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topcatking:
Life...

I tell people, mostly my female friends, that their dressing goes a long way in terms of attracting or repelling possible sexual harassment & in fact, RAPE.

But they are always quick to say they dress to look good and make themselves happy.

Well, I don hear una o.

Someone will trap this one now, she go say no be her fault.

So the little girls of 3, 4 and less being raped must surely be dressing seductively right? Abi the ladies that wear hijab don’t get raped?

Ciaos:
Did he graduate? Na another matter be that. Make he tell us ooooo because university where him go still dey find him record,dem never see am. Fowl Yash blow and things start to unfold.

What has his graduation got to do with anyone or even the rape accusation?

Bacteriologist:
COZA is a cult. It is run like one. Only a cult belittles and defame its ex-members. A truly free society would appreciate people leaving and check their excesses not try to blackmail those who have left. Most all churches do this. Even in Islam, the Qur'an permits killing of apostates (ex-muslims).

If you're against Busola because she is "exposing the body of Christ" you are a cultist.

All religions are cults. Secret cults are small religions. If you know you know.

How is Busola exposing the body of Christ? Do you hate Christ so much that when there is an allegation against one person, you go ahead to accuse the entire body? If a member of your family does something wrong, is society supposed to use the same brush to tarnish all of you? Has Busola who accused a pastor of rape stopped attending church? Ask yourself some pertinent questions. Meanwhile, it is Busola’s word against the Pastors words. Neither one of us was there.

Karemarealty288:
Just Pray for the deliverance of your Pastor's possessed dick. Your open letter is inconsequential.

Actually, his open letter helped answer some of my questions.

stanliwise:
You're an apologist. By their defense mechanism we shall know them.
Better still you may even be a rapist, only God knows.
In this case now, if this girl grows up and want to fight the case, people like you will say e don old jare, so you only told your family members, why didn't report to police etc

Nonsense and Ingredient

Since you’re not observant enough to see I am female, then you’re definitely not observant enough to comprehend, analyze and dialogue on serious issues.

ogbonti:
it is in our DNA to beg, period... Nigerians have been begging since 1861 A.D. JUST THAT it was done with some self-respect, now it's BRAZEN!!!

Your DNA please. Some of us have some dignity. It is better to drink garri with some self respect than to eat a whole roasted chicken acquired from begging.

Graduateacher:
where are those rapist apologists? did she enjoy the sex?

There are no rapist apologists here. You’re probably one of those that expect us to believe Busola’s story without evidence or even corroboration from her parents and sister. Don’t dare compare busola’s case to this poor girl’s case. At the age of 10, her dad had to drug her to be able to rape her because he knew she’d struggle nd scream. Even though it was her dad that raped her, she still told her mother and other family members. Poor girl remained in that terrible situation because she had nowhere else to go. Thank God her father will rut in jail.

femi4:
Peter was the best in his career as a fisherman before he was called by God.

Kindly show me where that is written in the Bible. The Bible lets us know he was a fisherman. Not the best and definitely not educated. Education is not a prerequisite to be a pastor.

Graduateacher:
Off point. Why didn't he tell people that he's a drop out? instead he scammed them into believing he's a graduate, speaking polished English and wearing designers. He should have told everybody that he's a drop out nah and see if people will regard him as anything. Good one from Unilorin, this shows they don't support rape


Meanwhile COZA members and rapists apologists full this thread, shame on you all

You are totally off point and a barefaced liar. Have you ever heard him say he graduated from UNILORIN? Have you ever even heard him speak? Been to his church, watched him on tv or sighted him? Yet you come to Nairaland to spew such biases and show your hatred for truth. He was accused of rape which his yet to be proven true. What has his educational qualifications got to do with rape? Is rape for the unschooled? Please just stop!!!!! Let the court settle the case.

femi4:
A mere drop out pastoring bsc, hnd, msc, PhD...smh

I hope you know Peter in the Bible was a fisherman. He did more miracles than anyone in this generation has done. God uses anyone He wants to in any capacity he chooses to.

Megatrix:
This one too is forming activist

Every Nigerian should be an activist. But don’t you think she’s in a better position than you to be an accomplished activist. She is so much famous than you hence her voice will be heard so much more than yours. #simi is so sensible!!!!!!

His advice is not only for ministers in the church, but for all Christians. These days, satan is roaring like a lion looking for whom to devour. You employ or hang out with a beautiful woman when that is your weakness. Before you know it, you begin to compare your wife to her. Then there are beautiful women who expect everyone to adore them. When the Christian doesn’t, she sees him as a challenge and does everything to make him fall for her to his detriment. Before he knows it, he gets entangled.

This is how they look for trouble. She bought a car and must the whole world know. This is how they open themselves to unnecessary public scrutiny. Amebos will now want to know if the car is truly new, was bought or rented, and how much she earns an actress to afford this. In fact I also want to know how much she earns to buy a brand new Benz o�

davillian:
Now someone is bored over there.
NEPA just took light on her music career.
Aunty Use your husband as a case study first.
Any body that says "Nigerian men" instead of most Nigerian men has a shallow brain.

