₦airaland Forum

pansophist:
Enjoy my guy, But I use God's name to beg you, live uprightly. I know say to live rough de sweet and come easy, but as someone wey don live for the west for almost half of my life, I be like that old dog wey see as young puppy wey dem just recruit go just dey bark and vibrate, until they shoot am. He think say we wey stay calm no sharp, say we no get sense, but na empty can de make the loudest noise, and the first to be silenced

1. Avoid debt. To me, it's the next thing to slavery. You are a slave to whoever you owe. So don't go and collect money from banks because they advertise cheap loans give you, or go collect cars and phones on credit. Don't tie your life as a wage slave just because you want to ball and oppress people, you don't need that. The desire to pepper others usually comes from a place of ego, low self-esteem, and foolishness. So don't go and enslave yourself to jobs to pay monthly debt just to pepper people who don't give a shit about you, and will rather envy instead of celebrating you.

2. You see woman, run. Unless she is a good one, then stick to her for the long term. Sex is the cheapest thing in the west, especially in America, the headquarters of porn and all kinds of degradation, caging young people who can't control themselves. The US is not like Naija where you ejaculate and evacuate. If she is pregnant, then you go pay tired. I know one fine Naija guy, yellow like Ramsey Noah, get three baby mamas, and effectively a slave in my book. What's the point where you cant see your salary because it has been shared with all your baby mamas? you don't need that kind of slavery, my bro.

3. Focus, focus, focus. The west is a place that reveals yourself to you. If you are lazy, you will know. It's an epiphany really, and that realization is not a good one. Nigeria does one thing to lazy folks, and it is that it prevents you from knowing who you are, since the system is so bad and creates a lot of obstacles on your path. But in the west, even if you are broke like a broken bottle, you will earn if you ain't lazy. So man up, or woman up if you do ever transgender, but focus. Know why you are there, and work towards it. You won't be younger, stronger, and youthful than now, so don't waste it.

4. Lastly and most importantly, don't forget your parents, unless they were not there for you when you are young. Take care of them, don't joke with their affairs, and let them be happy that they trained a good son. This is coming from a place of love, so please please, be responsible. May God bless you, it shall be well with you dear comrade, in Jesus' name, Amen.

Jubal01:
Thank you all. I'm very humbled honestly.
for those asking about the pay, it's not much o! Just #110k.
about the experience, i have been teaching since 2011. It was just last year that i resigned to take care of my ailing parents. I remember asking for help here but many people ridiculed me and called me a fake arse. Thank God both of them are hale and hearty now and they both blessed me 4 all my sacrifices towards them.
My advice, if u have the opportunity to offer help to someone on nairaland, pls do it. Not all pple here are faking it. I will do my own giveaway when i get my first full salary to the first 5 people that will quote this my comment. IT'S A PROMISE.

Francis609:
My mum have never liked my wife to the extend of wishing her death when she lost our first baby and I had disowned her for saying that. So far we haven't had any contact since the incident and we are finally proud parents of twins boy and girl born in February. My stepmother have been here for us since day 1 she is in my house taking care of my wife and babies , my mum called saying that she want to come over and take care of my wife and kids and will be spending a month . I lied to her that my wife is with her sister and will let her know when she is back to the house so she can come over. To be Frank I don't want her near my wife because she doesn't likes her and I don't think she have any good plan for us. Did I do the right thing for lying to her my wife is not around or should I give her the chance to come over and see if she have truly change?

Please If you want to understand the full story go through my old threads

Saintmary:
Wow. This story is too familiar.

I still place the fault at the feet of Alhaji.

If you're a polygamous person, don't wait until old age before putting your affairs in order.

And if you cannot trust your father's discretion, or you're in a polygamous setting, or you don't know how many kids your dad has fathered outside, don't wait for his properties. Travel far and make your own life there. Staying close will bring painful memories and distract your plans.

Romanoff:
The best person to counsel her is an older woman who isn't her parent.

Nigerian women have dealt with Nigerian men the way they are, as unrefined and undeveloped in some areas.

There will be more trouble if his wife's busines fails due to poor financial management and since he invested in the business, e no go funny. Her being too emotional might contribute to her business failing and to me o, unless on grounds of infidelity or domestic abuse, you should not leave your matrimonial home.

The wife obviously misunderstood the husband when he said he didn't want to use his eyes to see her.

sreamsense:
The problem with contemporary young generation is that many of you were born into your families when morality vacated your family homes. Being strict is different from being wicked, he is discipling you as his own children so your future can be better, you are here ranting he is wicked.

Many of you just like places you will not be tamed so that you can do whatever you want like forming cult groups on campus, turning campus to Olosho house. If he is not strict and people still allow to do whatever they like, these spoilt rats will still come back here to complain and cast aspersions if any bad thing goes wrong with the school. Go to Catholic schools and see descipline, you these spoilt rats.

