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Berbierklaus:
I hear

We all know that many women see other women as competition and a threat to their existence or happiness but that's not a reason to wish evil to someone who has done you no harm at all.

Many of us can attest to what I am about to say because it's rampant on this forum and other social media websites.

I was scrolling through my news feed on facebook yesterday and I came across a status that says "Rape is just a surprise sex" I clicked on it to see the comments and the first comment was from a lady.

I quote

May your daughter, wife, sister be surprised with a sex this weekend, Amen

The first person that replied the comment was a lady.

I quote

You for add his mother make e pepper am well well

This same thing is common on Nairaland. Most times when a guy attacks or insults a lady on here, the lady will direct her own insults to the ladies in the guy's family.

Why?

What's their crime?

I saw a comment on that facebook post that almost made me shed tears.

"When your daughter grow up, she will be raped so that you will know how a surprise sex hurts"

Like seriously, what's the innocent child's offense?

Please attack and insults the person that insults you not his family who are busy minding their business offline.

Thank You

ideology:
feminist invaded this fine post by putit and bastardized the true context of the write-up.

A typical women character is to twist the gist and make the men guilty, this is exactly what they have done to dis buriful thread.

#AmWatching

cc Tallesty1

For me, I know all the devices of women anyone I give in to is my choice and i face the consequences blaming no one but myself.

But when I keep to my principles, they call me gay, what manner of man are you?

I just laugh . . .

For a lady to move me, she must be really it, if she is not it, she is OYO, if you like wear unclothedness, I jump and pass like messi because i know what I want

Berbierklaus:
You too,you want to control women abi We will not allow you people

Berbierklaus:
Ask your komkom head.

bukatyne:
God bless you

I am sure they are not 'real' because they can't fry garri.

So I decide to be a fashion designer and instead of me to learn new styles, I am frying garri when I don't intend to sell garri.

Na wa.

ruggedised:
if them lock you up inside a room with under 20 now, you go give her belle overnight

pocohantas:
There have been kitchen wives...except you're implying kitchen is a demeaning place. There was lots of patriarchy before feminism, so?
There are also women who believe in patriarchy, what do you also have to say about them?


Anyone can be jealous. Men are also jealous and all that. Same reason some men don't want their wives to be empowered, control!


Same with men. Our male celebs that are all over social media flaunting wealth, are they trannies? Some humans, especially the black man loves to exert control and make others feel inadequate. It's not gender defined. Davido brother said his dog feeds better than us, I can only imagine what would have been the reaction if a woman said same.


Why do some men think everything is about them? Feminism isn't about doing anything to you guys, it's about making women stand up for themselves by themselves.


The campaign for the girl child education arose because of the belief that a girl child belongs to the kitchen and other room. Main reason it is targeted at areas, where such beliefs thrive, for cultural and religious reasons. Maybe you men should stop whining and stand up for yourselves.


Once again, calm down. Men treat women and themselves bad too...men have been in power since the evolution of man. How have you guys treated women and yourselves? Abi is it not men that will prefer to give a job to a woman because of bottom power while his fellow man remains in unemployment? Most arm robbers, rapist, kidnappers, drug traffickers are men. Stop acting like men are all nice to women please.


There are also female terrorist despite all the campaign for the girl child.

For once women are coming together for a cause and y'all can't deal with it. Must be scary

pocohantas:
Guy use your head na. We're having a discussion here, I could have easily called him a misogynist for making sense. If you don't have any logical contribution, take the back seat and quit giving me tags you aren't sure of.

wristbangle:
You are a pure feminist. Ride on!

Klington:
.. ... No be small offline hustle ooo, Allen Avenue, Eko hotel roundabout n many more are ur witnesses

kogistar2:
home no smelly.....

BleSSedMee:
I know some people will frown at this...

She understands the times... Bless up girl.