₦airaland Forum

healthserve:
Mine got to that stage.


You ladies need to overcome external influence. Thus is one of the most basic principles for sustainable relationships. Not everyone is happy for what you have and would rather talk you out of it, albeit disguising as a comforter, than a two-faced entity

Yeah you are right, you know.... God will help us

healthserve:
The sad tale is I was setting up a company as a proposal gift to her. Which was worth millions . These days the sisters and mum see me in church, shame covers them from top to toe.


Love is a very very tricky feeling. The ones you live don't appreciate, the ones you don't love chase you. It sucks.

I am telling you. This love of a thing is so confusing. Let him neutraluse his mind but na wa for some ladies oooooo, after carrying out the traditional rite, it now dawn on her that she is no longer interested.... Well, they say a broken courtship is better than a misery marriage...

healthserve:
Which brings us to the point that if a lady can be influenced by external party, she's immature for marriage.


A guy did that to my princess this year and she assumed all she learnt was correct. Finally the guy starts having sex with her as intimacy grew out of their negative alliance. She has recently learnt that I wasn't broke but living coded while the guy influencing her was eating her money and sexing for free. She was influenced from the outside, like eve, like my princess.

I move on jejely without creating thread. Mi o ra ye oshi

;Dfunny you.... You know of this saying that some have head but no cap while some have the cap but no head to put it on. Some lady will see a man who truly love them but they will so frustrate such a man while there are some who are just waiting for a man to say * hello* and the next is marriage. For a man to report you to your parents, it means he loves you and genuinely wants the best for you but some ladies do misinterprete it to mean otherwise. This love of a thing sef, dey tire me sometimes.

I'm sure, there is somebody somewhere spinning her head. What was her reason for proposing to quit the relationship She is being distracted by someone .. just visit the parents first and see how things turns out but for now, I will suggest you neutralise your mind, because you can't really force someone to love or marry you against their will, if you do, it always end in misery. Are you the one responsible for her education Are you educated as well? Focus on your daughter and try to carry out your responsibility towards her. Shalommm!

yemmit90:
CCTV at home and hacking of her phones. Be smart enough to pick points from her statements and body language.

If you eventually discover the truth, dont ever forgive her, a cheating wife is as deadly as Ebola virus.

So what happens to a cheating husband, if the wife is like Ebola Will CCTV go out with the wife? Or follow her wherever she goes?? Most women knows that the first call of search is their phone, hence some of them have a spare sim for calling without the husband's knowledge. What am I saying in summary, a faithful man shouldn't worry about tracking a cheating wife cos the truth will surface without a stress from the husband.... Note, I am only referring to a faithful man, who isn't cheating on his wife but if you are an unfaithful man and your evil mind is telling you that your wife is doing same, hence you are trying to catch her, I tell you, you will Neva get any evidence untill you the husband put a stop to yours, only then will her wayward lifestyle be made known to you. Nothing beats faithfulness in marriage... And a home filled with God's presence.... May God give us the grace to be faithful to one another amen....

Officialgarri:
Calm down bro. Stop using Google to check symptoms of every thing that's wrong with you.... Google will give you hypertension.

That was how Google told me my headache was brain tumor and I was just there for a week thinking about life....

And so many others....

Honestly, you are absolutely right with that Google checking of a thing... That Google can send someone to an early grave with it outcome on ailment once you try to research on any little symptoms you are having.... I have long resolved never to check up any ailment via google

MelesZenawi:
How do federal government Npower concern state government.

Channel your complaint to Osibanjo because even buhari doesn't know a scheme like Npower exist.

Says who? But Npower volunteers have been teaching in the state school all these while.... The state government is aware of their presence in most of the schools within the state because their deployment to schools came from the state ministry of Education. On several occasions, Npower volunteers have been invited to Asaba for documentation, with the hope that they would be given a chance to get a permanent job... Majority of schools in the rural areas in the state are mostly runned with the help of the volunteers, so what are you trying to tell me.... Yes, it is a federal government project but who is benefitting from it? Well, I must admit, that the states government is not under any compulsion to retain the volunteers but since it needed teachers in the state, empathy and a sense of appreciation should have called for the submission of volunteers credentials to be considered for a permanent teaching slot as most of them have been in the system already....

ossaioviesucces:
Okowa Running Youths inclusive government, Says Ossai

The Special Assistant on Special Duties (Media) to Delta State Governor Mr Ossai Ovie Success has said that the Delta State Governor Sen Ifeanyi Okowa is running a Youths inclusive government.

Ossai told newsmen in Asaba that the Delta State Governor Sen Ifeanyi Okowa knows the capacity of youth's in the state and that is why he has engaged countless numbers of youths .

