Based on what you explained, your husband is not trying, i think all those time you were supporting him, he was only pretending, he knew he needed your assistance so he kept quiet until now that money has arrived, now this is his tru color.

I also think(at some point before he made it) you may have spoken(arrogantly) to him in a way that made him feel less of a man

I think, You denying him sex, is out of anger, feeling of betrayal, than health issues as you mentioned.

Solution:
You guys should see a marriage councilor, i think you are both proud.
There are things that you guys need to understand before you wear each other out.
He needs to understand what can threaten an independent woman, you also need to realize what can make a man feel impotent.
Telling you to have more children is to humble you as far as I can see, i don't think he would mean than on a normal day .

Please I beg you....do everything possible to make sure that you guys see a councilor, you married at a young age, there are things you should know.

One thing i realized is, people are like calculators, whatever you put in them is what they will calculate, then give you an answer, meaning: if you decide to divorce, a million people will support you and vice versa, but deep down, you are the one that understands your situation.

And please pray for your marriage as well, don't assume your husband is the only problem here.

I pray that God will help you both.
Sorry for what you are going through, it is well

My CEO, you need to be calming down, in a real life situation, your wife is not your employee but a co manager of your company, it seems you have trust issues with her which is totally understandable.

The fact that you think she may take over your business enter one day is proof that you may be having inferiority issues.
Work on yourself bro.
If you want her to work with you, let her start first, then as she balances in the work, show her the reason she needs to write the application.

The way it is going now, even if she writes application, there is a tendency that your low tolerance level may make you rubbish her in front of your other staffs if she dares makes a mistake.


Your wife doesn't need to write application before she can destroy your business
She doesn't need application if she is ready to build with you also.

Please respect her decision.

May God help you both.

They preached the message of salvation to them but they were laughing at him.

History is here.....
Now we are preaching Christ (The ark) to you.

Please don't join the ignorant people to ignore this message of salvation.

Jesus is still waiting for you...now that there is still time...

What a generation of unbelievers

It is quite unfortunate that this happened, but
I think we should allow God to be the judge...

I believe this will bring more lifting up for Alaseyori......


She doesn't have to respond, just sit quietly with God and see how He will lift you.


If you don't yet know Jesus, today is another opportunity. Find him before it is too late.

Can someone pls help me check...


Wikes statement did not mention anything like ESN,
Why is the op stating this,
Are you trying to ride on the emotions on our youth to further cause commotion?...

Or I'm i missing something.

you have never been to the church for the past 6 months and the day you decided to go, you again found offence in a man speaking in tongues.

You too imagine.. the people who had been in God's presence for over 6 months are not bothered except you...

I think you need to know God more.

This is one of the reasons Jesus continued speaking in parables....

So that only the heart that seeks after God will be patient enough to seek for understanding....


Becareful sir, so that the devil doesn't have a better part of you.

These are things of the spirit, if you are not spiritually aligned, it will always annoy you.
That is how people complain of fasting, complain of prayers, complain of long preaching, complain of worship songs and lots more ..

If you find offense in the things of God, I'm sorry to say this, there is evil inside of you...

You must first accept Jesus as your Lord, you seem to know him but you don't yet know him.
Then

Please pray to God that He should shine his light to your soul so that you will stop fighting against his spirit.
Ask the spirit of God to come into your heart and change you for good.
Tell God you really want to know him, that he should show/reveal himself to you and teach you things you do not know.

May God help you. Amen

What your wife is going through,you may never know,
Bro, it is not easy to raise one child not to now talk of triplets.....brother please take it easy.
Taking care of those children is already a job on its own..
Your problem is finance, you need more income..

And please cut down on what you give your mother for now....you need to quench the fire in your own home first.


On the other hand...

This is why you need Jesus.... Jesus says..

Matt.11.28 - Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
.


Bro you need rest, find God and you will experience a difference.
Another benefit is that, when you become a member of a believing church, there is no how that will not share this burden with you.

Not only will they give you counsel, they will see to it that your family is doing well...

Trust God on this.....

You need to find him first.....

May God help you.

jesusjnr2020:
I sense lack of trust because if you trusted the leaders to be able to use the money judiciously as you do, you wouldn't have any reason to be less generous to them as you do to others.

