₦airaland Forum

Aadegal:
Goodmorning please I need help, my daughter stomach cord has not yet dropped. I was using spirit but mil started using medicated powder and cotton wool to wrap it. Help its 6days now and it has not dropped.

Frozenelsa:
Thank you mama. I have actually been looking for it, most baby shops and pharmacies around me don't have.

Stmema:
Well, he goes to crèche till about 5/6 when we get home n he changes his Diaper around 1/2 only if he didn't poo... All brands I've tried in terms of Diaper has failed me due to leaking ranging from molfix to huggues to asda little angel, then one Chinese one like that that's written in Chinese..Next time I go, I'll ask for the blue little angel, maybe that one won't leak.... Who knows if its not the plenty Diaper that's causing the rash.....when the tribotan clears the rash, it leaves mark, now his bumbum is full of patches of colors like the chest... That's y I'm reasoning sudocreme.... If u have recommendations for Diaper that doesn't leak, it would be appreciated greatly so I can buy all when I go out tmr... Thank you ma

Frozenelsa:
Mamas please, my 3months old baby's body is not smooth atall. He has been having series of rashes, I used tribotan and discovered that when the rashes clear off it leaves yellow or red spots and they are everywhere. He is very fair and this makes the skin looks bad. pls, what can I use to make it clear off and leave his skin without blemish, soap, cream, powder......anything please

amorprincesa:
Permit me to laugh you worry too much! Am sure those oversabi women haff started telling you how they will call their 3months old and the baby will answer, yes ma!

jazzyjazz:
Which one be teething soap again? Please let's not do what we will regret o!

TEETHING IS NOT A DISEASE!!!

If your baby is teething, there are countless affordable teething rings and mittens in the market, get a few, your kid will love it. Please their liver and kidney are too young for all these deadly medications. Please oooooo

LEAVE YOUR KIDS TO TEETH IN PEACE PLEASE!!!

The soap is not to be consumed please. Do not misquote me. I don't sell so I have no reason advertising it to anyone. I only shared what I use for essence and I'm not forcing it on anyone please..

TEETHING IS NOT A DISEASE!!!

helen4:
please ma, do you know the name of the soap. My MIL can get it for us. Thanks maami.

stupidity:
My grandma (grew up with her) was like this too. She quarreled with one of her neighbor three days straight. Will leave to school in the morning and still come back to meet her throwin jabs at the woman. Worse part is, when I begin Dey happy say she don Dey calm down after about two to three hours silence from both sides. Granny will hurriedly leave what she was doing and go throw one deadly punchline the other woman go vex retaliate. They don resume quarrel be that.


She once called me(while in JSS3) to stand in front of my dad and uncle and told them to ask me why my penls is bigger than my age. That I have started doing things. Lol


She’ll tell you some of her firewood is missing, that you aided one of her neighbors (sworn enemy) in stealing them, then she will go knock on that neighbors gate and warn her to stop using her son ( me ) to steal her firewood. Asin I was tired mehn.


Las las when she died, I didn’t know if I should be crying or start jubilating.

She was a definition of trouble.

stupidity:
My grandma (grew up with her) was like this too. She quarreled with one of her neighbor three days straight. Will leave to school in the morning and still come back to meet her throwin jabs at the woman. Worse part is, when I begin Dey happy say she don Dey calm down after about two to three hours silence from both sides. Granny will hurriedly leave what she was doing and go throw one deadly punchline the other woman go vex retaliate. They don resume quarrel be that.


She once called me(while in JSS3) to stand in front of my dad and uncle and told them to ask me why my penls is bigger than my age. That I have started doing things. Lol


She’ll tell you some of her firewood is missing, that you aided one of her neighbors (sworn enemy) in stealing them, then she will go knock on that neighbors gate and warn her to stop using her son ( me ) to steal her firewood. Asin I was tired mehn.


Las las when she died, I didn’t know if I should be crying or start jubilating.

She was a definition of trouble.

davenaija:
Men learn from their fathers, one way or the other, an absentee father or an abusive father. Men desiring to enter marriages must unlearn all they took from their dads, process it and choose and decide their own paths and not repeat their father's lifestyle in their marriages.

Samshumy:
Well to me, a man is not supposed to do all those things. If the chores are too much, the wife can get a maid

EkoErrands:
Madam I read your long post because I got married just this December and when they say every marriage has its own peculiar problem ...it's true. The difficulties I encountered in my marriage made me become more religious than b4, it made me use my last money to buy home theater just so that I can do praise and worship. Mind you my wife is abroad o!

The truth of the matter is that Your husband is only the head of the family physically...spiritually he is lost. I want to bet my last dollar that you two don't pray together. Your husband doesn't lead his family in prayer.

