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Ujuvals1:
My dear nairalanders Good evening.

I just want to pour out my heart here because i am suicidal and i am hoping God will comfort me and help me through.

The heart of man they say is desperately wicked and it just dawned on mw today.

I am a married woman with kids, my husband's business had crumbled over three years ago and i have been the one holding forth the home.

The country is so tough that for a man without capital for business or education, he may spend longer time trying to find his feet.

Things had been so rough for us over these years, i have been doing all jobs just to survive.I work in a small company that pay me monthly, the weekends i also wash and do menial jobs for people to support the home front.

My husband in turn takes care of our kid, do the chores and move around for anything he can lay his hands on but its been so tough.


In october a friend asked my husband to join him in business in the market that way he can find his feet.He talked to me abt it, we agreed i should take loan and i took loan of 250,000naira to enable him start business while i gradually work and pay it up monthly.

He has been going to work since october and sincerely things got better becauze with the funds he was able to do business and give me some money from the gain to support the house and also join in repaying the loan.
uyJust few days ago, the man whom they were working together said they should buy goods as usual to resell which they did, the man also encouraged other traders to buy too because his northern customers were coming to purchase them.

People bought and we were happy that after the sales our lives will get better, so the northerners came and the goods were sold.His friend was credited and when the man tried to transfer them the money but said network issue because the transfer wasnt going.

They went to the bank but it was on friday and time had gone so he said he would credit all traders that did the business togther their money that night, thats how this man went home and nobody knew he had plans.

By early morn my husband didnt sleep at night so he went to the man place in the morn to ask why the delay, he went there with other men too who wanted to collect their money.We got the shock of our lives.The man had travelled abroad with traders money and my husband's own inclusive.


We are really at a loss on what to do and i am frustrated as i cant explain why this hardluck had to fall on me.People say women dont support a struggling man but here i am supporting for over three years and this is how my christmas ended.

I am writing now in tears because i dont even know whatelse to do, the man literally left with the whole money.We have no dime on us, i dont know how we will survive, i have to keep repaying the loan for few more months and yet we have nothing to live on.

To be sincere my faith is really broken and shaken.i got this sad news immediately i got back from vigil where i went to dance and thank God for his love and faithfulness.

Where do we go from here with a little kid that has to survive, my office is very far and i spend about 1000 a day to and fro and with this situation now i dunno what to do.

Why are human beings so heartless, this is how this man travelled and wrecked many homes in a desperate bid to leave the country.


I dont know if people have any right words to calm me because i am shaken, i am depressed and frustrated.The burden is so much moreso in december when january is tougher and waiting.


How do we cope from here?Lord pls save me.I am shattered beyond words.

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What is the .name of the man that scammed you. If possible, post his pictures and phone number

Sorry dear, you married your enemy

MrsMathew:
Relocation Sales!!!�

1. 4x6 (Pickup from 20th DEC)
(strong) mattress and bed frame
N55,000 and N35,000
2. 8kg automatic Top Loader Hisense Washing
machine N50,000
3. L-Shape sofa with throw pillows and Centre
rug N75,000
4. TV Console N15,000 (Drawers Need Repairs)
5. Gas cooker with working oven (one burner is
bad) N15,000
6. Wooden Kids wardrobe N30,000
7. Decorative Console with flower vase N40,000
8. Fridge N50,000
9. Wall Canvas N8,000 for both
10. Water dispenser N15,000

Location: Idimu
Call/WhatsApp for more items and pictures
https:///send?phone=2348125998135

Prices are fixed
ALL ITEMS WILL BE AVAILABLE FOR PICKUP FROM 20th DEC

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That old fridge for 50000

Whao, a great man of God

Mariangeles:
Why don't you give other people the chance to receive as well ?

It's called covetousness .

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Eeyaaaa. Sorry

Mariangeles:
Before you give those out, I would advise you select from people that haven't received anything .
Let's spread the joy instead of giving it all to few people.

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Since you have given out your own Christmas gift, why don't you allow others to give to whoever they like

Nairaland guys Wont like this oo

So much going on between you guys here

Arent you guys tired of all these

dudusky007:
it hasn't been easy, most especially when ur in debt. 08148748631

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You are in debt or betnaija collected all your money

PuZZyNegro:
You're talking about the olden days and I'm sure your father's house and that of your maternal home are not too far from each other thus the reason it's possible for your mum to shuttle between the two places without much ado.

Depends on you though. Some men would gladly allow their wife to go and even ask them to stay longer just so they can flex themselves too.

Bro, use the opportunity to enjoy bacher life again

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Are you saying that he should start cheating on his wife

Whaooo

sassysure:
If the machine is 600 watts,it's the same machine u will use for the blender unless the blender has a different machine
If u want a blender that can pound yam with ease or grind your beans for moi moi etc and still lasts, get from 800w and above. The higher the w, the better and the costlier.