The youngest Political appointee in Nigeria Ossai Ovie Success who was appointed by Governor Okowa at the age of 23 in 2015 and 27 in 2019 noted that Delta Youths are Hardworking.

" Delta State Youths are amazing and hardworking.

We are talented in our various ways and we believe in contributing our quotas to the Development of Delta State."

Ossai also said that the cabinet of Governor Ifeanyi Okowa is dominated by young and vibrant youths.

"We are proud of Governor Okowa for running youths inclusive government .

Governor Okowa has appointed young Deltans into his cabinet to run the Affairs of our Dear State.

This will definitely enable youths engender productivity and ensure results in the Okowa's led administration" he said.

Oga ossai, I beg to disagree with you on this....because your governor has decided to neglect the Npower beneficiaries that consist majorly of youth, who have been teaching in the state various secondary schools for close to three years now, only for him to recruit new teachers while neglecting the beneficiaries that have been teaching for some years now.... what will he gain if the federal government ends the program without permanenting them, does he think the state will be save in terms of peace and security of lives and property Tell him they are waiting for 2019, to pay him and his party back in his own coins....

funmiodun:
@ststyreal,thank you so much. Yes God is faithful and she is getting better.

Oh my o my!!!!! I am so glad to hear this great news.... I earnestly asked my God for his divine intervention in your daughters case, and I believe the Lord will do it. I've sent my widows mite already and will continue to support you as God continuously blesses me.... My prayers are with you and your lovely daughter...Take care madam, be strong cos he that closed the Lions mouth from devouring his children is still on his throne. The Lord will heal her in Jesus name amen

Hello and how are you doing madam.... The Lord will continue to strengthen you in Jesus name..amen. How is she faring now Hope there is improvement in her health now?? May the Lord God of Abraham heal her miraculously Amen...

GOFRONT:


Question is: Where will they start from??

In the next two years, you will hear of their success story... We are nigerians, even in the midst of chaos, our heads are still lifted... We have the surviving spirit.... Surely they will be alright las las!

VulgarLee:
lmao
I no call name o

Funny you!

VulgarLee:
Driver wen like to buy fuel after take off
Shit annoy the hell outa me

You mean AGOFURE MOTORS!!!?

Sheriman:
I graduated in 2016 since then no job and said to myself i can't stay idle.. immediately i signed into Street Hustle...My brother E no easy but na Naija we dey The hustle pays the bills..I can't engage in fraud..
University Graduate turns Trailer And Truck Washer..

Chaiiiiii, I feel for you oooo; why didn't you apply for Npower naw? Anyway, I pray for you today, that the Lord God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob will locate you with a good job this month in Jesus name amen!!!! Make you sef dey pray oooooo

realtalk19:
Thank you nwanneni, I look forward to have a ride by God's grace.lol

Don't have a ride because you want to intimidate your neighbours rather have it because it is necessary for you to have one.... Pray God to change their heart towards you for good..

jarmy:
Ok. but is it ideal for the husband alone to foot all the bills at home? What should a working wife do with her income? I have seen wives that built a house without the husband's knowledge. If you are married to such, would you be happy?

Something must have triggered this attitude of hers, and it might be your attitude towards her. Honestly, with what is happening in marriages these days, most women are insecure in their homes, as most men have taken to adultery, hence women borrowing sense this days to secure themselves in case of any eventuality. I think it is your duty as the husband to take care of your family while she supports you as the helpmate but to support person no be by force; hence, you have to lovingly talk to her in the language she will grab. Hubby doesn't ask me of my salary.. yet he takes care of the feeding and the children's school fees while on my own, I take care of the children's clothing, making their hair, undies and some other little things... Just budget your salary to take care of your family in the best way you can.. don't depend on her salary... leave her to her conscience... You can give her like 35 or 40k for the feeding every month while you make do with the remaining 50k. May God perfect your home amen...
Please, kindly Ignore any words of mine that aren't ok with you.. just trying to make a common sense

9JAFULLBREED:
But what about Lilith? I think there was a woman before Eve and her name nah Lilith

never heard about any woman created first except Eve, which God himself made from Adams ribs, though, I stand to be corrected with proves from the Bible....

Basic123:
poor logic and interpretation.

if 1+1=1

by logic 1+2 can =1

and so on.... mtcheew.

And if you want to use what God has joined together let no man put asunder.Then it's not applicable to monogamy alone as it can also be interpreted as polygamous family that God as joined together let no man put asunder!


THE FACT IS THAT MONOGAMY IS NOT BIBLICAL ITS WESTERN!....No clear cut verse in the Bible forbids polygamy

So why did God provide only one Eve for Adam instead of Eves(2women), it simply to let you know that he wants you to live with a woman and not women....