There is this change of character that comes with when a person is close to God. Take for example your husband is all you have just said. Do you think he will make those statements if he calls you every night to kneel down for him to pray for the family? I'm sure in such prayer he will ask God to bless the family, he will ask God to strengthen his wife, he will ask God to protect his wife and kids, he will ask God to provide and bless his hand work. He will not argue or fight with you again becos God is all that matters to him.

When I got married my wife thought I will start competing with her in arguments and superiority, I told her I can never compete with my wife ...shes my partner not my competitor. Have you watched Formular 1 race? For example Mercedes Benz usually have 2 drivers running. They are not competing against eachother....they are complementing eachother.

We all come from different backgrounds and don't expect us to be perfect...but one thing I know is if you are close to God.....it changes you and brings you closer to perfection.

Your husband needs to find peace with Jesus ...he's utterances will change and his attentiveness to your predicament will awaken. He will go out of his way to see that his lovely wife is not stressed out. He will call you midday just to ask if you have eaten something. The only things that will be valuable to him will become God and his family. He will help his wife at home becos he doesn't want you to suffer. He will become selfless. He will call you sometimes, bow your head and pray for you.

A lady friend once told me that sometimes she wakes up at night and puts her head on her husband's chest and speak prayer into him...that he will succeed, that God should bless her husband....God should protect her husband. Do you pray for your husband? So he will even see that his wife is supporting him with prayer. If my wife can pray for me ...i will move mountain the next morning.

What am I saying since? Marriage is team work not a competition in argument or who's right or wrong.

And until your husband finds Jesus and establish an intimate relationship with God...you will continue to have these problems becos there will be nothing to caution his utterances and actions.

As for you, my advice is hold his hands and pray for him at night when he is sleeping. When he sees you praying for him he will rethink he's attitude towards you in the morning and forever. The words of your prayer will reveal to him that you are his partner and not his competitor. Pray, fast, for him. Let him know it's for him. Unless you married a terrorist ...he will change before your eyes.

angeltolly:
No vex say I put mouth for this matter o, its only your imagination and am sure your baby might still not show any discomfort if you don't use the soap. But am not sure soap is harmful after all, its for external use, even if it doesn't work

helen4:
Please mommas kindly share your baby's teething experience as am a ftm and I am clueless right now. DD has being showing signs of teething but hospital is saying infection(trace), malaria(+1) and fever. Please help

Dasugaboi:
Good day Mothers in the house, am an ardent follower of this thread as a father and I must say I have learnt a lot from every contributions here since the arrival of my DD.
Please she is 14months old now and has been stooling ( 4times a day or at d end of every meal except when breastfed)for the past 2days with the presence of green mucus and a little blood(watery). She still eats and play well. No fever ,No vomitting.
Few changes made in her diet:
We changed her milk / formula at the beginning of last week from Lactogen 2 to Nan 3 as Lactogen was not available ( just thinking : could dis could be d cause) ?
Fed her AS Nutty meal 3 times dis week for the first time since she started eating solid.

Could d few changes be d cause? Or could it be something else?

Please take her to the hospital. Green stool with blood?

nkowalo:
this man is a big fool. when I was in labour, I become a prophetess u need to see d way I was asking God to have mercy on my soul. I taught the end has come

delugajackson:
The Nigerian government has failed her. The Nigerian government has failed millions of citizens out there. Can I boldly say that I'm proud of being a Nigerian? No.

My only prayer is that she makes it to heaven. You cannot suffer and die in this country and still go to hell fire. It's not fair. There will be serious problems on judgement day because plenty Nigerians no go gree.

comtem2011:
Sitting unaided@ 3 months? When the neck is not yet stable self.

Preshy561:
Lifeless man.
You will soon lose that job and go back to square one.
Ungrateful gold digger, you have seen a lady outside and you think the one you have isn't slaying enough for you.

I will continue to say this, don't ever date a broke guy, you don't know what they will become once they start seeing money.
Then, trying to help him financially is the worst mistake you will ever make Because, when the money starts coming, you will look outdated to him and he will then think that he needs slay queens in his life.
This is one of the reasons some of you will forever die poor, especially the gold digging idiots supporting him.


My dear,its so sad and I pity the young lady who unknown to her has been involved with an ingrate and a first class gold digger. This is one of the reasons some ladies behave wild to men, especially the broke ass because they end up blaming you for lifting them out of poverty.

Ndi eriri eri.

Toopee:
Good day mamas, just had my baby this afternoon and my breast is not lactating at all plus my nipples are inverted. What do I do pls?

tatacherie:
Wow that's great!
Its obvious every child with his own growing pace
My dd clocked 7 months 2 days ago but she's yet to sit unaided. Still guiding her through, I'll only raise alarm when all efforts seems futile

Rbae:
Hello mama's.

I've started lactating and my baby sucked for an hour per feed. He sucked my breast like his feeding bottle tit . I have bruised nipples already (on day 1). Please, what can I apply on d nipple. I cry as he sucks cos its painful ehn.

