₦airaland Forum

GavelSlam:
She's pretty but it doesn't mean Aposto hasn't been at the cookie jar with other women.

He can try to muddle the minds of many Nigerians but Canada doesn't care about all this their media blitz of late.

Suleiman would lose his case in Canada.

Canada does NOT Care.

Addicted2Women:

Everyone knows he's gay

He use to fucck one guy from my street before he died of HIV in 2016

There's a rumour in town that the guy infected Daddy freeze before he died

Utter nonsense!!! This is how they malign people they know nothing about. Negative famzing!

GreenMavro:


Congrats on your Job offers....as regards the two offers on the table, I will like to ask if you studied a accounting/banking related course? although this is not compulsory to get a bank job, but it will go a long way in developing a career with prospect in the banking industry.
Also know that as a marketer in a bank you will be faced with the herculean task of meeting up with the unrealistic target given to you, this might cause you to have night mares especially if you have a troublesome boss. Its cool starting your job life in a well structured and organized place like a bank, but mind you the bank job is demanding and you will have little or no time to look out for better job unlike teaching. But i think you should go with the bank offer, banking will make you think smart and have opportunity to meet and interact with bright minds, but mind you, you are a contract staff and your name is written in pencil, it can be erased anytime without benefit or compensation.

Goodluck

Teaching actually makes one think smarter than any other profession. With today's kids, a good teacher has to be brilliant.

Does the EFCC have the right to do this? Once they invite someone to their office and the person is a no show, they declare him wanted. How do they even know that they received their invitation? People should be treated with dignity until they are proven guilty. Haba!!!! As for nairalanders, you lived down to my expectations. Castigate a person until proven not guilty. Thank God we don't depend on you all to act as jury in a court of law. Everyone would have been beheaded by now.

sarrki:
Africans are there own problems


The god of men Swindle you with your hard earned money


use it for 3somes and other oloshos

Buy tokunbo cat for little few


Suleman is a mega fraudster

And the proof of your allegations is?

CACAWA:
It was organised. Do you know what money can do?

If it is money, why did Stephanie not pay her parents to support her? She claims she was getting Naira400,000 per night, so she's got the money too. They would have had more reasons to support her than the pastor. Let's try really hard to be object.

RaskiloGas:
There are 4 people in life who are extremely difficult to give advice

1.A Woman in love
2.A man with Money
3.An Arsenal supporter
4 And a follower of a prophet

Though I am not here to judge of which of them is saying the truth (Stephanie and Suleman). But in Nigeria, Pastors and Imam are always right to gullible followers no matter what. Not knowing he is also human like them..

I attend church every Sunday. I am a Christian and listens to our reverend preaches. But when he says somethings I aren't satisfied with or that aren't right or some lies that arent possible jusy to brainwash the followers. I will never blindly accept rather I do my own findings or I just ignore and move on. After all I am not serving the reverend but God. But some people will believe anything from their man of God.

A fifth group is people who remain obstinate even in the face of glaring evidence.

lekanSuccess:
Attention seeker...pray your generation has 1/1000000000 of achievements

Please, what are these achievements? I used to attend camp expecting to see the lame walk, the blind to see.... Never did!

Tpave:
I believe in testing what I want to buy first. What of if I take home without testing it and it is eventually fake or cannot perform its function very well.

Then you teach "it" to function to your satisfaction.

Flekky21:
she's At Two Different Places At The Same Time. She Doesnt Sleep At Night. She Talks To Herself Like Shes Having A Conversation With Someone. She Walks Alone In The Middle Of The Night .She Doesnt Like Interacting With People Except Her Roomates Thats If U Talk To Her Oh. But She Seems Nice And Quiet. I Get Scared When Am Alone With Her, And I Dnt Always Sleep In My Room Most Times. I Had To Pack Out Of My Room, and My Other Roomates Did To . The Amazing Part Was That She Just Kept Staring At Us And Smiling Without A Word While We Kept Packing Our Stuffs And Left. Few Days Later We Heard She Left Without Packing Her Things And We Never Saw Or Heard Bou Her Again. She's Just Weird.

