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Ogbuefi2020:
what is this oil-soup saying sef?? How about Thief.nubu that is ur second god??

Hey ****. Have you for once sat down to think about what you are doing to yourselves Blowing up your lands, damaging your means of livelihood, closing shops and all just because of some enemy who is tucked up in the comfort far away Aso rock Abuja Look here, Buhari and his generation will never be poor again. They will never live in SE/SS and so will never directly feel the impact of all your thoughtless, childish, dangerous tantrums. The only people who will feel this are YOU and YOUR gaddem generations dammit!
WTF is wrong with your sense of reasoning What?? Jesus be a fence!

People like you make right thinking SS and SE indegenes like me to cover our faces in shame.

This is why I so much respect the SW. Very level headed people.
You'd never find a Yoruba man doing trash like this just because his "brother" lost election.
As a Yoruba, if you bring shame to your kindred you will be called an omo ale and left to yourself. Unlike most of my people in SS and SE who will claim "brother" with the worst criminal just because they think it will spite their imagined enemies. In fact I notice we worship political criminals much more than our true sons who have brought us pride. We place too much importance on the bad people.
But why are we like this mbok? Why?

What's so shocking here
For crying out loud this man is beginning to sound as if he's expecting us to raise a statue of liberty of him and be bowing down to his image everyday.

Abasi mbok! Is it a crime to be a Nigerian

klassiquette:
I think it's same reasons why men get all mushy and emotional when their wives tell them they're pregnant like didn't they know that they'll score a goal?

Chop knuckle jare.

Don't mind all these small boys here jare.
Besides, it's not only the girl that acts mushy. Some guys even cry look scared while popping the question as if they are scared she'd say no.

Pls can we all just get over this 2015 elections already? Can we move on from all this pity inducing and sentimental speeches.
Ok so GEJ conceeded. Thank God! What a hero!
Now can we hear word!
O ga o!

I love Peter most among the P square clan because he's the smartest. He seems to be the one with all the bright ideas, always coming up with new ways of making cool cash legally.
He'll obviously be the most successful way after P square are no longer doing music.

Respect the fact that she was honest enough to tell you. Most will NOT.

If you really love her, forgive her and let God into the situation. God NEVER fails

Kachisbarbie:
lols.
Truetalk at sanity. I almost ran mad yesterday trying to defend my own stand, they kept putting it to me that I am from Imo, I refused. _ that I am only Imo by marriage.
At a point I began to doubt my own stand sef, I decided to throw the question to the house, not because I am daft or consider those who reason that way daft. I just wanted to be sure I am not the one making a mistake. You have said it all @ they should all do what suits them, I guess that's what I will start telling them.

Please what company is that?
Very daft set of colleagues.
Those are the kinds of people that do not know what a maiden name is.

Just like the name implies State of "origin".
Origin means roots. That a woman is now married does not mean that she looses her roots. Yes she can claim her husband's state and the benefits that come from the state, but she still has her own roots.

This can't be 1950. More like early 1900s

What I feel is that the amount is a little too much. N25 maximum is fine

AdeniyiA:
...and thereafter find another husband for your sister or you'll marry her??

And what's that supposed to mean? That his sister must remain married by force by fire

blackjack21:
Even if their dress were to be switched you will still think the black's a thug.
it's the way you're educated to think.

Leave sentiments. I know a white thug when I see one.
The white boy there looks calm and mature. Def killed it.

I really don't understand why the heat should be on Dasuki and whoever when there was a C-in-C who had to give his express and formal approval before monies of such magnitude could be withdrawn. It's like blaming the watchdog for a burglary incident while the nightwatchman himself is left off the hook. Makes no sense to me.

EdCure:
We in the SouthSouth know how to call the miscreants among us to order.
Can the same be said about you gull-ibo people?

You biafridiots are fond of cheering the worst among you. You adopt and deify criminals, kidnappers, looters, rascals and fraudsters as heroes, leaders and role models. But they inturn lead you to destruction.

It is not a coincidence that you're shocked by this kind of news.

Ouch! That hurts

Boldwinner:
Nice compliment. So what did you mean by " Your husband WILL NOT treat you like a
special egg just because you are a virgin. "

Learn to read an entire article and not just picking out words and phrases. The entire thing most times helps you understand the koko of the matter.
Gerrit?

dachaste:


Ain't u just saying same tin with the #team virgins buh in different language?



U don't want some one to chop n clean mouth with ur gals, so is it evri single guy dat sex dem dat will marry em?




