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PDJT:
- Before being a member of the foreign religion, he was first an Igbo man. In our culture we can marry as many wives as we want and can cater for.

- Polygamy is not against any law in either Igboland, Biafraland or even your Nigeria.

- I have two wives and we are happily married with kids. And we are all Christians too. We are not bothering anyone. It's all about love, every normal human being respects that.

If you agree with your first wife that she will have a co wife and she accepted it, fine and good but in a situation where we both promise each other to be faithful till death do us part and no abnitio agreement that you will marry another wife after me, my guy, na for grave you go continue that marriage, I tell you. There are many ways to kill a rat..... May God help our marriages.... You don't go about hurting people all in the name of one yeye culture.... Woman born boy and girl give you, what else are you looking for? Where is the love between spouse...... No woman is happy sharing her man, in the innermost part of their heart, they wish they could have their husbands to themselves, you dey here they say you are a christain, I hear you, christain indeed! I hope and really hope, you will settle your children and family properly before your demise, God granting you long life... Polygamous home does no one any good, future problem awaits the children. I am just been honest with you here.... My father married only my mother and even amongst us, we still dey quarrel, how much more within siblings of different mothers....

nwakibie3:
But Islamic law limited men to four wives at one time. (Quran 4:3)

Yet he married 6

You got the uproar now

Noooooo....... No body cares about how many wives a Muslim man marries because their wives must have accepted the fact from onset that they will have co wives, so it isn't a big deal but in the case of that adulterous guy, he didn't follow his father's footsteps....

mema900:
This life no balance

The first with 6 wives is a Muslim while the adulterous One is believe to be a Catholic and a christain. You got the uproar now?
...

TheCongo2:
Do you have to be this heartless

Though it is kind of direct but to me the guy simply said the truth! The truth is bitter but it takes a courageous person to say it. The Op sounded so desperate like someone whose hope in conceiving lies in bringing another child close to her. I may be wrong but that is what I can deduce from the Ops desperate need.... May God grant you your heart desires in Jesus name amennn

Ebubu:
Passingshot hope you heard him loud and clear?

Yorubas are divided and hate one another


Shots fayad to Tinubu

Una too dey find trouble for this country. Who tell you say Dem hate each other abi you know no wetin politics for this Niger be again. Stop tribal hatred, face the topic and leave a whole tribe alone. Shuooooo, every little post, una go dig tribalism out from am. Politicians are all the same only be say some of them still get tiny conscience while most of them don use their own do ritual.... Let peace reign! Stop tribal hatred!

Asgard73:
If no be yoruba .. e no fit be again

Only in Yoruba land ..

Daddy GO and scam

No tribe love money like Yoruba people .. ready to do anything for it.

Stop tribal war, it hinders our growth as a country..... Let love leads..... All tribes have bad eggs in their midst, condemn the evil and move on..... Peace!!!!!

Doveispure:
Goodmorning nairalanders .
I am new here,although I always read stories that made it to the front page. I am in a serious dilemma right now and please I will need honest answers to these questions.

I am a married mother of four. I have been having constant issues with my husband concerning his cheating nature and anytime I bring it before him it always ends up with a fight(not physical though,I mean quarrel)that I end up begging him later because I can't bare to see us quarrel.

But he seems to have taken advantage of this.
I complained to him again concerning this because I have been having series of STIs,this resulted in a quarrel.
He told me the following which makes me wonder if a man truly loves a woman of he will talk like this

1) He said he is addicted to sex(mind you I allow him have his way anytime he wants even when I'm heavily pregnant and I'm usually active during sex)so he cannot stop having other girls.

2)He said i should learn to leave with it
3)

Madam, temporarily leave that man please. Why are you playing with your life like this hehhh? Then if you don't want to leave, kindly avoid sex with him and face your children, habaa!!!! Chaiiii, God please help us......