So, you saw her at two different places at the same time? Haba!!!! She probably talked to herself cos she was surrounded by bimbos who believed that one could be in 2 places at the same time. She needed intelligent conversation. Alas, there wasn't any to have it with. So she had it with herself. I wonder who started the ugly rumors that she was a snake? Mabe a jealous roommate?? Poor girl! Being a victim of bullying isn't easy at all. I hope she didn't end up committing suicide.

modelsms2:
Him na runs girl naa

Of course! That must be the only way she can afford it. God forbid that she should have legitimate investments.

krauss:
also means make obscure. obscure: to conceal.

Ha!!! Obscure here means ambiguous which causes the confusion. Not all synonyms can replace each other. You used it in a bombastic way.

krauss:
Mods, I wanna puke. Can you help obfuscate this eyesore.

Please, how do they obfuscate it? Obfuscate means to confuse or to make unclear.

KC is living on past glory.

frankloloko:
are you sexy enough to handle me ? Davido songs crap but people listen because he started mentioning money at first . If Linda don't show off . Who will respect her blog ? If I start blogging today I won't pay nairaland or any of the bloggers to advertise me . I will buy flashy things , good cars always . Make the loudest noice . That alone will generate traffic to my blog . That's what Linda is doing . Do you hear ?

Sexy is overrated. Brilliant you mean. Linda did not buy the house or publicize her acquisitions until after she had become established. Why are you talking like Linda's source of wealth is unknown or a fabrication?

frankloloko:
my nose . She's my best sha . But all Na fake life . Imagine linda buying a house of 500m last year and got fairly used accura for her mom this year . I heard she dated one politician during GEJ that's how she got the money to buy that renovated house in banana island . All these people wants so much attention . It helps them .

Rumor monger! Fake news carrier! Spreading rumors is like spreading feathers. They often fly far and wide and can't be retrieved. Neither can the damage caused be totally fixed. At least, most times. Linda has money! Tiwa is having a fun holiday! Grin and bear it.

LifeofAirforce1:
Selling moi moi by a graduate now a big deal

what's so special in been a graduate if i may ask?

The reason why Nigeria is so fuckedup s because we've placed so much emphasis on education

mumu country.

Bill gate, mark zuckerberg of this world didn't see the four walls of university but look where they are today.

Only in Nigeria our so called graduates who can't even spell out their own name correctly get juicy jobs while the ones with brain are left with no choice than go abroad to look for greener pasture.

Nothing wrong with emphasizing education. It is supposed to enlighten one and broaden one's horizon. Bill Gates actually saw the four walls of a university. He was a Harvard drop out. So was mark founder of Facebook. I can't spell his name. Steve Jobs dropped out of school only because he could not afford it.

Bill gates and Mark were lucky to know what they wanted to do early in life. Not everyone is that lucky. But they do not discredited getting an education.

The problem might simply be that most people think that getting an education means getting a white collar job afterwards. Instead of understanding that an education means doing whatever one is passionate about with more enlightenment and class. Dbanj, Tiwa Savage... Are probably better artists because of their education. All the members of Pentatonix have university degrees. Kelvin O has a degree from Harvard, which might be why they've been able to market themselves so well, and winning Grammy awards. I'm sure they not actually the best accapella group, but...

Pheals:
freeze place every thing on your beliefs?! it is either you realise and avoid cancer or you continue calling it a sin!

but how will Isaac marry a 3yrs old gal ah ah

She wasn't three. The bible called her a young woman and not girl. She was old enough to draw water from the well for Abraham's servant. She also was old enough to give her consent when her family asked her. Isaac was forty. Yes, some scholars have calculated three. But that isn't even stated in the bible. They based their calculations on the Jewish tradition of betrothal.

Xensity:
No, the fact that many share my opinion, gives a kernel of truth to it and validates my points. I don't have to be a woman to understand the reality of what women pass through, and the op painted a dishonest picture of this reality.

It's this victim complex you women have that actually annoys me, and you have just erected this complex in your post. What successful women are being called who.res? Is Chimamanda adichie being called a who.re? Is Ngozi okonjo Iweala being called a who.re? Was the late Dora Akunyili called a wh.ore before she died? How about Deola Sagoe and Folake Cooker? I don't see anyone calling them who.res
It's only irresponsibe women who exhibit who.re-like characteristics that are being called whores. The women who gain their wealth from hard work and the overt addition of value to society, can never be called whores.

