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No matter how well to do or miserable the average Nigerian is,he just wants to make sure his neighbor is not doing better than him hence they even named a generator ' I better pass my neighbor".


The problem of Nigeria is Nigerians ,we hate ourselves so much that we have this default pull down attitude. A Nigerian would have no problem if a white person is promoted but let it be a fellow Nigerian like him ,envy from no where will surface.

What is the solution to this menance?

How do we stop people from being butchered and mutilated senselessly?

That is what I expected people with sense to comment not making childish bigoted comments. This is a serious issue that affects us all, no one knows who the next victim is. Except you and your family don't stay in Nigeria or live in a bubble this should everyone's concern.

Organ harvesters have joined the trade adding that to ritual killings ,it's just scary.

Ralphokoemu:
People can be very unpredictable..... She can go live with them by the end of the day they might turn her into a housemaid because by age she's the youngest, she'll wanna please everyone as a new iyawo, the house isn't her own so she's gonna be limited to everything there including space in the house . She won't get that security she yean for because her husband to be isn't the breadwinner, bills payer, or someone who they'll assume a complete Man.

No offense please.....
If u know you cannot take care of yourself, please don't add another person's daughter (whether she's an asset or liability).

Let's assume they're expecting a baby who takes care of the responsibilities of raising the young one.

Too many things are wrong with this guy's move.

I don't have issues with the girl.... She's still a kid....
But the guy isn't 10% ready.


Let's call a Spade a Spade.....

Exactly!

hardbody:
Ok...

We are done.

lol, You better go and edit that signature before hallucinations become your comforter. Na so village people take dey start. .



Take care.

hardbody:
So delirium tremens means "confusion'?

I give up on you.

Even your confusion is confused .

Sha remember to stick to NCC guidelines, I see corona lurking in the shadows around you

hardbody:
You must be confusing me with your father or elder brother. (at the bolded)

Not at all,I am talking to you ,but you on the other hand even confessed it yourself that confusion is your middle name . Remember you suffer from delirium tremens .


So watch out, coronavirus is closer to you than you think, pushing it and saying "God forbid" will not save you , better follow NCC guidelines

hardbody:
Your point is noted. Nevertheless, I do insist you go back and learn tenses and spellings. You effectively derailed from what I was lecturing you on and on the same topic that you were proudly parading your ignorance but guess what, you help me ease off from the stress of the day, I therefore have no reason to complain about this foolery.

yen yen yen , ignorant lecturer .


Before you talk about derailing you should look in the mirror Mr ancestor , oh now he is easing off stress of the day, I thought you don't banter with kids , Idiotic buffoon .


In another news ,do you know you might just die of coronavirus and will likely not see the end of 2021? ,Stay safe and follow NCC guidelines .

hardbody:
You must have re-read your post and found out how empty, shallow and stupid you sounded. May I also request that going forward, you check your tenses and spellings when responding to me. I am very particular about those minute details,

By minute details you mean you putting a coma at the end of your sentence instead of a fullstop? . Yes I had to make a screenshot . Agbaya ancestor . Your buffoonery is legendary my dear and quite entertaining as well I must say .


Teacher teacher o nor teach me nonsense. .

Ladies and gentlemen introducing our English professor of nairaland community . First I was a kid now you have turned spelling checker, which direction will you twist to next to massage your ego?

hardbody:
I never argued with you, i sought to teach you but it turned out you can't be taught.

Abuse me all you want, i have since made my point.

For avoidance of doubt, you don't invite people to your mention, they come in to make some points, clarify positions or in the extant case, try to teach numskulls who, as in your case, will never learn.

Well well well look what we have here, an arrogant prick and buffoon with shoulder padded ego , you invited your self in to teach a numbskull?, oh wow! Professor emeritus , key holder of knowledge, seer of all things known and unknown, .Oh ye! ancient of days I greet you .


I am not abusing you, as you labelled me a kid ,I just assumed if to you I am a kid ,it must mean you are an ancestor ,so tell me, dear ancestor, which do you accept? white hen or incisor of a white cocrodile? .

In great Fela's voice;

Teacher teacher
Nor teach me nonsense.


All this virtual professor sef

Businessman1986:
Shut up dimwit . .. very dull

cry me a river,let me bring a bucket so you can fill it with your tears , the thing even pain you pass the woman husband

hardbody:
You do not know what you do not know. Simple logic. Have a good night's rest Sir. I do not banter with kids on a serious matter.

Yeah they turn ancestors when they can't argue again, remember I didn't invite you into my comment you old frail wrinkled,snuff stained dirty teethed ancestor .And by the way ,it's Madam not sir .


A good night to you too.

hardbody:
I am neither the law nor the court, but knowing the law, we guide the court to reach legal decisions called judgments or in some cases rulings. Based on my knowledge of the law I just told you that he who comes to equity must come with clean hands. Your spurious claim of suing who caught you with his wife is not only laughable but against public policy. Infact the court will throw your claim out with punitive damages.

Humble yourself and learn.

Lol,I am afraid the little you claim to know about the law is ignorant . See this one talking about public policy, who do you think is erring against public policy here ? The criminal posting nude or two adults who had sex which is not a criminal offence? .

Dey form "learned colleague " for nairaland , nor be only throw out with punitive damages, na kick in with palliative

delishpot:
Lol, dem think say e easy to find wife but husbands scarce to find dem no know say to find wife na miracle indeed.
When women say dem dey look road before them accept marriage, them go laugh them to scorn saying any man is husband material. Now they can see that just anybody wont cut it for you and its better to be singke than marry a mad (wo)man

They think it's only women that need to pray for a husband, after all " women are more than men" ,just make money and women will flock around you, all you need to do is pick one aka " point and kill" .


