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OlawaleBammie:
Why would u say such?? i dont understand why some people feel like der r God.
She just made her opinion known and u re nt forced to coment.
what i stil knw is dat at a very tender age every woman envisage bn a good wife at a particular point in their lives bfor the unending circumstance which is at times inevitable in life take it toll on dem

Sunnyshinylight ur msg is passed joo, lookin inwardly into ur writeup, a person with functioning brain would easily/technically know d kind of parents dat brought u up, u sound simple and unique.

But he also only voiced his opinion. Her message was the one that sounds like she’s God. Who is she to say when anyone expires? I know of a woman that was probably in her fifties. We attended her wedding and were shocked at how fantastic her husband looked. She was not a good looking woman herself and she landed such a man. We kept asking ourselves if the man was blind. But though we asked silly questions, I was proud of her for breaking societal rules and expectations.

NOC1:
Apart from joke, it is laughable. in a refined country it can't happen. i know people will be asking what about Zleneski of Ukraine and Weah of Liberia. this people are not of same level with Ademola Adeleke, they are intellectually sound unlike that dancer.

Really? Is the ability to dance really well synonymous with a lack of intelligence? And I believe the US is one of the countries you term refined, right? Ronald Reagan was an actor.

kiyosaki1:
God bless you, you really on point sister.

Thank you and God bless you too.

Pavore9:
Don't bring the devil into this. An allegation against a Priest/Pastor/Prophet is not an attack on Christianity. Truth should clear their names if innocent.

The way the allegation was made is suspect. As people who profess Christ, could Timi and Busola not have gone to elders in the Christian body? Or straight to the police. What was all that public accusation for? Publicity perhaps? To try to taint Christianity and pastors in general ? It is impossible to go public and not expect atheists, Muslims and church goers not to seize the opportunity to attack the body of Christ.

Kingimmaculate1:
First you have to understand Ephesians 6:12, as an MFM member we don't pray for our enemies to die, but there are some spiritual powers that they are using that needs to stop working they are the once that need to die. So they them self can be free from there ignorant. May God open our understanding.

Do you read the scriptures for yourself or do you just depend on what you’re told? Can you kill the spiritual powers that they are using? Even if you cast them out, if the Holy Spirit does not occupy their hearts, more evil spirits that are even more wicked will seize occupancy. The person will be even more wicked than before.

Meanwhile, from personal experience, I know MFM members are about killing the person. Some of the ones I’ve had dealings with are utterly wicked. They are miserable and angry all the time. They portray Christianity in a wrong and horrible way. They expect people to show them love by giving to them. When the giving stops, the curses begin. I was unable to help an MFM woman once. I had been helping her before then. She started with curses so loudly that I could hear her mentioning my name and saying die! Die! Die! Die! Was I supposed to be scared and give in to her demands?

Their orientation is so wrong. No Christian should be preoccupied with evil. Our main focus is God. Thanking God always. Not spirit of this or that die. Or my enemy die. Always focused on the negative.

samtol4:
You are right . He doesn't understand that the enemy in this context is not your neighbour or friend but spiritual entity .Spiritual entity doesn't spend money .

Does spiritual entity die?

Lowzones:
Oh dear. Sorry about that. The lord is your strength.

Thank you. Yes He is. I am completely healed though.

KanuSE:
Now I get your standpoint and I quite understand your reference point as well...hope you're well?

I admire real fighters!

Completely well. Thanks for asking.

KanuSE:
Really...?

Yes really. And yes I’ve had bad odor from stress before. I had cancer and.....

clive2u:
do u have such odour too?

Why don’t you come and smell me? Busybody!!!!

And so what if she does? There is an odor associated with stress, some with medical conditions. It does not mean she’s not clean.

She’s right though. The way ladies hate other ladies is something else. And they do it in such a cruel way.

ladiesreject:
Something for the southerners to masturbate on.

Lol

They like such news.

Christian girls are oloshos, that's what I know.

In fact first class oloshos.

