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AgricultureRe: Lady Shows Her Cucumber Farm In Anambra As She Goes For Harvest (Photos) by Stycon(m):
pocohantas:
Why you dey wonder, e concern you? angry

Cucumber doesn't cheat,
It doesn't have side chicks.
It doesn't ask the lady to be submissive.
It doesn't kiss and tell.
It doesn't slutshame.
It doesn't ejaculate.
So, it can't impregnate.

Cucumber issa goal grin
I see what you did there...buh you know this is quite different from doll cool
RomanceRe: To love who you marry or to marry who you love. by Stycon(m): 3:36pm On Jul 02, 2018
Unclesamo:
Grow the LOVE
How?
RomanceRe: To love who you marry or to marry who you love. by Stycon(m): 10:53am On Jul 02, 2018
Reference:
You have a responsibility to build, to nuture love. True love can only be understood and appreciated with the training only God gives. Quite often the reason why love doesn't grow is because of the weeds of lust. Just as weeds soak up the resources of love and choke it, lust disguises and confuses those who invest in it.

To uproot lust to let love grow the man and the woman must of necessity shut down their emotions, sight, sounds, touch, smell... and rather focus on the objectives of the union. I tell people, if you want to build a relationship you have to think long term in acting short term. Ask yourself what you will feel towards that person in 50 years when typically the woman's bosom is flat and the man has retired, no longer a Genwral in the military or Director of the CBN because folks these days make life's choices on such maundane issues and simply cannot see beyond them.

They 'love' conditionally.... also known as lust.
What love are we talking about here please?

"Eros" or "Agape"

We are talking about having romantic kinda love before taking things further, you are preaching about huh

See, every relationship is obligated to demonstrate "Agape" kinda love but when it comes to this kinda thing that happens between male and female, if you ain't feeling the "eros" please don't proceed! I repeat, abort the mission!

Yes, romantic love needs "Agape" kinda unconditional love to thrive but if you gat to get married, you gat to have the "eros" boiling. How you gonna make that happen is up to you tho wink

You can grow and over grow in Agape after you got married but don't sell the idea that people should get married if they ain't feeling no spark. And don't get it twisted, it ain't lust!
RomanceRe: To love who you marry or to marry who you love. by Stycon(m): 10:21am On Jul 02, 2018
Toks2008:
Unfortunately, those things that make us fall in love are the things married couples do so in most cases after you experience It, you get tired and break up just to start same circle with someone else.

So why not just marry the person and grow in love with such.
What if after you got married, the love refuse to grow? What do you do? huh
CrimeRe: Nigerian Guy Stops Petrol Station In His Area From Collecting "Keg Charges" by Stycon(m): 3:37pm On Jun 30, 2018
ChiefAzubuike:
Every fuel attendant has the right to collect keg charges. How much is #50 or #100 that you can't overlook. Those people suffer to make sure you have fuel in your car, at the end of the month they are paid peanuts yet you can't appreciate them with a token?
If such attendant needs money, he should ask directly and not exploit customers. Right ko left ni undecided
CrimeRe: Nigerian Guy Stops Petrol Station In His Area From Collecting "Keg Charges" by Stycon(m): 3:31pm On Jun 30, 2018
As in!! angry

Same thing is happening at Mobil here, on Kudirat Abiola Way close to Alausa bus stop, Ikeja huh
SportsRe: Did You Notice This Lady During Nigeria Vs Iceland Game? by Stycon(m): 10:53am On Jun 23, 2018
Beautiful, she is cool
BusinessRe: Nigeria Generates $70bn From IT Investments by Stycon(m): 8:49am On Jun 16, 2018
Between when to when. Since independencehuh
EventsRe: With Love, From Makydebbie. by Stycon(m): 8:29am On Jun 16, 2018
sisisioge:
Groovy...happy birthday darling. May God bless your years.