TheRareGem1:
Peter Obi won't even get ticket in PDP. You are just stressing the man. You Igbos are just seen as slave to the party just like you are to Nnamdi Kalu. This is the true. And to top it all, you are confuse and not United

Everybody is free to contest in this election. You talking about unity, osinbajo should have just abandon his ambition for tinubu sake and unite with tinubu to ensure he wins the primary since you are talking about unity here. Aregbesola shouldn't have been fighting tinubu since they are both Yorubas and are expected to be in unity according to you. All these yoruba politicians fighting themselves shouldn't have been fighting each other since they are from the same tribe and are expected to be in unity. See, every tribe got his or her own Judas in their midst. If Jesus can be betrayed by his own closest pal Judas, who are the Igbos not to be betrayed by their own people, so also we have seen Obasanjo dealt with tinubu during his tenure as president, so, why is Obasanjo not in unity with tinubu being his fellow yoruba man and even uptill date, they are still not close..... So forget this your tribal card and hatred you are trying to portray, if it is the will of God that an okoros according to you should be the president of this country, trust me, there is nothing trillions of you can do about it. Leave Igbos to face there problem cos every tribe in this country got theirs to solve as well. Anybody that wants to score a cheap point will take on the Igbos so as to get more likes from his fellow hate filled tribalistic demons. With this mind sets, how can we live together as one, since the leaders are insisting the Igbos shouldn't be free from this contraption called Nigeria. Olorun ama ko o wa yo o lowo awon olokan biti esun. Ilu Nigeria waa yii o ole baje ke loruko jesu, amennnnn.

Igbo:
Peter Peter Obi can never get PDP ticket when the like of Tanbuwa,saraki,atiku and Wike are still in the race
Is this difficult for okoros to understand?

Na fear of Peter obi naim I dey see for this your comments ooooo..... Guy chillll, we don too suffer for this country as ordinary citizen, let's pray for a better leader, please my friend.
Leave all this wicked politicians and let's give a fresh person a trial. I don tire for this economic harshness wey we dey face for this country. Three thousand naira no fit cook small better egusi soup Again but I dey use am cook well for 2006 when I dey Univ..... We need a good, firm and visionary leader my friend....

BabalawoPikin:
I feel like calling my wife out on this thread. But to avoid vawulence. Make I shut up.. She actually wants a second child too but I want my first daughter to be 5yrs. Na the matter we dey drag.. Why the rush Women get problem I swear

You know as women, we consider age too in child bearing and from experience, I do advice women to birth the number of children they desire at once without given too much space because as a woman age increases, the pregnancy hormones affects some (women) badly and may not find it easy as some one in her 20s would. I am sure your madam understand this hence, her rushing to have her kids early enough so as to relax and take good care of them.

Righteousness2:
From your epistle, no one said you are wrong.
As for the meeting, make yourself available for it , if you can.
Explore every avenue to bring peace.
Most Important, commit your Family to GOD ALMIGHTY in Prayers. Conciously bring GOD into your Home.

I Pray for you and that My Precious DADDY Heals your Home and restore the Love , Joy , Peace and togetherness that brought you two together , in JESUS Name

Uncle righteousness it's been a while oooo..... How is our miracle baby and madam doing? Say me well to them. Regards sir....

ityP:
I was talking with many south Westerners who don't stay in Lagos. I was hoping Tinubu in their front. Omo. Them vex well. They told me the whole of SW isn't Lagos. Many no like that guy

Hmmmmm, my friend, if that grandpa win this election as president, huhhhh, na only God go fit deliver this country from the decay wey we go witness, infact, we go dey beg buhari make him come back. Tinubu is too arrogant and pompous, I am sorry to say but that is my honest opinion of him. I earnestly beg God not to let him win in Jesus name amennnnn

Reality3080:
typical igbo wailer waiting for anointing oil

Anybody wey talk against tinubu na Igbo abi? Which kain country we dey like this. When una destroy this country patapata, then una eyes go clear. Eeeehhhh, how can a normal human being be supporting a grandpa that is not sound health wise to be a president of millions of people while we have sound and fit able men to lead. If this man become president after all we went through in buharis hand, then, I will agree to the fact that God has finally hands off from Nigerians case. I pray God wouldn't let him come close to Aso Rock for the sack of his children who earnestly yearn for a Man that can turnaround the economy positively, peaceful, non tribalised man and trustworthy president.
God bless send us your servant to lead us we beg you lord in Jesus name amennnn....

