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MaziOmenuko:
Hilarious! The truth in simple and plain language. Me self lock myself for house dey sleep since today, that na why I no fit sleep again.

My paddy say na club him want make we go this night, I don tell am say I get running stomach.
For where, stomach wey never see better food chop, wetin wan run inside am again?

They best. Make you no go meet another yeye bigger trouble outside. Wetin man go do? I stopped commenting about this country tey tey. Nothing wey Nigeria don do for the citizens. But if i say my mind now, i go receive ban.

LizGray:
Mehnn what will I call this? Foolishness? Joblessness? Just take a look at the second pics. Ogeni what will you tell your children that you were doing tied in the boot like a prisoner? Smh

I tell you Lol. That one no follow lol

My granny is sexy too. Just that nothing on earth will make her wear not to wear her shimi under her wrapper. If only she could wear bikini, she for break the internet too. All the same, i don't wish to be fat.

Celsony:
No where is safe on earth again o, the ONLY safe thing to do is to pray for God‘s protection b4 going out, & avoid hot spots wherever you go.

Exactly what everybody should be doing everyday.

princeonx:
Ha, they too didn't have shoes?

Thought it was only GEJ that didn't!

You are not serious lol

kennygee:
These are creatures you hardly find in Nigeria, yet these ones killed it. Imagine if we had an artificial beach or pool with these dolphins, wouldn't it be nice?

All we know is stomach infrastructure, we no dey ever see the big picture.

Lol.

iyobosadavid:
hahaha, its always December period we normally play it. back then it is a sign that Christmas is so close.

I tell you. My ice cream money goes to this mostly. I always wish to win bigger ones lol

Elle277:
From way back all is well with the two of you, she even stood by you during the hard times, devil don't like it when there is peace, so he had to use the jealous sisters to wanna destroy your marriage..probably there is no love in their marriages and they want to destroy your naive wifes own..pls don't divorce her.. just play those recordings to her and see her next reactions,, talk to her, advice her, she will def come back to her senses and you will see how those devil agents will run away from your home..bros the devil you know is better than the saint you will remarry in future...she is not a bad wife, she's just a naive one that needs some talking..you have a great fam,, and all that has bn happening is temptation, you've win one(both of you during your health challenge) now you guys have to put this set of devils were they belong,,pls try cos its only you that will make it happen through your decision...my humble opinion!

Exactly my point. She is the last born and she is naive about relating with people. I don't think she is a bad person. She just happened to have damaged sisters around her whom still sees her as their little girl. Unfortunately, her sisters won't tell her the good side of their marriages. She is just being deceived. Her brain needs resetting and it could only be done by the husband but not with force. After the family meeting, i believe she will start minding her family just as others. Families that are close to each other is a sweet one but when they don't support with mending issues, they should be at arms length.

I feel so bad she revealed your secret to people. This one is the most painful. Why can't she tell them its appendix or hernia. This is pure betrayal. Well, i don't know how you should handle it but i know it hurts so bad to have your trusted partner slay you in front of people she should protect you from. Your wife first of all is not matured to handle marriage at all. As others commented, you should let the family members into your marriage as she was the initiator of third party at first. Let them know what you discovered. Can you imagine am hurting for you self. But all the same, everything can still be settled.You just have to forgive my dear. But i know it hurts.My only wish is that she and her family will be able to see how they hurt you. They need to know that they should help to build your family just as you would theirs. They need to know they brought down your EGO. Your wife doesn't know what she is doing.Calm down op. It hurts but you gotta forgive.

teekay213:
but she never die now.

Are you crazy?

Vendoor:
A welcome development...

Imagine rushing down from your bathroom hopefully to answer an important call perhaps, with soap still in your eyes... You just managed to press the answer botton and you hear this:

Hurry, join the happy family of blah blah blah with N100/week


And you be like: Oh my Gash!

I tell you

I can just imagine how small and innocent the baby will look but she got mind to kill the child. Where did God keep some people's heart? Tell me!

RIP girl. May your murderers know no peace.

He even has guts. Please keep your children especially daughters away from any man be it uncle, brother or friends. I won't take this kind of mess likely around my girls o. Spits on his face!

ginajet:
After una don waste 31years finish.. .. . The man no marry another woman for all that 31years? the man try, women can do it but men I wish mine can come back together but it won't be fair on my step-mom and step-dad.. ... I will just continue to thank God for my life and enjoy having two Dads and two Moms but work hard so that my children will have just one mother and father

Amen to your prayers

PigMeat:
i wount let u go unless u help me carry our twins.

Okay. Dey there

Have you ever tried it with Banana, groundnut, sugar, enough milk, and little coconut? Yummyy!

PigMeat:
physically? Am i spiritual? But judging from ur earlier post, it depict som1 searching for twins, they wasnt any trace of u having someone to give u that already. U are been selfish with the truth?

