Romance › Re: 18-year-old Model Sells Virginity For $3m To Abu Dhabi Businessman (photos) by Stycon(m): 10:27pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
ibkayee: Lol fair enough On what basis? Moral or sanity? Anyway, it's not my virginity  |
Investment › Re: Bitcoin falls to $7109 today after rising t0 $7800 by Stycon(m): 10:50am On Nov 11, 2017 |
favour212: it's already $6678, do u the lowest it can get Unfortunately, it may be hard to really monitor it's trend - it appears it's more of guess work. No fundamentals neither  Howbeit, recently northward drive was most instigated by FOMO |
Romance › Re: What Line Will You Use To Ask Me Out? by Stycon(m): 10:36am On Nov 11, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Virgin At 25, Please Help! by Stycon(m): 9:48pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Bro, I think what you really need in a big mind shift/re-orientation! So having sex at 25 is now a goal to be achieved  ...trust me, sex is highly overrated! and it takes more than it to be a man. From you narrative above I can deduce that you have self-esteem issue; you wanna act in a way that others will not disapprove of or better still, you are kinda pressured by peers opinion of your action or inaction. You may wanna work on this! It will interest you to note that in a normal world, being a virgin at 25 (when you are not yet married) is not a big deal - it's a norm. Unfortunately, the reverse is now the case  My candid advice to you my friend is to deal with you mind set- channel your drive towards more productive venture rather than seeking how to  Btw, you may wanna seek counselling on how to deal with masturbation and the other bad habit you claim you have...these might form clog in your wheel if not dealt with. Good luck dude! |
Phones › Way Forward For Blackberry? by Stycon(op): 2:19pm On Oct 30, 2017 |
What's App was the first to drop blackberry, now LinkedIn has follow suit 
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Romance › Re: Money, Sex, Fun, Health: #WhatDoWomenWant? Trends On Twitter; Nigerians React by Stycon(m): 9:49am On Oct 26, 2017 |
Ajicold: Health o # happy birthday to me Happy birthday Dear. Have fun  |
Family › Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by Stycon(m): 10:31pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
FortifiedCity: There is this very young and beautiful married woman. She told me she is 28 years. She's been pregnant once. I assisted her brother get a small job lately. Before then, anytime i see her on the road, we greet. If she wanted to buy something, I'll pay with a clean heart and walk away. Ever since then, she's shown me her appreciation in words. Somehow we started talking on whatsapp lately. She gave me her number.
But now, she's telling me that she prefers keeping guys as friends. In fact she has offered to come and cook for me today but I told her I am not around. I was very open to her that her being so close might tempt me to touch her that it's better she stays far from me or we talk whenever we see on the road. I told her this to scare her away from coming close but it's not working.
She says that me telling her that will not make her be free but she still insists that she'd come to my house. She said she'd like to be free with me, jumping on my bed and playing around but she just likes me as a friend.
Is it wrong to be a close friend with a married woman? Please guys what do you think? That first line says you might end up doing it with her, seems you already find her "somehow" attractive  That second emboldened line is a very bad trigger, when used on a woman, it tends to have this kinda magnetic effect  But please stay clear because the motive is already compromised! Btw, there is nothing bad in befriending a married woman if no string is attached and boundaries are set. |
Education › Re: How Tattered A Room In OAU Hostel Is (pictures) by Stycon(m): 8:45pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
I'm not surprised. Whoever put this up has achieved his/her aim  I guess the uglier and more awkward you paint OAU, the more attention you get.  Dammit! The students in that very hall are dirty mehn! I must say, this is very odd, disgusting and bizarre. It not only depict the negligence on the part of the management but also the abysmal behaviour of the occupants of the hall. After all the current state of the edifice is a result of the cumulative abuse and dirty disposition of the residents! |
Celebrities › Re: Fans Outraged At Moyo Lawal's Cleavage Photos by Stycon(m): 5:45pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
Please what is the utility derived from all this breast and backside display and which category of people derive it  Personally, it makes zero sense to me!  |
Romance › Re: Can A Relationship Last 6months Without Sex? by Stycon(m): 9:31pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
Some folks really need reorientation big time  You've gat no business between the sheet if you're not yet married! |
Celebrities › Re: Toke Makinwa Rocks N970k Silk Dress In New York (photos) by Stycon(m): 9:13pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
royalduchess: Experiencing how much it takes to earn legitimately, I get so pissed seeing people live frivolously all in the name of spending,enjoyment and showing off..Its just being stupid Spot on. |
Food › Re: My Trap Caught This Bush Rat Yesterday by Stycon(m): 1:03pm On Sep 20, 2017 |
40kobo77: Poor rat.
