always literally been the primary instigators of spousal problems in most homes.

I choose to laugh at your ignorance... For every action there is a reason. She alone knows why she choose to keep it a secret... Probably to surprise her husband who knows?? And the house is a chicken change compared to how rich her husband is. The man sef no send. That is her personal project though. Take the case of usifo atanga as a case study... A rich man with a beautiful wife yet went around sleeping with little girls. So you see all these rich men, my brother/ sister, a sensible women got to be wise when dealing with a rich husband ok. You have to protect your self and your future as no one knows tomorrow. Gracias!!!!!

greenie77:
Reason I posted "A wife should be earning an income whether from home or outside" because I know some stay-at-home mums who also work online from home as freelancers and 2 of them are transcribers with their clients in North America who they charge $36 per audio hour. Wherever a woman is, she should earn!

She is not doing any online business... She is a full house wife, she only save part of her monthly feeding allowance... The husband is well to do, hence she was able to save from her feeding money.... That's why I said housewife get levels....

greenie77:
A wife should be earning an income whether from home or outside, let her generate money tied to her own name as it provides a level of security.

Housewife get levels shaaa.... My friend a full house wife, bought a plot of land in her spinster name in warri and she has started to build on it without her husband's knowledge(she hope to put tenant there) but me wey dey rush comot for house in the morning no get 50k for account. Abeg, forget that thing, housewife get grade

Tinubuadvocate:
Although her second son, Chief Uzodinma Okpara could not be reached for detailed information leading to the sad news as of the time of filing this report, but informed sources said she died at an undisclosed hospital.



PLEASE WHAT'S SAD ABOUT A WOMAN LIVE A GOOD LIFE AND DIE AT 97 YEARS.YOU BLOGGER SHOULD BE MINDFUL OF YOUR WORDS.
GOOD NIGHT MAMA.

Don't mind those bloggers. When I am only asking God for 90 years peree, person live 97 Dem say sad..... Good bye mama, may heavens welcome you with funfair.

wordcat:
Ajasco,

Papa Ajasco,

Mama Ajasco,

Boy Alinco,

Pa James,

Pa Jimoh

I don forget that lady name

Miss pepeye

See my Alma mater ooooo abi na how Dem dey call am sef , 1995 set!!!! Let's go there with our school anthem, if you are a kutis " Ransome kuti memorial school, in thee my future lies,(2x) by the grace of God, by the help of God..., We shall all be great"(2x). I hope I get am oooo. Chaiiii, can't wait to meet my old friends and classmate again oooo. Mr similale, Mr Ige, I salute you all my old teachers....

As long as the mother is still alive, she is entitled to her husbands property. That is how it is done in my place. Your friend seems to be a prodigal son. Something is wrong with him, make him no let the woman curse am for broad day light. Him mate dey pray to make their mama happy, him dey fight him own mama. Smhhh

MufasaLion:
Irrespective of whatever she must not be stealing. There's no other word to describe her than "thief". Being in a marriage doesn't change the narrative that she stole money and that's being a thief.

They both own the money. What belongs to the husband belongs to the wife as well. They are now one and not two. Calling the wife a thief makes him the husband of a thief as well, you see, does that sound good to the ear? He should rather talk to the wife in the language she would understand rather than painting her a thief.

Uyi168:
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So what should we called a person that takes money that isn't his/hers without the owners permission?? +

This is his wife we are talking about here. They are now one not two anymore. You see, this is why I like Catholic church marriage. They will make you realise that you both are now one indivisible being just like Christ and his church. What belongs to the husband belongs to the wife as well. If he calls his wife a thief, then he is as well, the husband of a thief, so he also bears the title.

I understand how you feel, especially when you aren't that buoyant but referring to her as a thief just because she took your money, isn't too cool. What happened to the phrase in marriage that says " the two shall become one".. At this juncture, may I ask, if she is working or a stay at home mom at the moment? Men, with understanding knows that if you take care of your wife financially and otherwise, there is a blessing attached to it but for her to go about taking your money, means she needs the money. Things are expensive this days, call her and ask what and what she need as a wife. Don't go about tagging your wife, the mother of your children a thief. Talk to her and let her know why she should meet you whenever she needs urgent money and you as well, don't wait for her to ask before extending hand to her, no matter how small it is.

This is how they will be dying one after the other, all those adulterous men/women, if they fail to repent, in Jesus name amennnn.....

Let him be please, you can be calling him once in 3month, so that he will also realise that you are not jobless... Get something to keep yourself busy with... He will realise he needs you someday...