Another aspect of conversations with feminist apologists like yourself, is that you bring up really trivial and non-sequitor issues, and then you fixate on them like they are the most consequential issues there are, and like they have anything to do with gender inequality or subjugation and marginalisation of women.
So because people tell Linda Ikeji and Genevieve to get married, that's a form of female oppression in Nigeria? Lol. Don't men also get told to get married? And why shouldn't they be told to get married? Isn't it for their own good? Or is it when they are above 50 that they would get married, since they have made it open that they want husbands? And you are making it seem like it's only NL males that admonish them to get married, NL females also say the same thing. Go to LIB and see the number of women daily who tell Linda to hurry up and get married.

Nope! The fact that many share your opinion gives credence to the write up pasted by the op. And, yes you need to be a woman to understand her point of view. As for the successful women you quoted, they've had their struggles. They just chose to be persistent and dauntless. Moreover, society is somewhat kinder to successful women because they "can" ascribe part of their achievements to their husbands. Here on nairaland, Chimamanda has been called names simply because she is a strong woman who isn't afraid to air her views.

No one has the right to tell a grown woman what to do with her life. Even family and friends can only make suggestions or advice one. Harping on ladies like Linda Ikeji, Rita Dominic... single status instead of celebrating their achievements is actually what I'm talking about.

That you actually wrote "It's only irresponsibe women who exhibit who.re-like characteristics that are being called whores." Left me speechless. That someone who exhibits a measure of intelligence can think this way is sad. Vey sad!

Victim complex? That's certainly not me. Neither do I see myself as a feminist apologist. More of a feminine apologist. But, I seriously appreciate the bra burning feminists whose struggles have helped women evolve to today's woman. Still evolving though. This struggle is real. You just DON't get it.

Xensity:
The woman forgot to mention these:

Because you are a woman, a man is expected to pay for you when you both go out, while you just eat and enjoy.

Because you are a woman, a man is not expected to hit you.

Because you are a woman, it's expected of men to do the physically challenging and strenuous jobs, while you do the easy ones.

Because you are a woman, men are expected to protect you like they were your bodyguards.

Because you are a woman, a man is expected to provide for you and take care of you, even if you can provide and take care of yourself.



Because you are a woman, men are expected to defy their natural programming, take medications, do exercises and practice hard, just to spend an inordinate amount of time pleasing you during sex.

I despise posts like this. The writer is painting a hyperbolic picture of what women experience while demonizing men in the process. She is also victimizing her gender in such a dishonest way, and making it seem like all she said is a true representation of how majority of men view or treat women in our present day.

And I find it quite funny that the minority of women who are actually facing subjugation, like the women in the Taliban, aren't the ones creating this kind of post, it's these trend seeking, brazilian hair-wearing, face-painting, dress-slaying, gadjet-flaunting opportunists that know nothing about their world, and who have it easier than their Nigerian male counterparts, that are the ones passionately championing feminism on social media.

All you feminist apologists should just shut the fuuuck up. There has never been a better time for women in the history of human civilization than now. The world is getting better for your gender. Fuuucking remove the ideological blindfolds from your eyes and see.

Op, why don't you borrow a time machine and take your disingenuous thread to 18th century Nigeria. That's where it would make sense.

The op is absolutely correct. The fact that so many share your opinion based on the number of likes you have, simply shows that she is right. You're not a woman living in today's world. Let's make that Nigeria. Successful women are still called w.hores. Not just by men, but also by ladies who are yet to achieve their own success, or who think they have no morally correct or legal way of achieving it.

A lady is successful, but not yet married? She is told to get married. We've seen this countless of times on nairaland. Linda Ikeji, Rita Dominic, Genevieve Inaji... Go and get married is the regular comment that heralds their achievements.

I don't think the op is a feminist, she is just telling it the way it is.

sprinter101:
I believe my sisters n mother re prettier than you.is it your sis or your mother I disrespected?

Prettier? Hahaha!!! Who cares? Do you respect people based on their looks? That is so shallow! Every human deserves your respect. Maybe, until they prove they are not worth it. But this 2017, try and show everyone; young, old, male and female a measure of respect. You'll even have more respect for yourself then.

sprinter101:
.....person when go sabi suck d....k

This is the utter lack of respect she is talking about. Put your sister's or mama's picture in place of Tonto's and see how you like the statement you made.

lifezone247:
In fact I'm in bar since, watching premier league games and still there watching Liverpool vs man city.
My wife just put a call through that I should make sure I'm home before 11pm so we can go to church for cross over night. Funny enough I don't go to church, in fact I did not attend single church service or programs throughout 2016.
Lalasticlala you dey go church so? Cos I knw say seun no dey go

Going to church should really be to celebrate God with other Christians. When you love someone, you want to be with the person, have conversations with the person, and generally get to know that person more. Same thing when you have a relationship with God. You want to know more about Him. Going to a bible believing church is one of the ways you get to know God more. Plus one gets to worship God with others. Not going isn't a sin as God will listen and talk to you wherever you are. Anyway, I love Jesus, but totally detest religion.