I don't think you should be concerned though since you are helping those who are needy including some members of the church because that's actually the whole point of giving - to help the poor and needy, not the rich. That's why after giving in the Bible, the disciples distributed it to the members of the church according to their needs. Acts 4:34-35

I think what you should be more concerned about is why you've remained with a church where you so distrust the leaders?

May God reward you for your kindness and generosity to the poor and needy. Amen!

God bless.

You just took the words out of my mouth.
God bless you..

As for the OP, continue as led...

I hope you know the Lord you are working for?
I also hope you are born again...

If the answer to the above is yes, then continue as led.

God bless you sister for sharing this...
As I read that part where he said...
The wounds has not healed because every time we ask for the blood it gushes out from the hand and feet......
I first fell down flat in worship.......
We really need to intensify our evangelism and preaching of the word of God.

Glory to God in the highest.

You yourself needs to calm down first, for the fact that you know they are fine wherever they are is good enough.
Take time to rest from all the trauma.

I would have blamed you a bit, but I LL let it pass.

For your hubby to travel out with the children without your knowledge shows he's been planning it for long.....that you have no idea about all these is quite amazing.


Becareful of your actions at the moment because if you force them back home(which you can do), what benefit if it going to be.
The best you can do right now is to get the contact of your husband and start pleading for forgiveness, just incase you have offended him.

I pray that the Lord will comfort you at this trying time and restore your family to you peacefully.

Trust God for them, everything will be fine.

Please guys, can someone advice on what stock to buy for a Long term...(like a 1 year investment)

Both Nigerian stock and foreign

To answer some of the questions.
Bible says..in HIS image.. doesn't necessarily mean He is a man or a woman.
God is not a man so His attributes goes beyond human explanation. He is a spirit being. This is why his gender doesn't matter. Meanwhile

From the onset, God has never placed a responsibility on a woman because He made them to support(Gen2:18), not bear burdens.

Creating a woman for support should be a thing of Joy to you women, we are the ones that are supposed to be asking God why we are the ones bearing all burdens.
Read the old testament and you will see that, whenever the Bible mentions how many people are in a city..eg(5000), wemen and children àre not always included in those numbers.

That doesn't mean you wemen are inferior beings, it just means you were not created to handle problems. God gave you a men and He empowered them to protect you..
In other words, wemen has a special place in the heart of God.

Have you read the case of Abraham and Sarah? Gen 16
Sarah told Abraham to marry her maid...
Later, she started complaining that the husband was loving her maid more than her..
After that one had a child, she was still the one that told the husband to send both the maid and the son packing.....
Now you will see that God did not speak to Sarah, rather He told Abraham to listen to his wife and do what she tells him...

This shows how special you people are to God. He is the one that gave you such a soft heart. So He understands better than anyone.



What has confused many Bible readers is..
They read Bible from verse 1 to the end, and start thinking, issues in verse 1 came before verse 2.... Which in many cases, it is not so..
If you read through old testaments especially.. you will see what I am saying.


May God help us all..

As much as some of those things you say up there may be true...
That does not still change God from whom he is,
John.10.14 - "I am the good shepherd; I know my own sheep, and they know me,


Rom.8.5 - For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit.


1Cor.2.14 - But the natural man does not receive the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him; nor can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.


Regardless of your opinion about God, still won't change the hearts of those who trusts in their God.

We true believers don't look by sight, but by the spirit.


I will warn you to stop using the situation of the world to mock God or his people.
You yourself are no better than those that are in deep crisis at the moment.
Some people don't even have time for internet, they just want to live.

Let us not use our idleness to stir up strive among the brethren.

We children of God are one is spirit, we always fellowship together, weather we are in a church or not. we are one in the spirt.

As for you a child of God. Do not let people like this change your faith in Christ, it is the devil's strategy to draw your heart away from your saviour.
When the Israelites were in the wilderness, if someone told them that Moses only came to deceive them, do you know that it won't be hard for them to believe.
But you and I know the truth. Moses was constantly battling with God so that He doesn't destroy the very people that is mocking his name..

Please remember that even with all the insults and persecution they gave Jesus. On the Cross, He still prayed and said. Father forgive them for they do not know what they are doing.

As for those of you that have turned science to your new God. To you they are the only true one.

