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makydebbie:
And you didn't drop by. What juju is that side chick using for you?

Biko send me a message.

Ayam free now.

Impossible, I will tell you why on phone

makydebbie:
Thanks dear, so when are you coming back? I was thinking network was jealous.

Work is fine, I'll be resuming next week.

I am back already, returned just last night.

makydebbie:
God punish two of you.

I'm now a blogger, check my signature.
How have you been?

I don dey there since. Its nice dear, welcome onboard.

I thank God dear, how's work?

makydebbie:
Sweetheart, I sent you a message recently. What happened??

The side chick that I was cheating on you with seized my gadgets

makydebbie:
Your dp is very pretty.

Maky

Shroud:
I tell you, the writer had some valid points but the sub-theme seemed to be about men, with all the anti-male screamers.


You saw the writer saying, in one breath, big punny is natural and in the next breath advocating for kigel exercise.

I don't know how an exercise could narrow the opening or shrink the elasticity of a natural porous pussy, bro.

It seems you don't read women magazines.

Page 1. You're beautiful the way you are.

Page 2. You're God's image, unique, beautiful, endowed and smart.

Page 3. You're perfect just the way you are.

Page 4. How to burn that fat in three steps.

Page 5. How to get amazing shape in just one week.

ganie:
A man who has had sex with a lady that constantly have sex like every week and a lady that does in months and aee of about the same age will/can tell the difference.
#Experiencematters

I didn't want to comment on this thread until I saw this. Experience truly does matter, the op can fool a few not all of us, I already know what I know about vagina so nothing is gonna make a man unsee what he has seen.

You won't understand what a penis does to a vagina until you date a lady who's cheating on you with a guy who has a bigger dick. Only then will see how pointless the OP's argument is.

ekems2017:
A lot of us here have done it in our homes both the married and the unmarried ones.

This here is the problem. We have all had sex but these two people are porn celebrities, that's why people talk about them. They had sex on life TV and that automatically made them porn actor and actress. Don't you talk about Wizkid, Davido, etc? These two fuckers are not different. You get? Sex is meant to be enjoyed in secret places and by the people involved not on live TV.

Instagram and Twitter are the only reliable source for fake stories that we have for now

janellemonae:
I saw this on instagram. They asked her age and she said 34. So they started dating young. No one knows their story so can't judge.
Good thing she has a babyface.

You see am....?


She alone knows what she saw that made her stay and I tell ya that all these ones saying too long are just pained because they have been dicking different men for years yet no result.

RuthDaniels:
Lol....Long wait!

They must have been dating since their secondary school days, Congratulations to her.

You get sense walahi. Maybe they started when they were very young, it does happen or maybe they started during their secondary school days but I think that would be over 14yrs already.

Liliyann:
14yrs??
Now that's stupid,just thank God the dude didn't change his mind
I bet he wasn't disturbing or pestering you for sex!
Most Nigerian guys don't deserve 6months!!
3months courtship is enough to know everything about a lady,no need for long courtship!

You don't know how stupid you sound right now. You know don't really know any of them enough to have an opinion.
You don't know how they started.
You don't know who he is.
You don't know why she stayed so kindly fvck off responsibly.

Tajbol4splend:
Would you say the man has done something unlawful and deserves indictment?

I don't think so......




A husband cannot rape his wife simply because it is assumed that the wife gives implied general consent to sexual intercourse with her husband upon entering the marriage contract. All these feminist wanna be wey full here are just daft. You cannot say that your husband raped you when the constitution of your country does not recognize marital rape.

Once you say I do in Nigeria, you've agreed to have sex with your partner, not just once, not when you like but every time. In fact, no wetness is allowed to dry just like that and every erection must be attended to.

makydebbie:
Bro, free me.

Did you see me take sides with anybody?