Don't go and learn how to be sexually modest, stay there and be consoling yourselves that Hausa girls are doing the same thing hiddenly.

Am a Christian by the way, so I ain't hating on them, just stating the obvious truth. Even God knows I would have loved to marry an educated aboki girl but religion will never let her agree to marry me.

No matter how hypocritical Muslim girls are, they will never be anywhere near as terrible as Christian girls.

Christian girls are basically hawking their vagina.

Sadly, not for any worthy price.

#spits

Did the girl mention religion? Are there no Hausa girls who are Christians? Are the no southern girls who are Muslims?

Lagos is very dirty. In parts of the so called prestigious Lekki phase 1, you can see clothes hung out to dry on the fences of some shops as you drive out. Some roads have mama put sellers selling to their very loud clients. These plus the floods of Lekki make some parts look like a shantytown. Serious depreciation!! They come with their dirty habits and uncouth manners. Refusing to let their environment influence them positively. Let’s not forget the begging!!! Tell them to exert themselves a little to get the money and they’ll rain curses. They all want to be big boys and big girls overnight. But of course, it is not their fault. It must be the fault of the usual culprit: the government! They’ll come and teach them how to keep their environment clean, how to talk, ethics....

Bet9jaVirtual:
Does your dad know how miserable your life is out here on this platform??

I would advice you to take suicide and die a painful death, coz you don’t deserve to Rest In Peace

Aaaah!!! No I understand better. This is one of the reasons you’re so sad. You have no one to correct you, and if anyone does, you spew nonsense. For you to try to disrespect my dad means you have no respect for yours. But that is not surprising.

Bet9jaVirtual:
What a pained feminist .
I would have loved to scam you, but your poverty is contagious, don’t want something that will bring me down to the level of having one square meal in a day.

I have no problem with being called a feminist. Everyone should be a feminist. However, you are a sad person trying so had to spread this misery. Take a good look at the DJ. Cuppy you’re insulting. Does she not look happy and content? Calling me names can’t fix you. You’re the only one that can fix you.

Bet9jaVirtual:
Dj Cuppy trying so hard to make Anthony Joshua notice her, but the man already knows the code never you wife a hoe

Exactly what makes her a hoe? Is it her fault that you have to resort to duping people in the name of betting to get some loose change? Continue with the hating. It does not change her life. It affects yours though.

DameB:
God bless you for pointing this out

Amen and you too!

genq:
Good.

But just so you know, that 14 year old girl you employed is a CHILD just as your son is. It could very much be a mutual affair between them.

I know your madam will beat that girl once she hears of it but I must warn you that if she lays a hand on that girl child, she will never know joy over her own children. Mark my words.

I'm just warning you ahead of time. Protect and guide that girl like she is your own. If your wife cannot correct her in love, then send her back peacefully.

Wonders will never end!!!! You seriously believe that a 7 year old boy is in a mutual relationship with a 14 year old? That a boy of 7 knows what he is doing? That the 14 year old is not the one in control of the relationship?

genq:
I don't mean to gloat over your son's misfortune but this is what happens when a mother leaves the raising of her children to outsiders. Let me guess your wife is too busy to take care of the kids right? Because shes a "modern working class woman".

Go and ask women abroad how they manage to work full time and still raise their own children without househelp. Unlike these ones in Nigeria who after just one child, they can't do chores again. House helps are then put in place to assume the duties of a wife and mother.

Your son is one of many children out there suffering the consequences of these lifestyle choices.

You plus the people liking your post either have compression issues, can’t read more than a sentence or hate women because you totally lack what will attract women to you. No, it’s not money. It is love for yourself and others that gives confidence. The op said the hose help came because his wife just had a baby. What is it with the bashing? You want to know how women outside Nigeria cope with family as well as work? They have husbands that help with everything: cooking, taking out the trash, bathing the older child, feeding the new born, cleaning.... everything!!!!

