₦airaland Forum

Imoh555:
Do you know that In Nigeria, once the man stops calling, some relationship will just die a natural death?? I really just want to know why ladies always wants the man to do almost everything but they don't want to do or contribute anything yet they clamour for equal rights and feminism (let's not talk about that today) ever hear a lady say help me do so and so thing and guys will rush to do it..

But try telling a lady to help you carry your bag, you will hear something like do you want to kill me don't you know I'm a lady? My question is that is it appointed for men to suffer and always do the hard stuffs while ladies relax and get everything done for them and always be at the receiving end? I am very equal in my relationship we either split bills or work on projects together I don't have time to be worshiping any woman, Jesus died for everyone and not just for women alone that men should always be paying for their sins by living life for the ladies..

I was chyking one babe last December and I noticed she hardly ever calls even if I send airtime she liked me no doubt and was giving it to me hot, so I decided not to call for a week to see if she was gonna call and I ignored her whatsapp massages na so we take dey silent since February till now..

She called last night to ask if everything was OK and why I don't call and I asked her if she knew the phone works both ways...

Ladies please some of you should upgrade. A relationship is a 50/50 thing. For me I pay for our outings today you pay tomorrow or we contribute money and do whatever chills we want, you call I call, you text I text, you buy me gifts I reciprocate. Someone said I'm too strict that she can't date me I just told her I'm not strict that I just don't entertain mediocrity and I'm too tall to be bowing down to worship a woman who contributes absolutely nothing to my life.......

Make una no mind my rant,na bread and avocado wey I eat dey sweet me.... But let's learn to practice equality....if I have all it takes I'll provide for my woman but she just has to reciprocate in her own little way just to show me she cares too... Hope I made small sense

You did.I will call you

Slymonster:
Somebody dies,somebody goes to jail. Both side lose...

That's why its advisable to stay out of trouble always.

Surulady:
Her main problem is the people around her that are not telling her the truth

Yeah.You are right.

Good

efjay:
That's why it's good to hear from both sides before judging

Am telling you.

ednut1:
95% of women in 9ja have no clue what feminism is

Now that's the problem. They just watch Hollywood and boom,feminist is born.Some even make little money and boom,feminism becomes another hobby. In my little way,I try to change some mindset. I really wish what I deciphered from my research will be imbibed in Nigeria. With our moral heritage and religious beliefs, development will come faster in a positive way.We need education.We need to learn from intellectuals like Okonjo Iweala,Dora,Oby,Kemi,and other females doing positive things when the became empowered.

IamD18:
It's impossible to see a Nigerian wannabe feminist who's not either a single mother, divorcee, evening newspaper or a jilted woman.

Real feminists abroad are making waves, while Nigerian feminist wannabes are busy spreading legs and getting pregnant out of wedlock.

Yeah.It is because many Nigerian women do not understand what feminism is.They misunderstand it to be Misandry(hatred for the opposite sex)The two concept are different and distinct.Feminism talks about empowering women for proper development. Empowered women that are given the opportunity to thrive is a good thing.Some Nigerian women just misuse the opportunity to rub shoulders with men.That's why its not developing Nigeria in the way it should. Many men do not support it because of this.I weep for the women that wallows in ignorance and misuse empowerment in a negative way.

Aww! So sad! RIP Mama

Bbbwings:
God I beg u
When I build my house never let one useless church or mosque build theirs close to mine.

Lol

0ppa:
Dear cook who cooks for every caller,
You refer to yourself; you are the lady and that is your Twitter handler. I understand you want to be noticed.
1. You have a reputation of being a celebrity in a local street and cannot make his broth, and stew with N3k. Have you worked before all your life?
2. You cannot make do of the stove. You lived all your life using the gas cooker. You are a primitive liar.
3. You feel insecure while you see him around the kitchen cubicle and make out a meaning that he is inspecting you. Are you a dirty cook? Do you cook magic? Are you one of these girls who deduct half of the money for nail polish? Then why worry?

It is somewhat clearer you will have marital problems; money management issues, the 'feel among' problems, spouse's food matters and trust issues.