I love the book cover already grin
Yeah. It's cool and classic; just as the author tongue




Happy Birthday Debbie!
RomanceRe: She Blocked Me Because Of This by Stycon(m): 10:30pm On Jun 15, 2018
Boy!

Can't believe that folks here take life this serious. Imagine the flow of comments and counter comments! undecided
BusinessRe: Nigerian Equities Lose N467b Friday As Panic Selling Persists by Stycon(m): 10:37am On Jun 02, 2018
Reminds me of what Warren Buffet says: be greedy when everyone is fearful, and be fearful when everyone is greedy.

Once you get your fundamentals right, do your due diligence...find a good company; this is the best time to buy "em up ~ at a good margin of safety and below their true value.
RomanceRe: I'm 26 & Wants To Get Married By 27 What Do You Advise? by Stycon(m): 10:22pm On Jun 01, 2018
Trust me, marrying at a young age is a beautiful thing angry

10K per week is a big constraint, but then, it's an indication that you can make more!

What do you do? What (is) are your revenue driver(s)? Can you generate more revenue- selling more products or getting more client or creating more value that commands higher pay? Can you do anything to increase your inflow? Is it possible to create another stream of income?

You don't have to answer these questions here. Just think about them; pen down the answers and think about them cool


Your standard of living after marriage will be a function of (cost of living, inflows).

Cutting you cost of living would not be advisable here for obvious reasons. The option that seems feasible is boosting your inflow. Errrrrrrrrm, if your "to be wife" has her own source of inflow that could complement yours, that might be helpful...howbeit, you dnt wanna count on that.

Impossible is nothing!

Please think about the possibilities around increasing your inflow.


Personally, I wouldn't marry with 40k/ month.

I perceive that you are hard working. Give yourself a time line, engage your mind and find ways to increase you inflow before embarking on that beautiful journey...please don't bring that lovely damsel in to a life of struggle smiley

Marrying young and rich is a beautiful something wink
FamilyRe: Couple Who Have Been Married For 65 Years Share A Kiss In Beautiful Photos by Stycon(m): 9:11pm On Jun 01, 2018
Berlyn1:
Isn't this lovely ..

grin
Mehn, it is!

And this could be us,you know. Just imagine how beautiful that would be wink
RomanceRe: 'Shoprite Road Girl': The Name Man Used In Saving Girlfriend's Number by Stycon(m): 9:01am On Jun 01, 2018
Lol
BusinessRe: Oil Price Falls To Three-week Low On Planned OPEC, Russia Output Hike by Stycon(m): 10:07am On May 29, 2018
Oops!
PoliticsRe: Presidency Releases Document Detailing Buhari’s Achievements In 3 Years READ!!! by Stycon(m): 6:28pm On May 26, 2018
I must commend this administration for the stunt they pull in managing the FX crisis that resulted from the fall in FX Earnings from crude oil.

Kudos should also be given for the debt refinancing - using euro bond; I must say creating the I&E window is Plausible too.

That said, I think it's important to understand that governance is holistic and as such the success of any administration should so evaluated, holistically!

I was expecting a feedback on the security, power and other physical infrastructure, human capital development, job created, etc., to be given too; but alas! angry

Anyway, maybe we'll get that in the second term report card grin
FamilyRe: Is 800k Salary Good To Marry? by Stycon(m):
Marr wah?!

How is he gonna survive with 800k...imposicant!

When he starts earning 2m and has about 20m worth of investment that earns him at least 1m monthly passive income then he can go ahead.