Rapture is coming soon, I would wish that you repent of your sins and follow Christ now. So that you are not caught unawares..Noah warned the people in his time but they mocked him..until there was no longer time to apologize.

Take heed

Can you recommend one for me...

I want to make enquiries, I also need one

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GuanQ6Ec3Ww

From my understanding, it is not a physical building or structure..
It is the thoughts of men at that age and time.

I will do the research again and probably post it later...with biblical references.

Why not, What God require is true repentance.
Whether you plan to do it or something forces you to do it......as long as it is genuine.

We were all living in sin before we made a decision to forsake our sins and follow Christ.

We are not the one to forgive, that is why it is not our decision to make....

He said He will have mercy on whom He will have mercy.......

It is well with us

paxonel:
ok,
The truth is, we all who believe in Christ today are already in heaven.
Check the scripture i quoted ,it says He that believe in me hath everlasting life, not will have everlasting life in the future.
Adam and eve lost their everlasting life, but Christ came to restore that everlasting life back to mankind.

1 Corinthians 15:22 For as in Adam all die, even so in Christ shall all be made alive.

So, we are already made alive through Christ and are translated into heaven.

Colossians 1:13 Who hath delivered us from the power of darkness(death), and hath translated us into the kingdom of his dear Son(Life):

One may ask!
Where is the heaven?
I mean,Christians are dying everyday and there is nothing heaven about this earth.

The answer to the question is, heaven right inside you. Infact, as a Christian you are the heaven.

This is wrong sir. You seem to have idea about the ways of God but you seem to be in error on this one sir....
This is Very wrong.
You are speaking like those, ""once saved,forever saved"", Christians.
They believe that they don't have to do anything else, so because they are saved, there's nothing to be mindful of. Because you are heaven yourself, you can't possibly miss it...

Well these are the kind of teachings that mislead people.
I hope you know that, Only those who truly know Christ can perform miracles, signs and wonders in the name of Jesus, Only those that know Christ can be led by the spirit of God also....if that is so.....
What do you think Jesus meant when he said.

Matt.7.22 - Many will say to Me in that day, "Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?'
Matt.7.23 - And then I will declare to them, "I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!'



Also please read the parable of the wedding banquet.

Matt.22.8 - Then he said to his servants, "The wedding is ready, but [/b]those who were invited were not worthy.[b]
Matt.22.9 - [/b]Therefore go into the highways, and as many as you find, invite to the wedding.'[b].

My point is, regardless of your stand in God, if you are not careful to obey his word ,You will get to heaven to hear...go away from me..



Please read the word of God carefully before coming up with explanations. If you don't understand, please ask the spirit of God to help you.

May God help us all

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This is a most ludicrous doctrine. Heaven is where God and His uncountable angels live. It is where Jesus went in the ascension.

Act 1:11 KJV Which also said, Ye men of Galilee, why stand ye gazing up into heaven? this same Jesus, which is taken up from you into heaven, shall so come in like manner as ye have seen him go into heaven.

Thank you brother.....
That guy's explanation is one of the most absurd explanation I have ever come across.

First clarification is this..
All these infirmities,sickness,madness etc ends when one dies.. because they are only limitations of the flesh...

Pls note:
1. It is your records that determines whether you go to hell or heaven.
2. Our God is merciful, He can always raise someone to seek his face on behalf of a sinner and the Perishing. Once they pray to God,God hears and forgives
3. God can raise anybody at anytime to intercede on behalf of someone else(if you have the spirit of God, you will bear witness to this)

About Madness.
This is in different categories.let me assume 3 cases.
1. Some peoples madness are consequences of sin, they must have been caught in some sort of sinful acts or habits, warned and did not take heed. God is not responsible for such people's consequences. It is rather our adversary that came to Kill,steal and destroy.

2. Some madness are as a result of medical ignorances,like making mistakes or doing something you don't know will have such consequence.

3. While many madness are as a result of gross wickedness from the enemy. This could be a neighbour,family members and so on...

...Luke.5.20 - Seeing their faith, Jesus said to the man, "Son, your sins are forgiven."
For number 1 category...if they die, it is hell fire, because they are termed to have died in sin. Now if they found mercy from God, God can raise someone to pray on their behalf and then have mercy and forgive them before they die..
This means, once they are forgiven, they are set free even from the madness.