Maybe the rat left a wife and kids at home, to go hustle for their daily bread.
Now the wife is a widow. Who will now train the rat kids? Awwww...  |
Romance › Re: What Attracted You To Your Girlfriend/boyfriend? by Stycon(m): 10:08pm On Sep 15, 2017*. Modified: 10:32pm On Sep 15, 2017 |
Would not craft it here when I finally meet her. Mehn! it's been fun reading through these comments  |
Politics › Re: Rivers State Indigenes Stage Welcome Back Rally For President Buhari (pictures) by Stycon(m): 5:13pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Nigeria is such a dramatic Nation, full of many episodes! |
Education › Re: 10 Things Every Man Should Achieve By Age 30 by Stycon(m): 8:24am On Aug 29, 2017 |
Narldon: 15 Things every Woman should achieve before 30 
1. Travel by yourself
Go on at least one trip by yourself. Whether to another state or to another country, when you travel alone you have to step out of your comfort zone, rely on your own instinct and wits and learn to trust yourself.
2. Get your education
While it is never too late to get or further your education, it is a whole lot easier to do it while you are young. Kids, debt, responsibilities and exhaustion seem to distract you even more in your 30s, making staying up all night, sitting through classes and learning new topics even harder.
3. Love the skin you are in
Most people are pretty hard on themselves when it comes to looks. It took me a while to learn to love my own body. I always thought I was too this or too that and never just right. Once I learned to be grateful for a healthy body that can do so many amazing things, I became a lot happier and more confident.
4. Find something you are good at
By the time you are 30 you should know what it is you are good at. It can be something that you can turn into a career, or simply something that you enjoy doing. Painting, dancing, blogging, helping others, solving complicated math problems; whatever it is, find it. Find a way to incorporate it into your life and develop your skill even further.
5. Go dancing
Go dancing as much as you can before you are 30. Once you turn 30 it is like a magic button is pushed and you no longer have the desire to dress up and go out of your house after 10 p.m. Enjoy it while you can.
6. Do something crazy
Have you ever wanted to go sky diving or swim with sharks? There is no better time to do something crazy or scary than while in your 20s. Once you get married and start having kids you feel a different kind of responsibility for life. You have people that need you, love you (besides your parents) and would be lost without you. The desire for fleeting adventure diminishes, so get the urge out beforehand.
7.Date a lot
Date as much as possible. Not only is it fun, but it will give you the opportunity to discover what it is you really want in a potential mate.
8. Figure out what makes you happy
If you haven't found your happy place yet, start looking. It can be a physical place, or even an activity that you do to unwind or that allows you to reconnect with yourself.
9. Learn life skills
It is important to know how to cook, clean, budget and handle adult responsibilities. This will help you throughout your whole life, so better to learn it now than trying to figure it out after you've hit 30.
10. Visit a foreign country
Traveling to another country can be truly eye-opening. It helps you appreciate what you have while valuing what other cultures can teach you. Take the time to travel to at least one other country before you are 30. It can change your perspective on life.
11. Be healthy
There are lots of future health problems that you can prevent if you start now, before you turn 30. Exercise regularly, learn how to eat healthy and commit to living a healthy lifestyle. Your 30, 40 and even 70-year-old self will thank you.
12. Take a class just for fun
If you already have your college degree, or are still working on it, make sure to take a class just for fun. Don't stop learning just because you received your diploma. Learn a new skill like gourmet cooking or photography. It helps keep your mind fresh and will hopefully be something you continue after you turn 30.
13. Make a bucket list
It is never too early to start a bucket list. Some things you may complete in the next few years, while other things you may not get to until you are retired. But the more things you cross off your list, the more you can add to it later on!
14. Do something that scares you
This doesn't have to be something unsafe or life-threatening, but rather something that takes courage: singing in front of a big crowd, starting a new career or even moving away from where you grew up. It is good to challenge yourself; it helps build character and self-esteem.
15. Learn to like yourself
Do you like spending time with yourself? It is important to learn to like who you are — not just your body or how educated you are, but to actually like the person you are. Take time to work on your soul in order to become the best version of yourself. Gosh! I like you. |
Romance › Re: Ladies! What Did You Look Out For When You Firstly Meet A Guy? by Stycon(m): 10:37pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
Evaberry: I actually wait till I hear a guy talk or I have a conversation with him before I become interested
if you like wear Gucci and Tom fords if you are not intelligent I can never like you. .
if you cannot hold discussions with me on various event happening around the world, then no interest from me.
