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[quote author=uj_sizzle]It's apparent y'all chose to ignore the part where twas said she discussed with her current boyfriend first. If he won't marry her then he should free her. The truth is difficult to swallow, men love to be idolized but the moment u realise u aint the centre of a woman's universe it becomes a different ball game. If there are reasons why he can't settle down now,the mature thing wld be to discuss it with her instead of posting her. By posting her he's ony succeeding in making her insecure and unsure about his true intentions no matter how honorable they may be.
You can't begin to understand what it feels like n i dnt expect u to coz u are men..u think like men and u keep thinking that hanging out with other men on a platonic level is akin to cheating. Remember u dnt own her neither do u run her life just coz she's in a relationship wit you.


ummm....I chose to ignore this thread after I made my point on my disagreement with double dating as an advantage for or to facilitate marriage.....yet you brought another issue,which is,

Asking a guy that proposes a r/shp with you if he's gonna marry you before you accept to date him?....lol,JESUS CHRIST!!! So you deem it okay to give ultimatum?? And you don't see it as being desperate? Is it in your place to do that?....okay lemme help you and assume you just wanna know your place and chances with him before you accept whatever he proposes"......don't you think men don't like being conditioned? Well,I'm the kinda man that don't like that,its in men's(well many,not all)place to study the woman they wanna take home2momma" not cus she(suppose girl) conditioned me to.....bad men will say whatever to get between your legs and dump your desperate arse when done with ya!!!....I WISH YOU WELL WITH YOUR WAY THOUGH"!

I have to share my opinion on this o,my own definition is that jealousy is a two face spirited feeling we as humans possess whether anybody likes it or not,you can be jealous for good reasons too......is the degree @which we show it,insecurity is a trait in all us humans,so let's not forget we were created by a supreme being and last I checked,we aint perfect!!!!.....lol

I think its to the extent@which we showcase our insecurity that is the point though,we can't vehemently evade our flawed characteristics as humans,who says we can't be jealous?? Bro please!!! You lying to yourslf mehn!.....lol

Yea I agree to some extent that jealousy depict insecurity,however, I could be the not jealous type doesn't mean I can't get jealous .....and for this,I don't have an answer!!...LMAO

Op,I feel you,I love girls girls girls and I treat deserving girls(princess) as queens.. ONLY!.......there are girls,yet there are gals...lol...feel me?....we men meet lots!.....

Hmmm' interesting!

Lol

uj_sizzle: And u're basing all what u've just said on the assumption that he's got good intentions for her, that he plans on marrying her. So what if he doesn't?? All we've said is just to put on the safer side so she-s got minimal loss. All u've succeeded in doing is put her on a side u aint even sure of the outcome. You can't judge a man's intentions or thoughts by what u'd feel if u were in this situation woth ur babe. If he had put her mind at ease and explained all these i doubt she'll be needing advise from us.

And your advice on giving the new guy a chance is not an assumption of whether he'll marry her?.....safe side? How'd you know which is safer?....is double dating now a criterion for marital warranty?.....face it,your advice is what makes girls like the poster single and probably become what she's avoiding(spinster),like you control life itself and make "a plan" for this holy union "marriage"....will you marry a man? Isn't it in a man's place to propose? Even the western culture and norms acknowledges it,people will be drifting away from the truth without realizing it,if you say its not desperation,its only because desperation has be'clouded,overwhelmed and consumed you in that marriage department!.lol.....face it!

And to the girl saying you should tell your BF that you'r considering other guys(or a guy)....as its just dating(even without s.ex),like are you real?? Are you serious?? You say its 9ja and 9ja guys use and dump girls after so many years of courtship bla bla bla,forgetting many 9ja guys won't look your way with the knowledge of dating or trying other guys!....lool...you must be a joke....cus ma kid sis and I are seriously laughin@y'all....WTF....abeg talk anada thing jare.

OP,if after your entire dating paroles of sooo many guys,no proposal?..check your biological clock o,its ticking,and it says the reason for your not getting a "husband" asap its cus you dated jack,tom,jerry,jayz,brad pit and even switd.ick..lol

YOU R ON YOUR what?........YOUR OWN!

Poster,what you should do?....hmmm simple,go back to this lad and return the phone standing your ground of not wanting to be in a romantic r/shp with him,and that you don't collect things from strangers........

Don't come off cheap thinking or deceiving your self its a "Gift"...its not,return the blackberry back and if he insist on you keeping it(after you've really tried hard in returning it o),only when you can keep it and be just friends with him as u don't want anything romantically involved with him,but if I were I girl I wouldn't collect in the first place....just return it not minding what he thinks or want.