Tomide007:
No as someone who attends Coza at least once a month, the matter should be investigated and whosoever is guilty should be jailed, be it biodun fatoyinbos or Busola dakolo

If Busola is guilty, the pastor will probably forgive her. At least, that’s the right and exemplary thing to do. Christians should handle greviances and conflicts differently. If the pastor is guilty, I”m not sure Timi will let go though. It won’t be easy.

Xisnin:

The police was not there.
Miyetti Allah chairman was not there.
Yet, you are doubting the story of the witnesses.

Zombie.

The witnesses are the driver and house help. Have you watched their interview video? There’s no mention of Fulani heardsmen in their video.

Tomide007:
Can should be with the church members but also support justice.

And exactly what is justice? Must Pastor Biodun be declared guilty even if they find him innocent?

Mftivi:
You should not associate yourself with feminists then cos 99% of them are misandrists. To them men should be thrown under the bus and if any woman accuses you then you should be brought down. If a woman kills a man she's in any relationship with it must be the man's fault, he probably didn't treat her right.

This has nothing to do with being a feminist. It has more to do with Nairaland gender bashing. Both genders are guilty of this.

That’s why she is a former friend. No one needs this kind of friend.

Jwonder:
Hahaha Feminist are already crying on Twitter! How do you expect CAN to disown their own just because of an allegation without evidence, all those crying more than the berieved let me ask you one question, If a lady accuse your brother or father of rape without providing any evidence, will you Abandon him ?.
Btw it's over a month now, what's stopping the Dakolo's from taking the matter to court?
If you must reply me, put on your thinking cap, set aside emotions and reason like a human with Brain. THANK YOU.

I am a feminist and I have never supported any allegation without any evidence. I have been telling you all that Busola’s words should not be taken as gospel. That the pastor is innocent until proven guilty and not the other way round. My point is you don’t know the meaning of feminist.

Reno Omokri, much as I like you, you mad a mistake by not waiting for the results of investigations before going to social media. People who have murder in their hearts hide behind the tag heardsmen to commit atrocities.

Jushy:
I have borrowed before

Since you have data, you can make a WhatsApp call. At least, there’ll be someone in your house or vicinity that’s on WhatsApp.

AmazonTopaz:
Same here didn't read this piece of shiit.

Hahahahaha!

AmazonTopaz:
You have no contrary opinion you are a rape apologist.
How do you know her family has avoided the saga what about the pastors she mentioned what is stopping them from coming out.
Yes I am grand. I don't bring people down I am competiting with no one.
You do not know me so keep your post to the issue at hand and do not say what you do not know about my personality.
After peddling false news that timi wedded in biodun's church and how they were gifted a car you have changed gear to another one and you claim you have a contrary opinion when in fact you are a rape apologist.As per ypur NL advice take your advice help the forum and stop spteading fake news
Get the hell out of my mention I am grand and I like it

I stopped reading when I got to “you do not know me” everything else is blah! Do you know me? Do you know the pastor in question? Do you even know the Busola whose word you’ve taken as gospel truth? If you know her family has come online to corroborate her claims of rape, please put up the link as evidence. Grand indeed!!! Anybody with an atom of sense will know that An accusation does not automatically mean guilt. It is not guilty until proven innocent, but innocent until proven guilty. Go get a life and stop trying to live vicariously on Nairaland. Nairaland is a forum where people can air differing opinions as they engage in discussions without Displaying their personal hang ups.

AmazonTopaz:
I don't exchange words with rape apologist.Are you not aware that she has filed a complaint? Since she has little or no evidence can the pasyor not easily nail her by going to court and clearing his name. What is stopping him?
It is only an idiot and an inhumane person that laughs at the plight of others and a rape victim.
Get the hell out of my mention

Anyone that has a contrary opinion to yours is a rape apologist. Have you just learned of that phrase? She filed a complaint after going to the court of public opinion!!! When you complain about someone, don’t you go with evidence? I mentioned her family’s avoidance of the rape saga. How come you have nothing to say about that. As per your mentions, stop trying to sound grand. Nairaland is a public forum. You can go and start up your forum if you don’t want anyone to mention you. I am positive that in real life, you’d do and say anything to bring down people who are more successful than you.