Please tell him to abort any intention to get married earning 800k/month undecided
RomanceRe: Ride On Linda Ikeji! You Are On Point. by Stycon(m): 8:43am On May 26, 2018
What's this one even saying...please fix those typo error first then maybe I will read the trash up there tongue
RomanceRe: It Is Unnatural To Be Gay, No One Is Born That Way by Stycon(m): 7:28pm On May 25, 2018
mhisbliss:
Seriously why are you asking me this question? You're asking the wrong person
It's actually not directed at you joor...I gave that example to corroborate what I said in my earlier post which reiterated the abnormality of the said act as explained in your initial post.
RomanceRe: It Is Unnatural To Be Gay, No One Is Born That Way by Stycon(m): 6:46pm On May 25, 2018
mhisbliss:
Exactly my point, if lesbianism is natural, then that suicidal instict a suicide bomber has is also natural, they think we're white people
As in, bestiality should be termed normal and natural too huh
RomanceRe: It Is Unnatural To Be Gay, No One Is Born That Way by Stycon(m): 12:32pm On May 25, 2018
@op it baffles me as well o

It was explicit from the said thread that she was exposed to watching lesbian porn which subsequently influenced her mindset and act...

I Can't believe some folks can be so dump to say being a gay or lesbian is natural! Jeez!undecided

Being a serial killer could also be natural, in as much the urge to kill comes seamlessly
Christianity EtcRe: Is There Any Online Church I Can Attend? by Stycon(m): 3:55pm On May 24, 2018
UnknownQueen:
I am a Christian, with a different view to Christianity, I won't want to go into details about by beliefs and all that concerns my faith, however , I have had to many issues attending offline churches and the last straw which broke the camel's back was when I was forced to pray in a pattern and style info not believe in......So I give up in going to church....Please who knows any online church i can attend....?
http://segunobadje.org/livestream/

http://segunobadje.org/sog/
FoodRe: How To Select A Good Watermelon by Stycon(m): 2:18pm On May 23, 2018
hopebacy:
4. ’Boy’ and ’girl’ watermelons:
Many people do not know that farmers differentiate watermelons by gender. For example, ’boys’ are bigger, have an elongated shape, and a watery taste. The ’girls’ have a rounded shape and are very sweet.
I see... grin
RomanceRe: Faithful Guys: How Do You Cope With Temptations by Stycon(m): 8:51pm On May 22, 2018
There is no point being in a committed relationship if you ain't gonna be faithful!

#self_control is the key! ~ avoiding the river is the sure way not to get wet.

I've never been in a committed relationship before so I can't relate but I believe it's about self control and discipline
RomanceRe: "I’ll B Getting Married On D 3rd Saturday In May To A Man I'm Not In Love With" by Stycon(m): 8:38pm On May 22, 2018
#Yawn..
RomanceRe: I Just Ended The Toxic Relationship (I'm So Relieved) by Stycon(m): 7:19pm On May 22, 2018
smiley angry grin
CelebritiesRe: Linda Ikeji Is Pregnant by Stycon(m): 4:39pm On May 20, 2018
Oops.
CrimeRe: Femi Otedola, Dangote & Ambode Pictured Inside A Bus To Inspect Projects. by Stycon(m): 4:38pm On May 20, 2018
Senator Femi Otedola loading... lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: I Will Be Ending A Toxic Relationship On Monday by Stycon(m): 4:30pm On May 20, 2018
Do an update when you end the relationship ~ if this story is not fictitious tho undecided
CelebritiesRe: CeeC Becomes House Of Lunettes Ambassador (Photos) by Stycon(m): 11:21pm On May 18, 2018
pweetiedee:
tongue
Just wondering why the damsel on your DP reminds me of the lady who took my cookies back in college huh

Hope you won't do same
BusinessRe: Billionaire Woman Shares Throw Back Picture As Fans React (photo) by Stycon(m): 11:23am On May 18, 2018
It takes an event to change the course of a man/woman's life. Some call it Happenstance; others Serendipity; I heard it's Grace. Whatever it is, opportunity is a haughty goddess who wastes no time with those who are unprepared

Thank God for your life Madam! I am happy for you cool
CelebritiesRe: CeeC Becomes House Of Lunettes Ambassador (Photos) by Stycon(m): 10:26am On May 18, 2018
pweetiedee:
You're a sissy jo. u no be man
Since you are a researcher...I guess you should be inquisitive enough to wanna find out if I be man before you jump into conclusion. tongue

In other words, wanna find out? wink

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