₦airaland Forum

baralatie:
I am sorry for all the abuse you endured at the work place due to some wicked men who are only interested in creating chaos and all kinds of problems for their staffs.


moyo and tunde love brouhaha is a very complicated case and at the same time a sorry one.if we look at their love timelines we would see why the perception that moyo is the engine for tunde dismissed

2017 the oldest is 8 years old meaning
2009 was the year they got married(likely)

in between 2009 and 2017 she had two kids while moyo and tunde why sleeping in the same bed.when she was pregnant tunde was the one running all over the place.the creche was paid by tunde.now information has it tunde takes the family on cruise.
only for moyo to say tunde bye bye the kids are not yours after 8 years plus likely 3 years of courtship(total of 12 years)
a guy has been around his wife for 12 years and she actually never had a single child for him!

how do you expect him to even survive?

Now Tunde was a victim but the question is for how long? At what point did he know the kids were not his? Surely in those 8 years it must have crossed his mind. Which makes me wonder why he didn't blow hot when she moved abroad, did he know all this while? Why would he still go to the Us to visit the kids?. Did Tunde become a "willing victim " in this mess? So many questions.


But he did survive and got another lady pregnant tho, even had an upcoming wedding. That alone is enough for the court to dismiss the accusations that his ex wife killed him. The diet and lifestyle of Nigerians has become bad over time that people less than 25 years old now suffer heart attack ,so medically it cannot be linked to a case of 2017 .


While I understand the emotional reaction people are having to this case ,the facts still have to be presented.

baralatie:
there are lot of victims in this paternity fraud saga!


there is the new wife with pregnancy


there is the two kids involved


there is tunde who is now dead for shock and heart failure.


there is the moyo herself.she thought her husband could move on but hey he died.



there is nuru himself he has his wife and kids asking him some questions he himself does not understand


then there is otunba owner of fcmb wondering why it is his company for God sake.


like I said he didn't move on as he should.he went to see the lady in 2018 and called in 2020.it is completely obvious that he was not seeing properly .after enduring stroke o.
by the time she made the reality real to him and his heart understood.
the heart just stop and skipped
he has died be that(if he was only just be able to get to a hospital very fast he could possibly survived and then he make a life changing choice for his unborn child)

A 19 year old died of heart attack last year. The heart can fail die to anything.


If Tunde or his family wanted justice ,they had ample time to do so, 2017 till now is a long time to file a case . The fact that his family waited till Tunde passed away to demand for justice makes no sense.


Work place romance is not new in the corporate sector. Infact I left a job because of sexual harassment one time, a man old enough to be my grand father as at then wanted me to work and also warm his bed. I didn't take my salary home complete for months because I was subcharged for what my subordinates did that won't normally have affected my salary. There were other female colleagues of mine who were doing what "the boss wants".


Until anyone can tell me how the said ex wife is directly responsible for Tunde's death ,all this internet hullabaloo are just emotional sentiments.

baralatie:
the family can only she the lady for paternity fraud and that will even bring all kinds of dirty news that you will be sorry for all parties involved.
tunde already had stroke because of the information he got from her about the kids not been his.the information now been twisted is that the lady and the guy had seperatedi which the lady took the kids to the us(leaves us wondering).
after she left for the us with the kids tunde has been travelling to the us to see her and the last time he was/spoke with her was november 2020(all these visits and call is surrounding the kids)
that does not show a man who has moved on.
the reality finally struck home and his heart failed.
very unfortunate

He didn't move on but his pen1s moved on abi? .


She moved to the us since 2017,so you mean to tell me despite knowing the kids were not his since 2017 , Tunde has been going to see the kids? .


You know the only victim here is the tunde's wife to be and unborn child. They got dragged into a mess they should not have been associated with.


Paternity fraud that Tunde himself didn't fight? He still went on to be visiting the kids even after finding out they were not his. Lol i will like to see how this plays out in court.

baralatie:
it is alleged that the deceased spoke with the lady in November,2020.
guess it was second wave of shocks,stroke and heart attacks!
he never went past it!
the reality stuck like glue

"Allegedly". In situations like this so many things will be alleged. The fact remains that the deceased was expecting a child with another woman and even had an upcoming wedding. Also another fact is that the ex wife was not even in Nigeria as at the time of tunde's death.


