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IamCharles123:
If we are having a misunderstanding and the next thing u say is, i have a phd from uk. You are obviously showing off. Like no one asked about your educational background in our argument.
Besides how can someone be that well traveled and well educated not kno that AS AS dont get married.

Is the evidence the tweet? People make up stories to justify their insecurities, jealousy and undiluted wickedness.

BrainSanitizer:
Maybe you should look at the tweet again. It says she was calling them names and bragging how she has a PhD from UK.

I read the tweet and that is not evidence. I’ve worked into a place and the only interaction I had with the maintenance staff was to exchange greetings. Later, I heard I was strutting around, showing off and insulting them. I though they were talking about someone else. People perceive others based on their mindset. She is not responsible for their insecurities. She actually has no business with the cleaners at a hospital. They probably heard her talking on the phone and her conversation about her achievements reared up their ugly. Because there’s nothing a woman can do to warrant such a statement from another.

BrainSanitizer:
On point.
Except that having a child whose genotype is SS and who's having crises is not that much of a secret. It is a condition that people can see and know what's wrong with the child.
Again, I personally don't like people who carry their certificates on their foreheads. Why brag about your qualifications? Why harass people simply because you feel they are inferior to you? Who cares if you have five PhDs so long you don't pay their bills?
For Pete's sake, show off where and when it's necessary, not to cleaners who probably barely got through high school.
An emotionally harassed individual has only one goal: hit back where it hurts most and that's exactly what the cleaner did.

What is the evidence that the woman was showing off? Sounds more like a jealous and bitter cleaner being her nasty self. I’ve been to places where without any interactions, I heard the helps saying “with all her English and with all her money she can’t eat meat” or crap like that. I always choose to let them wallow in their ignorance. So I know how their bitterness spills out. It is only a bitter soul that can say what the cleaner said.

OlawaleBammie:
Lol, na u wan teach me?? ti moba sorogba e tan?? as in if i handle u finish, u wil knw i truly hail from Ekiti.


But anyways, i dont need dat, i have issues to atend to, i mean a worthy ones, i would b senseless to engage in an online trash with u. use to say something and i learn from it, he usually says dont wrestle with pigs so dat u dont become like it. Who am i to disrespect ur parent wen dey are nt my mate?? all i just knw is dat u can not allow ur MOTHER to face wat dat cleaner face

What exactly did the cleaner face? What is bringing about her association with a patient in the hospital? Why does she know the medical details of a patient? That is why people get specific training for their jobs. A doctor will never tell the woman the hateful trash the cleaner said no matter the degree of provocation. These days, we have cleaners, househelps.... going about with a vile attitude looking for who to blame for their disadvantages. Some of these disadvantages are self inflicted.

The cleaner is displaying her insecurities, jealousy and wickedness. Who is a cleaner to know the medical details of anyone? That hospital needs to pay and seriously too. All these wicked people who keep acting like anyone with advantages in life is responsible for their disadvantages. Smh!!!!

Op, you said everyone knows about this and they say he has a problem. How do they all know about what is going on in your marriage? How do you know they say he is the problem? Are you entertaining discussions about your husband with others? Don’t you have a mother to go to? When you go to various people for advice you magnify your problems constantly.

Your expectations of marriage is totally unrealistic. When you guys were courting, your husband was doing things that were unsustainable knowing fully well that he’d stop after marriage. Your husband is not supposed to wash your undies to prove his love for you. Get a washerman. As for the talking ... you need to get busy with something important. Your husband should not be your source of entertainment. If you’re both busy, when you come together to talk, you’ll both have interesting stuff to talk about. At the moment, you’re probably super boring. Plus when you’re busy, you won’t have so much time on your hands to notice his moods.

Students or thugs? I expect students to use their brains. Is it shoorite or their owners killing Nigerians in SA? Why don’t they shut down companies owned by Americans because of the Nigerians being killed there. There were several videos of Nigerians being killed, enslaved and maltreated in lybia? Why not go after lybians too? In short, shut down every foreign investment in This country. Lazy and foolish youth!!!

Clearlly:
Please my people, help a starving brother. I have been pleading for help since 2 days now. I'm a student who returned to school because of the prospects of exams starting on Tuesday and also because I was opportuned to enter a free ride. my family isn't bouyant enough and my dad has severe high BP that's why I had to find my way so as not to make him to start thinking about where to get money to give me. I haven't eaten a decent food since I got back and am starving.


I am soliciting for help from well meaning people who will be touched enough to hear my plight and have mercy. I am not asking for much, no matter how little, it will go a long way. God bless you all

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Fidelity Bank.

Do you have any physical disabilities? If you don’t, then you can join those working in construction sites and earn some money. It is more dignifying than begging.