U will pay me for all these expo

My blender is 1300w, the food processor is 1500. I didn't even know all these things when buying them. Just bought from recommendations.

See Panasonic, Kenwood, usha(India, that's what I use as blender) are excellent and highly recommended from 800w. Panasonic is blast, up to 2300w but extremely expensive.

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Please how do you use your blender to pound yam...

Na omo onile own Lagos nah

Mrsabuh1:
thank you for your response , I met him while at school while he was graduating and I was entering the university, he helped out with my registration process and I just grew fond of him, he didnt ask me out at that time untill we met again on fb when I was in 300l , I discovered he was out of the country but he told me he was in Canada, we did lots of video calls through Skype and yahoo messenger and that was how the relationship started ,when I was preparing for my final year exam he visited the country and proposed ,after my exam and project defence his people came for my introduction on his behalf , I was meant to visit him after the introduction and also get some things for the wedding as plans are setting in place ,he called to informed me that his company had transferred him from Canada to their branch in Dubai ,he works in a shipping company even till date my mom still attach Canada to his name as a saved contact, when I went to UAE I went through his passport and didnt see any Canadian stamp and it was later I discovered that he had never been to Canada before but I forgave him for lying to me ... the first child was conceived during my nysc ,I already made arrangement for that but he said I need to go home and have the baby since its my first and also by the time in giving birth it ll b same period when I will ve to attend my passing out parade ,
second child was conceived when my first was 7months old and that period he lost his job so he was taking out the frustration on me , I was always visiting the hospital due to one complication or the other I suffered after he hit me for allowing a church member to visit me , he had made it plain that he doesnt accommodate friends ,when I reported to my parents my father told him to come home so I can b taken care off .
third pregnancy was during buhari regime when ban was imposed on some imported goods ,he was already into cargo and logisitics so business that year was bad I saw it and understood with him.after the third child he went and canceled our visa without informing me
the major problem was the issue of job ,I got one in abj and he said I'm not going to take his kids anywhere,my parents weren't having it and during the meetings with my parents he asked me to stay behind and not follow him back home because my father I shld take the job and leave the marriage ,after a while I gave up the job because I was missing my children ,I wasn't allow to take them and even my parents said I shldnt bring his children to their house let him be responsible for them ..it was after we settled that he opened a tailoring shop for me and then the issue of UK came in ..

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Just look at how your husband has been wasting your future, he doesn't want you to be successful in life

Your father already told you to go for the Abuja job and leave your kids, you refused. ......... So what happened finally?? No Abuja job, deserted the kids, no husband

This is exactly what happens when you put all your hope in a man

Whao

Thank goodness someone came out to tell us what exactly is going on in the paid class

lilyheaven:
Start buying cheap things .
Buy
White garri, it is cheaper,
Don't cook egusi soup, egusi is costly,
Buy rotten tomatoes, fresh strong ones are costly,
Buy white beans,
Don't buy tissue paper, he can use water to clean after use.

If you want to learn more, ask me.

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So what should we do about it

But some girls are so stupid. ... Recording a sextape with a guy

kayzat:
I followed my guy to chase his promiscuous girlfriend away from his apartment. I was busy packing her load and the girl said she need to have a word with my guy outside they came back kissing and smooching. The babe colonized the idiot for a whole week and he only show up after a week.

Very very embarrassing

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Mugu things

Haaaaaa

A lot of money gone down the drain

SensualMan1:
Nobody here is a kid love. We understand ur mind games and won't fall for it.

I've gotten Information from greatresearcher that u r already pregnant. And both of u went for the test.

In all u do, do not abort that baby. You told ur husband to stay offline at the moment so u can come online to clear the mess. Reason ur hubby said he was leaving NL and then u showed up commenting.

Are we kids?

I wish u a fruitful 9 months pregnancy as u embark on this journey of being a mother.
Both of u should keep to terms of agreement please.

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Even calling her husband(father of her unborn child) bipolar,insane kikikiki

Whaooooo ..... This is highly commendable


There is no shortcut to success.... Classylady not some lowlife exchanging their child for a shopping complex

Mtcheeeeeew

kelechiodo:
Hahaha, that was how I dealt with one of my neighbours. He was fond of saying that what I bought was on the high side so I started lying to him concerning the price by reducing the price. One day I bought a rechargeable standing fine at 18000 and when he saw it and asked, but I I told him that I bought it 5000. The idiot still said "guy it cost oh". I merely ignored him not knowing that he was interested in buying such. The next day, he went to ogbete market and started wandering in the entire market looking for 5000 rechargeable standing fan. He would call me to direct him and I would gave him a vague direction. He later came back late in the evening and implored me to take his 5000 and help buy the stuff. I refused and redirected him, the next day, he took off again for the market and continue his wandering. He later demanded for the receipt in order to get the correct address but I merely told him that I left the shop without collecting any receipt.
When it happened to him the next time I bought generator, he stopped asking me such foolish question.

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I swear guy you are so funny

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