These men will learn one way or another.They keep lamenting and wailing that women are not like their mothers anymore, yet they want a mother Theresa heart in a Nicki minaj body .We will just have to see how long the center will hold for this woke generation.

hardbody:
Ever heard you can't come to equity with tainted hands? Or you are just kidding?

let the courts decide that . I am sure you are not the law neither are you the courts.

delishpot:
Men are getting it left right and center and they are not happy. Once upon a time it used to rain everywhere for women. Now its raining gbas, gbos, gbas for men

Men, get thibgs right, women are also sexual creatures. No be only una sabi chop all kinds of soup

Me I will just sit back and enjoy the wailing.

Before una say na baby mama sure pass. Women come show una say dem sef dey ready,.... after una say cheating dey DNA therefore the men are not to blame, now women with cheating DNA have learnt that self control is not possible so they are flexing their natural instinct.
Next una say sex doll is the way to go... Women face cucumbers

Now una say stingy will solve it and soon women will start hussling by all means . We go see where these human foolishness will lead us.

, this generation of women said " at the end of the day ,it's night" .


I said one time ,these men need to go down on their knees and pray for a wife dem think say na joke

Isn't this a criminal offence tho? . If I was the wife I will sue him before we start talking about divorce .


Posting ones nude without consent is still a criminal offence regardless of who or under what circumstances.

If you continue with that guy all I can say is;

Premium tears loading for you.


Let she that has ear ,hear now. I don talk my own finish.

The reason why marriages lasted long was because women of then had high tolerance level. People say for a marriage to work there has to be compromise but what they fail to tell you is that the compromise has to come from the woman.


The african culture believes the woman holds the key to keep a home and a marriage( even though there are two people in a marriage), religion hasn't spared us from those teachings. So from childhood the girl child was brainwashed with such teachings , both onthe religious and traditional fonts .


But then over the years, the girl child began to see all the sacrifice all the tolerance our mothers had to put up with ,had to wait till old age to be appreciated by children not spouse ,then the world turned a global village ,the door for divorce was open and it was no longer an abomination or family dishonor to leave ones husband's house. People turned less traditional and less religious and realized heaven didn't fall . So there you have it.

NwaAmaikpe:





My God will punish this boy's mother.

I can't believe a woman will be heartless enough to abandon her own baby with her husband and his new wife just to frustrate his new home.

It is the height of wickedness to put the liability of your child on a woman whose only crime was to assist you in nurturing your husband.

In civilized climes, she will be arrested for neglect.
Women must get this right.
A child is first and foremost the responsibility of the woman who bore him and not the man who scored him.

It's a shame; our world will only be a better place when women learn to share preek in peace.

I thought you were more enlightened than this. Such a shame ,I do understand that sometimes you want to be sarcastic but this my friend is pure foolish talk.

In the so called civilised clime custody is awarded to men as well. On what basis will a mother be charged with neglect when the father of the child is there?

All this misogynistic african mentality una better shed am this 2021,shior!. And I am guessing men make up the highest number of likes on your comment.So they agree with the bolded such clowns, y'all better pick a side and stick with it. So much rants and complain on this forum about mothers day, all this penis people were creating thread upon threads to complain, yet na them dey like this kind comment ,talk about speaking from both sides of the mouth.


In translation ,men are sperm donors according to NwaAmaikpe ,the author and finisher of penis people of nairaland community

boxypane:
including the biological mother.

On what grounds? A child is a product of a man and a woman,the father is also the legal guardian of that child as well. She left the child with the father not a stranger.It is the responsibility of the father to protect and nuture his child in the absence of the mother.


Oh ! So because the biological mother didn't do the norm of taking the child with her , suffering to raise the child alone and the father will now come out years later to claim "parent " ,so she should be arrested? . I thought disgruntled men were protesting that in the event of a separation men should "collect " the child (ren) .


Atleast it's good that things are changing, the woman left the child this time with the father, and look how that turned out . Oops!

Men are not naturers by nature, a mother left the child both of you had in your care as the father ,this is how you treat the child . Yet they wonder why mothers day carries weight

ceaser:
There you have it.

He's the midget in the picture.

Now I get a feeling something isnt right about all this. So DR albash is a midget .na wah o,ovboko!

Awww,it's the little things that matter.

felong:
Have you copied it?

yes

felong:
Haba ok let me post my WhatsApp number then delete it immediately you copy it. That one will be much better right?

ok

felong:
No na, I've been on this forum since 2007. If you don't follow a person back and he sends you a mail what you'll see in your inbox is "felong will like to send you a mail"

You won't see the content of the mail I sent until you follow me back and I resend it.

you must think this is my first moniker here .Tye fact that you don't have access to the email connected to this moniker is the issue here.

Have a nice day.

felong:
I can't access that email I opened this account in 2007, just follow me back and you will see my message when I send it.

it doesn't work that way,the only thing I can see when I follow are your comments not mail.

felong:
Follow me back. It would be easier to send messages when we are following each other.

check your mail.

felong:
I sent you a pm kindly reply.

I didn't see any pm.

felong:
Na so na, all these robots these days don spoil finish. Na woman matter na him full their head.

Anyways let's talk about us jare. How are you doing?

I am very well

felong:
Antispam bot is eying you and thought that maybe I'm dragging you with him. For that I'm going to shoot my shot with you, let him go and hug transformer.

, you go fear virtual relationship with a bot