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9jaRealist:
The sexism and crude misogyny of most Nigerian men is never far from the surface....
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True!! This is quite confusing because Sometimes Nigerian men act like their sole purpose in life is to impress women. They work to make money to impress women, their conversations are generally about women and a few other stuff. At other times they act like women are subhuman and should only be seen and not heard.

Richdad50:


Nobody knew Tacha has body odour allegedly until she got into big brother. Never overrate these so called slay queens until you come into their closets. The odour from their personal struggles can choke anyone. Beyond the bliss and bing's is a broken woman seeking to redefine the very essence of her existence.

One of the worst things to happen to a woman is to become successful on social media, with a large following, and let it get to her head to the point you fail to make a REAL LIFE. No husband, No kids, No real business. Just social media notoriety.

Richdad

Wow! This is utterly disappointing!!! I used to think highly of your opinions. So you think a woman’s worth lies in her getting married and having kids? You’re a typical Nigerian who has been conditioned to believe that a woman is incomplete until she’s married and had kids even if she is miserable in the marriage. Toke hs a job and a brand.

mankettle:
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not to join issues with you but I have a lot of guys( Nigeria not foreign) who are single and don't have any intention of marrying soon. these guys are well paid and have good careers.
whereas I also have female friends who also have good jobs etc but are sad because they are not married.
I am not doubting the research done, but I believe the research wasn't carried out in Nigeria and so what applies there may not apply here.

True, but that is because most Nigerians have been conditioned to believe that a woman is incomplete without marriage. Women more than men are the ones that attack other women that are successful without marriage. They go after them with so much vehemence, you’d think it was personal.

That’s why self control is so important. Anger can be like a raging storm. Sometimes, If you give in to it, it may end up damaging much more than you envision. I don’t watch big brother but I’ve heard of Tacha. She’s probably the most popular person in the house. Maybe even had a shot at winning, now all that gone.

Ayoefa:
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Seriously? Get a brain!!![/s]

Trash!

Seriously? Get a brain!!!

Ayoefa:
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May you be accused of something horrible and may everyone believe it to be true without verification. May others see it as precedence and make further accusations without evidence. [/s]

Pastor Fatoyinbo, pls save us the BS.

Seriously? Get a brain!!!

Ayoefa:
Krest love?

May you be accused of something horrible and may everyone believe it to be true without verification. May others see it as precedence and make further accusations without evidence.

GrabHisBalls:
Why should he have the time for his daughter's boob? Ivanka doesn't understand that there's a way you dress for every occasion. I am disappointed.

She’s wearing a bra. Sometimes, it seems like one is not wearing one especially when it is cold and you’re endowed.

Regiomontanus:
No one is bashing anyone here. This thread is meant for both males and females. I wonder why feminists cause division by seeing men versus women everywhere.

You obviously read with preconceived notions. What has feminism got to do with this? My point is simply date someone who has the same beliefs as you.

They must bash any and everything they don’t understand!!! Why would anyone date someone who does not share the same principles or beliefs if you’re not ready to be tolerant or to change? There are so many girls to sleep with , why date one that sees it as fornication?

Mutteeme:
Just came back from the market and everything in this tray cost me less than 1500 Naira, out of the the N1500 sef, I removed T-fare and bought yogurt in the market.

If you argue with me, then you are not a wife/husband material ��

https://all-gists..com/2019/09/lady-reveals-small-thing-she-was-able-to-buy-with-a-whole-n1500.html

If this is true, then please come and teach me. When I shop, I sometimes look at my purchases and feel I lost some money somewhere.

Kingpinukecy:
Someone telling me That am useless!!! its very annoying to me.

How can someone that God has created be useless or good for nothing. God didn't create any use less things.

because after his creation he bless the works of his hands

You're right about everything thing and everyone that God created having a purpose. But when that thing or someone refuses to live their purpose, yielding nothing, then they are practically useless. Especially if they decide to go around causing trouble for others. Remember Jesus and the fig tree? Jesus caused it to die because it was fruitless, hence useless.

alezzy13:
I fear this your history.

FYI, IBB was NOT removed in a coup. He voluntarily handed over power to Earnest Shonekan who was then shoved aside by Abacha.

I forgot about the interim government. I thought Shonekan resigned though.

boss1310:
a coup ousted Babangida?Abacha succeeded him?may be you weren't around then so check your history books

You need to read your history books. Buhari’s coup took out Shagari. Babangida’s coup took out Buhari. Abacha’s coup took out Babangida. Abacha died and we got Abdulsalam who returned Nigeria to civil rule. I know my history.

Caleycash:
Blablabla... wholeshit, if you want to help help!!!... you Nigerians have a serious problem down there!!!, I can only help if you have a BTC wallet, can't use WU here bro

Please feel free to give him as much money as you want. I am helping him the way I want to.

tuoky:
I will need to buy spare parts which cost money ..reason I am pleading for assistance..

