₦airaland Forum

felong:
Am serious, I'm sure if you checked your mentions two days ago, you would have noticed that you were quoted but couldn't see the post of who mentioned you. That's because the antispam bot hid it and banned me.

I know about the hidden comments was wondering why and who it was,just asking why you ? Abi e get wetin you do anti spam? , or e get wetin you write wey anti spam nor like .

felong:
@t00dugged
I got banned twice for quoting you, what's wrong with ur monkier

I have no idea,how come it's only you?

" Story of the ten virgins " , still trying to fathom the connection of the story to the DNA saga .


All this over virtuous assistant Jesus roaming earth sef, this one doesn't even know what she is talking about ,lol nor be only story of the ten virgins, ignorant christian

SilverNorGold:
My beloved brother, at the emboldened, dey calm down na. No be fight. Everybody get right to em opinion, you know?

Anyway, I understand your argument and I am 100% in support. Hopefully, our women go repent and behave like the true African women . The kinda women our mothers be..

God bless us all..

Repent? ,oh wow! repent of what if I may ask?, Repent of what ? a crime or a sin?


All this penis people on this forum sef ,y'all keep acting like God left you in charge of earth or something

Seyzcham91:
i dey tell you which inturn translate to them getting a Burden Relief Package to themselves

stupid gender

Stupid gender? E be like say your mama nor gree breastfeed you for small pikin , poor you.


But that is not enough to transfer your hatred for her to all of us na,shuo

The heart of MAN is desperately wicked!

rs172:
You haven’t answered my question yet, well you and your mother are the same, daughters of bastard and product of incest

lol , and you think your mother is different? According to penis people of nairaland community "all women are daughters of Eve " so I can say same for your mother and sisters .

You better start asking that daughter of Eve mother of yours where your father is ,this my friend are facts that I speak.


Happy new year!

Even the ones pricing gonorrhea injection and telling chemist man to "cut dose for me" are here making mouth. .

If una like make una go dey find where dem dey do DNA testing for 50k

Omezif:
Northeast is not safe at all. I pity those who still live there especially near battle ground and stick in the advice of buhari.

If you pity the people who still live there where should they go? South? Let them face their problems.

rs172:
So how many kids have you given birth to for your father

You should be asking your mother who your father is ,since a dog is more loyal than your mother according to the person I quoted. , bastard

ayusco85:
You are entitled to your own views and opinion.

lol,being called out on your bias stings ,don't it . Happy new year.

fineboynl:
how would you father feel and even you and your siblings if your mom drive home with a mercedes benz and told you all that a man gift it to her?

A marriage and dating ,that's the difference.


The key words are lover and admirer. Know the difference.

pocohantas:
Don’t mind me. Since the guys say their own is res, I decided to play around with colours. Yes it is more about ego for men. Same men that’ll reject gifts would willingly accept knacks. The latter fuels the ego, the former doesn’t.

Exactly my point ,if that same Lady offers knack he nor go reject am cos it doesn't get in the way of his ego .

felong:
Nope the definition is someone who gives her word and stand by it. If you have a guy, he definitely isn't the richest or most handsome or most intelligent in the world, others will come, if you dump him for other better then him, how many more will u keep dumping before you realise that you have become a failure in life? It has nothing to do with suffering and poverty it's all about your integrity

Integrity, lol .


Men don't reject gift out of integrity, they do it out of ego know the difference.


I need admirers who can afford to gift me a car in my life.If you have 5 of such guys who are benevolent life nor go hard you. Turning such people to friends will be the smartest thing to do.


Na the lovers wey nor get sh1t for yansh dey insecured because they know they can't afford what the other guy is offering. Such men are the type that will be intimidated when their wife has more money than them. I call such people "in house bad belle".

Who get shoulder padded ego make e shift go one side.

pocohantas:
You done overdose on the pink-pill.

my sister nor be any pill o. It's a fact even from the comment of guys here one can deduce it . I don't need any pill to point out the obvious

felong:
You won't make a good wife.