Yes.

makydebbie post=66236274
The person I quoted made mention of the woman not being truthful with her story and I reminded him that the woman said the man gave her the mentality that he's not financially stable.[/quote]That's you taking sides.
[quote author=makydebbie:
They're not together anymore, how else can she cope? Since they don't live together, what stops the man from lying? The man can be in a different state and insist he's broke, what do you expect the woman to do?

I thought you're not taking sides? That's by the way, you saying now that the impression was given after they broke up? Can I hold onto that?

makydebbie:
You're here banking on the fact that men don't abandon their kids. Rubbish.

Madam, I said hardly not don't and I still stand by it. Women fight for the custody of the children even when they don't have the means to take care of the them. Emeka Ike's wife is a good example.

Some don't want the fathers to get close to the children at all, Tonto is an example. When things get tougher for them, they will start disturbing our peace.

makydebbie:
Am I forcing you to buy it or you quoted me? Argue with your heart full men. I'm already having a bad day don't let me transfer anger to your side.

Bring it on baby, I am your stronger side. Feel free to pour it on me.

makydebbie:
Speak for yourself and not all men. I've seen men abandon their kids and I'm reacting to this story not even looking at gender. You all should leave me alone, if the table were turned, we'll hear how women are heartless and so on.

You're a victim of one side of the story. Of course the man is heartless[assuming she's telling the truth], the woman is playing victim and you fell for it.

A boyfriend can give the impression that he's poor but a husband that she lived with and even had three kids for? Bulshit, I ain't buying that.

makydebbie:
Who's asking you to believe her?

She said he has moved on, meaning they were not living together. Stop asking me rhetorical questions on how he gave such impression especially when they were not living together.

Funny, they lived together before breaking up so the him that she know was the one she lived with not whoever he became after their divorce, hence the question I asked you initially. A husband can't pretend to be poor for a year, two or more and the woman will not find out. You get?

The woman is simply pained. If he was poor when they were together and she took custody of the children because of that reason then she should simply meet him now that things are better[assuming that's the case] and tell him to start to taking care of the children not all these Facebook nonsense.

Men hardly let go of their kids during divorce no matter how bad things are for them.

makydebbie:
Read the writeup before quoting me abeg.

The woman's post........

So I just found out that my ex hubby who I had 3 kids with got married last Saturday. It doesn’t hurt me because he moved on, but because I’ve been caring for our kids alone thinking he’s got nothing.
Which man abandons his kids this way please
I’m pained
Not happy at all
I’m sad!
I too deserve to save some cash and fix my life up.
I too have personal needs to meet.
I too deserve to think about myself even if for just a minute and not worry about accumulated bills.
Life’s a bleeping asshole!
Maybe he’s here
Who knows?? Incase you’re seeing this, “you’re a damn Coward: just so you know Mr. N. D#

Why should we believe her? Because she's a Woman?

makydebbie:
The man gave the impression that he had nothing. She's just realizing he's financially stable.

Nah so unah dey believe anything abi na because she be woman? They lived together for years as husband and wife and even had three kids together so when exactly did he gave this impression?

The woman should stop disturbing us abeg, she wasn't forced to take custody of the children.

Nomfanelo99:
doesn't look like it actually got into that point .

purge your mind

Olalan:
Funny, the dude must have so much skeletons in his cupboard

With his phone in hand, the babe can steal or spend all his money.

Nomfanelo99:
why is she even bothered?

The guy is good

XhosaNostra:
There's a dress code for every company, if you don't comply, you deserve to be fired.

I doubt if cleavage baring is a dress code where the op works

XhosaNostra:
That qualifies as "sexual harassment in the workplace". You'd have been served with a warning or fired a long time ago in a different company or different country. No time for creeps.

A lot of women have lost their Job because of their dressing.

mabelly:


Well I believe it goes both ways, just that you don't see the men complain.

Have you ever worked as a financial sales executive/rep/marketer, then you would understand that it is mostly an easy work for the ladies than the guys in that field because people would easily trust a lady with their finances just because she is a lady.