If the family of Tunde feel she is responsible for the death of their son, let them take her to court. It's sad to see alot of men who are supposed to be rational are here being emotional just because their misogyny has given then an opportunity to expell their lungs from the bottled up anger they have for "EVE".

Ishilove:
But it is morally reprehensible and her deception destroyed a man's life. I have brothers and if this kind of thing happens to them, the world will not be big enough for the betrayer and I.

NB- the man did not commit suicide. The shock brought on a stroke which he never fully recovered from.

shock? I heard he was engaged and the said lady was already pregnant

Shokoloko:
1. Moyo was Ali's babe before meeting Tunde. This was open knowledge in the bank

2. Moyo and Tunde are BLACK AFRICAN YORUBA but the two children are FULANI WITH ARAB ANCESTRY. If Tunde is claiming he didn't know from day one then he is an slowpoke. A black yoruba couple CANNOT have mixed kids

3. The marriage survived 8 years: The daughter was 8 years when the marriage ended, meaning that Tunde married a pregnant Moyo.

4. Moyo left for the US in 2017.Tunde did not attempt to retrieve "his" fulani kids.

5. Tunde was engaged and his fiance was pregnant when he died. Apparently the guy wasn't looking to get back the kids.

My take is that Moyo and Tunde played a milking game on Mr. Nuru but Moyo ran away with Mr. Nuru's settlement

It was visible to the blind that those kids were not his. So why the fuss . If Tunde has already moved on by getting another lady pregnant ,why the uncessary hullabaloo?

Tangana:
keeping dead body for so long is not good na dat is why I love my people if u die today they buria u today

keep loving your people until you enter coma and wake up inside grave before they have a chance to detect you are still alive.

thebosstrevor1:
They must have fought and fought between themselves to get a date

That is why i love islam, We believe in God take and God give, you die today, we bury you tomorrow

I can't imagine how many coma patients have been murdered in islam .

SilverNorGold:
Congrats, man. But a boy would have been better. All the same, it's the will of God Almighty.

God bless us all.

I pity the unfortunate girls that will come through your loins. I don't want to imagine the level of misogyny they will have to put up with.smh.

DenreleDave:
With love I accept it...

Make una wey Mumu dey goo.. Make. I dey use Edo people catch cruise

It's not cruise you are catching, when person wey get pride match line come misyarn instead of am to admit e go wan use laugh cover am. Continue disgracing your ancestors on the internet ,you think you are doing me .



Let's not forget that in this very situation,mumu best describes you. It's very good you accepted the award ,we the good members of nairaland will be sending you your plaque for the most stupid nairalander of the year.

kingsavage:
edo girls and ashawo self.

Change that moniker of yours ,savage people require a certain level of intelligence and wit ,from your comment, you obviously lack both

DenreleDave:

Chai....
Edo people and fvck fvck 5 & 6.
Edo ladies and belle are like 5 and 6..chaiii

Edooooooo....
Ur Oba must be ashamed of you guys...


If we investigate them well.

Slawormiir will be responsible for 25 of them.

Gregyboy(Tao11's bitch) will be responsible for 54 of them...

Afam4eva will be responsible for 10 of them....

With utmost sincerity ,I want to award you the most stupid nairalander of year.


If you had only taken a second to read before rushing to spew trash from your rabies infested brain,you would have spared the rest of us this gory sight of dumbness you littered this thread with.


And by the way ,it's Benin republic, and even if it's Benin city, you have absolutely no reason to be this vile. For a fact you are not happy with your life.

Many people don't know "states and capital" on this thread

My belle o , my stomach hurts from laughing hard .


I am interested in climbing that stairs to study overseas

I like this kind of vanity.

Not all heros wear capes,some are named barrister Gorge of nairaland. .


Op your gf is indeed lucky to have you,most guys would have abandoned her,she is very fortunate.God bless your heart and God bless barrister Gorge. Amen!

InvertedHammer:
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I love it.

Thank you Jesus!

