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HkGboys:
I go ashawo quarters yesterday...

When removing the condom my hand mistakenly touched the base of the condom which was wet with vaginal fluid...

I later used a tissue paper to clean my hands...

Do you think i should be worried ?

mibrims:
11 dec 2017, i went to a native doctor somewhere in Enugu to aid my Internet business, Little did I know That the acclaimed babalawo was a 419. I could only hear his voice without seeing him, the river where the Voice comes from was covered with clothes. He claimed to be a spirit that can not be seen, he has numerous boys working and interpreting for him because he speak in typical Enugu dialect. I was asked to buy this and that and I did, paid monies totaling to 200k. I was invited into the water that was covered with yello clothes for the rituals. By this time the friends that took me there stayed away. I removed my clothes and followed a man into the water at the instruction of a Voice. I got in they performed a magic and something appeared with light all over its body and give me something to swallow. The thing I swallowed was as little as kolanut with light all over it too. After which I was told that the spirit has answered my request as we have made convenants together must I must bring 1.2 million the next day to appease the gods. Immediately I knew I was in for scam and went home without returning back there. Now my problem is that since that day I have this movements in my body that refuses to stop. Although it has reduced but still moves all over my body. Whenever I sneeze I feel there is something in my stomach. I have used different stuffs, bitter kola etc but nothing has changed. I’m tired of living this way. Almost 2yrs now. My worst regret ever. I jst wish I could turn back the hands of time. Pls who has a solution for me. NB i have been scammed in search of solutions. Pls help I feel like I’m better of dead than alive this way..

yazga:
Is it possible for a wife to remain without sex while her husband has been away for 5 years oversees?

Is it possible??

needful:
Am gonna talk about this flogging using myself as a case study.

I came out from a family of 9 and am second to the last. My dad is a very disciplined man who beat at a slightest mistake. Being second to the last born, i did something wrong one day and he immediately rushed to flog me with his belt and I quickly screamed " Dad wait" and he suddenly stopped. I asked him one question that touched everyone" dad why do u deserve joy in beating ur children at a slightest mistake, what happend to correction and advice without beating. Dad did u even bother to ask me why I did that before beating me up. My elder siblings u had been beating right from small, has their life turned any better or change for good?. My dad quickly ran back to his room and was so afraid to even face me as a father for days, did I tell us that I was just 9yrs old then. That was the end of beating in my house. I grew up with my younger sis and one of my bro without dad touching us for one day and I can authoritatively tell u that our lives are different. We grew up and got married all of us, one xmas, all of us came back home. Dad was watching our parenting, he realised that I never touched my kids and they behave differently and ask lots of questions why things are done the way they are, the ones he beat hail out of their head beats at a slightest mistake just like him and their kids already got used to the beating and sees nothing wrong in it.

One evening, a brother was asking me why I do not beat my kids yet they hear whenever I say stop, i told him because I had different way of punishing them , so they cant predict what ever punishment I might give, he screamed, no wonder, my kids already got used to his beating and doesnt fear again. My dad called us one morning and guess what his advice was? , he apologised to the elderly ones over his beating and told them that it was a very bad parenting to flog ur kids and advised them to copy my method of parenting. So why we are at home, I discipline one child that belongs to my brother, ask me what I did. He did something very wrong, and I simply bought a chocolate candy and gave to everyone without giving him, he cried for more than 30minutes over that and at the end, once I said, dont, everyone will keep quiet because they cant predict what i can do. Morale of the story, flogging ur child simply make them brave to withstand any hard treatment thereby believing in violence and this is the reason why naija kids are used to flogging and it doesnt stop them from committing any evil on their mind.

Born2Breed:
It's easy to attack me because you have never seen what some teachers do to kids in the name of discipline.

There are various form of discipline not flogging with anger cos that's what most of these teacher does. They pour out their frustration on kids.
I'm even being lenient by that action i stated previously If this is meted on my kid.

EgunMogaji2:
Anyone that teachs any of my kids has simply signed his execution.

JuanDeDios:
See who's not reading between the lines now. Yes, guns should be outlawed in any relationship between a policeman and an unarmed citizen.

Last line is the mistake you people keep making - that any of this talk is Western. No. Human values, human rights, etc., are universal, even if some societies have so far made more progress at codifying them than others. I know someone who was depressed and people accused her of being oyinbo!

I agree that different things will work for different kids. But have you ever seen a teacher finding out what works for kids and disciplining them accordingly? No - they take the cane to every kid that misbehaves or fails to show up with some fee. Why? Because caning is always done in ANGER. Ask any mother you see caning her child, she'll tell you it's because she wants to correct the child. But check her temperament at that moment, and all you'll see is anger.

The real issue for me, though, is whether caning works. Here in Nigeria there are some who will tell you they were never caned - are they worse off? In the absence of any scientific study on the matter here, the anecdotal evidence is clear that caning does not make kids turn out better. The one thing it achieves is that it makes parenting less time-consuming - you don't have to REASON or DISCUSS or NEGOTIATE with the child - just cane him and go back to pilling egusi or watching TV. This is intuitive, it's the lazy man's approach to parenting. Good parenting is not intuitive - it takes deliberate efforts.

PrecisionFx:
Many Americans have the license to own arms, but they do not have licenses to carry those guns outside their house. U can have ur gun in ur car or house, but u are not allowed to carry it into places like church, malls, etc. In order to get an advanced licence to do that, u would go thru a long n rigorous program n most people don't have the time to do that.


The problems in Nigeria is quite different from the one in America, there's no Fulani Herdsmen on a killing rampage in American villages.

If we own guns, Fulani killings will stop immediately because Fulani will witness a great retaliation from all Nigerian tribes

PrecisionFx:
So the solution is for Nigerians to fold their arms n watch armed Fulani men slaughter dem daily..

Ahmed0336:
Disregard this.

Walk to any pharmacy. Ask for Spanish fly. Always put it in her food/drink and watch her rape you

Celebsnews:
The person suggested that role for you because you're alway harsh when newbies try asking questions. To think you also learnt from the old good samaritans here, who were always willing to answer your questions is saddening.

chibuzor05:
He gave you an answer. Besides what he said was something you could have easily laughed over. And again if you do get angry this easily then I am afraid of how you can cope when working with your transcripts.

Biritiko:
I won’t even respond to that dude again

kennybelle:
And when I thought this was one of the few threads that has no insults thrown. Biritiko and SUPERPACK, please take it easy on each other. You both are adults na, please let's resolve our issues amicably like matured minds

Biritiko:
Ok

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