How typical.

Definition of a good wife by Nigerian standard: a good wife is someone who stops chasing her dreams, who puts everyone first including her in-laws before her needs ,who takes care of her home before herself,who is more selfless than jesus christ ,who is ready to suffer poverty with her man,who is willing to go through more than the trials and tribulations jesus christ went through ,infact a good wife should be ready to die on the cross for her marriage.

fineboynl:
that's why you can easily switch your man for good life. I only pity guys that fall deep love to women because love doesn't exist in women as they can be easily bought.

lol, and love exists with men?. Men don't accept gifts from women because their ego is stopping them not out of loyalty to their partner ,let's be clear on that.

ITbomb:
How about DNA Test?

Dharyhor:
Make una make DNA test free too

In a well written article ,tell us why the government of the federal republic of Nigeria should make DNA testing free to Nigerians.

Akuruoulo:
I ALWAYS STAND FOR THE TRUTH SIS.

Good to know.

Akuruoulo:
100% TRUE

I am surprised a guy agrees to this.

ayusco85:
which man do you strong thing na

Rather you should direct that question at the person I quoted, one would think his mother refused to breastfeed him as an infant hence the bitterness and anguish in his comment.


By the way ,I see no lies in my comment,if you feel there is a false claim do well to point it out to me.

Bashnigga:
Hahahaha, I like this guy.
person dey think that one twice. So in the end, it all boils down to one thing. "the kind of gift"

I find the comments of people here very funny. If a man gifts me an expensive lingerie I will definitely turn it down , in reality it does boil down to the kind of gift.


Who say e like suffer head ,good for am ,I cant turn down a car gift or millions of money just to soothe the ego of some man ,only on the condition that the lover can get me same or more than. Who nor like better thing?

Originalsly:
The bolded is the bottomline and I agree with you 100%. Your ex should've told you from jump to return it... because he was uncomfortable with it. I strongly believe in general... it has to do more with the man and not his status. As in a rich guy would gift his gf a car... and should his gateman gift her a pair of fashion earrings... it can be the beginning of the end of the relationship because the bf now believes something been going on between she and the gateman. I believe it will be more acceptable if the bf/gf knows the level of friendship between the gf and the gifter or ehmmmm...... what does he admire about my babe?.... is it her body?... or her calmness?... it better not be body or else.... let me shut up.

Her ex was an egocentric insecured poor man.

He knew if he asked her to return it, he will not be able to buy it for her ,so he swallowed his bruised ego and poured the frustration into the relationship. All this people with shoulder padded ego sef. Note he always said "na because I nor fit buy you phone". Poor man mentality.

asdfjklhaha:
Collectin gifts from admirers can ruin ur relationship, I remember sometime in 2018 I was still wit my ex, a guy in my church bought me a phone. I told him am in a relationship I cant accept it he said he is not interested in dating me that he doesnt like the phone am using, that I should accept it. I did an told my boyfriend then, he did not complain about it or ask me to return it, but that was the beginning of our break up, any little issue we hav he will say is because he doesn't have money to by me phone that's why I have started double dating. This is someone I told, I could easily have lied to him that an aunty or uncle bought it for me but I told him the truth, yet he started using it in every issue, after a while he told me to return the phone back to the guy, phone I hav used for more than 2 months, the problems was just too much I just had to personally end it so I can have peace of mind. But I learnt from it. Accepting gift from admirers can be risky cos it can ruin ur relationship especially if ur guy is the insecure type.

Moral lesson; never tell a man another man bought something for you, simple.

My people say "if ear nor hear something belle nor dey spoil". Even if most humans demand the truth,it's always too bitter for them to handle especially the ones with big ego.

naijadrivablog:
Dogs are more loyal than woman. Women are cats in nature.

2021 year of women's betrayal.