Your fathers get money, but lack morality, so when your fathers finally dumb you into CU as correctional center, you begin to misunderstand 'strictness' to ' wickedness' because your fathers failed to even show you '101' of moralities before you left for school because your families lack moralities in the first place. If you like to become wayward and hates descipline, no need of going there, go to federal and state universities and do what you like. Judas Iscariots!

Somebody is sweating to make you great, you call it wickedness! Spoilt rats! Go to volatile areas in North and ask for the meaning of wickedness!

threegees:
@adet991 @Dbryan @Annybens1993 @tabithaola
How far, moms.
My mind is with you o.
Hope all is well?

divanita:
B.A! B.A!!

Gave birth to my Prince charming yesterday

EDD 13/10
DOB 26/10
Weight 3.3kg

Vaginal delivery with little tear

B.S coming soon....

divanita:
Cappo! I'm still here o. Now in my 41 wks 4days, no labour pains yet

adet991:
Good evening sabi mamas, please I want to know how long it takes if some one is induced to kick start labor. As I'm past all my EDD and my doctor said if there's no sign of labor on tuesday,he'll have to induce me. I'm scared already because of the pain but I'll like to know how long it will take,so I can brazen up

princessKF:
Thanks mama... your testimony is near.

princessKF:
Birth Story!
Year 2020 for me is suppose to be a year of slaying, pregnancy was not part of my vision... fast forward to February after valentine i remembered that i have not seen my period but i thought it was because of stress since pregnancy was the last thing on my mind.

One week later, period refuse to come so i did a pregnancy test and it came out positive.... i had a kind of mixed feelings but i later left everything to God.

First trimester came with it's own package but it wasn't as bad as i thought it was going to be. Second trimester was so sweet....

I started having false labour on October first, i went to the hospital and i was 2cm dilated so i was sent home to come back on my next appointment... I got checked again and still 2cm. I kept having contractions but was stuck at 2cm. On Sunday night i decided to come and stay in hospital because i don't want to risk giving birth at home since i was expecting a big baby. Doctor kept checking and no improvement so he decided that he was going to ripen my cervix and that was scheduled for Tuesday night.

Fortunately doctor was so busy that we couldn't do it, on Wednesday i got checked again and was 4cm-5cm dilated so he started passed the drip and that was how the drama started. Contractions were hitting backing to back and thank God the process was successful. At exactly 6pm, i pushed out my baby with the help of vacuum and he gave out a loud cry. He was cleaned and my tear was also stitched.

To God be the glory mother and baby are doing fine.

I wish all the waddling mummies a safe delivery and may God give all TTC women their own testimony.

cc cappo threegees
Welcome cutie

princessKF:
Birth Alert
My prince arrived around 6pm today weighing 3.75kg via VD

safe delivery to the remaining mamas.
cc cappo threegees.

Ewaifeoluwa:
Birth Alert
My blue jet arrived this morning
EDD:Oct 25 DOB:Oct 9
Safe delivery to the remaining October mamas
Note: Cappo @threegees

Modupetemmy1:
make una come help me chook mouth ooo, I have been having series of unexplainable pain since yesterday though EDD stating 2/10, 4/10 & 10/10, so this evening I decide to visit the primary health center close to my house( not where I registered) and lodge a complain though I didn't see any show or water , so the midwife asked me to get a glove for examination of which I did, she checked me vaginally and confirmed I am 2cm already.
so when she wanted to check the foetal heartbeat she told me bluntly that the baby is lying breech of which is true from my last ultrasound scan,
now this is my question
1. should I head to the hospital tonight or wait till tomorrow
2. can the baby be delivered VD or I should just prepare my mind for CS

Tessicatess:
BS BS BS!!!!!!

It’s going to be a long read, so grab a drink and popcorn let’s roll..

Prepregnancy Journey!!

After our wedding last year, I took in almost immediately. It was a beautiful surprise and I went about my business as usual. My office is on the second floor so I run up and down the stairs care-freely, within me I’ll always say I’m pregnant not disabled. It was my first pregnancy so I knew nothing about the do’s and dont’s In pregnancy.

Fast forward to mid June, I started noticing little drops of blood and when I Googled, I read it’s normal in some early pregnancies so I shoved it off (I regret doing that deep down). Late June my tummy started paining me, DH and I rushed to the hospital and after the scan, the doctor said it was threatened abortion and prescribed BED REST!!!!
I left the hospital and went to work, it’s my office so I said I’ll just go lye there. Not too long after I got to the office, the pain became intense and I called DH to come pick me up.
I could barely lift myself so I was carried straight to the hospital. Long and short I lost the pregnancy!!! Oh how I never stopped blaming myself. I blamed it on the pineapples, the stairs, my over dependence on google etc.