If you have a good relationship with your mechanic, have always paid him on time, have been in the habit of paying extra, then you can workout something with your mechanic. Is it not your mechanic who’ll buy the spare parts? He knows your car is a taxi and once it is on the road, you can generate funds and pay him. You can generate funds legitimately through other means. I know an engineer who joined the laborers on building sites when he was hard up. Today, all that is history as he makes tons of money. My two cents is never beg. But that’s just me o.

#22. General Ibrahim Gbadamosi Babaginda. He killed the integrity of Nigeria as a nation. He gave oil blocks as gifts to people who knew nothing about oil like the one he gave his wife’s tailor, Mrs. Alakija. His rule was one where corruption was practically legitimized. He made Nigeria join OIC. It is alleged that he killed people who dared to speak out against his atrocities like the reporter Dele Giwa. He is said to have been so charming and slippery that some of those who initially saw him for the brutal dictator he was ended up mesmerized. Hence his nickname Maradonna. He came into power via a coup and it was a coup that ousted him to oblivion. There was great rejoicing in Nigeria on that day. However, his successor Sani Abacha was not charming and so did not enjoy public acceptance even though he was not as wicked as Babaginda.

tuoky:
Yeah I know.. I don't usually like asking for favors.. What I intend using it for is this :

I have a car which I use for taxi .. It is my personal car. Just needed to fix some fault that came up unexpectedly.. I don't own any debt.. Don't really have cash at the moment..

Then you work out something with your mechanic.

Once you help some people, they make you their atm. They become leeches. One even called me her savior. I told her Jesus should be her savior. I don’t understand why So many Nigerians expenditure outweigh their income. All these buying on credit sure does not help. When you tell someone they can do without that weave on or trending sneakers, they act like you’re trying to hinder their progress. I don’t know when Nigerians will learn to walk in dignity, honor and self respect.

shamecurls:
After the long silence, this is all you have to say.


The earlier Biodun realises that it's his peniss that is blackmailing him and not all this ladies.

Like the Bible advised, I will suggest he cuts his peniss off.

Wow! You must have seen it blackmailing him to be so positive.

Greatzeus:
Are you his first girlfriend So he dumped someone to be with you,and dumped you to be with another girl.
Besides,broken relationship is better than broken marriage.

Maybe she met him single.

Tolexander:
Under the constitution of Nigeria and the custom of the land, she is allowed.

But more mature attire is required in her dressing and not like those young babes

She is covered from head to toe in a tracksuit. What is immature about that?

SLAP44:
It's not about what you did for IPOB when you were governor, it's about what you are CURRENTLY doing for Igbos now. How have you used your position to ensure that your people are not being killed.

IPOB are not begging you for anything, they only want you to be pro Igbo.

Maybe you should give him suggestions on how he can ensure that Igbos don’t get killed and on how to be pro Igbo.

Tolexander:
The “mama” just by the right of the king is just trying all possible means to compete with those young fresh blood ladies.

Compete? Is she not allowed to look good ?

kenzysmith:
From a liable source na okorocha dey pound this one "banga" baba done start from wey miracle stop. Make she no go end up like tboss wey born pikin wey no get papa weda na vibrator give that one belle na only God know.

Wow! You need to learn to talk like a man. Even a reckless teenage amebo is not expected to talk like this.

Pure fake news. Why is it an Igbo woman speaking? Why are there no close shots so we can read the placards ourselves. That’s how they kept posting videos totally unrelated to South Africa to fuel the issue. What is wrong with people?

She’s probably a drug addict.

Richdad50:


I like what is happening. God is cleaning his household. A dangerous precedent would be set if justice is not done. She deserve more than 10million. As a matter of fact, no amount of money can equate the level of damage done.

In cases of rape and maltreatment, the victim is free to and should demand for compensation. Not everyone have the heart to send someone to jail for a crime committed decades ago but a compensation is an option if he or she is wealthy. And if you do not know what to do with the money, give it to charity.

Richdad

Compensation for rape?

So we should not believe what we read on Instagram, but we should Busola’s story even though she has no evidence. Nah so!

I love church with a passion. I love praise and worship. I love to listen to messages.

But I’ve not been to church for a couple of years. I Hate the fact that some pastors think that they are superstars and the congregation their audience. Sometimes, there’s hardly any difference between a show and what goes on churches.

I love to give, but I hate all that begging for money that goes on in churches. It strips them off their dignity. I will prefer a pastor to say the church has running costs and we should all come together to offset this. Instead of claiming My prosperity is tied to this.

A Christian is supposed to be passionate about preaching the word of God. Freely have we received and freely we should give. These days, a pastor won’t preach in another church unless he is paid to do it in the name of honorarium.

Church is where Christians should fellowship together. But most often, we mind our business and keep to ourselves. When I reach out to others, sometimes, I discover some of the most fraudulent people are in churches. I might as well watch the pastors on tv and worship with the angels.

blindjustice13:
lol you such a liar ,but even if that is true, how does that compare with white owned churches banning black south Africans, even banning black south Africans from building houses or renting apartments in certain areas?

Did you just call me a liar? Please go away!!!