Lol leave me alone biko!

PigMeat:
if they got theirs(triplet) online, then we can get ours too. Dnt you think so?

Lol pigmeat, I have someone that gives twins too but physically. Lol hold your online twins o

PigMeat:
i have twins in me, together we can make them. Fancy that?

Lol online?

Op please eh, my precious phone fell into the water. The battery is in built. It started tripping off and i took it to professionals for repair. It worked for some days but i don't see it as the same again. Will this method still help my phone? I took care of this phone so well.

PigMeat:
the oga na porrrnstar?. him finish work there.
Men sha. The oga don finish work, leave the suffer for the woman to take k. Imagine how she dey sleep for night. The cry of those babies.

I tell you. But all the same, i want twins. God willing i will get mine.

Op tell her to dress up, take her to a restaurant buy her food. After eating and drinking with her, tell her about the drugs you found out but first ensure she is the one taking the drugs. Tell her how people can be infected because she might not know a lot. I believe she wouldn't want you to disclose it to anyone else because of the stigma attached to the disease. Counsel her of the risk she is putting everyone so she know. Tell her to stop using your mother's personal belongings. She has to stay away from every sharp object in your house exp the knives. If i tell you not to mention it to your mom, then my advice is not complete because you can only give love and support to someone if you know what they are going through. Tell your mom but make her understand what your aunty needs. Ensure she doesn't stigmatize her by not changing or being calm around her. You guys should still go about your normal activities around her. Show her some love by ensuring she takes her drugs everyday. She will feel good about her status being known by you all. That's what is keeping her from disclosing her status to you all. Its not easy though but you can't kill her because of her status.

HaneefahRN:
So she should not sleep well all night cos of a child whose mother might be in bed enjoying her sleep? The mackintosh seems more practical, and waking at least twice in the night and ensuring she pees before going to bed.

The best thing is for the girl to be raised by her parents whatever help OP and her husband want to render should be extended to them

This girl living with them is not there for material help. She is there to be nurtured and trained. To be different from others. Forget her parents.Some people are not worthy of being parents. Op help her genuinely like you would your daughter. Let her help her parents and other siblings to change. If this girl goes to her parents, she wont get the proper training. I will have to admit it won't be easy, but it can be done. The girl is 11 now. Soon, she will enter puberty age when she needs a lot of advice and training. If you take her back to the village, she will get pregnant and end up frustrated. Op calm down and accept this girl. She needs not less than 10 years to fully grow into a woman. Coach her and help her grow. You will forever remain her idol if she doesn't go astray in life. I will stop her. Hope my advice will be accepted with keen heart.

enygmababe:
Sweetilicious, those are nice and practical suggestions I agree but have you ever really tried to effect them? Particularly the wake her up every hour to go and ease herself? Op says she works.

My sister, it is one thing to say oh but another thing to do. Before you castigate me take note that I have not said to send the child home. Until you have walked this talk believe me you will not know that it is not so easy.

If she can do it for her daughter or her neice, she can do it for the girl. I use to wake up my sister's baby sitter to ease herself. She came from the village, she have never been to school. Although she was disrespectful because that's how she was brought up. Two years of living with my sister, she can speak English, write, she took 5th position. She goes to a reliable and expensive school. Am just saying there is no harm in trying. Anybody can do it. She shouldn't be selfish my dear. That girl will still grow up one day to become a lady . Its just a phase she will outgrow soon

Nyceguy92:
Huhmnn, you are really Sweetilicious.
Those are really very practical things to do.
Everybody was busy saying "Send her home," "No, let her stay," and we forgot the most basic steps that do not cost a kobo.
I see these yielding good results, especially combined with the necessary medical inquiries.

Thanks. The reasons she wish to send the little girl away is not acceptable to common sense. Everyone at a time in their life bedwets. She will still clean up her own children if the are the ones going through this phase of life. Will she disown her child? Solution is the best.

My opinion is that it is her body, her shame, her confidence, her strength FULL STOP And she breast fed her children too. She didn't want to go for breast augmentation maybe. Stop being a body bully guys. I rest my opinion.

gentlekaycy:
Confirmed! I have seen mine...2/4...count down to Nov 15

Seems you divided it wella. Congratulations.

STFUareyouG0d:
Isn't it obvious why God said we should judge? The man you judged yesterday might change for today


I'm happy for Tonto
God bless her home

Am happy for her too.

Continue to Bleep your destiny away. Hiv is real Op.

jideniceguy:
Jeez!!! I feel really terrified and depressed whenever I hear r read a news of a corp member dying. It's really heart breaking. And d dude is even a newly mobilised corper. RIP to him and may God confort his family. OP take heart and accept my condolence.

I feel for him as well. After going through life struggles, May God console his parents for this is an untimely death. No one knows tomorrow that's why its good to keep your path clean as hard as it is. Rest in perfect peace corper.