It baffles me when peeps bury the truth just to feel good about a mere thing as pleasure"....yeah many peeps here talking about success brings love,only see "love" from a slight angle(the pleasure they derive from girls craving for their success "money" )

How can success" an entity of the physical world only,bring love?...I don't get oo,love is from within,success is attainable by any man with dreams and goals,and knows the ethos of achieving it'.......I don't know the bible well to debate this,but I know for a fact that LOVE is the light,and without the light,we aint seeing shii*t.

If success brings love in your opinion,then you obviously aint getting the right love...lol

More so,success is good,when the basis of it is pure and from a good and reliable source,might give rise to love,but it doesn't quantify being loved and to love,where is the honor in not loving one prior to success and loving that same person when successful? Fake love I'd say'.........love does it for me jor !!!

pro01: As long as a woman sets a "standard" for her pussy/affections based on monetary or material considerations, then she is cheap and would be considered cheap by the men who get to Bleep her by meeting up to her financial/material standard - regardless of how low or high such standards might be. Fact. Women in western countries have a very liberal attitude towards sex; you'd see them go to a club and after a few drinks they walk up to a man they consider attractive and proposition him for a one night stand or whatever. Indeed, many Nigerian guys have been 'beneficiaries' of such liberality, especially in Europe. . .yet you don't hear these guys calling white women 'cheap'. Why? Because the women don't give a damn about their financial status or whatever material 'proof' they have to show.

Even if you only Bleep the likes of Dangote and Mike Adenuga, you are still cheap. When Nigerian women learn to give themselves to men based ONLY on feelings, looks, charisma, intelligence, and plain old ATTRACTION (without monetary, 'class', or material considerations), then and only then would they cease to be regarded as cheap.

Point is: A women that costs N1 million to sleep with is as cheap as the woman that costs N100 to sleep with. As long as it takes money, material things, or 'levels' to make you sleep with a man, then you are cheap.

[color=#007799]Nice,I only feel bad for the women that don't have this orientation,some do and still expect respect from these men after the deed is done(being women that they are,they portray the ''eat the cake and still have It"manner)..[/color]

Other days are 10/10,today's 9/10....no maggie,no spices?

Mtchww ...punch and kill

Wish you'd stop talking to your self and ooh,seriously wish you were finer than shrek,

I choose to disagree on the inferiority reasons,.....basic aspect of inferiority' is comparison,in other words,seeing your self less than that you compare your self with.....so what will you say about people that actually like the texture of theirs,but still prefer it low....due to geographical reasons? Like the weather and all(and to be candid,its more presentable being low)....yeah,if you choose to blame it on the ancestral conformity of hairlessness"induced in us? I'd say your wrong again! Why?....it doesn't apply to me and you(educated minds) of this day modernization,because we know the difference in the texture of that of a black and white man's hair......

However,stipulating which is better or more palatable is where the "inferiority complex" come into play,a mistake made by many,even our ancestral fathers(due to ignorance,and lack of articulation in stating their desired reasons of choices).........

Many people make the mistake of saying theirs is better off.....what will you say about me' that like the brittleness of ours but choose not to let it grow beyond what I consider as unattractive,as it is more appealing to me when low and clear?...because its my choice,so as many too,do we have to leave it like theirs? Why can't it be different,yes as it is now?

Look,let's face it,its a matter of choice,a choice I deem in regards to our tropical weather here in africa as a reason,theirs is a temperate region,so its understandable to grow hair..........we dnt wana feel uneasy with the heat and all that......should I say y'all are inferior for following their steps in growing hair and defiling your choices? My thought exactly! So what's all the fuss about inferiority complex??

The only thing I deem inferior here, is comparing your selves to others and not standing on your own ground on what you want and like......or do y'all think they don't av some whites on low cut??.....abegi!

I've got mad zest for wrist watches too,however,I would not be posting any...I've got like errmm,'3(three) designers watches;

BVLGARI,silver plated time piece,...... 3ATM water resistant,gold plated'DOLCE&GABBANA....Brown leather,Automatic 200metres sapphire crystal TAG HEUER watch( ooh and by the way, this being ma favorite,is a limited edition got it since like 2006,still looks fine like I just got it....)

Ma swatch is cool too buh old tho.....yeah I love em designer's things.....ROLEX on ma mind when I av the pocket4 it....soon,watch out....lol

I'm about to stir ma pondo yam flour and microwave ma oha soup ,care2join me?..thank you!

I wish this illicit niccur a quick recovery

Seal- " fly like an eagle"

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Love shouldn't be conditional.....

Up blancos!!!...haterz can like to soak garri with their piss and drink(good4 their health,they'll hate no more)....

Eeiyah.....Looool....@poster,gan buy ya own na!

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