We began trying to conceive again. Unlike the first, I was so looking forward to a missed period. The doctor advised I could take folic acid that it helps to conceive. My mamas in the house, could you believe I mistakenly swapped my folic acid with my white vitamins C
Like I always used juice to take every single one of vit C thinking it was folic acid till December!!!
I have a very strong phobia for drugs so I use fruit drinks as a support system( don’t mind me)

Fast forward to December after I saw my period yet again, I went to the doctor and she gave us CHLOMID drug and told us to take it during my ovulation days. Unfortunately DH was to travel on the day 2 of my ovulation so we backtracked the drugs. I practically gave up within me and said we’ll try the coming month. To the Glory of God I took in still and the rest is history.

Last trimester

I started having fluctuating BP here and there. On Monday 14th Sept. i went for my usual ANC and my BP read 142/85. The nurse insisted I see a doctor. The doctor asked me to run series of tests and scan. The scan said the fluid is inadequate though not completely low. The doctor looked at me and said Madam, you’ll be induced tomorrow. Go bring your bag. Oh my whole self crashed within immediately. I cried and called DH to come to the hospital and hear what the doctors are saying.

He came and immediately did the blood donation thing. I was admitted on Tuesday and around 8pm the catheter was inserted ( that pain is not of this world) on Wednesday evening it was removed and the doctor said I was 4cm!!
I was like okay we’re making progress!! Wednesday night through Thursday contractions set in. First it wasn’t consistent, then it became 5mins apart. I just can’t explain that pain.
I was in labour from from then till Friday morning after much pleas to the nurses to come check me.

On Friday morning the doctor came, checked again and said I was still 4cm. They where now almost proceeding to administering oxytocin when all of a sudden they stopped and decided to check on Fetal Heart beat. They weren’t getting the required number I figured. Three other doctors came and rechecked, they said same thing as well. Immediately I was told I’ll be wheeled to the theater. According to the doctor, if they keep waiting for labour to progress, my baby wouldn’t survive it.

Long story short, my baby came out so weak and was given oxygen. Asides that she is In perfect condition. God saved us and I’m most grateful.

The sutured part is bringing out liquid after I removed the plaster and that has been my worry.
I was told to keep cleaning with spirit but I think I’ll be going back tomorrow for proper check up.

Sorry for the long story, cappo @ threegees
Bs submitted. Safe delivery to all mamas!!

SapphirePRINCEX:
I don port o,
Welcomed my prince charming
21st Sept weighing 3.5kg.
No tears

Bs coming later.

threegees:
BUMPY TUESDAY

We hit 37 weeks today. If I say I'm not tired ehn, issa big lie. Eagerly waiting for baby's arrival like rapture
I'm not a FTM o, yet I can't identify or differentiate between baby's movements and Braxton Hicks Contractions. _{I'm shaming}
Been eating lots of pineapples, pawpaw and oranges lately, though. Hoping they help

Team October, hope we're ready?
Thank God for those who have ported so far.
Healthy and sound babies, strong and happy moms, and elated dads and siblings. That's how our stories shall be in Jesus name.

threegees:
Team October 2020

Here's announcing the arrival of Baby @Engraced247
Congratulations and quick recovery to you, Mommy.
Welcome darling son.
If only you people know how this perfect porting is sweeting me

Name EDD Gender

1. threegees....... 06/10...... XX
2. Annaseyi.......... 22/10..... Unknown
3. Pearl05............. 16/10..... XX
4. bukit05............. 07/10...... XY✓ 20/08
5. Soulmate19..... 14/10....... XX
6. Ewaifeoluwa..... 25/10...... XY
7. divanita............. 23/10...... XY
8. ojantelle............ 23/10...... Unknown
9. adet991............. 11/10...... XY
10. mayysen............ 27/10...... XX ✓ 05/09
11. Tessicatess...... 02/10....... XX
12. Mumsyfife......... 23/10...... XY
13. Teddynne.......... 10/10...... XY
14. Deolaw.............. 09/10...... XY
15. Engraced247.... 07/10...... XY ✓ 07/09
16. serendipityF...... 19/10..... XY
17. missmalachi...... 25/10...twin.... Unknown
18. Modupetemmy1.. 02/10..... XY
19. P4perissos...........23/10..... Unknown
20. SapphirePRINCEX... 06/10...XY
21. suilois................ 18/10...... Unknown
22. Ogojagirl............ 20/10......XX
23. Annybens1993.......19/10.......XY
24. Sammybabelious....... 22/10.....Unknown
25. Dbryan.................25/10........Unknown
26. ayommyjay..........17/10..…....XY
27. princessKF..........23/10.........XY
28. tabithaola............23/10.........XY
29. Amazingift01......04/10.......... Unknown
30. Mopelola456......30/10........... Unknown

#SupernaturalDelivery
#NoLossNoComplications

suilois:
I'm so sorry for the late response.. I've not been online. I got it 15k..here's the picture