And who told u love has nothing to do with moral and character? So wot do u think sustains love?


Wake up biko

Honey, why so bitter? Cool down abeg.

Now if you read me well I didn't say that it's every guy that has sex with them that will marry them. I'm actually advocating for virginity until marriage. Or at least until after he's seen your people and done the needful. And if you read properly, it's not because it will guarantee you an easy ride in marriage but because of YOUR own good.
If marriage is all about character why are all those uncouth, gossips, morally loose girls getting married every Saturday? Mehn! Babes. You never see sontin.

Boldwinner:
Wait, from your article, you're indirectly telling women that virgin or not doesn't change a thing because you think being a virgin does not guarantee anything as you've met rudest,badest girls who finally get a happy home. In other words, they can give away their virginity to any man the 'think' is worth the love. You no dey try o.

Olodo ni bobo yen sha.

Boldwinner:
I hope you also kept or will keep this same commitment? If you didn't or won't, well don't expect APC kind of CHANGE from your daughters.

Walahi! You didn't read this article.

Yeah Yeah. I keep seeing articles and epistles upon journals about why staying and marrying a virgin is the best thing ever. The fairy tale tell us that a Prince charming will find his virgin bride and they will live happily ever after!
Lol! Now look here ladies, men are very physical beings. They are VERY, much much more aware of the physical than they even realize. Meaning that how they perceive and handle a lot of things depends largely on what they see and touch. The excitement of the moment. That is why they say that a man can love you to death but still have one or two other girls he sees.
What am I saying? Virginity is physical, the tearing of the hymen a moment's excitement. You know why? The many issues of marriage will soon determine the real strength of the love between the both of you, and not just some piece of flesh honey. Yes he may forever honour the fact that he hit if first BUT there are just far too many issues to contend with in marriage. Too many.

Don't mind all these Team #IMustMarryAVirgin guys here o. Your husband WILL NOT treat you like a special egg just because you are a virgin. Just take it from me. Yes he hit it first, but he will eventually hit it. And just like any other normal man who has conquered something, he will get bored every once in a while or blue moon. Depending on how good the sex is. This coupled with the many issues of marriage will make him forget your treasured hymen when he feels like venting, ignoring, baiting, and all what married couples do when they quarrel. Your hymen is not going to protect you from passing through some fire every blue moon or so.

If remaining a virgin till marriage will not prevent;
1. Your hubby from cheating,
2. Real marital fights/issues,
3. Your body from sagging and eventually looking unattractive
And if it does not guarantee an automatic;
1. Influx of healthy babies
2. A happy life
3. Good sex life
Then my dear you are pretty much going to have to work on your marriage just like every other woman/man. Yours is not special after all!

The truth remains this; A man that will love you will love you. It has little or nothing to do with character or morals. I have seen the rudest, baddest, roughest girls marry even before her mates start looking forward to marriage. And these girls did not marry anyhow men o, and to the best of my knowledge, their husbands treat them as well as any woman would pray for. People have different time tables in life. This is of course not a license to start behaving anyhow you like because it's always best to have a good name people can refer to and it's much more helpful while dealing with in-laws. This is just an eye opener for our judgmental folks who like to point fingers at older singles like they are the cause of their singleness. A man that loves you will treasure and respect you just the way you are.

So why remain a virgin? For your own damn protection. Simple!
I'm going to advice my daughters not to give their bodies to just any assholes who will end up breaking her heart. I'd like to save them from all the trouble really. So you see, it's just basically about YOU and YOU and of course your God. God will in his own time direct the steps of the man who will be worth it to you and he'll marry you.

So to the #TeamVirgins out there, I say ride on. Keep on keeping it! Those riff raffs disturbing you are not worth it jare.
And to the #TeamNon-Virgins. Yeah we all understand what we've been through, but nothing spoil jare. At the end, we will all meet in the same association of married women! Lol.

Here we go again!

The labour neva start na. When the tin start na slap she go land for her friend face.

solash:
Hahaha!
Where did you get what you just posted from?

This proves you know little about Akwa Ibom State.
Make your research properly or better travel to Akwa Ibom as this will help clear your confusion.

Land grabber oshi. Tell me more about my own state. Onye ara. Come and take land let us see na.

solash:
Now what will make you refer to a fellow indigene(Ndoki) of Akwa Ibom state as a mere migrant in his homeland if not Hatred or should I say ignorance.

Your post is disgraceful.

