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I came across these and was like why do people people get married


Plus do you agree with this opinion?

BBNAIJA voting platform just got hacked and the votes manipulated already.

Are you thinking what I'm thinking

kratosonofzeus:
bros he's only trying to solve the issue he's currently dealing with, and its not compulsory to bash, if u can't help then skip it, d person ure referring to as kid, might be older than u sir, unless ure Methuselah..... no offense

And who made this your business.

Btw, so I was referring to the op as a kid

Texrec:
I have tried to use my property to get a loan but my wife is against the idea.

There are a lot of quick loans of up to 3m out there that doesn't require collateral. E.g. Renmoney or what are they called sef

Plus the property you wanna sell could be used as collateral

Threatened to commit suicide? I've gat to threaten whoever stopped him

I have not experienced this before but I think you may wanna consider doing credit refinancing - get another loan with better terms to finance this particular loan

knc:
SO TODAY MY GF UPLOADED HER EX -BF PICTURE WISHING HIM AND HIS TWIN SISTER HBD!!

IS NOT LIKE I DONT TRUST HER OO BUT AS A GUY I NO WAN TAKE CHANCES.....

ALL MY EX SHE KNOWS, SHE DOESN'T LIKE US COMMUNICATING SHE CLAIMS IM A BAD GUY AND WOULD KEEP BLEEPING THEM IF WE STILL COMMUNICATE,

SO NOW IM WONDERING IF SHE IS THE RIGHTEOUS ONE TO BE COMMUNICATING AND BE POSTING EX PIC


WHAT DO U GUYS THINK

Sometimes I wonder if kids of nowadays will truly become the leaders of tomorrow with the kind of mundane issues that they entangle themselves with

Xcoo:
How can I delete my posts on nairaland

Smash your device against the nearest hard object. It works magic.

You are welcome

I think it's bullshit

How can you come and go and loose what you don't have already...iyam not understanding

Because most times they are just semblance of truth

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I guess Cambridge Analytica is still at work, hacking and digging up past information ~ capable of hunting...

I so chess ~ especially when the possible moves of ones opponent is so glaring

Deseo:
In my humble opinion, without offending anyone who thinks differently from my school of thought, I will be looking at this matter from a different angle without fighting. See, I'm just respecting everyone's point of view and with everything I have seen here today, I believe I have completely forgotten what I wanted to say.

Lol

OwoLee:
I knew you still coming to that, a man is the one that goes on the chase right, be it a good or bad man, a women of virtue with shame in her will learn to reject advances that lead to sex. Man wouldn't force himself on woman. Rare occasions, you see a woman wooing a man, and that must be for a purpose.
Look at the society of today, women wear cheap and loose clothing all in the name of fashion, what is it they are encouraging? when the man is not impotent...Moreover, not all things has explanations, that's the little I can use to back up my point for you. experience is the best lesson in life but pray you don't have a bad experience in life as a result of the subject matter...thanks!

Well if that's your view of the subject, good for you.

All I'm saying is that it's not okay to Wao! at guys with high body count and Oops! at ladies with same.

For the record, I prefer cases of zero body count on both end. But then I understand where you are talking from.

Thank you too

OwoLee:
well, people like you won't say the truth but will later come back to the truth either by divorce or by shock of her subsequent body counts...
A woman's body is temple, meant to be adored, worshipped and respected. a woman that have lost the respect, value for her body, she would be shamed but unfortunately no shame again only few has it and still keep their dignity...I guess that's why the world is what it is...

Same goes for the guys too. If a woman is meant to treat her body as sacred, same spot light should be on men as well. There shouldn't be prejudice when it comes to this!

It just sucks to hear all these disjointed view of "what is suppose to be."

OwoLee:
that's to tell you, we were never the same, the world at large have made us to be the same...You paying dowry on your woman meaning you are satisfied with everything about her including her past. Its the man that will house the woman(wife), cloth and feed her...So naturally, the woman with feel more stigmatization due to all these things except if reverse is the case!

Still doesn't justify the misguided mindset that most folks has.

Btw, it's not a question of equality. It's just share stupidity and biased perception of the ideal. Anyway, in the ideal there shouldn't be any count on both ends

What a strategy!

Law 15: crush your enemy totally

It beats my imagination why high body counts earn guys medal while it earn ladies stigma in this part of the world

I know one.

And she is viewing this post now ~ yeah! You!

Super story

Hi Dear,

I really doubt if such forum as this will get you your desire. Are there no great guys in your circle of friends, acquaintance or environs

Going...

Plausible!

biacan:
I just did that

Okay.

Kindly edit my email address off your last post in which you quoted me. Thank you.

biacan:
Always take his advice seriously because such people are rear to come by.....

Yeah. Thanks

I'll love to read the book......but can I get it online

I have soft copy of both books. If you wouldn't mind.


I'll reply your mail with the e-books, if that's cool by you. And alternatively, you can check pdfdrive.com to see if the books are there

biacan:
Oh he must be a great man

Yeah. He is.

When you mentioned "spending" in your earlier post, you remind me of one of what he said: when it comes to luxury, be sure you can afford atleast two before you buy one. Plus one gat to learn to delay gratification at various stage of financial ladder...

No I haven't read it. what's the book all about

It's basically about personal finance: How to create multiple streams of income. I will recommend that you read it, if you can.

biacan:
You gat the gist.....


Lol funny you partner......naturally in life you don't spend and act like you don't know where you're coming from.... not that you shouldn't spend....but if you must spend make sure you gat enough resources that won't affect the spending......

Thank you

Funny enough, this is what a mentor of mine just discussed with me some minutes ago on our way back from office.

Have you read these books "the richest man in babylon & the rich dad, poor dad"

biacan:
You see in life no matter how much you earn business is all that matters and for you to get there you need to set your priorities straight limit your spending,embrace the spirit of saving give yourself two years start up something with the amount you saved you combine both your work and your business...... hope it helps

Very correct dear!

Save to invest, create multiple stream of income, invest some more and build systems/business that generates more income than any company can pay you as a salary earner. Then sack you employer and build your empire! - ofcourse it's not gonna be that easy but it's gonna be that worth it


I bet you are that partner I've been looking for - this few comment of yours tells me you've gat a unique view about life and living.

Keep it up dear!

biacan:
Yes with such jobs your future is Grantee cause even if it folds up someday you'll start up something with the cash you saved

You sound enterprising. I think I've gat to keep my eye on you