Merciful God, look upon this child Olamiposi with your eyes of mercy and heal her just as you heal Peter's mother in-law. Release your angels in charge of healing oh Lord, to visit Olamiposi tonight and let there be a miraculous healing in her life, Lord I know you can do it Lord, please heal her merciful and loving God and let all the glory be returned to thee, for I pray in Jesus name Amen! Olamiposi, iyanu ma sele ninu aya re loruko Jesus Christi oluwa wa amin.. May no strange infirmities, sicknesses and diseases come near anyone of us, our children, friends, family members and loved ones in Jesus name amen.... Olamiposi, may the Good of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob visit you tonight amen... May he who parted the red Sea for the isrealites to work on dry land, heal you tonight in Jesus name amen.....


Kindly provide an account details, let me give the little I can by God's grace... Be strong madammmm, because the balm of Gilead is still on the throne..... God bless and heal Olamiposi miraculously in Jesus name amen....

ednut1:
its all lies

Honesty, I'm confused over this indomie of a thing because of my kids...

MartinsD12:
I heard indomie causes cancer especially when you parboil it without removing the water that looks like sperm colour

My question now is, if it causes cancer as presumed, why are they still selling it to the public and what is our Nafdac and consumer food protection agency doing about it ? Government agencies should try and educate the citizens on various confusing information like this indomie consumption of a thing, because I currently don't know what to believe anymore....

Huhhhh!!! What a

Omaricha002:
@ real where are you staying

Warri

Thanks alot. But the issue now is how to get the leave in town here...

Honestly you dis op, na your type dey make some women dey pray make poverty visit their husband. Because of the small money you have, that is why you are cheating on your wife without any fear and respect for her, wasting your family money that should have benefited your wife and children on the long run. How can you be married with children and be cheating on your wife and yet, you have the effrontery to come publicly to seek for an advice?. Are you ok? I pray you confess to your wife or else nothing good will ever come your way henceforth. You are so disgusting. After, you will go home with all manner of diseases to infect the innocent woman. I no wan curse you oooooo op, but no that if you don't change your ways, baba God will take your joy away. I'm married and that is why your actions are hurting me.... Repent before it is too late!!! Go home and confess to your wife and move with your family to your place of work if possible, this is my own candid advice to you if indeed your story is real...

bustykasa:
its pathetic...I earn 10k as a teacher in zaki biam benue state.....a graduate of Public administration. just managing myself

Are you serious? Heheeee, jeezzzz.. 10k? A graduate

Hmmmm!!! Merciful Lord, I pray this not be true. If it be true, let her soul be welcome into your everlasting kingdom but for our leaders who have refused to protect those they are leading, hmmmm!! I hand them over to you Lord. Rip Leah sharibu!!!

I can feel your madams need to get out of the house, most times it's caused by you men when you don't support her with enough money at home. I'm sure she might be going through some financial challenges unknown to you and probably she is going ahead with the job just to pass a message to you. So beg her, increase her house keep money, appreciate her because even mua had to do the same despite the salary been meagre but the joy of having my own money and all the financial burden I need to sort out amongst my siblings coupled with my parents I need to bless every month, I just had to work.

Allow your boss to handle it for you while feeding him on what to put down in the letter on your behalf.

hahn:
You don't have a job but paid 630k for rent?

Ubenedictus:
lol.
Go to confession, receive communion. It's all part of what is Catholic

Don't mind me jareeee...., I will try.

Hmmmm!!!! This is a sensitive topic I must say but coming from me who has tasted both churches ( born Anglican and presently married into the Catholic Church), huhhh!!! I must say, I would have loved to remain Anglican for life!!!! Our hymms are wonderful!!!!
It isn't easy coming into the Catholic Church as a convert, up till now, despite being married for a decade now, I still finds it difficult going for confessions, hence my abstinence from holy Communion despite being wedded in the Catholic Church. It isn't easy but love conquers all. Love pushed me to forfeit been wedded in my sweet Anglican, so love can still settle this issue. We are brothers in the faith, being that there are only few disparities in our mode of worship hence, my advice is that you guys shouldn't let religion create problems in your relationship. Marry her in Catholic, let her attend her catholic church even after marriage then watch how things flows. She might give in someday and join you in Anglican but if you can't stand it, then do what is best for you too.
One thing I love Catholic marriage for and which made me forfeit being wedded in my sweet Anglican is that "There is no room for Divorce" Na we die here together mata and that is my vision of a marriage. I hate divorce with passion. So think about it my friend and let God guide you. This is just my opinion though..