Liamm:
See how lives are valued in America. Who wouldn't want to be an American seeing this.
Buhari can never do this

It is not Buhari’s job to do this!

dizon:
In ladies eyes, billionaire = Handsome man

Nope! Billionaire equals financial security for their kids and themselves.

laudate:
Nobody is rewriting anything. The facts are there in public domain. But rape apologists are too lazy to do the research, in order to uncover the truth.

And I have been following the case like the people involved are my family. Because as Christians, they are family to me.

laudate:
Wrong! Timi reported the case at a police station in Lagos, long before going on social media to expose Fatoyinbo. Google it.

That was why there was such a huge reaction to
armed policemen coming all the way to Lagos, to invite the Dakolos to Abuja for an interview, when the case itself was filed in Lagos!

This is very recent history. Stop rewriting it.

ijustdey:
http://leadership.ng/2019/07/31/jubilation-in-kogi-as-gov-bello-clears-salary-arrears-2/

What manner of lies is this? I just spoke with some one in Kogi State. No one was paid 5months salary. Some were 2 months salary. Others were paid nothing. This is not a case of inherited debts. Bello has not paid LG workers for how many month now. If he paid to the LG chairman, then it is his responsibility to make sure the money gets to the workers. Pensioners are being owed for months and you’re here spreading falsehood for political reasons.

Iamgrey5:
Yes she wrong .

The case have been reported before going to social media. Timi was very clever about that.

That was the reason the case was eventually transferred to Lagos, despite intense lobbying from the Fatoyinbos

Why exactly are you lying? They reported the case after the social media circus. The reason it is being transferred to Lagos is simply because they were the first to report to the police. That means they went to the police before the Pastor.

BluntBoy:
You call these investigative journalism? I used to like Kemi.

But considering her posts about being broke prior to the rape saga, and her initial investigation which seemed to covertly indict Fatoyinbo, it is very obvious that she is not investigating anything, but doing what some lawyers do, intimidate witnesses till they begin to feel uncomfortable. Making a witness uncomfortable will help the lawyer get contradictory statements out of them.

That is what Kemi is doing. Getting aggressive and going on and on to tire the Dakolos.

I am never on anyone’s side. I am always on the side of truth or reasonable facts. I can’t presume to know Aunty Kemi’s motives. I do know that Busola’s story as presented does not add up. Aunty Kemi has been dishing out a more coherent story.

Pangea:
You just described Aunty Kemi to a tee!
If what she is doing is what you call journalism, throwing accusation, insulting people upandan and lying to boost her CV, you dont know what you are talking about!

Of course, any dissenting opinion does. Or know what they’re talking about.

Iamgrey5:
Investigate?

Are you serious right now?

She has said alot of things about this case that turned out to false!

From Timi marriage to Timi never reporting to the police In the first place.


I doubt you know what investigation is really is

Plus Investigations that is only one sided!

But Timi only reported the case after seeking for relevance in the court of social media. How is she wrong? What did she say that is false?

Pangea:
She is doing what she was paid to do

She is doing what every journalist is meant to do: investigate! I know it is strange in Nigeria, but journalists are meant to investigate every story and even their sources before reporting. Most of the journalists we have are just rumor mongers.

NwaAmaikpe:




What's the fuss about please, we are in 2019 for Frodd's sake!

I don't see what's here to be celebrated.
It is not even well stocked, the building looks like a warehouse with glass windows, it is relatively small and obviously unorganized. So I wonder why I should be impressed by a less than regular mall in Omole?

GTBank can do better than this fvckery.

In Nigeria, there is Shoprite, there is Spar and there is Marketplace and this does not come in anyway close to this 3 upcoming malls in terms of state capital-class standards let alone worldclass standards.

Even Bata had a better showroom in Enugu as far back as 1992.

The fuss is that hubmart is indigenous. The hubmart in Adeola odekun is huge. I don’t know if they own the huge building in lekki 1. Spar, 9 to 7, Rene, and shoprite are foreign owned. Their money never stays in Nigeria. I don’t know marketplace. All these including hubmart have practically the same layout. The only problem I have with hubmart would be the quality of staff. I think that’s because they work for Nigerians. Lebanese don’t accept any rubbish. They sack any inefficient staff.

deolurexy1:
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What is the offence here madam? The title is "iyawo pastor koza"

It is offensive. It is not their story to tell or make into a movie. The case is still pending. It may influence people's judgement as quite a number of people can't tell the difference between fiction and non fiction. It is in poor taste.

Don't we have a regulatory agency that can ban crap like this?