Djbond:
It was supposed to be on either 6th or 7th last month but was missed so we decided to do pregnancy strip test at home and it showed positive. So we went to buy postinor 2 tablets, all still no avail. So we're thinking of abortion cos there isn't plan to have another child for now. She called a nurse friend of hers to ask about what she can do.

The nurse said, she's going to give her an injection and some drugs and it costs 3k and that after that, the period will come. But I'm suggesting that we go for d and c but she's complaining for the pain she's going to bear after d and c plus it's too risky. Please house, what's your advice on this. Is the injection efficient and is it advisable?

Also, what is the normal cost of d and c

Please, candid and polite advice

helen4:
Good day wonderful mamas. Please I need guidance, my three months old baby started producing lots of saliva and she's always putting her fingers as well as fist in her mouth. At time she inserts the two fists. People said it's teething.
Is this true?
Can I start using teething drugs for her this early?
Please what will drug will you recommend if yes to the above question. Please no waka pass oooo sabi mamas.

julieeni:
Good morning mothers/mothers to be, I woke up this morning with serious body pain...My LO is a year and 4months but he will not give me breathing space except when he’s asleep and to sleep again na problem, I must sing all the songs I know, then just when I think he has slept to lie him down, sir chief will open his eye like torch... He follows me everywhere crying, I only bathe and poo when he’s asleep, to wee sef na problem, I carry him when I’m doing chores, I cant leave him behind even when I go shopping. I’ve lost so much weight, I look pale and unkept, my hair doesn’t last cos oga will drag everything out and he is not walking yet. Pls the attachment is too much I need solution before I break all my bones.

Will you pay attention and stop this victim mentality. It is either you will take advise, since you brought this matter to the court of public opinion, or you will narrate your experience, believe your wife is the worst woman and conclude that you are leaving a marriage. You are sounding emotional and your feedback system has totally clouded your judgment.

Pay attention:
Being a husband is a full-time job. Just like any job, it comes with serious responsibilities and repercussions if you fail to understand how the game is played.

1. It is your responsibility to get the money, pay the rent, pay kids school fees. You are the chief medical officer of your home, so everyone's health including your wife's and kids', are under your care.

2. You are the chief security officer of your home, you must check that all doors are locked at night and ensure the safety of everyone in the family.

3. You are the chief romance officer, you must master how to play women with sweet words, give her massage every evening, and make sweet love to her during the massage sessions, and I mean this. Get a massage table, it goes for about 180K to 300K for a good one. If you cant afford that, then buy massage mat. Prepare the oil and get some candles.

4. You must join her in the kitchen, even if there is a maid to do the chores and help her out, you must learn this. Wash those plates sometimes.

5. You must lie down with that woman on bed after sex, hold her face, and tell her truths and lies of how you love her. Then if you have nothing more to do, do some gossiping with her. Stroke her nicely and tell her how hard you are working to ensure your family is financial stable for the next 100 years.

6. You must stop thinking like your ancestors. Define your own path and ignore customary and traditional ways of running your home. Times have changed. Why wont you fetch water and wash your own hand. Seems she is the one doing all the kitchen work and you are the African man waiting to be served. It is not mandatory, besides do you know if her mother used to serve her father that way? It might be she got a different kind of training.

7. Do not ever think you have done enough, cos you havent done jack. If you feel that your wife is cheating, then rent a place somewhere else and move towards a different location. It does not matter if you own the house you are living now. Go and rent someplace nice for a year and move there and change your children's school so as to forget the shame and embarrassment your quarrel may have caused. If it is your house, you can return back after a year.

8. Always remember that most women are like babies. You must master how to lie to them if you know that truth will hurt. Learn all those skills from yahoo boys how they control white women and use it for your marriage. If you do it right, your wife might be giving you pocket money sometimes and you all will fall in love again.

Do you think your wife is bad? You have no idea. No one will tell you what is going on in their homes.

Master how to manipulate women, and you will control them like a intimacy gadget.

Linda2019:
Good day mothers pls my baby is 5months both has started standing with style and can turn very fast but d problem is dat he doesnt want to crawl instead he loves crawling backwards instead of to d front most times wen he wakes up on d bed he would start movie backwards fast o sometimes he might even fall off and wake us up from our sleep with his tears i even use pillow to block him but i dont know how he would just push it out with his legs while moving infact ehn i dont know if its my fault for always lying him down on his tummy right from 2months now i am worried dont know if dis would make him nt to crawl in d normal way

helen4:
Thanks momma once again. She's doing great took her to hospital and was examined( no test, just physical examination) and the doc said it's food poisoning (roll eyes)which to me is impossible because am watchful of everything and everyone around. Last last sha, he prescribed zinc, ors and flaggyl syrup. It is well, don't know nursing a baby is this strenuous (sighs). Thanks sis for checking on us.