For 2nd category.
God can judge them based on how they lived their life before they fell into that error..
It still boils down to what I said earlier about intercession.

For number 3.
Same principle applies,....
Now know this.

No attack, not even in error can happen to a true child of God, because Gods spirit is always with you and will guide you,correct you as required.
Disobedience is the major reason why we fall into different kinds of issues.

My opinion is.......madness is more like untimely death....for the fact that you died in accident does not guarantee you heaven., For the fact that it is your village people that killed you doesn't mean you will enter heaven also ..it is a matter of salvation, obedience and many other spiritual things..

My question is this.

Are you sure of where you are going to?

Heb.9.27 - Just as man is destined to die once, and after that to face judgment,

Where will you be if anything happens to you tomorrow.

Salvation is in Christ alone.
You need to give your life to Christ today, tomorrow is never guaranteed.
If you have made up your mind to follow Christ,
send me Message and I will assist you.
Shalom

OakPearl:


Your decision to have a good grasp of the workings of the market before investing a cent actually points to one good quality of successful investors: self-control.

I was like you when I came into this market.
With my years of experience in the Nigerian market, I knew that the US market was indeed a completely different kettle of fish and I needed to understand the whole system. One quick one I quickly noticed is the supersonic speed with which investors get market info and react swiftly before we get it here considering the 6hr time difference between the US and Nigeria.

My resolve to dig deep and gather knowledge got me subscribing to all manner of investment advisory organisations that costed me a whole lot of money I annual subscription costs and other charges for resourceful materials.

I receive loads of emails on all manner of predictions and positions many of which didn't turn out as projected.
I can tell you today that nothing beats your own final decision after soaking up all of these information.

My sincere advise is for you to relax, keep your feet down and draw and accumulate as much knowledge as possible. Thereafter, you launch out.
Here are website links to get you started:
https://www.investing.com
https://www.cnbc.com/world/?region=world
https://www.fool.com

As for WhatsApp chats, it's even worse because am a very busy fellow and very poor in responding to chats.

You are going to be resourceful to this forum even by asking your intelligent questions here.
Two advantages is that forum members will benefit from the answers given, and you will have richer answers from other experts wider perspectives here.
Happy investing bro.
Apologies for the long epistle guys.

Thank you for this, will follow those links you sent here.
I am already running the demo account, I do pick few things here and there from what you guys are discussing.
Pls Continued and thanks to everyone.

One thing about them is, the foundation of the church is built on spirituality.
If you look deep, you will see that everything about God is celestial.
Now, anyone that is going to be prophet in that church must be able to connect spiritually. I mean,see visions, interpret dreams and tongues and many more things related to the gift of God.

Their old prophets used to meet that requirements and that is why they were respected and feared. They practically see things before they happen which is a sign of a true child of God.

But now..most of them wants to be prophets even when they have not been called.
If you are not called to minister before God, how can you have the power to manifest in the things of the spirit?..
So, they decide to find powers of this world, sell their souls in return for fake spiritual gifts.
As long as they can see visions, thats all. many have been deceived by these fake gift. And since the gift is not from God, there is no biblical backing for most of the things they do.

It is still possible for an ordinary man,with no spiritual gift, to head a Pentecostal church and all will be fine. But for them, spiritual powers and gift is a minimum requirements.
You can't control their church if you don't show those gift. Which is why they find it by all means.if the devil can give you gift of vision, and you are a smart man, you will do well in that church.
People with the true spirit of God can sense this immediately you encounter these people and that is why they run from them.


Now the rest of the people only run from them because they have seen what happens to people that are associated to the church.
I mean, for the fact that I cannot sing doesn't mean I don't know a poorly composed song when I hear it.

Downside is: most people join the church for no other reason than..they see visions..
You cannot continue to depend on someone else to seek the face of God on your behalf.

The will of God is for us to know him personally.
There's a lot I cannot write here.
My advice for anyone is, unless you are led to join them, stay away from them else, you may become a spiritual casualty.

Now, regardless of their shortcomings.
The true members of that church are spiritually wiser than an average Pentecostal members.

Wanted to ask if there is a guidelines or something to understand before investing as you said earlier.