SIMONEKPA7:

i expected to see the man laying and rubbing himself in the gutter because that is what his sheeples do when they are on that aggressive marketing.
Love God but don't be stupiid for religion. God does not want your stupidity

" No be say we dey craze, na God we dey praise oooooo"

odinson1:
With all this long talk, you still didn't mention one EXCLUSIVE benefit men have to gain from marriage.

All you wrote is a bunch of fallacies, marriage is just a Name,a term and a contract.
It doesn't make one automatically successful as you may think. Being married does not magically make one motivated to reach any goal,it is just a Term and a Contract where you devote your entire life, energy and resources,being committed to a woman who's only Goal is to have a Slave(who sees himself as king,mental slavery if you will) and Continuously milk him dry down till the very last drop.
Ever wonder why most husbands are thinner than their wives, while the wives look like baby elephants? It is because the man has been tirelessly working day and night, to Feed a Parasite whose only value to give is sex. Yes,there are women who offer way more than sex,but the Majority wins the vote right?

I am force to quote you even though I could have chosen to ignore your post. If you have a problem with marriage, why not stay clear... Why trying to choke people with your negative vibes about marriage. If you choose not to marry so be it but you trying to force people to accept your negative opinion about marriage is annoying. Whether their is benefits in marriage or not, some people are happy being married while some are not. Don't force people to accept your opinion about marriage because it paint you a bitter soul. God created marriages when he formed Eve for Adam. He said it isn't good for a man to be alone therefore I will make him an helper fit for him. You are not wiser than God. Leave people to make their choice while you peacefully make yours. I am sorry for quoting you but your constant attacking of people with positive desire for marriage prompted my quoting you. Life is a choice. Allow people make their choice peacefully....

First time I will be voting in my life.... My PVC well dusted. Enough of tribal sentiments. We need someone to fix this country and redeem our battered image in the international community. Let's try a different breed Nigerians.... Say no to tribal voting, let's save our dear country for the good of our children and the ones yet unborn. Please Nigerians, let's shun tribal voting and vote right this time around. Please, get your PVC ready....
A bag of Nigerian rice is now almost 30000.... Positive change should begin with us. God bless and redeem our country in Jesus name amennnn

HeeBraHim2:
Jonathan fail in almost everything he does... You are all talking as if there was no insecurity during Jonathan tenure.

At least, many innocent Nigerian suffer a lot during Jonathan tenure too.

Stop being hypocrisy.

Please, take us back to Jonathan Period, I will really appreciate it.

Father Lord, I thank you so much for making me a Christian. I appreciate you for my parents and in my next life, may you still give me the grace to be a christain, including my generation after me, I make this request through Jesus Christ your only begotten son in whom you are well pleased amennnnnnn.....

Honestly, I have never voted all my life and I am 30 something but with Peter obi, I am sure I am not wasting my vote hence, on the Solid Rock I stand! Time to use my PVC for what it is meant for. On Peter obi I stand, all other candidates are sinking sand.....
I will vote Peter Obi, whether he wins or not I will still be happy I did.....

Dialpad:
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Please teach me biko nuuu, e jooo edaku oooo, da alllah yakuri.... Teach me please, I am super interested oooo in this online genuine business. Thanks as I await your swift response. God bless

creepsyme:
Hello moderators kindly move this topic to frontpage please and please.

I am a lady of 47 years.
I never knew my life would turn out this way, I never knew I would get to even 30 years without getting married not to talk of 47 years.
Well, for the benefits of doubts, I am super pretty and gorgeous, I am educated at least I have my first degree and one or two professional qualifications.
Nothing I did ever came out productive, I lived all my life struggling to make ends meet and attain the life I ever prayed and desired for, but to no avail.
I worked in the bank for several years and came out with absolutely nothing to show for it, worst of it is, my outlook never agree with my situation, people see me and beg me for money thinking I am okay not knowing I don't even know where my next meal will come from, I get cheated each time I buy stuff because I look rich to them sometimes I weep before the sellers when I discover I am being cheated until they become confused.