I like my guy to be proficient
I love smart/intelligent guys, you can wear rags and tags but once you are very logical and able to speak intelligently, it's gonna be very hard for me not to like you. Really? Logically speaking don't you think the "container" could as well discourage you from accessing the "content" A typical mad man don't have to speak before he is avoided. And of course, a well dressed dude without intelligible utterance is a big turn off, same with ladies too... |
Romance › Re: Ladies! What Did You Look Out For When You Firstly Meet A Guy? by Stycon(m): 10:15pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
Lewaluv: Hair cut and shoes. I love a classy man. Spot on! |
Romance › Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Stycon(m): 12:32pm On Jul 29, 2017 |
Selah!
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Career › ll by Stycon(op): 4:43pm On Jul 18, 2017*. Modified: 7:02pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Citi Group Nigeria Postgrauate 2017 Summer Internship by Stycon(op): 5:19pm On Jun 08, 2017*. Modified: 10:49pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: Fayose In Abuja Court For Nnamdi Kanu's Trial (Photo) by Stycon(m): 11:38am On Apr 25, 2017 |
The Picture says it all: both looking different directions  |
Politics › Re: The Warning Letter Against Fani-Kayode & Lere Olayinka From Amaechi (Photos) by Stycon(m): 12:14pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: My Dilemma....lawyer Weds 3rd Class Graduate ? by Stycon(m): 8:18pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
Please ask her and stop troubling your mind with assumptions.
#Communication |
Romance › Re: A Man Need To Have Other Qualities Not Just The Physical Appearance See (lists) by Stycon(m): 1:58pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
Winnelyn: Though we ladies may have many needs but it must not drive us into a relationship with a guy because he is rich, relationship is not about what he has but who he is..ladies have to be contented with what they have and learn to trust God for their needs and not man  You are sighted! |
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Getting Married In Your 20s Truly Is The Best Choice. by Stycon(m): 3:26pm On Oct 19, 2016 |
I seeeeee  |
Romance › Re: When You Are Dating A Girl Every Guy Wants by Stycon(m): 10:40pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: When You Are Dating A Girl Every Guy Wants by Stycon(m): 10:03pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
HateU2: The number of toasters does not matter to us. It's where our 'Hearts' belongs that matters. The kind of treatment we receive from that 'place, where our hearts belong' will make us know how to deal with the numbers. I like this  |
Health › Re: Say NO To Casual Sex!!! WARNING VERY Graphic pix!!! by Stycon(m): 6:52pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Of a truth, sex is really over hyped!~ and unfortunately, sex now colours everywhere; from songs, TV adverts, Web pages, funny threads on Nairaland...to bill boards...Just everywhere you go
It's an ancient truth with eternal validity that "Sex outside marriage is very precarious and should be avoided"
Abstinence is still the best!
Alternatively, be faithful to your partner!
Very informative!
Thanks @ Op! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Oyedepo: "Nigeria’s Healing Is Taking Place Now" by Stycon(m): 5:25pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Suigeneris93:

[size=18]Bullshit[/size] I'm sure you don't mean this |
Romance › Re: Please Help, I Just Discovered My Girlfriend Is A Drunkard by Stycon(m): 8:52pm On Jul 02, 2016 |
Changing her will definitely be an herculean task but it's not impossible. Ofcourse, cases abound of people who once are so deep into this act but later drop it.
It's so obvious that she needs help...however, it's so surprising that she choose not to tell you the whole truth as regard her state of alcoholism. Could it be because she doesn't wanna lose you or she's not being open to you?
If the latter is the case I think that's a red flag you don't wanna ignore!...While if the first point is valid, I will advise that you exercise some patience with her. Talk to her, listen to her and find out where you can come in.
You will definitely need the help of her friends too (not the once she drinks with). You will need to build a team of helpers around her to help ensure she stand by her decision ~discpline~ (that's if she wanna stop drinking)
You didn't mention if it's an addiction. If she is addicted, you might wanna seek professional help for her.
Above all, she needs your help at this point and I hope she is aware of that(because that's the first step to being helped). Least I forget, please pause the plan to marry or propose to her for now until you are certain she has stopped drinking (4real!)
If you are a Christian, please pray for her and get her exposed to God's word(it will surely help her) #Shalom! |
Romance › Re: Simple Tricks We Ladies Use To Attract Men by Stycon(m): 11:19am On Jul 02, 2016 |
All the above might get my attention but her Personality is the only thing that is capable of sustaining the attention  |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Wonder If There Is A God by Stycon(m): 7:06pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
The issue with most of these folks is that they have an "idea" of "a kind" of God they visualised with certain attributes and stuffs, such that if there must be God, then He has got to fit into their spec...Hey guys, It doesn't work that way As in, the OP wanna see God see face to face, I guess. Interesting  Anyway, if you insist, I might help make some arrangement sha, only that we might not see again  |