Ndoki is NOT one of the Indegenous ethnic groups in Akwa-Ibom. They don't have recognized traditional ttitles and are not active in politics. Igbos in Alaba in Lagos are far more influential than the Ndokis in Akwa-Ibom.
Get that into your skull.

solash:
I think you are taking your hatred too far. This your post is stupid to say the least.

And please stop mentioning Akwa-Ibom in your foolishness.

I should stop mentioning Akwa-Ibom, my own state because some Igbos want to mention and bastardize it ba? You see why I say things that make it look like I hate your people? You see?

omenka:
Where in God's gracious heaven have you been!!!?? So it had to take a thread like you to lure you out of hibernation!

Lol! Omenka bros.
I've been commenting in bits and pieces on some threads na. Though not been very active like before. Work stress and personal business issues these past months no be here.

LordNicvuitton:
Sweetmelon, Look at how u foolishly displayed your deep seated hatred for a tribe that doesn't give a flying Bleep about you.. change your ways dear.

Back 2 d topic, I keep saying it that the argument Igbos make with our south-south neighbours about this biafra ish, makes it seem as if the igbos are desperately in need of them..

Fact is that Igbos don't need south-south to secede. Igbos have never needed them anytime in history, so pls stop giving them the avenue to feel important.

Cc: tonyebarcanista, sweetmelon, nduchucks and who ever cares to know, pls read my lips: "Igbos like me have never wished for any south-south state to be part of biafra if at all there is biafra in the future, the south-south has never been richer or more intelligent or hardworking than its south-east neighbour, so please we truly don't need the south-south, thank you!..

The bolded says it all. Let your people stop dragging land with us and we will all be cool. I/SS people don't hate you. We are just sick and tired of your melodrama that caused us untold pain during that unnecessary war. Your brothers need to learn to how and where to channel excessive emotions.

Goodboiyy:
if Niger Delta republic is an Ijaw agenda , Then we did rather be a slave to the ijaw people than Kalu Greedy Phatom biafra..

which tribe can ijaw dominate in SS? can ijaw dominate Urhobo? or can they dominate Itsekiri , or can they dominate Edo or Ikwere ?.. All tribe in SS re equal nobody greater than anybody, Ijaw know there boundary, Urhobo knows there boundary, Ikwerre knows there boundary , We re better been Together in SS than any greedy biafra.. our position is very clear.

As for Ur anioma , i bet u, Unlike the Biafra agitator , we wont force anything on u, u can go with Igbo, Respect my opinion and i will respect urs .. thats wat other Ndeltans av been saying ,

Chop knockle!

CSTR2:
Still tends to the aftermath of the civil war politics.
Effiong was the most influential in akwa-cross area at the time of civil war. He was the leader.
Ofcourse, i am not surprised if there are not monuments of him there. Post Civil war politics was at play.
How many monuments does ojukwu even have in the SE?

Aftermath of wetin? Effiong was a nobody before Biafra and remained a nobody after Biafra because Biafra was never important to us. Period!
Ojukwu has memorial days in his honour doesn't he? He has one or two streets or something name after him right? So compared to Ojukwu, Effiong is NOBODY to us. We see him as someone who tried to sell his people because of the prospect of being 2nd in command. Finish!

TonyeBarcanista:
Naughty, stubborn calabar girl... Hope you were among the dancers in the Calabar carnival?

I wish! I dey Lagos.

CSTR2:
How many akwaibom or crossriverians have monuments erected in their honour, let alone a seccessionist?
The Nigerian govt would have discouraged such outrightly. They didn't even want to give him a national burial.
The politics of the civil war after-math that made some people deny their igbo heritage is enough to remove any memory of biafra from the akwa-cross area.

What is this one saying?

Important roads, hospitals, and some government artifacts in Akwa-Ibom and Cross river are named after some notable sons and daughters of Akwa/Cross. In fact, you'd see more Igbo monuments in Lagos than in Akwa/Cross or even anywhere else in SS for that matter. That is why I don't know why you Igbos hate Yorubas so much. Those people are very accommodating. No Igboish sounding name can even dare to vie for ordinary councilor in the SS (minus Delta and Rivers upland areas)
Also when mentioning notable Akwa/Cross sons and daughters, nowhere will you hear of that Effiong guy. And yes we have a lot of respected men and families in Akwa/Cross.

TonyeBarcanista:
Though you deserve flogging for all the attacks on me in the past but I will let them slide in the spirit of the yuletide

Long time

Lol! Long time. Stubborn boy