Also like someone just mentioned, that she sees guys that fix nails as sissies just because she believes its a lady's field.

So truly in this world of ours, both genders have it pros and cons and not for one gender to always cry blue murder

True that. There was a time that I supervised work for a Lebanese and we needed like 10 trips of sand. I brought a man that usually supply us sand and introduced him to oga, they discussed the price and he gave discounts but the oga said that I should bring another.

I brought a lady who gave me business card when we met at the site, they discussed price and she got the contract.

I discovered during payment that her price was way higher than what the first guy offered yet she got the contract, funny thing is, this Lebanese sacked two engineers because the price that they bought the cement that they used to work was N50 higher than what he himself bought it on his way to the site. He asked them to refund N50 per every bag used, they refused and he dismissed them.
This tells you how much he loves money.

Few days later, it became obvious to everyone that oga does some sneaky shits with the lady that supplied sand. Apparently, she presented price list and other things that no man has.

Women don't complain when they get something because they women, it is only when being a woman disfavors them that we hear all these noise.

DrinkLimca:
[b]Sometimes some people mistake stupidity and foolishness for love..

Not surprising since love itself is the absence of common sense

DrinkLimca:
A guy that cares for a girl and loves her will never raise his hands on his woman..

Not really true, no man can love his wife more than God loved Israel yet he punished them from time to time. If God who is love can lose his cool when pushed to the wall and punish the people he loved then a man can lose his cool and do what he will regret later.

We are not helping women by telling them that no real man will ever hit them, what we're doing is exposing them to danger because indirectly we're telling them that they can do a lot of annoying shits to men and get away with them because no real man will hit them, we know right that men will hit them. It is better to tell them to be on alert at all times because an angry man will strike, this will at least help them minimize the things they do that makes people to beat them.

I think telling someone to unload his a gun is better than toying with him because you are wearing a bullet proof vest.

Yea, men should control their anger and women should work on their pissing him off attitude.

DrinkLimca:
it's clear that the lady in question don't even love the guy, and that was why she cheated on him..

Clearly the guy is a beast, clearly the lady don't love him..

so what is making her stay in an abusive relationship?

Money, money,money and money..

It possible that this is the first time he's hitting her, if a guy has been so good to you since day one and the only time he raised his hand on you was the day he caught you cheating then you clearly have no reason to complain. None of us here know the guy more than the lady.

DrinkLimca:
Like someone above said,, murder loading..

The guy will someday get angry and annoyingly hit her and she will lost her life...[/b]

I know that dumb Nigeria feminist will read this story and turn a blind eye..

they shout feminist and fight men on nairaland but will not fight for their fellow woman that is being abused..

this is why i don't take Feminist in Nigeria serious..

We have Nigerian feminists but I am not sure there's a feminist in Nigeria.

DrinkLimca:
It's clear that the lady in particular needs an escape from the relationship and if it's money that is making her stay in an abusive relationship,, then she needs a job to help her life but dumb Nigeria feminist would rather fight broke guys on naira land..

where are the nairaland self proclaimed feminist?
Amarabae Dominique sambarry cococandy kimbraa and co...

Smiles and walks out of thread..

Off all the people you mentioned, only coco is a feminist, the rest are doing copy and paste.

His penis is very small like indian people own.

OdikwaRisky:
What is you saying?? Whether you like it or not, God gave her a husband. You might judge her but guess what, God loves and cares for her with the same intensity as he loves and cares for a good, religious virgin girl when it comes to husband giving, he won’t discriminate. Thank God say God no be man

Heaven's minister of love, marriage and husbandism, I greet you.



I look forward to getting married in due time but I, from the best of my knowledge will not wait on God to give me a wife because God cannot do for a man what he has already empowered him to do.


If God is the one who gives wives and husbands like you said then he's clearly doing a horrible job because marriage these days is like comedy.