Lol

kaen1317:
Anything to trend in this nigeria

Lagos traffic is crazy

abbaapple:



This Daddy Freez must be nacking Totolet kpekus I swear! The man have turn blogger too Nigeria we are cursed! Definitely!

I and my family definitely are exempted from the curse.Amen

Thanks Op

zoedew:
Exactly the reason we should bring up our children in the diaspora in a manner that deepens their Africanness. Anyone noticed that Michael Jackson ended up a frustrated wreck having spent the larger part of his life trying to look like a Caucasian?

I believe you.Confidence can kill die hard enemies.

cornerplus:
You got something like this that was legi in Anambra?

Yeah but 550k in a remote village.Will resell at the right time.

TANID:
God Please I Don't Want This Kind Of Women In My Life

Are you a good man?

DRPAIT123:
May God protect us all from witches that are seeking who to devour.
I have lost all respect for this thing tonto has become

I don't support everything going on because I wanted them to come back in future but with what am seeing, it's a mission impossible.Now,Tonto is not a witch only that she doesn't know how to keep calm which are things a virtuous woman imbibe.She is shamelessly vocal and always ready to nag.There are ways to treat such people and it is SILENCE.It gives them a sense of winning which in turns, gives them room to feel remorse.People should stop reacting to the drama.She will calm down and we will have peace.The worst fight is with someone that has nothing to loose.Tonto has lost her good brand from the marriage saga and so many interviews granted by Churchill.She believes she has nothing else to loose.She needs to be rehabilitated.She needs to find herself.Nigerians should stop tagging her a witch.She is better than some good for the cameras that do some crazy stuffs. My assertion tho!

cornerplus:
For real?

Am in Awe! Is it real? The one I got the other time in Anambra was real.Look well o

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zoedew:
Which racism are we talking about here! Is that her natural hair she has on? You are not original and complain when folks label you a monkey!

I believe you. You need to feel good as an African for you not to be deterred by any racist comment overseas.

legba1:
instead if that nimcumpoop to settle down and turn a new leaf....na to do bumbum enlargement and galivant discrediti g her husband...the fact this lady smile fot the camera does not mean her marriage dies not have challenges but cos she and her beau work on themsekves continuosly

Exactly what some people fail to understand.

Surulady:
I hope she takes this as a piece advise and keep quiet

I believe she will.Just that she has friends around her that won't tell her the truth.

15yrs old for Christ sake.Why are some people this heartless?

SageMK:
This woman is actually brave.

She is fighting a war alot don't even know exist.

She is a beacon of encouragement to alot of women out there that are ashamed & depressed about their bodies.

Her message is simple — Embrace and love your flaws.
Don't let the media deceive you into body modification.

After all, saggy breast or not, a lot of men will still suck.

Embrace and love your flaws.

johnkay1:
That is my guy, Peter is my man from day one of Psquare. Very mature.

I respect him for his philosophy of "don't disrespect my wife", if you don't respect my wife I'll give you no audience no matter how important is what you want to offer. That is one of the traits of real men. You can abuse me, injure me but you will need to kill me to get to my wife or my mother.

Am telling you

Richdad50:


Nothing ages a woman faster than a reckless lifestyle accompanied by an insatiable urge to keep up with social trends. Makeup keeps the glow but a heavy one is burden to the skin. Two practical steps to a woman's younger looks is a healthy diet and a contented heart at peace with itself.

To reverse age is to advance what keeps you happy. A loving relationship energizes the underlying cells and a good man is the perfect antidote to wrinkles.

Richdad

Exactly! A glass of pineapple juice mixed with carrot and watermelon for you.

Have you ever been hurt by someone you truly loved? Someone you sincerely adored? Someone you thought said"I love you" with their mouth but they didn't? Healing is a gradual process.Take your time, don't loose yourself.

Thanks Op.Let me try.

Alamu1111:
Poverty die die die die

discontentment not poverty.

Kyrx:
Most of them are criminally minded before, they had in their mind to engage in one form of illegality or another right from the day they started applying for their visas.

Yeah.You are right

MiddleSpot:
Lol.

Why Lol?

Gbagbuo247:
I don't believe you. 4years? Not even a sip? That's .....

Yeah.Not even a sip.Its like a lifestyle now.