I already downloaded trove and verified my account.
I have not yet funded it, in fact I am not ready to do that until I have good understanding.

What do you advice..
Can you give me your watsapp contact, let me chat you up

OakPearl:
Dear Goldenrichard and Sunnyfats, I can see a notification that you sent a DM on my Nairaland home page, but I have checked repeatedly in the last 3 days and cant find your DM in my mail box. Sorry about that.
Something must be wrong somewhere as I have noticed this with other DM's too.

Can you please share your questions here so that other forum members can benefit?
Thanks.

Our motive behind the correction matters a lot.
As much as you need to correct in love.
Sometimes, you don't even need to approach the person unless God tells you to.thw best you can do is to pray for the person and if you so much love them...then do a fervent prayer/fasting for them.
Bible says we should remove the log of wood in our own eyes first before we have clear eyes to see other people's wrongdoing.
Sometimes, it is because you have made it an habit to always find people that are doing wrong, that is why it is you that keeps seeing faults in people.
On the other hand, if all you keep seeing around you is people that needs correction, be sure that you are the one that needs deliverance.

Before you go to correct someone, please learn to pray first, only then can you minister to people.
You have no idea what people are going through that is making them misbehave.
All in all, Prayer is the key.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T6QwJsQOjws

Ibukun - higher loving

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3zuo99v9-DU



Ibukun-good morning

to all the real dreamers in the house, dont allow anyone to pollute your mind, for the fact that someone can say something about dreams doesnt mean they understand anything about dreams.


There are lots of assumptions about dreams, that is why we have loads of dream books, go to Ikeja, oshodi, you ll see loads of them,
a prophet with the interpretation of dreams will never allow anybody around him to read those books, simply because, there are several reasons pple dream,
1 of them is the state of your mind, tell me that someone that has been watching africa magic all thier lives will not at some point think people are following them,
Swimming for example, can mean different things, seeing yourself in muddy water is clearly not good, swimming in clean water has a totally different meaning, sometimes, seeing water may not even be about you. God may just be informing you about situation to come.
same way, its not all eating that is backwardness, most times, eating means a relationship, it now depends on how it was revealed to you.
there are many things connected to dreams, all i will tell you is, you should learn to pray about issues, not for God to tell you what it is cos if you dont know how to hear from God you equally wont know when hes speaking...most times, what you need is guidance and direction....
I can go on and on but will not finish this.......


I reccomend 1 book for all dreamers. it is called SCHOOL OF THE SEERS, BY JONATHAN WELTON,
you ll thank me later

Good day OP,
Please i ll like to have a detailed information about setting up a 5 ton plant, and also a stationery plant,or rather send me a message so i can follow up with my necessary findings, I am looking at a stationary plant. Kindly provide me details of the license required and the costs

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I dont beleive that people can be deceived by this so called NPower, you can say this is better than nothing but i tell you, i hope it wont get to a stage where people will ask themselves why they applied in the first place.
Tell me that a government that is strugling with a lot of things at this moment will be able to sucessfully fund a project like this, maybe they will fund it, afterall, its 5000 Naira they promised to pay Jobless youths.
I see this as a political manipulation, i do not believe they can sustain this and for how long.
by the time they finally agree to pay the 5000Naira they promised, you ll see minister of information on CNN, BBC to declare, we have employed the youth as promised.
they probably just want to conduct this interview in order to raise the hopes of youths in order to buy time for themselves. at the end, you ll hear stories like, your application is still under processing or we will notify you about the progress, or better still, you dint meet requirement.
1 positive thing i see about this thing is.....this will probably be the first time in the history of Nigeria, that you ll get employment with the Government without knowing anybody.

Pls pls, Im not saying these to discourage anyone, im just saying this based on observation since the APC came into power. nothing personal

Some pple and their mentality Sha, so...out of all the issues in the world, it is spiritual contest against witches and wizards that is important?
Why not wrestle against the forces that are trying to push Nigeria into a religious war, ethnic crises and other critical issues?.....I wonder what he expect will happen after he has satisfied himself with his power of Elijah...
Who cares.
I will not comment on his action, all I know is that,if he's a common Nigerian that can feel the effect of this economy, he will make a different proclamation.
I'm not judging anyone tho...
May God help us