And men are he goats in nature reason why they can even impregnate their own daughters and sleep with their own mothers,hence the phrase

" motherfvcker".

baralatie:
but each person a heart that is either scorned,burned,slashed and robbed with a desire to revenge or a heart that is loved,natured and blessed with a desire to give light to the world.
and here's why the world is full of crime in one form or another

Nothing is new under the sun,good or bad.

baralatie:
and it all blows out wide open for the world to see!

And the sky does not fall, seasons come and go and people move on with their lives.

baralatie:
you don't understand the marital politics that was at play in these scenario.i will try to explain.


moyo and tunde after courtship became legally married.bith extended families of the couple's expect a fruitful union(children).

there was fruitful union(children) but it was not tunde bloodline.

already the names involved if at that time it blows opening will affect moyo,tunde,the kids and nuru own family.therefore the extended are in a fix seeing that tunde is overprotective of moyo and the kids.

as long as tunde is alive .there is hope for a correction of the imbalance .that is tunde has his eyes opened .he files for divorce and he gets another wife and bears his own kids.thdrfore leaving moyo to go sort her self out with nuru but it did not go that way.

the problem is tunde does not want to leave moyo and the kids

instead moyo(now under pressure from nuru because of the kids) flew away with the kids and tunde thinking that it was holiday got dumped and was told the kids are not his(meaning he is in shock)

even at this stage if he remains alive and can just move on get married and forget moyo.everything will balance.

after shock.tunde went to see moyo in the us (because of the kids) and on getting the real state from moyo that the kids are not his and indirectly he was in a loveless relationship.his own ability to rebalance was now in jeopardy.

tunde never recovered(he drove,he eat,he talked but his heart was just to heavy).

it finally gave way.

if only he could survive and be alive .all these would not have come to limelight.it is he death that brought all these to limelight

These so called marital politics are just nothing but speculation.


So what should we do now, if you say Tunde was protective of moyo that's why he didn't blow it up, should the wishes of the dead be respected ? ,If the victim didn't want justice when he was alive why should we now call for of the offender's head on a platter simply because the victim is no longer in the picture? Do we now conclude that if Tunde was still alive ,he wouldn't have wanted this? .


Anyway, you and I know that Tunde didn't even need a DNA test to know those kids were not his, but he choose to look the other way for reasons best known to him and if moyo didn't take the kids away he would have continued to look away.


I have a theory as to why Tunde ignored the "obvious" but I don't want to sound cold hearted. Rest in peace to the dead, and peace of mind to the living.

Men have kids on their wives ,women bring another man's child home, welcome to earth.

baralatie:
he had it 2017 (hopefully) after moyo went abroad and told him the kids are not his

which brings me to the bugging question, why didn't Tunde blow hot then, why didn't his family members also blow hot , obviously they had enough clout to shut down the internet, their son had suffered a stroke,why did they quietly nurse him back to health?. My people say "as e dey hot". They had all the parameters to blow the case,but all kept mute including Tunde who after recovering from the stroke according to you went on to the Us to see the kids .


Look, I do console with the family but if Tunde and his family didn't feel he needed justice while Tunde was alive, all this hullabaloo is just uncessary.

baralatie:
Tunde could be said to suffering from "a battered man syndrome".

I would like to know when he had the stroke, 2017 or last year?

baralatie:
he had stroke first !
heart failure as a result of continuos reminder of every thing that has happened become a walk in the park

Again can't be proven medically. It's just mere speculation.

Make no mistake,what happened was wrong on all levels. Every moral angle you look at it from ,it's all shades wrong. When this story first broke I was shocked and furious, but I did not make any comment when I saw how people were emptying their lungs and purging their feelings on this topic ,then someone posted a picture of Tunde with the kids and the fcmb MD, my dear ,even a blind man could see the features and resemblance. So why did Tunde allow this to go on is my question.

baralatie:
he didn't survive.if he survived he will be alive to tell the story!
Tunde tried to fight to get on his feet but he never survived

The span of the break up and his death ,shows Tunde moved on ,that's a fact.


If he later died due to heart failure that can be induced by anything ,even wrong drug dose or food,then my dear that is unfortunate. My condolences are with his family .