Tisa!!!! Enjoy your money and your son. You are a hard worker and you must enjoy the fruit of your labor. I just love the way you live your life on your own terms.

danietohbadt:
Maybe you should have opened your eyes clearly to see I mentioned Britain and not America. Fatoyinbo was alleged to have done the act when Busola was 16, and, at that age, she's still a child, not an adult. That contravenes Nigeria's Child Right Laws.

Britain, the US, Japan.... it does not matter. The fact remains that only the Nigerian law is relevant here. The age of consent in Nigeria is one of the lowest in the world. You don’t have to take my word for it. Google it.

bigiyaro:
shatap ur fvcking mouth! a bus load of armed police went to invite a house wife, for wat? is she a criminal? the fake pastor should be sueing for false accusations or defamation not sending thugs to harass or intimidate the woman.

If Busola Dakolo has falsely accused the Pastor of rape, then she is a criminal and should be treated as such. Ponder on this: many people have spent their most productive years in jail because of fals accusations. If the pastor is being falsely accused and reports the case to the police, the police have every right to take them in for questioning. While we are fighting for an end to rape, we should equally fight for an end to false accusations. Both are equally horrible and can have devastating consequences.

danietohbadt:
You're senseless. A law suit was filed in Lagos, and Police Officers came from Abuja. Fine, even if he's to be invited for questioning, the Police has to go through his lawyers, not coming to his house on a Friday evening. The country is becoming inhabitable by the senselessness and high level stupidity of the NPF and folks like you. What's wrong is wrong. Admit it.

The Dakolos are being accused of false accusations. The police have no business contacting their lawyers. They need to be taken for questioning. The onus lies on the Dakolos to get their lawyers involved.

danietohbadt:
In 2015, Adam Johnson, a British footballer was alleged to have had an affair with a 15 year old Sunderland fan. He was tried in 2016 and sentenced to 4 years in 2017 for "grooming and touching" a 15 year old girl. Fine, if Fatoyinbo didn't rape Busola, he'll and must still go to jail for having sex with a 16 year old. We've been too silent on Paedophiles and Paedophilia in this county. And it will continue if we don't fight it.

America's laws don't hold water in Nigeria. We are a seperate entity with our own laws. Maybe you need to research the age of consent in Nigeria.

Iamgrey5:
it's quite alarming tbh

Armed men of SARS division of the inspector general of police came all the way from Abuja to deliver a letter.

Shouldn't they be questioned in a police station close to them for convinience.

Yet, some insane people think it's normal.

And the sycophant Nwakadibe tries to sway the public opinion by pronouncing his own judgement on social media based on questionable logic, eventhough he claimed he is not in favour of media trial.

Isn't it also strange that he has only been subtly defending Fatoyinbo ever since his sudden reappearance.

If the policemen had come from their locality, would they have willingly accepted the letter of invitation without the melodrama?

MPESA:
Why involving police while the case is already court.

Which court? The court of public opinion or a legal one? Is rape not a crime? Who should one report to if not the police?

MPESA:
I believed that @imgrey5 has given clarification on your question.
P.s
I'm not against the man of God but people should not vouch for anyone in as much he's having fresh and blood EVEN CHRIST said he's not PERFECT talkmore of a mere mortar.. Beside this incident happened about 18-20 years ago and with tempo and sensitive of this case i pray that pastor should trade carefully to avoid denting his name more mind you no body care about Dakolo and family as we care about the Oracle of God.

When I wrote okay, I meant that I understood what he was saying. Not that I am in agreement. The said pastor is showing more wisdom and restraint than most would in his shoes. The police have every right to serve Busola Dakolo with a letter of invitation. If she is guilty of a crime, they have the right to arrest her. If her husband joins in the crime, the police have the right to arrest him to. All these whipping up sentiments in the court of social media is nonsense.

Iamgrey5:
That was the police that came right after people alerted the police on his behalf.

The ones that came from Abuja came in a bus.

Okay

MPESA:
No the vehicle was not having a police plate , also the bus was tinted glass without any of the men of the force on uniform and secondly the manner they came to park in front of his house without coming out to deliver the said invitation was very suspicious, thirdly coming to deliver a mere invitation to civilians without a criminal records is uncalled for, imagine a country that is having a security challenges, such as terrorism, kidnapping ,killing etc .

So, why the picture with Timi close to a van?

1shortblackboy:
it is timi dakolos business what he decides to keep private and what to bring to d public u dont run his life for him. Meanwhile the Dakolo s have filed a case against Fatoyinbo since June what are u talking about

They filed the case after social media momentum! The police have every right to serve them a letter. What is with all the drama and antics? The vehicle is obviously a police one. Strange car indeed. All they needed to do was collect the letter. He was not arrested yet he he is crying. And if he deserves to be arrested, he will be. Nobody is above the law. Neither pastors, musicians or photographers.