I have never in my life been choosy about a life partner Incase anyone may think I was been selective.
No man ever asked for my hand in marriage until I got to 39 years,I had good relationships that never resulted to anything, at the beginning of any relationship the men could literally lick my feet and move mountains for me, but eventually it ends in premium tears for me.
I have had opportunity to mingle with the low and high class, I only succeed in going around the circle of high class without even touching it myself.

I have tried my hands on so many things but it failed just to ensure I don't beg and to put food on my table.
I have prayed all the prayers I know, done all the deliverance I know and yet nothing.
I feel so depressed that that sometimes thoughts of suicide goes through my mind.
I feel sorry for myself and I always wonder if anything good can come out of my life again.
Sometimes I think about trying to have a child or two because my menstrual cycle is still very much on, but the thoughts of bringing a child into the world without any plan on ground make me to think twice, when feeding
myself is even a big challenge.
All my siblings are happily married with children and that I am grateful to God for, I only find myself going for omugo year in year out and now I have become big mummy with no career, no job, no child, no husband.
Sometimes I wish it could be a bad dream I should wake up from.

Iam just there getting beautifully old.
Now I understand why a lot of people commit suicide, especially when the light at the end of the tunnel takes too long and becomes bleak to reach.

I need someone out there to pray for me sincerely from their ❤️ I am loosing it already.
Nothing make sense to me anymore!

Can God still come through for me?
Can God still make me laugh the way he made Hannah and Serah to laugh?
Please someone should give me an answer.

Aunty no vex oooo, I just say make I ask you this question... Hope you haven't dated people's husbands in the days of your youth? Because you know go destroy person own come want make your own better. Well, whatever be the case repent wholly from every possible sin, embrace the lord Jesus with all your soul, serve God happily and free your mind.... Miracle God is still on the throne!

FreeStuffsNG:
Iyen na nice. He is likely to win the PDP ticket as usual.
On the mandate of Asiwaju Tinubu I stand.

Just to let you know why Asiwaju Tinubu towers far above HE Atiku and others and state few of the reasons why I state that Asiwaju Tinubu is competent and the most prepared,I may need to take you down memory lane of his account of stewardship in public office sirs and mas.

As the Executive Governor of Lagos State, Asiwaju Tinubu recovered what is now called Eko Atlantic from the raging Atlantic ocean Lagos Bar beach coast line flooding (for decades that problem even some of the more developed nations explain away as climate change problems) defied all solutions by FG and the highbrow strategic Victoria Island was deteriorating fast with businesses, embassies, hotels etc exiting VI in droves. During that time, the Atlantic ocean flooding reach the fringes of Ozumba after the flood completely take over Adetokunbo Ademola. Lagos State Government under the brilliant , resourceful and hardworking Asiwaju Tinubu solved that herculean challenge and today, VI is back to its glory.

It was Asiwaju Tinubu that brought back the Lagos Central Business District and Broad street commercial nerve centre of Nigeria back to life after it was abandoned, it's Asiwaju Tinubu who built major roads from Oregun to Lawanson to Igando LASU to as far as Badagry etc.

Asiwaju Tinubu is the one who fixed the horrible waste problem we had in Lagos and that LASTMA and BRT you see was created by Asiwaju. Asiwaju Tinubu was the one who got Lagos State to be part of the owners of Econet and unlike Delta State where the shares were sold and funds pocketed, Lagos State Shares were warehoused with professional investors in the state investment agency called Ibile holdings.

Asiwaju Tinubu increased bursaries to students of Lagos State origin (NULASS) and made public schools free for all Lagosians regardless of your tribe, religion or political party affiliation after his administration had successfully returned missionary schools to their original owners( other states later copied Lagos) . It was during his tenure that Ikeja General Hospital became a teaching Hospital, upgraded most of the clinics to General Hospitals giving free health to the 5 years and below and Lagosians of 65 years and above age group. .

The fund that BRF used to quickly build infrastructures were the LGA funds withheld by Pa Obasanjo and despite that Asiwaju Tinubu never owed salaries.

When the purchase of FG refineries by Alhaji Dangote was cancelled by HE Yardua, Alhaji Aliko Dangote ran to Asiwaju Tinubu after most state governments and governors in the SS gave Dangote a cold shoulder. Today, through the assistance Asiwaju Tinubu gave Aliko Dangote, Dangote Refinery is taking off to help us stop the petrol subsidy killing our naira and public finances.