Osahon7:
She's a runs gal
NA private are paid 48k
Shes living big,

Her parents may be the ones taking care of her. Maybe her fiancé. Maybe a single boyfriend who loves her and has the dough to take care of her. There are more decent ladies than runs girls contrary to popular belief.

haibe:
Oyedepo should learn from him

He should learn from Pastor Oyedepo. The bible says your left hand should not know when you give with your right hand. Your giving should not be seen by other people. Pastor Oyedepo, I hear has sponsored people's education, housed others, and helped thousands of people without advertising it. This coza pastor hopes to achieve what with this publicity? The bible says when you give for men to admire and hail you, then you have received your reward. Those who give secretly get rewarded openly by God.

It is only ignorance that can make anyone think that the US has the power to dictate anything to Nigeria. They can only strongly suggest or negotiate. Remember how they couldn't stop our anti gay stance?

donsteady:
Put religion aside and be logical, even pope doesn't have a jet. It's sadden me when some folk assumed we will all be shallow.

At least 3 private jets. The least is about $350,000,000. Times that to three, that would be about $105,000,000 times that to 480 naira, that will be about fifty billion+ naira. I am not good with maths, somebody help plz.

35 yrs ago he was nothing and had nothing. How did he get all this wealth ?
That's the question. He started by collecting money from the poor and rich and he name it as offering, tithe, seed and all the other nonsense. (35 yrs he is still collecting and the collecting still will continue)

This is very simple. You collect money from the poor and rich, you buy urself a private jets, build expensive uni and you said ur uni is not for the poor.
Just one simple question sir. At your age,(60+)
How would you sincerely summaries purpose of your life in one sentence?
What would you die for? wealth?

Quite a number of good churches are not run this way. They are not run as a one man business, but have a body that the general overseer reports too. The tithe is paid to the church and not the pastor. They are not one and the same. The pastors usually have to get more than one co signatory to enable them have access to church funds. This is to safe guard the integrity of the church, and stop the pastors from getting tempted. So, claiming that Pastor Oyedepo has been feeding fat off the people is a misconception.
Pastor Oyedepo has written so many books. Some of them have done well. There are various ways in which pastors make money without having to depend on or impoverish other people.

TippyTop:




How can you spit on someone rich enough to remove you from squalor?

Better to remain in squalor, than to make money the way she did.

Whynotthetruth:
And in all, you made no attempt to address the message here or the injustice...just interested in pouring your invectives on Nnamdi Kanu...Anyway, the justice MUST prevail...and those who wish injustice on others will also experience sufficient dose of injustice too...

Justice? Treason is a crime in every country. When Nnamdi Kanu declared verbal war on Nigeria, he should have known there'd be consequences. Let's assume he truly believes in Biafra. He must also know that the president of Nigeria is obligated to to bring him to book.

This guy comes across as so arrogant. I wonder why his followers can't see that. He is such a hate filled demagogue. A person that wants to be a leader addressing the president in such rude terms! Haba! No diplomacy at all. Someone whose moods determine his manners. I pray his dream for Nigeria never comes to fulfillment. I know people claim that Nigeria was created along unnatural lines. That Nigeria is an amalgamation of people who have nothing in common. But, I still believe in a united Nigeria. The US is made of people with more diverse cultures. So is France, South Africa and most other nations. The Igbos may have legitimate beefs. But, so do all other tribes of Nigeria. Especially the so called minority tribes. Should all tribes break away and form weak nations? Please, the Igbos should spend more time and energy forcing their governors to accountability. After all, their civilian governors have been Igbos. Meanwhile, I applaud the group of Igbo millionaires who have come together to change Igbo land. I pray they succeed.

Emekamex:
This government is hopelessly clueless and discombobulated.

This is sooooooooo wrong on many levels. His age, status....