Saying "Nigerian men or women” is understood to mean most without being openly expressed.

fireback:
One day this tiwa will still come online to tell us how Wizkid raped her 10yrs ago, just because he latter dumped her for another girl. I do not support rape and will never support this busola's accusation, because the story no make up at all.
And for all the guys supporting this kind of alligation, I keep saying it. This table will surely get to your turn one day.

Oga use your brains. Those two are just genuine friends helping each other with their careers.

SageMK:
Nigerian men are grossly misrepresented by the actions of few misogynistic cowards parading around as men.

I know that because I've seen men who go to bed on an empty stomach or trek barefooted, simply to provide for their beautiful daughters, mothers, sisters and wives.

Tiwa is very stúpid for antagonizing such men.

If the actions of a few bastardized goats can drive her to insult Nigerian men and pull down Nigeria in whole then she is very stupid for crying out loud... What nonsense.

Why on earth are you insulting Tiwa? This is exactly what she’s talking about. She gave her opinion without insulting anyone and you go on a tirade. Are you a woman? Do you know what it is to be a successful woman in Nigeria? Have you walked in any woman’s shoes to know what goes on in our lives? Have you been a little girl whose life is destroyed by the father figures in her life? Did she say all men are irresponsible? Everyday we keep hearing about a grown assed man raping a girl of four or younger. I’m not talking about Busola because I don’t understand her own case though. Women accused of killing their husbands so the dead husband’s family can take over his property while his wife and kids live in penury. A young woman who is absolutely qualified for a job may be harassed when she least expects it....The only thing Tiwa left out is the many women who enable the insults and bad treatment some men dish out to other women maybe because of their jealousy, wickedness, laziness, degenerate greed or whatever makes them equally cruel to their fellow women.

dyydxx:
and competent court does what? ...it changes fatoyinbo's sexual pervertness abi ...continue defending the rapists. More stories are still coming

https://www.legit.ng/1247052-busola-dakolo-officially-files-complaint-pastor-fatoyinbo.html

I have spent the past eight weeks hearing too many stories about (alleged) rape and sexual assault by Biodun Fatoyinbo. There were too many stories before I sat with Busola Dakolo - and even more have rushed in after I spoke with her.
[Full video on @YNaijaTV.]#WithChude pic.twitter.com/Rl1jptEkUW

— Chude Jideonwo (@Chude) July 4, 2019

Wow! This is so exciting! I have a cyber stalker.

Timi is talking about cyber bullies!!!! He took his case to cyber land instead of a competent court of law or even the CAN or any regulatory authority, and now he is complaining.

Timi is talking about cyber bullies!!!! He took his case to cyber land instead of a competent court of law.

dyydxx:
just wanting to puncture your hole nobody would read it. doesn't matter you are a lady, excusing rapists and sexual perverts in the guise of using your mind is a well known defense tactic. As i said get ready for more defence

Needing evidence translates into excuses in your books? I should get ready for more defense? I hope you know that this is real life and not zeeworld of bizarre plots and irrational storylines.

edeXede:


Fatoyinbo is a rapist. No smoke without fire

Seriously? Have you been to watch a show and you see all those smoke effects on stage? Did you see any fire? I've watched the science projects of some students smoking like an explosion was about to take place, but there was no fire and no explosion. That maxim is ancient and does not hold true always. Just like a person can be accused of wrongdoing by multiple people and it may all be false. Let the so called victims produce evidence, they begin to produce long stories. Even the families, parents and siblings have not come out to corroborate their stories.

dyydxx:
eeyah well you're late after 5 likes, get ready to defend him more ladies are still coming

Hahahahahahahahahaha! This is about the likes for you. Now I understand you’re about following popular opinion. Good for you. Some of us prefare to use our minds. And I am a lady!

dyydxx:
it's not only for you but for those that reason like you, permitting perverts and sexual deviants to continue wrecking their havoc

Nah!!! No one will read it. I need to accomplish what I mapped out for today. Go do something else.

dyydxx:
You are still not getting it. You want court case, you want court evidence. Sex consent laws when alleged crime happened in Nigeria was 11 years. There are no physical evidences taken from the incident when it occurred 17 years ago. No Police report, No pictures, No CCTV, No medical reports etc. My point is this doesn't invalidate her claim, it only means she can't get justice in a court of Law because of lack of sufficient evidence. It didnt mean this didnt happen. And stuffs like that are what encourages perverts like this guy to keep on doing it because of no consequences. I mentioned the ABBO case to buttress that point. Imagine there was no CCTV, it didnt mean the man didnt assault her even though she wont be able to prove it in a law court. But this doesn't invalidate her experience if she decides to say 5 years from now that One senator slapped her severally in a intimacy gadget shop sometime in May, 2019. That's my point. Your let her go to court, let her go to court the fact that she may not be able to prove it in court doesnt mean she wasn't assaulted. So get that straight.