Asiwaju Tinubu is loyal to those who paid the ultimate price for our democracy and today heroes like Bagauda Kalto, Pa Alfred Rewane, Pa Abraham Adesanya etc are immortalized in Lagos .

One of the most memorable achievements of Asiwaju Tinubu for me was helping to stop the blood letting and recurring Hausa-Yoruba/OPC war in Idi Araba and Agege. Those hellish period of unrest defied even the effort of past military state administrators of Lagos but Asiwaju Tinubu was able to solve it.

That Lagos State Government civil service is regarded as the best in Nigeria is due to the hardwork Asiwaju Tinubu did to reform it, create Tutors General offices, improved harmonized pay structure, best pension scheme for civil servants etc.
I can go on and on to educate you on the legacies of Asiwaju Tinubu still standing till today as my reasons for my confidence in Asiwaju Tinubu sir/ma

That's why my appeal goes to you my fellow patriotic Nigerians to please vote for Asiwaju Tinubu.
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You no get conscience at all.... If this man were to be your father with the state of his health, would you have advice him to contest? Make una dey think of una children tomorrow oooo and fear God!

Ok oOoOO, let me Sha drop a comment even though I know say I no go win nam

You aren't making sense one bit... Nobody forced you to marry so why saying marriage should be abolished? If you can't cope you leave and allow who can cope with the boring guy to come in. Marriage has been in existence long before we were born, so, saying it should be abolished isn't an intelligent option at all.

Happy Birthday daddy, may God garnish your life with his divine good health and longlife in Jesus name amen

Useku:
From this video, you can already understand why the husband decided to take a second wife.

The best punishment for a rebellious and stubborn wife is to take a new wife.

The pain is out of this world.

Nice one alhaji!

But you aren't safe either. You've got to watch your back always because nothing beats harder like an angry woman's venom.

Ahmed0336:
Madam you've spoken like a true married woman. Too many young unmarried fellas here dishing out wrong advice. When most get married I doubt if they can do what they're typing here.

Don't mind them, they don't understand that marriage is not a child's play...

Ignatio:
Thank you.

You are welcome sir.....

Uncle Ignatius, please don't follow some childish advice of some people who don't know or understand what marriage is all about. No one is perfect and each of us react to things differently. She is angry and may not have gotten it right by blocking you but trust me, when she is calm, she will unblock you herself and also call you. Please, just laugh over her action, and make light the misunderstanding and get your home back to it's peaceful state. When the dust is settled, call her attention to this blocking issue and let her know it isn't the best. When I was newly married, I usually keep malice with hubby whenever he offends me but now, I don't do such anymore, I told my self recently that I was really childish then.... Maturity is a gradual process in marriage, please, don't permanently block her like some advice... You are the head of the family and God expects you to love your wife as he loves the church. Forgive her in advance please..
... We women dey get scoi scoi for head sometimes. God bless you and grant you more wisdom and patience to sail this married life happily in Jesus name amennnnn

Virus20:
God bless you.

Amennnnnn and bless you too

Virus20:
Honestly ,I feel very humiliated.But God will help me ,only God knows best

You sef bone am abeg. Don't call him again... Try and fight for your destiny... You can go and teach in private school for few months and save up some money then, you can comfortably return to your pos business again. Abeg, don't call that your brother again and stop doing like sissy. Rise up and fight like a wounded lion. Vow to yourself that you must make it and work harder no matter how little the pay of any job you get might be, be deligent and happy doing it and God will surely come to your rescue.

GenBuhari:
Beg me till now to eternity , I can no longer manage my wife, I am a gentleman who deserves a gentle feminine woman. There is a man out there who can manage her, 23 years is all the managing I can do biko.

I laugh in swahili , oga I pray you don't make a mistake and marry the one that will finally kidnapped you oooo. You want to marry you want to marry, oga sir, please, is it not the same woman you are going to marry or are you marrying your fellow man....hmmmm, oga think we'll sir.... We women get am for body oooo... I pray you find the peaceful and angelic wife you are looking for at this age sir....