₦airaland Forum

I think you should type the letter. No employer will disqualify you anyway. Nevertheless, the era of hand written letter has passed. Type it

oduastates:
Depending on which part of the world you are,
Nigerians are considered as dysfunctional freaks.
Most of the problems stems from the fact that,the people in position to influence issues are either lawyers or finance experts.
As a result,experimentation and evidence based solutions is beyond them.
The solution is always money,money and more money.

You do not need an economist ( mostly quacks) to solve this problem.
I have written about this before. it used to be like that in lagos and his applicable to all cities apart a few.

SUMMARY
reduce the number of private cars on the road and change behaviour thereby leading to the reduction in the amount Nigeria spends on petrol.

1 bicycles and bicycles lane
2 congestion charges
3 expensive driving licenses
4 FG should terminate all train journeys outside city limits.
5 Turn over all rail transport within city limits to the state for mass transit.
6 Toll roads
7 taxes on parking

In other countries, you get conventional trains like every 15min while in lagos, you would have to wait hour or even days to see 1 train.

This is another ideology that proves not to be void of common sense. I agree with you.

[quote author=aimuan post=45479758]This woman must be a very nice woman.i ve bn waiting to see her post/comment on tbillz and tiwa's marriage hullabaloo,but still yet to hear anything from her.some nonsense girls would've taken advantage of the situation to either lambast tbillz and tiwa.nice doc.[/quote) She has a job that's why.

talk2alabama:
Just call... even if it's once a day... u guys could communicate at night... no one is just too ever busy...

Okay thanks

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waleadex:
Both of them were just childish about the whole thing...

Seriously they were. Its a good thing they realized their mistakes. Wish they come back together. We should forgive people just as we seek forgiveness from God. No one is perfect

Mom, you are the best. You pray for me everytime. You always want me to be happy. You are a good mother. Kept your home. Worked hard for us, give me money as i don't have a good paying job. I Couldn't have wished for another mom. You will always be my mom. I love you

Seems the man never treated her well for her to be celebrating.

Their grand children did this

TiffanyJ:
It won't even be healthy for their marriage. Seperate rooms among couples can bring about distrust, secrecy and it reduces their level of intimacy. Its better to share a room and know each other's strong side and weakness rather than live like strangers.

Thank you. I argued this with my friend who wished to have separate room with her husband. That anytime she wants or he needs her, she can go meet him. Sometimes, i ask why do people get married.

Climate change affects the more. There is little or no rain as predicted. Fulani herdsmen killing farmers that makes use of irrigation as an alternative source is another factor. Nigeria is not a country.

SuperSuave:
No, not what I want

I want a large bed where we can roll on one another not squeeze ourselves on a three sitter couch

But you can still manage the couch happily nah. The most important thing should be that your family is together and happy right? Some people don't even have any couch nor spacious room. Be contented and happy

Its alright. Part of the reasons i dislike the entity called 'Nigeria '. Everything is jaga jaga.

DukeNija:
You need to calm down. You are just 24 and there's a lot ahead for you. I lost my colleague and gf on Monday, she was also your age and she wasn't even talking marriage. She wanted her masters, ACCA e.t.c.
She has had people propose marriage to her but turned them down.
Pls don't put yourself under any undue pressure and continue to stay celebate. Keep yourself for your husband cos it will be worse if people can just sleep with you without the ring.
Godbless

Thanks so much.

Seems Enugu is a crime zone. People are wicked and evil. God help me and my loved ones. RIP

Sweet people.

allthingsgood:
Honestly we have a serious problem in this country. Nigerians are natural negative cynical pessimist. Just look and the first set of comments and u see many frustrated and demented persons. Its almost like we enjoy hate and negativity. I dont know how they managed to call us the happiest people on earth

We were termed the happiest people on earth because Nigerians were suffering and smiling. But now that social media gave Nigerians the platform to voice out, you say we are negative cynical pessimist? Do you also want to take social media away from Nigerians?

Chiefpriest1:
To women, telemundo is like a teenager discovering sex for the first time.

If not because my wife dey hear word, we for don dey court sef . After plenty talk talk, she had to reduce her addiction.

But I also learnt something: that the way I felt at the time was exactly how she was feeling when she was worried about my addiction to my phone.

Marriage is about empathy, putting yourself in your spouse's shoe sometimes.

For those saying 'disconnect the dish', your wife is not a toddler, you can't treat her like a baby.

Most times, talking, not talking down on her does the magic.

You just made a common sense.

NikitaNike:
Meet my handsome boy. He doesn't need money just ribbena and u 2 will be lovers 4ever

That's children for you. Cute boy

YabaLeftist:
There's nothing more you can do but register for counseling and take the prescribed medications. It's not the end of the world. There are people with more serious and painful ailments like cancer.

It's not a death sentence. You can live positively with HIV as long as you abide by the prescribed healthy practices and take your medications promptly. I understand the medications are given free of charge, so you have no reason not to take them. You can even marry an HIV positive person and bear children that are HIV negative. The health counselors will explain more on that.

All in all, try to maintain a positive disposition in life and engage in activities that will cheer you up. Don't let depression get the better of you, be cheerful. Train your mind to be cheerful and it'll do you a world of good.

Good advice.

Go for the test. I pray you turn out negative. Hiv is real. If you get to know your status, it will help you stay away from promiscuity. I wish you good luck

Indeed, there was a country.

Soon it is gonna be one container with oil inside. Funny enough, people will protest but will be termed a wailer. Lets keep believing in Buhari. He knows what he is doing.

Dorathy, you need help seriously. When you sleep with another man aside your husband, you will die an untimely death. After rushing marriage now, you are sleeping with his friend without any guilt? End time women Dorathy, you need help seriously. When you sleep with another man aside your husband, you will die an untimely death. After rushing marriage now, you are sleeping with his friend without any guilt? End time women

thowbie7ven:
you've kissed Four guys apart from the two guys....meaning you cheated at one point...elucidate please!

I have always been loyal. That's my key to relationships. I didn't kiss them while dating.

Interesting

Btruth:
I know sweeti. I'm not saying that been depressed is something one can get over with. But I'm saying there are other ways to go about it. One shouldn't get depressed to the level that the devil will come in to take charge of the steering, of course, the next thing is an accident. There are good and better way to handle depression, but I believed no 1 of it all is to trust God with every situation.

- once a person get this sign of depression, it will be wise for the person to open up to friends (good one though) and families. So that whatever one is building up in the system can shared and probably talk on it, and I think by the time you start sharing up your problems, good advices even little solution will come in to ease you the tension.

Everyone get worry or depressed at a point, but the thing is we need to quickly start discussing the problem probably with our partner if it a marital problem, or just been open to people who could be of a help to give us a positive advices on the issue.

Depression is a very powerful tool that the devil uses to destroy man's life.

Good evening.

You made sense. I like

ChukwuIbrahim:
U love a THIEF!

Yes i love corporate thieves but not zombies

I watched this korean movie called JUMONG.That's exactly how IPOB will be victorious.

I love this man deeply. Its not quantifiable. Like terms attracts.

STFUand4kMeHARD:
No mind am ..... see dem bubu pipo feeling naked presently

Lol. This picture reminds me of my childhood days. My mom will shout at me that i dont have anything but will be hiding something. Lol you made me to laugh today. Kudos

Is Nigeria truely a country? I doubt!