This Fatoyinbo guy is a well known serial sexual philanderer, preying on church ladies he's supposed to pastor. There are already 4 known cases of sexual deviance attributed to him. This is a new one again and these are there experiences. He has been able to get away with it because of thinking like yours that excuse and permit such acts instead of at least scrutinizing the accused. Where is the robust response since 2013 he said he was going to give about Ese Walters?, it's the same sexual manipulation playbook, rinse and repeat.

No innocent man sits by while he's name is dragged in the mud and tarnished forever. His has a chance to pursue a defamation case against her since she can't take her case to court. Someone truly innocent will take up the chance to make Busola an example as that lunatic Kemi Olunloyo when she made false claims accusing Pastor David Ibiyeomie of Salvation Ministries of adultery.

I’m so sorry, I can’t bring myself to read that epistle you wrote. I love reading, but only when it is worth my time.

baby124:
It’s the shame. She will want to pretend that all is well. If she refuses to go to the church, people will ask questions. It’s apparent her family members were still attending the church even after she opened up to them. Her family really failed her. Even in this revelation, none of them came out to defend her!

This story of her crying though is fake and was started by Kemi Olunloyo

Is it not possible that her family members who love her more than all the strangers crying up and down know her and exactly what went down?

dyydxx:
I was in Uniilorin in the 2000s when this guy was manhandling babes in his church, so say what you know. Nobody can accuse me of anything without me being able to successfully defend myself. The only proof that can satisfy folks like you is when it happens to your daughter, even that i'm not even sure that would be enough.

This guy is a known sexual predator, taking advantage of coza church girls. Naive, young, marrried, unmarried, under age yet you glory in defending him. What court case do you want? That an atrocity was committed and isnt taken to the court doesn't mean she's lying. Look at that Abbo guy, if there wasn't CCTV recording he would have denied and people like you will be telling the nursing mother he physically assaulted where is the evidence even though we can all see what happened. Even if there was no CCTV evidence, it doesnt changed the fact that she was physically assaulted and she can state that anytime. After denials, he was crying like a whipped baby yesterday. Fatoyinbo is still yet to give his robust response to Ese Walters. So believe what you will, your behavior excuses this sexual deviants.

Awww! That I don’t believe Busola without evidence translates into not believing all rape cases to you or glorying in defending the pastor abi? And you up your stance by saying you were in Ilorin and the pastor is a known sexual predator. Haaaa! And I am supposed to believe this because a nameless faceless person on the internet has said so. Look at you contradicting your self? The case against the senator is proven with the cctv. That’s why credible personalities called for his head. I’m asking for Busola’s proof and you’re writing like if I could see you you’d scream like a wounded banshee!!!!

dyydxx:
Always apologizing for rapists, sexual predators and serial sexual deviants. Keep up the good work. I hope when your daughter comes with stories such as these you will also tell her to shoove it of her ass

Always accepting accusations without any evidence. I hope when you’re being accused falsely without any evidence, you’ll dance to the tune being played as people believe the accusations without asking questions or seeking any proof. Always persecuting based on your own capabilities. I hope when you’re in conflict with anyone, the court of public opinion is where your case is taken to and not a competent court of law. Where anyone will damn you guilty. Even when they don’t have a brain, principles or the ability to choose wrong from right.

AdorableJosh:
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Your favourite pastor is a sexual predator.

I have Never been to the church. But I’ve got a mind of my own and don’t feel the need to follow popular opinion when I know it is wrong. What happened to deductive reading?

Toke!!!!!!!!!! Awesome!!!!

fake scripted collaboration epistle. Since Busola’s case is ancient, theses horrible people came with a fake story that supposedly took place not to long ago. To explain Busola’s lack of struggle, they took the time to explain how this woman saw him as a father figure, how the church brainwashes members to be totally compliant, how they become meek and weak to the point they don’t resist even when they’re being raped. He took of her jeans and she sat there. Jeans?? Involving his wife in their stupidity! So the wife groomed her for years just so her husband could rape her once. Not just Nigeria, but in the US!!! HA!!!! Claiming this church preaches against interacting with others! Yet the pastor preaches to any and everyone who cares to listen on tbn. What on earth is their goal? To discredit or total destruction. If indeed they were raped, they should take the case to court and stop this rubbish.

andrew444:
When you have a son and when girls are dancing with g-string pants and twerking close to him don't complain

When you have a husband/boyfriend and girls are dancing with g-strings pants close to them don't complain

Just laugh out loudly as it's just fun ,Bt will you ? No you won't because women are always jealous

Of course I will complain because I think all that is totally inappropriate. Do whatever raunchy dance you want to in the privacy of your bedroom where you make love. Outside that, nope!!!

Dareal90s:
But u ladies can twerk, that's not disgusting?

Of course it is totally inappropriate!