₦airaland Forum

densiks:
Why wasn't she rushed to another hospital if they experienced rejection on arrival.

I was once a victim of an attack on the road in 1998 and my father rushed me to a private hospital.

I can recall the doctor was making some demands before he could commence treatment while I was losing blood.

My father quickly rushed me to another facility and from there an emergency doctor was summoned and the hospital services were activated to attend to me.

I survived that experience because we did not allow the system to decide my fate.

I believe if she was immediately rushed to a private facility, she possibly could have survived.
May her soul rest in Peace, several people failed her.

Puss360:
It's even better let the woman seeking help says "She's ready to trade with sex" to get what she wants.. then we can conclude that she is desperate...
But on what grounds should a man demand sex before help?
So it’s only women who can propose sex for money, which invariably justifies the sex for money motion but this time only a woman can make that proposal in your own word.
If the man doesn't want to assist freely then he can make her sign an agreement...
But resorting to sex!!! It's a big NO
What if that’s the only tradable option on the table, consider this situation.
Let’s say a guy has been wooing this girl for long, but she Dey do Yanga for the guy and she is collecting money from the guy. So one day guy wised up and she need money ask mr guy for money and he decline but this time he ask her for sex in exchange for the money. Obviously given her the money is not the problem for the guy, he just want to go down with her and she desperately needed the money. Do you think the guy will want a written agreement?

Smalleyshortshy:
I need a male fuckmate

(A smoker pls) from 25yrs/31yrs) I reside at

Ojodu berger side (08123052812

Only serious mind pls

StylesX:
…I lost it again and this time we had passionate sex…
Yinmu for You!!!
what do I do?
Loose Your Brain just exactly the way you loose it to have sex with your old crush and transfer all your money into some random bank account, then go slap one soldier in front of barrack, You welcome!!!

Nairaland1stson:
I have suspicion that someone wants to use my account to launder money.
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What are your thoughts? Should I refund the money immediately, if I will, what are the measures to be taken to ensure I am on a safe side

KGBKremlin:
Ukraine is winning terms spotted

Kí Ọlọhun má fi iṣọ̀ rẹ ṣọ̀ wá nígbà gbogbo, kí ó lawa lọ́wọ́ ogún àwọn afipa jaye, kí a a pàdé àwọn ẹni burúkú, kí àlá burú ènìyàn má pàdé wa, àmín!

Hayzed203:
I broke up with my girlfriend about 3months ago and I still struggle to convince myself that I did the right thing and I believe this is affecting me in the process of trying to move on and meeting new people. We both live abroad and you don't meet a lot of Nigerians easily around here.

Who has experienced this before and what are your thoughts please?

Fahvvy:
There's a thread that was created a couple of days ago here on romanceland. The topic of that thread was "Why most Nigerian men fear single mothers...." ...

In that thread, the OP (and many folks) tried to paint the picture that men who don't want single mothers, don't want them simply because they're "afraid" and that, that decision is stemmed from a place of "insecurity" in the man, lol ...

https://www.nairaland.com/7857064/why-most-nigerian-men-fear#126060337


When I went through the thread, I couldn't help but cringe at how narrow minded the comments of lots of folks here were ...

One thing that lots of women (and sadly si.mps) still don't understand is that men too have standards just as women do and if a man is to take you seriously, then you must meet those standards ...


It is precisely because lots of women don't understand this that they go about with their very foul attitude and archaic mindset, thinking that they're the best thing after sliced bread ...

They go about with the believe that they don't have to self improve and any man should consider himself lucky to have their "liabilitically" entitled baggaged filled a.ss in his life, lol ...

No wonder men keep using them and disposing of them like used tissue once they're done ...


Lemme paint y'all a picture...
If a female says she wants a man who earns 500k per month ... It doesn't necessarily mean that she hates men who earn less than that amount or that men who earn less than that amount aren't worthy of being loved ...

It simply means men who don't meet that criteria (of earning 500k) are not good enough FOR HER (please note the emphasis) ...

Those men could be good enough for someone else, but not FOR HER ...


Now, let me state it categorically here that, MEN HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING AGAINST SINGLE MOTHERS ...

Single mothers are humans just like any other females out there and they deserve to be loved just as any other female ...

HOWEVER, females should understand that singles mothers (and girls with high body counts) are a HUGE TURN OFF for MOST MEN out there ...

In the dating scale of preference of most men, single mothers would fall at the bottom as compared to other females their age who don't have kids ...


This doesn't mean that men "hate" them or that men are "afraid" of them, it simply means you're not most men's spec shikinah ...

There's no insecurity anywhere ...
There's no "fear" anywhere ...
You're just not desirable to lots of men, period! ...


Now, are they men who have no qualms being with single mothers? YES! But an overwhelming number of men don't want you because you're not good enough FOR THEM, so your best bet is to go for the men who do want you ...

And I would wish that you and every other member of the society would understand this and stop painting the standards of men in a bad light by tagging it as "fear" or "insecurity" ...

Thankiooo ...

Berrityga:
Most girls I fuccccck squirt cause of my long diiiiccccck and the fact I last long.

Lukgaf:
Why are you introducing an act of worship after the Messenger has already said: "This day I have perfected for you your religion and completed My favor upon you and have approved for you Islam as a religion." - [Surah Al-Ma'idah | Ayah 3], meaning that Islam is complete. When did you start receiving revelations from Allah?
How is this pertinent to Maulud Please?
I will conclude with the hadith of the Prophet: “Leave that which makes you doubt for that which does not make you doubt.” [At-Tirmidhi]
Who is the Prophet refering to?
May Allah guide us all and protect us from the whispers of Shaytan.
Amin!!!!

Àwa Team Virgin at 40, single and not searching....

HanisahZuwy:
I don't know if I'll ever get a man to marry me. I look so older than my age. I'm in my twenties, but I look like a 53 years old woman. Even men
and women old enough to be my father and mother will be referring to me as ma. Some of them are even people who are older than me with 30-35 years. Most people doubt me when they ask for my age and I tell them. They feel I'm lying about my age. I feel I'm more than the age I tell them. I know some people look older than their age, but I don't think any could be worse than mine. Mine is that bad!


I don't know why this is so. I don't know why I look so older than my age.Why is it like that? Is there any one here in this kind of situation? How does that make you feel? Please, what can I do to remedy this? Is there anyone here like that? Or am I alone? What do you normally do to help yourself in this situation? I would like to hear from you if you're in this.

Lungdick:


I still dnt understand the shit men are no longer falling for here.

abeg if una understand, quote me and explain.

Quoted in Peace