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, seems you like rough play alot.

yemi1504:
https://www.change.org/p/council-of-the-european-union-petition-for-the-government-of-the-uk-and-the-eu-to-place-a-travel-ban-on-nasir-el-rufai

You are welcome. That is the link above.

cool. Let the people decide.

Op where is the link to sign the petition? Atleast for people who are interested in signing too.

Yesterday my neighbors son was arrested at kings square for walking on the street in broad day light o. The police said he was too young to own an iphone after searching him for no reason,they took him to state CID and tagged him a fraudster, las las after his father threatened to bring lawyer ,they collected 5k and released the boy .so Op add that one.

Firstorderwizard:
Someone lived a fulfilled life and died happily at 94 and some foolish fools are shouting vanity
Are we this poor and wretched?

It's not wretchedness but bad belle that the average Nigerian has towards his fellow neighbor. Most of them talking don't even have parents that lived to 94 even with their so called non-vanity.As if Poverty has been able to earn them good health care

edoairways:
Which part of Benin city?

Aduwawa.

Iceyjayzz:
Why won't you rather be a baby mama to a old white man, when most of the Nigerian guys that dated you, used and dumped you.
it's only a white old man that will manage you, nah expired product you be.

I usually don't do this , but if you want to talk about people who marry old people , Nigerian guys take the lead in the entire west africa.Nigerian guys can even marry white ancestors who have one leg in the grave and marry their ghosts join sef.If you dig up white ancestors from the grave, Nigerian guys will be willing to marry their mummified bodies sef .


I believe the pictures below does justice to the point I am trying to pass across to you,so guy stop yarning dust.

Benin city, Total blackout atleast 24hrs in a week but when they decide to give us light , it's for 4hrs/ day.


From 4pm to 6pm then 12 midnight to 2 am . BEDC una go suffer 500 years for this injustice .

Rule number one to survive in Nigeria ,never trust any seller,not even satchet water seller.

Japan ; I have always been fascinated with those people

bukatyne:
Maybe she does not want to marry her best friend.

Or what shall we say?

I nor know for her o , let's hear from Chinkos99,don't you want to marry your best friend?

bukatyne:

abi na , marry your best friend they say ,now best friend don dey ask her for relationship she dey do any how.

Chinkos99:
Hey I didn't set him up
Just took him as a workmate/ bestie

bestie or potential. . Anyway,shey they always say "marry your best friend and marriage will be easy", well girl I think you are on the right track.congrats in advance.

People have been shouting "let's sell this country" , now litterally they have sold us to the Chinese but them nor share money reach Nigerians hand . I would have preferred if they sold Nigeria to Japan Sha .

Mindlog:
Yes, he didn't ask for it while the artist was aspiring to get some money from the art work which didn't meet Mr. Akin's standard and has every right to reject it, commissioned or not but our humanity do also beckons on us to convey our displeasure in such circumstance to encourage the artiste not by paying him for the work but constructively give a feedback that would fire him up to see his flaws and improve on his skill.

Now let's not also forget that the artist said and I quote

" please retweet if you like this art work"

and Mr Akin replied " I don't like it ".


To me that was a standard constructive reply. The "if you like it " and the " I don't like it " are very standard replies in English language.


On the other hand I can understand if you want the artist to be babyed and patronised for a bad job but there is nothing inhumane or mean about Mr Akin's reply. "I don't like it" is a feedback and a constructive one at that. If the artist is serious ,you probe further as to why he doesn't like it and get a complete feedback not whining and dishing out motivational quotes and parables. Dem say na who want something e hand dey long pass.Every means of living has its own hazard, just like people call their son's age mate sir at the office.


I am sure alot of people must have seen the art work before it got online, I just hope he does away with those people ,they are asslickers.

Mindlog:
A thank you would have been more appropriate and DM the artist over his not liking it rather than openly deflating his self-confidence.

thank you for something he didn't ask for? Na market wey person prize e go buy but in this case Mr Akin nor even smell market not to talk of to prize am .


Besides,even if Mr Akin asked the artist to draw him ,Mr Akin reserves the right to like it or not. If a customer not liking his art work will deflate his self confidence ,then the artist is not ready,a good artists will see it as a challenge to improve on his passion for a better delivery. That drawing in no way looks like Mr Akin even if you turn the drawing upside down e nor still resemble am .